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GalaxyTrends:
Hi,
Trust your Christmas went well,I am so confuse right now, this is my story: I met my boyfriend 4 months ago through my friend (he’s my friend husband to be best friend).

We talked on phone for like 3 months plus because he stays in another state and he own a shop he’s operating there, It was during our discussion I get to know he is doing his Travelling processing and I also told him I am saving because I want to travel too,so he practically knows my balance.



He came to Lagos a week ago for Christmas and I finally met him, he’s so cute and caring,it was then I knew I am so much in love with him. Everything was ok until 2 nights ago when he asked me to borrow him one hundred thousand plus (#100,000+) for his Travelling.[i][/i] I became disorganized,I don’t know what to say to him,I changed the topic that night but today he asked for it again,I am seriously confuse,I really starved myself to save all my money because I want to travel and I have no help apart from my job.

I called my friend and I discussed everything with her and she said she don’t know what advice she will give me because to her she said the money is much.
She called her man and asked him about it,my friend’s boyfriend said is true my boyfriend needs the money and he will return it back to me but I am scared, We hear so many stories everyday about people duping girls of their money and I watched a Yoruba movies this afternoon, a lady was set up by her best friend because of money by a guy to marry her just to collect all her properties.

I am scare to the extend that I can’t even sleep,I love my boyfriend so much and I really want him to travel but I am also scared for my money.Pls advice me.Thanks

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my dear DO NOT GIVE HIM.. HE LL STAY OF HE LL AND HE LL ALSO LEAVE IF HE WLD LEAVE..

PLS DO NOT BOTHER YOURSELF YOURSELF WITH SUCH

greatnaija01:
Its too simple.... MIRROR EFFECT solves this... do not call or text her... NO MATTER HOW YOU FEEL... she will soon break and unblock you and stalk you to know who you replaced her with... by then, simply show her you NEVER replaced her and you just respected her choice and she will GET MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU FOR YOUR MATURITY and once she is in that state.... MAKE YOUR MOVE.

I ll go with this..Nice one

Abortions:
Goan Work and Make money. Lastly stop posting Craps;The only way to attract them

But ypu know not all women are atrracted cos of money

mumumugu:
all girls are hoe. question of price

NOT TRUE.... COS I KNOW I M NOT. MAYBE THOSE AROUND AND WITHIN YOUR SPHERE

Skinnienigga:
One partner.. One partner.. Na so one of my friends dey shout till him babe come tell am to test for and treat staph.

Since then, baba has been asking me everyday if I'm sure staph infection can be gotten from toilet as she claimed happened to her.

Just be wise and use condom. Everybody cheats nowadays.

Sorry to differ, 'NOT EVERYONE CHEATS NOWADAYS'

Admin401:
People still wife hoes in this day and age?

Yes naaa... Afterall thats the ones guys love to marry

Auladimeji1:
I just hate India

Pls why?

LordSaints:
ok rip to your brother. I have a question for you

1) does your culture permit you to marry your brother wife?

2)is your late brother wife cool with you marrying her?

Op just answer these questions above. Therein lies your answer

silento:
She almost dumped me earlier this year when someone just cameby for her , this one she is going to be far away if such incident occur I know what her action will be anyway thanks for the advise

You re welcome...
Now I get your point

silento:
My girlfriend is relocating not just from my town but to another state very far

We had dated for over 2years+ now

After she told me she started crying on how I will disappoint her

She is already assuming what will happen if someone cameby to marry her

I know she will say yes to the person
My plan is once she left I will broke the relationship

Coz now making a living is more important to me than love

I hope am doing the right thing ?

It's obvious you were already done with the relationship long before her relocations stuff came up based on your penultimate statement ' Cos now making a living is more important to me than love'
Maybe God has used the relocation stuff to set her free. Don't you think so?

Monogamy:
Honestly, I have no intention of approaching her cos my feelings have not even reached that level if you understand what I mean. I am not a perfectionist but when it comes to relationship stuffs, I take alot of my time getting to know the person. I am not a shy guy oo( would she kills me if I approached)

Also, I dont want trouble for myself engaging with someone's wife( single or married, though not certain about the lady's status). A foreigner for that matter.( more like trouble sleep yanga go wake am). My prayer is for her feelings for me to die naturally so that everyone can be at peace but that's only one way thinking. What if she summoned the courage to initiate convo?
So with comments from you and others, I think am well prepared should unthinkable happens.

Thanks for taking your time.. I really appreciate

Okay I seem to get your drift now. I ll advise you simply make her your friend.. No strings attached if you can

EasternDamsel4:
Read the screenshots below...na wa o!

Bless you my sister

Wisdomkosi:
*BREAKING!! 190 Policemen Mobilised To Fight Boko Haram Escape From Police Force(See Names)



Hundred and Ninety policemen sent to Boko Haram terrorists have reportedly fled for their lives, Igbere TV has learned.

Igbere TV also gathered that the Force Headquarters, Abuja, has ordered for the arrest and prosecution of the officers.

According to report, the said officers were to be sent to battle without appropriate training, and also observed that nearly all of them are southerners and Christians.

“Those are the names of policemen who were mobilised without any serious training to be sent to the front lines to fight Boko Haram who ran away,” said the source.

“Nearly all of them are southerners and Christians; 96% of the total number mobilised are southerners and Christians too. This has raised so much dust and outcry in the NPF.”

However, the Police presented a slightly different account of the incident. A ‘Police Wireless Message’ sent from the Force Headquarters to MOPOLS in 22 states, obtained by Igbere TV , said the policemen were being trained at the Special Forces school, Buni-Yadi, where they absconded from. The MOPOLS were urged to treat the matter as “very important”.

The 190 officers may have been intended to be part of the group of 2,000, which the Inspector General of Police, Ibrahim Idris, deployed to the North East late last month to fight Boko Haram.

Announcing the deployment, Force Public Relations Officer, Jimoh Moshood, had said the policemen comprised personnel of the Police Mobile Force (PMF) and Counter Terrorism Units (CTU), as well as those of the Force and the Sniffer Dog Sections.

Moshood also stated that the new deployment was consistent with Section 4 of the Police Act and Regulations.

The section, he said, “specifies the general duties of the Nigeria Police Force as follows: The police shall be employed for the prevention and detection of crime, the apprehension of offenders, the preservation of law and order, the protection of life and property and the due enforcement of all laws and regulations with which they are directly charged, and shall perform such military duties within or outside Nigeria as may be required of them by or under the authority of this or any other Act”.

“The deployment is also to support the strength of the military to defeat the Boko Haram insurgency,” he added.

“Before now, the Nigeria Police Force has on ground 47 PMF units (63 X 47 = 2961) in Borno State in addition to the Police Mobile Force (PMF) Squadron in Borno State. Twenty-six units (63 X 26 = 1638) on ground in Yobe State in addition to the Police Mobile Force (PMF) Squadron in Yobe State.

“Eighteen units (63 X 18 = 1134) on ground in Adamawa State in addition to the Police Mobile Force (PMF) Squadron in Adamawa State.”

See names of the 190 police officers obtained by Igbere TV below:

http://igberetvnews.com/500432/breaking-190-policemen-mobilised-to-fight-boko-haram-escape-from-police-forcesee-names/

Thank God they were smart yo abscond.. This government is DEMONIC

marvin906:
Thanks for the advice..
Buh am.neither broke neither am I rich buh getting there by the grace of God..
Buh my ideology about love came when I was kinda unstable financially

Okay dear. God's Grace

kunleweb:
I've been banned from.dating in my church. Too many aroundme,almost caused a family.rift between some.chicks. damn men of quality are the real.deal.these days

SERIOUS?

Monogamy:
Honestly I cant really say I am into her at the moment but she is @ least I am 60% sure.
Am I prepared to date a single mum( not even sure if she is married or single) but I dont think that's a problem only if she is matured enough.
She is not local I am only referring to not like dating anyone from my hood.
What do I want out of this? Probably nothing at the moment. I just want to be prepared whenever she makes the move. Sometimes over sabi kills

Oga why wait for her to continue showing greenlight? I wld prefer you walk up to her and ask her what she wants from you.. I believe you understand what I mean by that.Just listen with heart and head and from her response I bet you ll know what next to do.. Why the unnecessary suspense?

Unaa dey trouble una self too much.. I m a female and I prefer direct talks. I don't even mind helping out a shy guy if I notice he is too shy to express himself

kriss27:
God bless you

Very wrong dear..depends on individual

Onyemadonald:
The Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC) has disclosed that it registered over 69,000 business entities in two months. This was coming after the launch of its Business Incentive Strategy (BIS).

The acting Registrar-General of CAC, Lady Azuka Azinge, who said this during a media roundtable in Abuja recently explained that before now, the number of business registration they had in three months of the same period was about 50,000 and in two months, the number grew to over 69,000.

She also said they are still expecting to have a very large number of businesses registrations before the end of December.

According to her, the main aim of crashing the cost of business registration in Nigeria from N10,000 to N5,000 for a period of three months (1st October to 31st December 2018), was to enable massive registration of small businesses in the country.

“People are already asking for extension and we have just written to the minister of Finance to extend it for another three months. The initiative is being commended by most state governments are asking and several associations saying that we should please give more time to enable them register.”

She said the initiative was in line with the major thrust of the president Muhammadu Buhari's administration which centred on revamping and diversification of the economy through constantly supporting MSMEs. The CAC boss said the Commission has also provided a user-friendly Company Registration Portal (CRP) via its website which gives customers real-time access to the services of the Commission from their offices or homes.

SOURCE: https://www.trendingaccounting.com/2018/12/cac-registers-69000-companies-in-2.html

DO NOT BE DECEIVED.. FOLLOW UP ON RECENT HAPPENINGS IN THE BANKING SECTOR TO KNOW THE REAL STATE OF THE ECONOMY..ALSO CHECK THE STOCK MARKET TOO

THERE ARE NO BUSINESSES FOR NOW IN NIGERIA..EOD

kayjay69:
Exactly, case in point I registered 3 companies this year but it doesn't translate to employing anyone because I haven't gotten to that level yet, I'm still sourcing for funds. I think whoever posted this story is trying to have us believe there's a link between number of companies registered by CAC and successful companies employing people and making a profit. They are two very separate things.

THANK YOU

helinues:
Imagine how many people this 69k companies will hire.

Job lost and also job regained under this government

No be when business dey for the companies to do you go see money employ and pay staff?

My dear don't be deceived, you judge the economy based on happenings in the banking sector.. If there are businesses banks won't be having issues as we see and know..

THERE ARE NO BUSINESSES.. DON'T BE DECEIVED

marvin906:
My experience has made me to believe that and I wish am proved wrong someday

I understand your perspective.. I ll advise you take your time to sieve your friends(both male and female)now that you seem 'broke'.. Cos that condition won't be permanent and this is the best time to do that. I know SUCCESS has so many friends.. But we know that there is something like fake friends..

I speak from experience and I still believe in true and real love cos they exist.

Eaugusta:
No sweetheart, real men prefer ladies with brain and character

My dear are you sure?

Go check again

koyyes:
Jay z is married to Beyonce while kanye is married to Kim.

Study these men you have mentioned. They all have something in common.

You are welcome.

But we all know the truth is that most men do not go for brains.... They prefer the bitches

Ismaxtr3:
Bro leave them jawe, the girl kuku have nothing to offer than the breast, the pussy that has been bleeped by many d*cks , and the ass she doesn't even have.... I trust my real guys, they have been rejecting her that she had to voice out..
to the babe, work on your career, your body is not enticing to men, it will only entice us till we f*ck u out... YES... That's what you are for

Are you sure? Cos I see that you guys end up with them...

Let's just stop the pretence already

franchasng:
Men deceiving women since 16BC, brain ni, skull ko

So when you see a girl from afar, the first thing that attracts you or impress you physically about her is her brain that you are not seeing right Kontinu o, kontinu

Jay Z married Kim K for brain yes we know!

Adams Oshiomhole married Lara for brains too, we know!!

Buhari married little Aisha because of brains oh yeah!

Femi Fani Kayode married Precious because of her brains too, wow

Donald Trump married Melania because of her brains too

Anyway I love guys, we know how to make women feel good, so I am solidly behind you, brain and skull all the way

THANKS FOR BEING TRUTHFUL....

wasak:
I don't have a previous relationship. I still keep all the girls I've dated. Quite well, I've learnt never to go beyond your comfort zone for any girl at all, it's not worth it, I'm talking about Nigerian girls here, I don't know if Indians are d same.
Never ever close ur options always leave them open, the moment she sees a better person, you become a disadvantaged option, although she'll always try to cover it up.
Lastly, guys should understand that most women are emotionally selfish, even if they extend a favor to u, just know it's because they are comfortable doing that.
Lemme stop here... Currently I have around 4 girlfriends, so I'm not even bothered about anyone messing up. Don't ever put your whole heart in the basket of one girl. It's d worst mistake any guy can make.

I really don't blame you.. But the girls that re still there hoping to win a 'trophy' that might never come cos more competitors wld be added

chigoizie7:
That no girl can date just one man.

VERY WRONG

MariaLavina:
Oya let the lies roll in



Even those that follow slay queens up and down will start forming responsible

Thank you

marvin906:
long story..
buh the lesson from it is this love without money is bullshi.t..
second never give yourself to someone who doesn't contribute anything to your life

'Love without money is bullshit'... Kaiiii!!!! That's just too wrong

Estringx:
I do not blame anyone for the reasons why it is kinda difficult to find true love in Nigeria. But the truth be told, if you are lucky enough to get that person who is ready to sacrifice every thing just to be with you in Nigeria, do every thing in your power to take care of them. The economy we find ourselves have changed virtually everything about us including our adaptivity and survival. People no longer get married to the ones they love because of a limitation which is money precisely. Some girls tend to deny whom they love just to live a comfortable life with that rich man. It is not at all a funny matter, may be I haven't been to places. But as for Nigeria that I am presently in is alarmingly surprising that most girls, ladies or women want to marry for money. Everyone wants to live a comfortable life, the purpose of marriage doesn't matter anymore. I attended a church and the pastor said "marriage is not marrying someone you love but someone with the same dream". Up till date I hardly find people who marry for the sake of same dream thing. Survival has become the determinant in our world today. But where is true love? does this term still exist? At times, I don't even know the real definition of true love. Everything has almost become a mixed up. If I will live the rest of my life marrying someone for the sake of money, what about continuity, endurance and management after marriage? Will I be able to love and care for this person after math? The fact that we all want to live fine has overcome the way we want to really live. Everybody wants to be wealthy. I will never advise you to marry for money. True love requires sacrifice; you will not find that easily. You might not find someone who is ready to struggle with you. Most ladies want all ready made product, they do not want to know about the processes.







THE QUESTION IS HOW DO I FIND MY TRUE LOVE HERE IN NIGERIA?



#1 – FORGET ABOUT BEAUTY

Men are always the cause, when you set a target you don't get outside your target. A man that wants true love will not set a beauty contest target or an eight shape or curvy competition. All he thinks about is a Love that is true and rare. You will find one when you think like this.



2# – HIDE YOUR WEALTH

Most of time you don't find true love showing off. You end up packing all sorts when you are showing off your wealth. You hardly find yourself around the real ones, only fake ones who wants to spend your money will move close. Money doesn't entice her easily, she just want to be happy with her better half. Keep your money please but it doesn't mean you shouldn't buy her things



3# – LET HER SPEND FOR YOU

She will buy you gift unexpectedly to show you how much you mean to her; she will invest so much in this gift. She just want to choose the best for you to know she loves you so much. Don't go for a careless lady – she doesn't fear you. The lady who is in love with you won't want to make mistake easily when you are around because she just want you to love her more. But that doesn't mean she is perfect.



4# – SHE WILL CARE SO MUCH

She doesn't joke with your issues. She is up in the night to think through your problems. She cares a lot like she is on fire. She wants you to be happy just like she's fixing herself up too.



6# – SHE WILL BE RARE

She will be so different from those spenders you call slay queens. She will be their boss because she doesn't act stupid. She is born to be rare. All she wants to do is make sure she doesn't act careless or flown around men. "You can keep your money" is her best quote.



7# – SHE WON'T HIDE A THING

When she begins to trust you, she won't hide anything from you. She tells you all her past, she get to find a way to make you meet her relatives, friends and families. She visits your mother and take care of her. She is married to everyone linked to you especially your siblings if you have one.



Be very careful, marriage is a lifetime thing. We do not support #DIVORCE.

Source : https://www.mindmingers.com

But it's unfortunate that she cld still be taken for granted at the end of the day

Most guys come saying that they want an intelligent, homely and every good character you can think of..But they end up with the opposite of their focus...

In fact so sad to say that being a good girl doesn't pay anymore here in Nigeria....Cos the guys wild still settle for their 'Sluts'... Reasons best known to them

Epositive:
Little wonder for the desperation and vulnerability.
I think every person is obliged(or must learn) to enjoy his or her own solitude. This will not only protect you from external factor(person) but also give you a clear definition of who you are and what you need.
Also, identify the qualities you want in a man and stick strictly to it. This will guide you not to settle for less.(don't manage o)



CAPSLOCKED O OO

CORRECT GUY

LadyBeee:
yes I fear being single and lonely

That's it... Pls learn to love and enjoy yourself ..
The rest ll follow