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BigBashiru:
there is nothing like "cheating". I made it clear to my wife that im still available to other women and she too is available to other men.... its only "cheating" when you both promise yourselves monogamy....

Really? People can be so weird indeed

mrbenjame:
I have never oppressed a woman before. It’s not my nature. I’m only afraid of the opposite. I can be very caring and accommodating. Lemme shock you. I dated my ex for 4 years. She works. I’ve neber asked her how much she earns. And I do not request money from her since I work as well. Please don’t judge me. I’m human.

Oga inasmuch as you re accommodating and caring ,pls learn and remember to be tough on some of your stands when dealing with women. The truth is that most women are naturally manipulative and you need to be tough to sail through... All this your attitude of ' I dont like trouble or wahala' wont help ooh. In fact i ve discovered that most people that act and speak the way you do end up receiving all the wahala from others. No one says you shld be a troublemaker but also learn not to take or accommodate trash too as you remain caring

madridsta007:
1. Get someone that has the same value system as you. SAME not similar. She has gone through life & has her own value system and convictions.
2. Get someone that is not broke. If she hasnt seen money before or hasnt travelled to exotic places, she will eventually change when she sees money.
3. Get someone that isnt too attached to her mother or family members.
4. Get someone that believes in the conservative African value system of "wives, submit to your husband" and "husband, love your wife".
5. Finally, get someone who is accountable to an elderly person (not her family members).
6. Get someone from a stable home, where her family does NOT have any divorces or single parenthood prevelance.

These reduces the risk you are scared of, greatly.
NB: These kind of persons are rare and can be in Nigeria or Abroad. Location isnt the problem. The person, is.

OP check this very reasonable comment

mrbenjame:
Women are in trouble o.

Not at all.. He is the one in trouble cos only God knows the pains that is in heart obviously caused by a lady.. He needs serious healing...

Mariangeles:
If you give her peace of mind, she's most likely to give you peace of mind, whether in Nigeria or abroad.

Not true at all

mrbenjame:
Very valid point I must say

If you like take every and anyhow suggestion here... Ask yourself.. ' Are some couples not having a worthy marriage over there? Just be wise and careful to make out what you want for yourself... Everyone's case shldnt and wont be same... Why can't yours be good or better than others??

JovialJune:
If you want the Nigerian kind of marriage, don't travel abroad when married, stay here with your wife

If you strong headedly decide to marry then travel abroad leaving her here, accept the fact that as you're cheating on her, she's also cheating on you

You can't have a Nigerian kind of marriage abroad where the system and laws is fair to all and sundry, a system that does not recognise the machoistic, ego driven, head of the family, respect-submissive type of mentality you are used to here, equality is their watchword over there, no gender is above the other.

Hmmmm.. nonsense suggestion as if some others are nt working too

mainman7:
Many people that are addicted to facemask are reporting similar thing. Seeing facemask on you here made me to fully believe viral Video that shows a Nigerian Man proved China lines the inner parts with infectious Bacteria. The tiny microscopic things that enter the Lung and skin from the mask were see as the cultured it in water. I still don't know the Bewitchment that made people to still import Facemask from China that Originally produced the Virus against Humanity. Why giving them more opportunity to access your lungs directly?! I bought local facemask which I washed and use whenever I need to enter Bank.



Now I know why they massively used TV and Media to brainwash us that Africa is poor. Poverty is a thing of the Mind. My People, please don't sell your Eternal Soul for anything!!! Gnashing of teeth await those trapped!

Sincerely, this Shots they aimed at the masses has woken many to buy guns in America. Even I would ensure I most brutally and mercilessly kill anyone that try to force it on me. I've always been very mean by nature, knowing that I shall now kill for the right Reason like David did and still enter Heaven gives me a lot of Joy.

Hahahahaha... you are such a crazy fellow

Alexis11:
Lol I have never seen any Yoruba that is bitter against SE politicians. They simply don't care about them.

Reverse is the case with the Igbos towards Yoruba politicians.

Really?

lonelydora:
This is the right thing to do. There are many male police officers who should be in the barracks.

Married female officers are dependants to their husbands who should be working too. Except their husbands are not working.

Your brain dey shake

GOTVee:
As a born again christain who is meant to speak the truth at all times, i think the false alarms we Christian raise is the reason why the western nations were deceived into thinking that we Christians are truly persecuted. Thank God the USA can see through our lies and mischief. There is no islamization agenda anywhere. We really need to copy the examples of our lord Jesus and stop heating up the polity

TERRORIST like you

Crossroad1:
I didn't mention your name so why u wan come get hypertension?

Because he is one of those pathetic lots

Lovenorth:
God bless you

God punish you and that guy you just quoted

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I condemn acts of violence against any one. Terrorism is not peculiar to any religion or tribe. We Christians have terrorists amongst us just like Muslims have terrorists amongst them too. We don't have to point fingers at any religion because we Christians and Muslims are serving the same God.

You must be very stupid for this comment.. which kind stupid norm again Christian you say you be? Fake ass like you

Francashy:
I know a particular state in Nigeria(SE) that is still struggling to construct a single flyover

Myopic Abia state

Shimran:
Hmmm. Islam. The disbelievers's nightmare. Despite been powerless.

Nope... A BLOOD SUCKING RELIGION you mean

1Sharon:
Islam at it again.

As long as the Muslim population remains around or under 2% in any given country, they will be for the most part be regarded as a peace-loving Minority, and not as a threat to other citizens. This is the case in:

United States -- Muslim 1.1%

Australia -- Muslim 1.5%
Canada -- Muslim 1.9%
China -- Muslim 3 %
Italy -- Muslim 2.5%
Norway -- Muslim 1.8%

At 2% to 5%, they begin to proselytize from other ethnic minorities and disaffected groups, often with major recruiting from the jails and among street gangs.

This is happening in:

Denmark -- Muslim 2%

Germany -- Muslim 3.7%
United Kingdom -- Muslim 4.7%
Spain -- Muslim 4%
Thailand -- Muslim 4.6%

From 5% on, they exercise an inordinate influence in proportion to their percentage of the population.


For example, they will push for the introduction of halal (clean by Islamic standards) food, thereby securing food preparation jobs for Muslims.
They will increase pressure on supermarket chains to feature halal on their shelves -- along with threats for failure to comply.

This is occurring in:

France -- Muslim 8%

Philippines -- 5%
Sweden -- Muslim 5%
Switzerland -- Muslim 4.3%
The Netherlands -- Muslim 5.5%
Trinidad & Tobago -- Muslim 5.8%

At this point, they will work to get the ruling government to allow them to rule themselves (within their ghettos) under Sharia, the Islamic Law. The ultimate goal of Islamists is to establish Sharia law over the entire world.

When Muslims approach 10% of the population, they tend to increase lawlessness as a means of complaint about their conditions.

In Paris, we are already seeing car-burnings. Any non Muslim action offends Islam, and results in uprisings and threats, such as in Amsterdam , with opposition to Mohammed cartoons and films about Islam.
Such tensions are seen daily, particularly in Muslim sections, in:

Guyana -- Muslim 10%

India -- Muslim 19.4%
Israel -- Muslim 16%
Kenya -- Muslim 10%
Russia -- Muslim 15%

After reaching 20%, nations can expect hair-trigger rioting, jihad militia formations, sporadic killings, and the burnings of Christian churches and Jewish synagogues, such as in:

Ethiopia -- Muslim 32.8%


At 40%, nations experience widespread massacres, chronic terror attacks, and ongoing militia warfare, such as in:

Bosnia -- Muslim 40%

Chad -- Muslim 53.1%
Lebanon -- Muslim 59.7%

Nigeria 50% Muslim

From 60%, nations experience unfettered persecution of non-believers of all other religions (including non-conforming Muslims), sporadic ethnic cleansing (genocide), use of Sharia Law as a weapon, and Jizya, the tax placed on infidels, such as in:

Albania -- Muslim 70%

Malaysia -- Muslim 60.4%
Qatar -- Muslim 77.5%
Sudan -- Muslim 70%

After 80%, expect daily intimidation and violent jihad, some State-run ethnic cleansing, and even some genocide, as these nations drive out the infidels, and move toward 100% Muslim, such as has been experienced and in some ways is on-going in:

Bangladesh -- Muslim 83%

Egypt -- Muslim 90%
Gaza -- Muslim 98.7%
Indonesia -- Muslim 86.1%
Iran -- Muslim 98%
Iraq -- Muslim 97%
Jordan -- Muslim 92%
Morocco -- Muslim 98.7%
Pakistan -- Muslim 97%
Palestine -- Muslim 99%
Syria -- Muslim 90%
Tajikistan -- Muslim 90%
Turkey -- Muslim 99..8%
United Arab Emirates -- Muslim 96%

100% will usher in the peace of "Dar-es-Salaam" -- the Islamic House of Peace.. Here there's supposed to be peace, because everybody is a Muslim, the Madrasses are the only schools, and the Koran is the only word, such as in:

Afghanistan -- Muslim 100%

Saudi Arabia -- Muslim 100%
Somalia -- Muslim 100%
Yemen -- Muslim 100%

Unfortunately, peace is never achieved, as in these 100% states the most radical Muslims intimidate and spew hatred, and satisfy their blood lust by killing less radical Muslims, for a variety of reasons.


It is important to understand that in some countries, with well under 100% Muslim populations, such as France, the minority Muslim populations live in ghettos, within which they are 100% Muslim, and within which they live by Sharia Law.

The national police do not even enter these ghettos. There are no national courts, nor schools, nor non-Muslim religious facilities. In such situations, Muslims do not integrate into the community at large. The children attend madrasses. They learn only the Koran. To even associate with an infidel is a crime punishable with death.

Therefore, in some areas of certain nations, Muslim Imams and extremists exercise more power than the national average would indicate.

Today's 1.5 billion Muslims make up 22% of the world's population. But their birth rates dwarf the birth rates of Christians, Hindus, Buddhists, Jews, and all other believers.


Muslims will exceed 50% of the world's population by the end of this century.

Critical analysis

FreeStuffsNG:
Cc Seun Mynd44 Lalasticlala

U go tire

mediainc:
Uthman Bin fodio, Uthman Dan fodio...this Gumi man must be watched.

Dont kind that serpent call Gumi

FreeStuffsNG:
This is commendable. In my opinion, government should please provide some measure of support for the school too. The generation of herdsmen who attend school will have more options in life than nomadic farming.

There is the saying that whoever opens a school gate closes a prison door. Thank you and I say "Well done Captain Gumi (rtd)" .
This man seems to be misunderstood and many people don't even know that he has both western(he is actually a medical doctor) and Arabic( Islamic scholar/teacher/Sheik) education and shares same birthday with Nigeria (he was born on October 1st, 1960,same day we became an independent nation).

All the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las. They always lose. God bless Nigeria.
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Commendable indeed.. you and all those that liked your comment are all TERRORIST... You brought in foreigners, killed ,raped, seized lands from indigenes and then built a terrorist camp you call school? Oloriburuku ole... and may the host of heaven destroy you and your likes..DEMONS

Tareq1105:
And South Yeast is dead in the political equation in Nigeria.

Is the entity called Nigeria not as good as dead of not dead too? Rubbish talk

Dabliss02:
why?

Cos her action makes her husband seem like a trouble maker if not a trouble maker in the disputewhich he might not be. I m not against Peter taking the children on an outing but anita need not post this online. Let the brothers sort themselves out by themselves.. I m so sure naa woman dey fuel this dispute cos I dont see men carry grudges for long except the ones wey woman dey control

EjaikreTheViper:
SHUT UP!!!

YOU KNOW NOTHING

Why naa? If you have nt experienced real, true and undiluted love, sorry ooh and pls try find one cos they still exist.okay?

shantti:
Thank God for your life. The way i hate self entitled women eh. My neighbor's girl friend was shouting at him the other day


Girlfriend "I am now a grown up big girl, by right I am not supposed to be collecting money from my father again, you should be the one taking care of me and paying my school fees.

Her boyfriend my neighbor is someone that is living from hand to mouth, he is really struggling to get by each day. Yet this girl doesn't care, if she is coming over, she comes with her siblings, and since her bf no get food, they usually descend on my food, (we share the same kitchen) I don't know how to tell them to stop without sounding offensive, her bf and I lives like brothers, we share things together but the idea of this girl coming with her entire family to finish my food doesn't sit well with me. I just endure. my neighbor is currently using his money to register jamb exam for the youngest of the girls siblings and the way am seeing things, the girl is expecting her boyfriend to start training all of them in school. (Remember that the guy struggles to get by each day). May God help us men

Lol.... that your neighbour will.die of depression of you no drag him ears now

Senseless woman (anita)

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FreeStuffsNG:
Kudos to whoever authored that press release.
S/He used the kind of tone and language particularly understood by that age bracket.
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Envy go kill you.. if you dont know how to trade in crypto, then shift and stop spreading your hate due to ignorance and your archaic mindset.. Foolish adults

akinmusi:
Say no to crime

And how is crypto trading a crime? Bunch of sadists

benuejosh:
I believe it is Fake News to discredit Buhari. But if it is really true as you said, then it serves her well. She's a terrorist for supporting terrorism.

See this barbarian from the sahel

Lovenorth:
The US has applauded Buhari administration for conducting free and Fair election in Anambra but my worry is that this Soludo would be worse Governor Anambra ever had

I bind and cast you into HELL with your demonic thoughts and imaginations...

Bobmarie:
PLEASE SHUT UP IF YOU CANNOT COMPREHEND ENGLISH. All these guys are admitting on this thread is statutory rape and will get them arrested if in a sane country. America recently passed technology on the iPhone to detect comments like this and arrest people who makes them on the web, your and the rest of this thread should be in jail. But You are a woman. The fuccc!

Madam Bobmarie, what is wrong with what THAT PARTICULAR guy said and implied? You were just too quick to use the phrase 'all these guys'.. What that particular guy said and that of ones you re talking about are they same? If you like dont learn to analyse comments on individual basis.. Stay there thinking in your head with your own interpretation into someone else's comment. For your mind I be woman so I go dey MUMU myself with emotions and sentiments without proper reasoning.. You never start..

You see that your first sentence, now tell that to yourself cos it's obvious you re the one that couldnt and maybe cant comprehend English

Pataricatering:
I'm sorry but a child is not to be blamed for being raped . Secondly - the power dynamic - both as her headmaster and an older man is a serious problem - do you know what he could have threatened her with ?. Asides all that is even grammar - you cannot be a headmaster and raping your student- its criminal! Let's stop victim blaming and direct blame where it should go .

Madam abeg stop all this drama... I m not supporting rape nor sex with those femal minors but truth be told which we all know, SOME of these girls were NEVER threatened but they went for the sex WILLINGLY cos they are already ROTTEN... So it's left for parents to take up their responsibilities seriously and stopped handing over some or all of their responsibilities to a total stranger..