Maobichek: No lady who is in a relationship or married will be comfortable to be providing for herself, even if she does, with time she will be frustrated and the evidence will be clear for her boyfriend or husband to see, thank you.
I quite agree with you but I never expected them to get married so soon. They cld be dating while she supports him through his job search or whatever he tends to do for now... Atleast 2 good heads re better than one.
advanceDNA: God can step into any case.... .the point is some guys want to be sure the lady they want to marry can get pregnant. it doesn't matter whether she's a virgin or a retired prostitute.
Every man his choice. Mee I no do cos for me it might lead to complications and I wldnt want such in my life.make him go check next door . Afterall some other ladies are ready to accept such as long as they can handle and cope with it.That's their own choice...
Loverboy3333: Some girls are even looking for such opportunities, Regina Daniels married Ned with many wives and kids. I bet if this man was to be a billionaire na speed you for open legs to deposit sperm put.
Every lady mustn't act same way... People with their choices
Oksman: Nothing will befall anybody. You are so pained that you are not married yet, and someone else acted irresponsibly faster than yourself. Look if anyone has a share in your wish/curse, it's you and your evil friend who connected you to a "married" man to hook you up. It shows the low regards and the actual worth as a person she has for you because she alone knows you and your kind of lifestyle. "Birds of the same feathers flock together" so stop bleating like a goat in a pen! Your true self is not hidden to those who have discernment even if this forum is faceless. When you said a "friend" linked you up to this man, I hope you know the true def of the above quoted word when next you make an expose of yourself in a public forum.
advanceDNA: There are plenty cases of people medically certified fertile and not able to get pregnant..
It’s one thing to test/check for bio-markers of fertility it’s another thing for the mechanism of conception to fully happen.... Some ladies that have done multiple abortions are even fertile and get pregnant before some virgins..no one know exactly why
Science cannot explain it all....that’s why there’s always a part of research with the statement
“ the reason for this is not fully understood”
And that's where God steps in cos with Him ,All things are possible
RightToReject: Irresponsible - wannabe-woke - people cut across both genders, so don't make it a male issue. In fact, don't blame men who insist on having the non-virgin women in their lives proving the potency of their fertility by getting pregnant before formalizing their relationship - however unpalatable it seems - citing the kind of life most women live.
One is in my house as a guest presently; her fiance, who happens to be the godson of one of my trusted associates, pleaded that I host her in my house and allow her to stay in my guest room because she told them that she's here on an official assignment on behalf of the Nigeria branch of her employer. Her fiance even made me understand beforehand that she's a scrupulous woman, which fortunately or unfortunately she appears to be like in her persona and demeanor, but the reality from what I have observed and seen as her character is that of a typical high-end corporate LovePeddler who is here not just only running high-end hookups, but also fighting a man she's unconsciously told me made her abort severally for him when she was younger. All this is happening without the knowledge of her fiance, who's back home believing that he has the best kind of woman as a fiancee, citing how he boasted to me about her scrupulousness.
Wahala... God I thank you for your grace upon my life
Collysmith: If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.
Why didn't both of you do all necessary checks before getting married if getting pregnant before marriage waant considered? Although I dont subscribe to the latter
gwarotango: Oh so when he told his followers a few days earlier that he was going to Abuja to bring back Buhari's head that didn't warrant his arrest abi? Okay he will tell the judge that one at his next court date.
Icouldhave: how would I know, I don't stay with them only got complains from my mom ending of last year. he's my dad we respect him very much, that's why we looking for a reasonable way to sort this out.
the last time the family sat and deliberate on this issue, my elder brother asked him if my mom was the one visiting another man, how would he feel.
after that day he didn't talk with my brother close to a month.
Hahahahaha... You no go kill person with your last sentence
Calitoscassius: Yes! I did, i mean, why hold on to a husband or wife who wants out of a marriage? If she leaves fine! That means i can go seek other females companionships.
I admire your believes but no for me, i like to live in a reality world.
Funny enough I can easily walk away and never look back without any remorse. But before then, I wld want to be justified before taking such step. I always make sure I exhaust every means to ascertain that the so called misunderstanding isn't something else in disguise such as the partner looking for every means to leave. Once I m so certain of the scenario, I wld know the exact step to take even if the other party has a change of mind, I wld be gone never to go back cos I see such people as unstable, falling in and out of love. For me love is deliberate commitment which we all ve to keep working on.. I love being playful , happy and never a dull moment. So why shld I allow someone make me grow old before my time.. Hmm!!! Dem never born that person sef.. I ll just take a stroll afterall I ve always loved been alone and independent
No married couple started marriage with hopes of divorcing, it just happens. Now imagine your husband coming home everyday drunk and before you know it he starts kicking and punching you in the face, breaks your nose, kicks you in the stomach, threatens to kill you, tell me, what else is left to stay in the marriage for? What else would you want to sort out with such a monster? Now, that is in a female's case.
In the man's case the wife says one day " sorry king i don't love you anymore" i have been sleeping with another guy he makes me feel happier" now tell me what else is left to sort out in the marriage?
Trust me, when divorce comes, you would want to get out of the marriage as quick as you could, especially if kids are involved. All you would keep wanting is peace and just to have peace you sign the papers.
People are just married, they are not each other's properties i believe or owns each other, both parties are free to leave anytime.
Unless they are low esteemed clingy people
Did you just say low esteemed clingy people? Hmmm!!! It's well ooh... I just believe this ' In His (God's) time, He makes all things beautiful '
Munzy14: Stay jejely on your own? Hmmmmm!!! Easier said than done.
If you start making money, that is when you will know lonliness kills faster than covid-19..
All these comments here and there saying I don't need man, I don't need woman, na SAPA people...When you achieve a bit, you can't but appreciate love and care.
Lol... You get to meet so many "fake' love when the money arrives.. At that point you find out they dont care about loving your person... Funny enough that's worse cos the monies around you simply attracted fake and 'worthless ' people to you..I ve experienced both. Now I ve learnt to always be alone loving myself all the time while leaving a little space for some few that I bring in and that has been so wonderful
She was my senior in Nigeria Navy Primary school den
God have mercy upon her soul...So beyond the playful and jovial look is vile witch? It's really true that man looks at the outward appearance but God sees the heart..
Calitoscassius: Yes! but i don't wanna marry again, no way!! But my neighbor a White woman has been married 6 times. She has 5 children from 5 different ex husbands.
God have mercy...people can be crazy ooh... lol... It's okay shaa. Everyman his own way... Hmmm!!! But God Himself knows that anything that ll bring divorce my way wont even show up...It's never the best... I always believe there is a way out if and only if both parties are sincere to themselves... There can be misunderstandings but that shldnt lead to a divorce... Misunderstandings can always be sorted between both parties involved
Calitoscassius: I ve been married, twice and divorced twice and and still single and searching now. it is no big deal! If your wife decides she have found another man more better, taller and musclier than you there is no damm! thang! you can do to stop her from leaving you!
If you don't divorce her she will divorce you!
Mehn!!! You strong ooh. Married and divorced twice and you still wan marry again? Haaa!!! People dey ooh. Abeg you try...if naa me wey like to always be alone and on my own, I go just stay jejely on my own.. You re really strong
KingOfAmebo: Every liberation movement in history takes its battle to the enemy and defends its own territory with suicidal determination. Only IPOB makes its own territory a battle frontline, mindlessly destroying facilities and other infrastructures that would rather serve well, the so-called sovereign state it craves.
"Now it is clear for all to see that IPOB miscreants are a special breed of stupidity personified, daftness popularized and dumbness specially crafted for a senseless bunch of identifiable idiots.
Should I increase the volume?...
Sadly, The affairs of the South Eastern cowards are dictated from obodo oyibo without any resistance by the same people suffering from self inflicted misery...Buhari has successfully given them the juju that will make them self-destuct without them even knowing it.
Me: Southern Easterners, Who have bewitched you?
Answer: Buhari, using IPOB miscreants and not Fulani bandits
Last bullet: Secession or no Secession, Biafraland will still be located inside the very Zoo you are trying to run away from...You are surrounded by Zoogeria...It would make more economical and political sense if it were Lagos breaking away from Zoogeria than a senseless bunch of idiots from a barren and surrounded Biafraland". - Village People spokesperson.
Ushman333: This is all you fools know, talking nonsense, no sense, even your elders all dumb, being slaves to little boys. Dead region, keep turning your region to Afghanistan, soon other states will chase you terrorist blockheads out, back to your stupid biafra land.
Bros, let's learn to say things the way it is. One who fights for he's people might at one time be a member of a political party. That does not stop him from liberating his people from killer herdsmen. I don't do tribalism, I only gave advice to the southerners to always support their own. If there was unity amongst the southerners, the issue of killer herdsmen will never even be thought of. A northerner will never never abandon their own. That's the reality on ground. Everyone is prone to mistake and its left for the elders to correct and protect their own. If you Buhari supporters can be telling Buhari the true situation of things in this country and not sweet mouth. I am very sure things will get better. As you said tribalism is worse than HIV when those in the corridors of power are silent on pressing matters because of not talking while eating. Its just a matter of time this administration will be out of office and we hope to have a president who is in touch with the reality on ground and cares for all Nigerians irrespective of their tribe/region.
Why bother yourself replying that comment. Dont you know that he is an IRREDEEMABLE Zombie?
Romance › Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Evercurious(f): 5:11pm On Oct 27, 2021
