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Pataricatering:
hatred of women is a disease ,.my dear

No dear but the disease is manipulative, selfish, self centred ,wicked ,unreasonable and yes diabolic women maybe like you

OluwaJohn77:
You are right; I want to leave but the husband keeps on begging because I used to help the man do some stuffs......I don't like visiting in-laws some see it as Pride

May God grant you mercy and set you up again better than the former before people turn you to their errand 'boy' or get tired of you... which kind over stayed welcome? It's well with you

ipobarethieves:
u are 100% rite.I once visited my bro in the 90.Thevwife sista/moda live with the couple.The man will go to work in the morning,those nuts will Sidon for house,watch film,eat this and dat.Wen it is my turn to eat sardine,d useless girl (at that time) packed everything and locked nit up in her bedroom wardrobe.I kuku showed am Eko for show(I broke the wardrobe and even husband Dey wan turn to mumu woke up .

I love this. Correct you

Segkem2013:
I gave money to my wife to send to our parents. She gave mine 1/3 and hers 2/3. My money ooo.

And you smiled it away? Naa so e dey take start in case you dont know. If you like dont start straightening such rubbish... Next time you give your parents all and none to hers and wait for her to complain and then you put her in order sharp sharp

Iyaebe:
kikikiki you don't like truth abi?Well,I already know my future husband's people will not like me so I'm prepared and patiently waiting. As for me I'll always be alert so that I will not be caught unawares

And why wont they like you? And if you know they wont like you, then why go there? Find another place wey dem go like you go to avoid trouble and quarrel.. women and wahala sef as if unaa no know say all these wahala dey make person dey old quick quick.

Well naa the man I blame, if naa me I for sharp sharp chase you away from my house... I wont even give you the privilege of taking your stuff out of my house... naa from window I go throw them all out. Nonsense

Favfables1:
Sit your babe down and tell her everything that has happened between you and the "UBA damsel" from start to finish, don't hide anything, then listen to what she has to say...

Personally, I'm not against you going out with this girl o, buh if you must go, remember to straighten things out with her and let her know you can't be anything other than friends ((unless you want to Sha))...

Don't make assumptions yet as to what her actions could mean, she may just wanna hang as friends or she may want something...

Buh the bottom line is keep your girlfriend in the know and keep an open mind...

Hmmmmm.. Truth be told, nothing good will come out of that hang out

LIVINGICON:
Okay let us assume your girl friend has not cheated on you( which i find it very hard to believe though) for crying out loud, this is only normal "hanging out together". Even if her end goal is for you to bang her, u can simply refuse to have sex with her.

Still the subtle voice of the devil

LIVINGICON:
Hello, why u dey dull urself like this?
Go and have a nice time jor. Imagine all expenses on her.
What makes you think if your so called galfriend have such opportunity she won't yield.

So says the voice of the devil

ahnie:
Pls do have a nice evening.... remember to drink lots of water.

Thanks for the concern but pls remember what I said. Good night

obonujoker:
My Dad as at 2004

Then I realized continuation brings freedom.

Then the word of God convicted me, and power as old...

Finally, Heaven at last

Amen

ahnie:
Do have a nice day...bye!

And you too.. also remember that correction /discipline from wrong doing is different from bullying before you guys end up raising spoilt and indisciplined kids that you cant talk to in the future

ahnie:
Present
Now my kids are like those"",Don't spank them o,when it comes to them, their mum head no correct oh.



And I like it like that.

Really? Hmmmmm....hope this ends well in life

BigBashiru:
How can I be stuck with one woman all my life and why should I?? Think about it! When there are asses of different sizes,so many other kissable gals etc with figure 8. Think about it!

Lol.. You dont mean it.. Well that's your choice and every man his... As I said earlier, as long as both of you are on the same page with same idea and ideology, all well and good with both of you.

BigBashiru:
Wierd how? It's about being honest and truthful....

Honest and truthful inside nonsense? Well it's okay since both of you re on the same page and alike to accept and be in such 'bizarre' conditions in the name of being truthful, honest and of course open mindedness

BigBashiru:
there is nothing like "cheating". I made it clear to my wife that im still available to other women and she too is available to other men.... its only "cheating" when you both promise yourselves monogamy....

Really? People can be so weird indeed

mrbenjame:
I have never oppressed a woman before. It’s not my nature. I’m only afraid of the opposite. I can be very caring and accommodating. Lemme shock you. I dated my ex for 4 years. She works. I’ve neber asked her how much she earns. And I do not request money from her since I work as well. Please don’t judge me. I’m human.

Oga inasmuch as you re accommodating and caring ,pls learn and remember to be tough on some of your stands when dealing with women. The truth is that most women are naturally manipulative and you need to be tough to sail through... All this your attitude of ' I dont like trouble or wahala' wont help ooh. In fact i ve discovered that most people that act and speak the way you do end up receiving all the wahala from others. No one says you shld be a troublemaker but also learn not to take or accommodate trash too as you remain caring

madridsta007:
1. Get someone that has the same value system as you. SAME not similar. She has gone through life & has her own value system and convictions.
2. Get someone that is not broke. If she hasnt seen money before or hasnt travelled to exotic places, she will eventually change when she sees money.
3. Get someone that isnt too attached to her mother or family members.
4. Get someone that believes in the conservative African value system of "wives, submit to your husband" and "husband, love your wife".
5. Finally, get someone who is accountable to an elderly person (not her family members).
6. Get someone from a stable home, where her family does NOT have any divorces or single parenthood prevelance.

These reduces the risk you are scared of, greatly.
NB: These kind of persons are rare and can be in Nigeria or Abroad. Location isnt the problem. The person, is.

OP check this very reasonable comment

mrbenjame:
Women are in trouble o.

Not at all.. He is the one in trouble cos only God knows the pains that is in heart obviously caused by a lady.. He needs serious healing...

Mariangeles:
If you give her peace of mind, she's most likely to give you peace of mind, whether in Nigeria or abroad.

Not true at all

mrbenjame:
Very valid point I must say

If you like take every and anyhow suggestion here... Ask yourself.. ' Are some couples not having a worthy marriage over there? Just be wise and careful to make out what you want for yourself... Everyone's case shldnt and wont be same... Why can't yours be good or better than others??

JovialJune:
If you want the Nigerian kind of marriage, don't travel abroad when married, stay here with your wife

If you strong headedly decide to marry then travel abroad leaving her here, accept the fact that as you're cheating on her, she's also cheating on you

You can't have a Nigerian kind of marriage abroad where the system and laws is fair to all and sundry, a system that does not recognise the machoistic, ego driven, head of the family, respect-submissive type of mentality you are used to here, equality is their watchword over there, no gender is above the other.

Hmmmm.. nonsense suggestion as if some others are nt working too

mainman7:
Many people that are addicted to facemask are reporting similar thing. Seeing facemask on you here made me to fully believe viral Video that shows a Nigerian Man proved China lines the inner parts with infectious Bacteria. The tiny microscopic things that enter the Lung and skin from the mask were see as the cultured it in water. I still don't know the Bewitchment that made people to still import Facemask from China that Originally produced the Virus against Humanity. Why giving them more opportunity to access your lungs directly?! I bought local facemask which I washed and use whenever I need to enter Bank.



Now I know why they massively used TV and Media to brainwash us that Africa is poor. Poverty is a thing of the Mind. My People, please don't sell your Eternal Soul for anything!!! Gnashing of teeth await those trapped!

Sincerely, this Shots they aimed at the masses has woken many to buy guns in America. Even I would ensure I most brutally and mercilessly kill anyone that try to force it on me. I've always been very mean by nature, knowing that I shall now kill for the right Reason like David did and still enter Heaven gives me a lot of Joy.

Hahahahaha... you are such a crazy fellow

Alexis11:
Lol I have never seen any Yoruba that is bitter against SE politicians. They simply don't care about them.

Reverse is the case with the Igbos towards Yoruba politicians.

Really?

lonelydora:
This is the right thing to do. There are many male police officers who should be in the barracks.

Married female officers are dependants to their husbands who should be working too. Except their husbands are not working.

Your brain dey shake

GOTVee:
As a born again christain who is meant to speak the truth at all times, i think the false alarms we Christian raise is the reason why the western nations were deceived into thinking that we Christians are truly persecuted. Thank God the USA can see through our lies and mischief. There is no islamization agenda anywhere. We really need to copy the examples of our lord Jesus and stop heating up the polity

TERRORIST like you

Crossroad1:
I didn't mention your name so why u wan come get hypertension?

Because he is one of those pathetic lots

Lovenorth:
God bless you

God punish you and that guy you just quoted

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I condemn acts of violence against any one. Terrorism is not peculiar to any religion or tribe. We Christians have terrorists amongst us just like Muslims have terrorists amongst them too. We don't have to point fingers at any religion because we Christians and Muslims are serving the same God.

You must be very stupid for this comment.. which kind stupid norm again Christian you say you be? Fake ass like you

Francashy:
I know a particular state in Nigeria(SE) that is still struggling to construct a single flyover

Myopic Abia state

Shimran:
Hmmm. Islam. The disbelievers's nightmare. Despite been powerless.

Nope... A BLOOD SUCKING RELIGION you mean

1Sharon:
Islam at it again.

As long as the Muslim population remains around or under 2% in any given country, they will be for the most part be regarded as a peace-loving Minority, and not as a threat to other citizens. This is the case in:

United States -- Muslim 1.1%

Australia -- Muslim 1.5%
Canada -- Muslim 1.9%
China -- Muslim 3 %
Italy -- Muslim 2.5%
Norway -- Muslim 1.8%

At 2% to 5%, they begin to proselytize from other ethnic minorities and disaffected groups, often with major recruiting from the jails and among street gangs.

This is happening in:

Denmark -- Muslim 2%

Germany -- Muslim 3.7%
United Kingdom -- Muslim 4.7%
Spain -- Muslim 4%
Thailand -- Muslim 4.6%

From 5% on, they exercise an inordinate influence in proportion to their percentage of the population.


For example, they will push for the introduction of halal (clean by Islamic standards) food, thereby securing food preparation jobs for Muslims.
They will increase pressure on supermarket chains to feature halal on their shelves -- along with threats for failure to comply.

This is occurring in:

France -- Muslim 8%

Philippines -- 5%
Sweden -- Muslim 5%
Switzerland -- Muslim 4.3%
The Netherlands -- Muslim 5.5%
Trinidad & Tobago -- Muslim 5.8%

At this point, they will work to get the ruling government to allow them to rule themselves (within their ghettos) under Sharia, the Islamic Law. The ultimate goal of Islamists is to establish Sharia law over the entire world.

When Muslims approach 10% of the population, they tend to increase lawlessness as a means of complaint about their conditions.

In Paris, we are already seeing car-burnings. Any non Muslim action offends Islam, and results in uprisings and threats, such as in Amsterdam , with opposition to Mohammed cartoons and films about Islam.
Such tensions are seen daily, particularly in Muslim sections, in:

Guyana -- Muslim 10%

India -- Muslim 19.4%
Israel -- Muslim 16%
Kenya -- Muslim 10%
Russia -- Muslim 15%

After reaching 20%, nations can expect hair-trigger rioting, jihad militia formations, sporadic killings, and the burnings of Christian churches and Jewish synagogues, such as in:

Ethiopia -- Muslim 32.8%


At 40%, nations experience widespread massacres, chronic terror attacks, and ongoing militia warfare, such as in:

Bosnia -- Muslim 40%

Chad -- Muslim 53.1%
Lebanon -- Muslim 59.7%

Nigeria 50% Muslim

From 60%, nations experience unfettered persecution of non-believers of all other religions (including non-conforming Muslims), sporadic ethnic cleansing (genocide), use of Sharia Law as a weapon, and Jizya, the tax placed on infidels, such as in:

Albania -- Muslim 70%

Malaysia -- Muslim 60.4%
Qatar -- Muslim 77.5%
Sudan -- Muslim 70%

After 80%, expect daily intimidation and violent jihad, some State-run ethnic cleansing, and even some genocide, as these nations drive out the infidels, and move toward 100% Muslim, such as has been experienced and in some ways is on-going in:

Bangladesh -- Muslim 83%

Egypt -- Muslim 90%
Gaza -- Muslim 98.7%
Indonesia -- Muslim 86.1%
Iran -- Muslim 98%
Iraq -- Muslim 97%
Jordan -- Muslim 92%
Morocco -- Muslim 98.7%
Pakistan -- Muslim 97%
Palestine -- Muslim 99%
Syria -- Muslim 90%
Tajikistan -- Muslim 90%
Turkey -- Muslim 99..8%
United Arab Emirates -- Muslim 96%

100% will usher in the peace of "Dar-es-Salaam" -- the Islamic House of Peace.. Here there's supposed to be peace, because everybody is a Muslim, the Madrasses are the only schools, and the Koran is the only word, such as in:

Afghanistan -- Muslim 100%

Saudi Arabia -- Muslim 100%
Somalia -- Muslim 100%
Yemen -- Muslim 100%

Unfortunately, peace is never achieved, as in these 100% states the most radical Muslims intimidate and spew hatred, and satisfy their blood lust by killing less radical Muslims, for a variety of reasons.


It is important to understand that in some countries, with well under 100% Muslim populations, such as France, the minority Muslim populations live in ghettos, within which they are 100% Muslim, and within which they live by Sharia Law.

The national police do not even enter these ghettos. There are no national courts, nor schools, nor non-Muslim religious facilities. In such situations, Muslims do not integrate into the community at large. The children attend madrasses. They learn only the Koran. To even associate with an infidel is a crime punishable with death.

Therefore, in some areas of certain nations, Muslim Imams and extremists exercise more power than the national average would indicate.

Today's 1.5 billion Muslims make up 22% of the world's population. But their birth rates dwarf the birth rates of Christians, Hindus, Buddhists, Jews, and all other believers.


Muslims will exceed 50% of the world's population by the end of this century.

Critical analysis

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