₦airaland Forum

ModiKen:
Nope.

Is there a physical exchange of blood fluid during sex?

Even if there is, do people take "oath" during sex.

Do you even know what a blood covenant is?

Google is your friend.

just because is called blood covenant doesn't necessarily mean dat blood must b used.anytin u did that somhow bound u spiritually is a blood covenant which sex is not left out.

ModiKen:
So u saying he shld have gone ahead to have a blood convenant with her?

is sex not a blood covenant too.

That's harsh..you do not have to take it personal..all he asked was an advice..

starlingslimnet:
Pride goeth before destruction.

do u even comprehend the write up at all??

nairalandgeek:
Quite messy...Enjoy!!

Eeewh!!makes me wanna throw up in my mouth...

imsuboi:
Igbo boys

Did what??

holyteeboy:
People are hustling for money while there are just wasting it........

is it your MONEY??

keypad1:
[size=20pt] this is land is for sale. check below to see where i built my estate[/size]

huh?!

ronald4lif:
Would you'd rather she didn't tell you?. Come on, appreciate her open-mindedness and take it upon your self to improve your sex life. The both of you can have a discuss on how you can enhance and augment your game. It's nothing to worry about if you ask me. Just take it as a challenge and improve.

improve??someone that could last for 15-20mins...what improvement are you talking about..its obvious that her ex popped some pills,there's nothing wrong with the guy,the girl is a nymphomaniac .both are sexually incompatible which will lead to unfaithfulness...my guy this is revelation...Run for your Life...the girl na awa nku(she deh break firewood)

Normality:
You are a baboon, did the integration stop mass murder in 1945, pogrom in 1966, and all other riot against Biafrsns like the 1980 riot.
Did the integration stop ur foolish Ariyo to advocate total wipe out of all Igbo speaking Biafrans.
Or that of ur Oba Lil Wayne, what of the protest that we should leave Lagos?

Reallydo u have to wash ur dirty ass like this......ignorance..so you can't make ur point without cursing...I believe you are one of those stupid igbos agitating for another civil war,go ask your granny the aftermath of the previous war,the impact it had probably that's why you are miserable and confused biting at people randomly...crazy old fellow....

dinachi:
I feel a deep sense of grief and bewilderment when I read a lot of misguided comments from my Igbo brothers with some calling for a violent secession from Nigeria. Most of the generation of people making these statement never witnessed the civil war. They did not see first hand the horrors of war. They did not experience the terrific impact of bombs or the loud ear splitting sounds of heavy artillery shells as the explode. Should I talk about the economic impact? How our people were reduced to paupers and had to start from the scratch. How beautiful daughters were forcefully torn from the warm embrace of their families and married off to leprous men in the North just to spite our people. Only a mentally deranged and prone to self destruction individual will ever in his life support a violent secession from Nigeria.

Our problem is not secession. Our problem is learning how to live with other tribes in harmony while doing our businesses. Our focus should be on how to build consensus across the nation for vital political interests.

I laugh heartliy when I see some misguided Niger Delta youths like barcanista and co trying to be clever by half by playing to our sense of entitlement. Speaking from both sides of the mouth about how our people are being pushed aside and marginalized.
Yet these are the same people that effectively sabotaged the Biafran struggle under Ojukwu. These are the same people that lead the enemy in through our backyards and betrayed their so called brothers. Now they have started a new song because their brother Jonathan who performed woefully was booted out by majority of Nigerians.

I want us to know sometime that is historical. The moment an attempt is made to secede, the I jaws will immediately turn their backs and negotiate us away to advance their interests. So we will end up alone fighting the whole of Nigeria and loosing again.

When the chips are down, we are always alone.

Another point to consider is that Nigeria has become too intergrated to break up. Almost every family has in laws across their tribe. How will that be handled?

Igbo are the most integrated people in Nigeria with business interests across the six geopolitical zones of Nigeria. Most of our people will become jobless or stay and be killed the moment a secession is declared.

Those who knew the truth will tell you that even inside Biafra there were still serious cases of tribalism and nepotism, even under the revered Ojukwu. That was why ahiara declaration became necessary to tackle these issues.

Finally, we are not ready militarily and would only be engaging in another massive waste of life if we insist on our ways.
So my people do not be deceived! Our best and only bet is to remain as law abiding citizens of Nigeria while doing our best to continue to be relevant in the scheme of things.
Ka Chineke mezie okwu.

that's what people refused to understand...violent secession can't benefit the ibos,we are so much integrated in Nigeria that we are left with no choice than to live as one...if we knew our history,all ibos would agree with me that violence cnt solve our problem,last time we tried it,we lost our fathers,mothers,siblings n families to the violence,and I wouldn't want to mention the economic impact it had on us,we started from scratch once again and here again some elements are calling for the repetition of history,they say its only when a fly perches on the testicles that you'l know that there's always a non-violent way to approach any situation.let peace reign..long live Nigeria...one Nigeria.....NB:when these war mongers sound the drum of war,they'l all travel out of the country with their families and the masses will do the killings and be killed..ibos......wake up!!Biafra is a failed project....igbo enwe eze....even in the biafran civil war,they were crisis within,sabotage and mostly undisciplined.....Long live the Igbos...we are stuck2geda..

holyteeboy:
first AY is not short plus the woman us wearin heels which is natural for women

u meant common..

Samguine:
I am a batch B Corp member passing out in two weeks. I got the invite also but I guess I'll pass. Another opportunity would come.

Op, please don't bother yourself. You still got a long way to go. And again, the uncertainty and transport costs aren't favourable to you.

a trial aint gonna cause u any harm..give it a try

Galacious1:
no mind am. Na tokunbo tv sef

N'lnders...Nawa o.na jealousy b dis?

misspicy:
http://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2015/06/16/lady-bites-off-rapists-penis/

sexual escapade gone wrong...imagine a man without an evidence that proves him a man....chai...prick too strong to cut with teeth na,u don try cut fresh kpomo with teeth b4...scientifically....it doesn't fit in at all..

shachris02:
A 27-year-old trader, Lucky Bassey, has been arrested by the police for allegedly raping his neighbour’s daughter, Ruth (pseudonym) in the Bariga area of Lagos State. Both the suspect and the victim live in the same house on Akilo Street where the incident happened.

PUNCH Metro learnt that the 12-year-old victim was using the toilet penultimate Monday, when the suspect forced the door open and subsequently raped her.

Their correspondent was told that the victim’s mother observed that she could not walk properly after she left the toilet. She interrogated Ruth, who told her mother that Bassey had raped her. The matter was reported at the Bariga Police Division and the suspect was subsequently arrested.

Ruth, a primary six pupil, told the police that Bassey had sex with her while standing. She said she could not tell how long the sexual assault lasted, but in the end, the suspect threatened to deal with her if she told anyone. She said:

“I was in the toilet on Monday, May 25, around 8pm, when I heard a knock on the door. I told the person at the other side that I was using the toilet. But brother Bassey forced the door open and closed my mouth to stop me from shouting.

We were both standing when he raped me. He said I should not tell my mother about it or he would deal with me.”

The mother told PUNCH Metro that she observed that after she left the toilet she could not walk properly. She said it aroused her curiosity and she interrogated her daughter for information.

“I called her and asked what happened to her. She told me that Bassey raped her.”

She said she reported the matter at the police station, leading to the arrest of the suspect. After the rape, Ruth bled for a week. She was reportedly rushed to a general hospital in the state where she was treated before the bleeding stopped.

The result of some tests conducted on her, which was sighted, stated that there was a forceful penetration into her private parts “which affected her clitoris and labia majora.”

The victim’s mother said Bassey’s family members had been asking her to forgive the suspect.

“We are both from the same village in Calabar, Akwa Ibom State. We also live in the same compound in Lagos. His people have been asking us to forgive him. Even our landlady has also begged me. But I have told them it was no longer within my power and that the government has taken over the case. I don’t know why it will be my daughter of all people that he will do this to when there are many prostitutes out there that he can have sex with.”

However, the suspect denied raping the victim. He said:

“I don’t know what she is talking about because on that day, I did not enter the toilet as she claimed and I did not rape her.”

The Police Public Relations Officers, Kenneth Nwosu, when contacted, confirmed the incident.

He said, “We arrested the suspect and he has been remanded in the Ikoyi Prison after being charged to court.”



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why would he fall into such temptation,while there are oloshos he can pay less than 1k to lash...konji na bastard yes,but olosho full everywia na...even some na jst 2packet of indomie n a bottle of cook.....castrate the niccur abeg

starlight101:
wetin do G?

Gosh!!!all these celebrities must be living a lie...Damn!!!seeing is believing as they say..bbuh darn!!I aint believing none of these sh*t anymore...

AdeniyiA:
give me three actions that require no monetary push...

Broke guys can't afford Romance.its too expensive for their broke ass

classicB:
My friends and myself were discussing about relationship stuffs recently.
We talked about one of our coursemate that is lucky enough to have a guy that cares so much about her, takes care of her, up to the point of giving her salary yet this girl doesn't love or appreciate the guy at all, she still go about sleeping with men cos of chicken change.

And we also have one that is currently in love with a broke guy. They have been together for close to 3years now and sometimes this girl feels like the guy doesn't love her enough simply because she sees what her friends are getting from their guy and she's not privileged to get it from her own boyfriend. Its not as if she doesn't love the guy or anything but she sometimes get jealous and imagine herself in the shoes of girls I mentioned above.
Her boyfriend loves her and he isn't cheating on her.

So my question is, how do u think a broke guy can show love, and care to his girlfriend in the absence of cash?

love is too expensive for broke guys,they can't afford it..

Rendezvou:
There are many unscriptural activities going on in the church today which Christians pretend not to see. The more we keep silent, the worse things would become. Though we are aware that many happenings in the church today are signs of the end time, it is our duty to put things right and strive to revive the ‘old time religion.’

1. Charging Consultation Fee-
Paying certain amount of money before you can see the man of God has become a common practice in many churches nowadays. So many pastors have commercialized deliverance, salvation and spiritual counselling against the Lord’s wish- Matt 10:8 Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, raise the dead, cast out devils: freely ye have received, freely give.

2. Selling Some Spiritual Items-
I’m more particular about churches selling holy water and anointing oil in plastic containers and bottles where worshippers are disallowed from bringing theirs but compelled to buy from the church. Let them buy from wherever they choose; your role is to ensure those items are blessed and sanctified.

3. Making Tithe Card Compulsory-
I have no objection to the issuance of tithe cards for those who want it. Some churches have denied
members some privileges because they do not have their tithe cards which serve as evidence to know tithe payers. I, like many others prefer paying tithes anonymously. Someone may be paying tithe regularly having his card checked and signed by the pastor and still feign being saved.

4. Setting up too many church societies-
It is unfortunate that church leaders rarely check the activities or attend meetings of these societies. Many have derailed from their essence and a lot of such church societies now run like town meetings, social groups or cooperative societies. Let us cut them to size, review their activities regularly, and ensure prioritization of spiritual events in these societies.

5. Singing and Dancing to Worldly Music-
We really need to watch it here. We listen to hip hops, Rocks etc which are trending and become tempted to copy the rhythm and sometimes lyrics of such music for church use. Many of these songs and dances are not glorifying God so why copying the world? Ladies now twerk and wiggle in sexually provocative styles in churches at the sound of such worldly music. 1 John 2:15 Love not the world , neither the things that are in the world . If any man loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. Choirmasters and Music Coordinators pls take note.

6. Stipulating Minimum Amount for Offering-
Few days ago I was in a gathering and the pastor announced that those who do not have up to a certain amount of money to put down as offering should not bother to come out. This wasn’t the first time I’ll hear this announcement coming from the alter. This approach to collection of fat offerings should not be encouraged in the church. Jesus praised the poor widow who cast just two mites into the treasury because that was all she had [Mark 12: 41-44]. If such marginalization was declared before casting of offering at the temple, the poor widow would not have been able to cast her offering which Jesus acknowledged as the greatest of all offerings. Pastors should stop deterring people from casting their offerings; we do not need to inform them that fingers are not equal. Preach and tell the congregation the benefits of giving bountiful offering to God and let Him nourish His word in their heart and not indirectly telling them, ‘you cannot give the little you have to God.’

7. Organizing sport/game Competitions-
I do not know when sporting became an important spiritual exercise in the church. I once attended a church where a football match between two parishes led to a serious fracas. This later grew to a feud and it took many years for some of the youths and priests to heal the wounds of bitterness sustained during the match. It is more ideal to organize Bible quizzes and competitions which is very much unlikely to sow seeds of discord.

8. Letting out Church Premise/Properties for Secular Purposes-
I my humble opinion, it isn’t right to rent out church properties for non-religious activities such as club parties, political meetings etc. They may violate your rules and you would not be able to stop them until they are through.

9. Organizing Excursions and Sightseeing-
This should be left for our work places, families, schools and any other moderate social groups which we may belong to. Christ sent us to the whole world on a mission assignment to evangelize and win souls to the kingdom and not to catch fun. I have attended an excursion organized by the youth leaders of a church and to be honest, nothing gave glory to God in all we did. In fact, it may turn to an avenue for brethren to engage in sexual immoralities.

10. Inviting Secular Musicians and Comedians to Perform at Church Functions-
I have heard some blasphemous jokes from many comedians lately. It is so saddening that churches invite such performers to anchor programmes and all you hear are disrespectful words against God all in the name of making people laugh. How can you bring a secular musician to the church and expect him to bring down the spirit of God with his or her hip hop or RnB?

May the Lord revive the church again. Amen

so many things happening in the world...just as the bible says...they shall look but cannot see...hear but cannot understand.....no matter what,the church will still prevail.....if they like,let them turn the house of God into a trade fair complex or shoprite......God'l knows his people jst as a child knows the n recognises the voice of his money...

elantraceey:
You're right but who told you the apostles feed themselves?

go and read peter's message on the dignity of labour,he advised the people of thessolonians not to depend on the offerings made by the people,that they should engage themselves in different jobs so as to meet with their domestic needs...so as a clergy,you also need to work so as not to depend on the offerings of the people.

ihatebuhari:
God punish u op and all unbelieve heart here

May you people die and perish in hell before this year end.

Nothing u can do to stop us Christian all over the world, u and Islam can't stop us

Greater is he Jesus in us than Satan and Islam in the world

u just exposed your ignorance.....SMH...are you really a christian?if yes,then m totally disappointed......

bogolobango:
Seconded

Na igbo girl nw so what do u expect

xo wetin igbo girls dey dofish brain

believer01:
thank you but won't people see me as a wicked person if i end 7years relationship without even listening to my reasons

who are these people??are they the one in this sham relationship....who cares about what people say...you??seek your happiness first before considering another....everybody will not buy your opinion or go by your reason...those people should pick up a map and head straight to hell for all I care....7years into a relationship and he isn't making any move,ladies dnt like truth 2b told2him but here is the unadulterated truth.....your man has moved on,he's seeing another lady or probably grooming his wife to be,he doesn't want to be the one to break the ice,he gave u an attitudinal language which you understood but still questioning..the earlier u read,comprehend n digest the hand writing on the wall the better for you..I bet my girl friend on this,he isn't waiting to make any millions buh buying time to frustrate u so u cud leave by yourself...

Yehman:
U wouldn't know how chicken n okro taste until u give it a trial. I like doing things in a slightly diff. Way

Really...

olajonzin:
It's pains me a lot dat most people don't understand dire dreams as meaning..yes it's true dat nt all people dream..bt those who have future will alway dream..cos dat where God will show u where good tinz and bad are abt to happen

so those dat dnt dream dnt ve future??gbooo??kpachara anya gi o

FrancisTony:
Source - Francistony

lemme correct an impression there,when God instructed peter to kill any animal he chooses in his dream,the animal in question is symbolic,it doesn't mean something edible,God used that vision to tell peter that we are all equal in the site of God,no matter our religious belief,wether circumcised or uncircumcised, prior to that dream,God had told a Roman centurion to send for peter,that he would tell him what to do. accordn to them,the jews and gentiles had notin in common but God wanted to use that medium to let peter know that we are all one in the site of God.and to d ansa ur question,when u think of sometin2much and mayb somhw u cudnt get that in reality ,u'l see ursef in ur dreams with that same thing,be it food or whatever.ve u eva felt so hard b4 u slept n then saw ursef havin fun in ur dreams..these are ur desires dat re recorded on ur subconscious ,every tots n desires r recorded in ur subconscious and wen u finally get ur head to rest,the recorded images wil turn to a motion picture,scientifically there's a reason to that,buh religiously,the subconscious has a way of making u feel satisfied even when u cnt afford it..jst that evil ppl use dreams at times to steal n imprison destinies...#sad#other than that,dream is just another world of endless possibilities

Moana:
okay and what happens when you grow old and you cannot have sex as often what happens to that marriage since sex was on top of the list?

Let me guess the period your wife will be recovering from childbirth your marriage will be as weak as ever then abi?

and who says older people dnt ve sex......??sex is something that binds the both party and it shows they stil tolerating eachoda's bull5hit....sex is very important in any union...if u havn a problm with ur partner n go for marriage counselln,d 1st tin d counsellor wil ask u is if u still sleeping with ur husband(making love)if yes then ur problem is a minor one..

Moana:
sex is not the most important thing in a marriage...many are procreating outside of marriage so i highly doubt its on top on the list either.how many marriages do you know that are primarily based on sex and children and they are still standing?

wen it comes to marriage,sex is on top of the list,let's not deceive ourselves...if u aint sleepn with ur wife,m srry cux dat union is as weak as a soaked bread..

ekiloui:
1.) Some women have very low libido
2.) Some feel that's how it should be (I.e the husband should always be the one to ask for it)
3.) Some think it makes them more desirable ( the more they hide it the more the man needs it)

The truth though is that as women we have a duty to satisfy our spouse, if he needs it simply give it to him except of course there you have a reasonable excuse (e.g your period, fatigue, illness etc). And also you should be able to ask your husband for it too...men also like to feel desired, don't thing you're the only one who wants to be attractive, your husband will feel attractive whenever you ask, so stroke his ego.

If you want to hoard... Prepare for your husband to start playing away match.

I still dnt understand u guys,'if ur husband desires it'give him...na gift??or do u fink u doing him a favournawa oo...isn't she enjoying it too...I'l never beg for sex from my wife,idnt even need to tell her that,if I made advnces and she dcides to be uptight,she'l be d1 begging for it for the rest of her life,mehn....'give him'this line itches my ears....Guys don sufa..

VintageCocktail:
Some of them are sadist, just the thrill of seeing the man beg for this one thing they have control over.

does someone actually beg for sex frm the wifestill findn it hard2believe..