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Una dey sell house for family sektion?

Padiga:
You underestimate the power some women have over their sons and their ability to make life a living hell for a hated daughter in law.


This has nothing to do with school cert.


Women are wicked, not to talk of women with grudge.

You mean in the village and those diabolical mils?

Aside those two ^ categories please leave matter for Mathias, this is not a theory but from real live experiences abi you forget those wives are women too? Most of these old women knew what's good for them now, they'd rather play nice than be shut out of their sons and grandkids lives altogether.

Mean mils will be extinct before 2020, watch out. They're borrowing themselves brain now.

So he'll be regarded 'responsible' of he comes in by 6pm tops , plumps on the sofa while you labour in the kitchen and stays on his phone till 11pm?

Padiga:
In the end, if she has a stronghold over her son, you will be the one to suffer it.

No one will suffer anything. They will both stay in their lanes and answer their individual husband names. Only a school cert holder will allow any form of bullying from any woman in this day and age where women run the show!

Foolish questions in a supposed family section , go to hell OP

RoyalRoy:
Wow... Jidegirl!!!!!!!!!!

Yay!! sup bro, good to see you here.

See you later alligators

Who else is here?
Edwife
Coco (I forgot)
Cake boss lady
Chair something Tearoses
Those men too Roy Roy something

Where are you guys?

Young Hajjia Sofiat. Mashallah

Happy wife, Happy life.

You just can't go wrong with those two words.... "Yes Dear" she'll move the world for you

O gbe okere niyi... NL I used to enjoy and mess around is gone jare. Na to just pop in & out or better still read without log-in, remain.

Badosky babes if you're reading- holla babes

Loisemm:
Is it too much for a wife older than you to want you to wash your OWN plates after you eat?!
That's simple courtesy now for live-in house GUESTS! You don't expect your hosts to do all your dishes everyday and still feed and accommodate you for free. Ahn ahn.. If the lady is complaining, she has a right to. Its her house!

I tire oh

Avalon316:
Desperate girls of Nairaland.

A stranger comes online and says he lives in the UK and you all are already getting wet. Have some decency

Too funny

armyofone:
Going to marry at home...just set your priorities right and have low expectations.
Don't go marry because you are looking for someone to pick up after you or carry house chores on her head, or be a breeding machine, while taking nursing school courses per your request and holding part or full time job.

Hehehe this Amy sef, wetin dem dey look for native girls before?
Glorified housemaid- go nursing school-ATM don cook

I don't take those kinda men serious atall. What they don't understand is home based chicks eye tear pass that 'independent' sister in diaspora. Obo n gbobo gope

Re: OP's opening post.... Only unserious man/woman will expect his/her spouse to remain the same in as he/she was while dating, be it physically or even mentally.
Physically meaning; that lepa chick you dated will eventually add weight after 1-4 children. Or that built guy will maintain his six packs after 45.
Mentally meaning; stress and clumsy train of thought as opposed to less worry when both of yous were single with less obligations.

Truth is; life change in every aspect after you tie that knot. You have more responsibility and priority change from what it were.

5minsmadness:
Good food =good home = good environment.
Let me translate good food further.

Preparing the food for him =shows you are thinking about him, about his welfare.
Keeping the food waiting for him when he comes and its hot= shows you are thoughtful. You have given him immediate relief from outside wahala.
A hungry man is an angry man is a wise saying. A hungry man comes home and sees no food. He translates it to mean you are not caring, you cannot take care of him, you didnt think of him. His welfare is not important to you.
And the more you repeat this scenario for him the more infuriated he becomes. He may not voice it to you cos most men dont express thier feelings well but thats what he thinks.

Men just love food. They prefer home cooked than a five star restaurant meal any day. I don't get it

For those with their heads screwed on tight.. 1.Good food
2. Regular sex
3. Respect

4. And some SOB of dem like to live on their spouses' hard earned cash on top all aforementioned too morafockers I call those ..

The quality of good Naija men are getting brittle by the hr , lord help upcoming generation.

tearoses:
Sis miiiii Muah Muah Muah
Lomg time no see
How is your family
We dey Kampe
Like Bebe, we just got back too
Ive spent the last 2 weekends firmly in my bed o!
I cant come and go and kill myself
It was fun but stressful
This time around tailors showed me shege
Oga said it served me right. I have my own trusted tailor but he is expensive so I keep on doing ijebu. The others sewed bastardd and nonsense

my ijebu sister , that is the lesson you should learn to never switch tailors. I'm not surprised you just came back from Naija, you and Mr.T just dey gbadun felele, I wan be like una oh

Nice to see you here sis.

Sphinx02:
"You don't hv to like my peps,jst pretend or mk an effort when you're around them.". is it too much to ask.

Maybe if you had put your words just like that ^^ as opposed to your silly divorce threat, she could've complied and help a brother.

No man should use his mother to threaten his wife with divorce , y'all madt ni?

@toksbisola, 3months max ke? A week after is tasking for a wayward man to get laid.

OP should find her own happiness wherever/however she feels it'll be easier to. First thing first is talk to the culprit and see if they can work things out or have a plan, if his choice is flirting on FB to get laid with different women; there's an arrangement for that too. There's nothing new under the sun, Aye ti laju than going through unneeded headache. Then find a way to liberate herself from shackles of financial bondage ie get something going for her(trade, apprentiship, school or whatever). What say can you possibly have without any potential of bringing anything to the table? Yes men will put up with wives without a job, but the Truth is men will NEVER put up with a wife without any potential aka credentials. Just be something for your own sake.

bebe2:
My darling , am fine oo

I went , I came, I conquered

Am back ooo.

It was nice sha, but hectic.

Hectic is an understatement my sister . Well we thank God for journey mercies.

byvan03:
How have you been madam?

I dey oh my dear Byvan, how are you and the boys?

All these NL story sef

Prognosis: 6 years marriage
Bored male,possible financialproblems
Facebook Addict
Emotional cheating
Possibly mid life crisis

Diagnosis: Chronic marital Boredom

Treatment: Ripple Effect from an aware adult:
Call him up, talk to him, Spice it up.
GET A JOB!


My 5kobo

I miss NL

Naija.. It's best to give out money than expensive gifts they'll eventually give away like this.

Royal Roy where una dey? Dem don turn fun room to shopping channel oh

tearoses:
Welcome Richard

Madam Bebe2, what am I hearing about the Govt clamping down on Money transfers?
I heard the govt is only allowing Western Union and Moneygram and one other (cant remember the name) to send money to Nigeria
Please say its a lie
No one sends money via western union with their silly rates

E ku ojo mewa sis

I believe RIA operates in UK too? And the rates are good. Even Aunty Bebe is doing transfers as well. Aunty Bebe2 , how was your Naija trip?

gradeA:
but this girl is fine sha.


so dbanj you were just deceiving all this naija babes, singing kokolet this kokolet that, whereas the real koko had not been LET out....

kontinu. God is watching you.

wish you all the best tho.

Hehe poor naija babes , omo boy don escape

crackhaus:
They are all sick..
The raped, the rapist, and those commenting.

All join

Bills First.

Will madam bring anything to the table or just you?

How much?

She dey vex gaaann ... And Caroline's response was hilarious as hell... Don't know their story, boy never seen a mistress go bonkers like that before.