₦airaland Forum

Xionez:
Morals...is that Latin?
I thought those words were removed from the dictionary since this present generation see no use for it.

byvan03:
Boys should be taught some manners but it's important that a girl attach some dignity to her person. It's the school's duty to eliminate all forms of distractions from either gender.

Ewuro4 the pic you posted is very ok, I can totally rock that.

Agreed.


Of course you can.

menstrualpad:
she is so unmarriageable that even a whiteman dumped her sorry ass....now she's adding stinginess...

Mean

thorpido:
The poster says,'shorts too short and bra straps showing'.
It may not just be the straps showing but some side b00bs sef.

It's an idiomatic expression.

Lol she's mocking the school authorities bogus claims.

Of course Not.

what is indecent dressing? 2 tank tops (with bra underneath) on a jean?

Thank you @Gaborone , shared similar sentiments with you. But when I saw the pic on another platform , kinda see through her lens , the mom was furious with the school for sending her daughter who wore a double tank top on a jean , back home. Many moms supported and joined in her protest to encourage parents who have male children to educate them in regards to their perceptions about female body & dressing.

For example, It's summer and very hot. girls who have perky chests are forced to wear double undershirts (bra&tank top) underneath every outfit to avoid boys from staring. Why must they stare , don't they have manners? (I guess not)

What do y'all think?

Mizzzbeee:
remember last season naso u yimu your way to a loss

Never gonna happen this year, our team is complete.

May the best team win.

Now let the GAMES begin

Mizzzbeee:
Congratulations to the Golden State Warriors!! Now no excuse Cavs... You guys are fully loaded and rested! WARRIORS ARE COMING

Yimu

kayjasper:
Thanks sister mi.

I will do just that .

Cant risk just anyone having a go at it for the sheet fun .

The clock is worth about 200k in Lagos as at last month.

It doesn't use batteries though.
The pendulum are serving as the batteries.
You pull it up and then after seven days it goes down and stops, then you pull it up again to start working.

You're welcome my dear.

Be careful oh , 200 kini, I saw one on wayfair here for over $2k. Go to reputable repair companies , it's worth the hassle.

Happy Sunday!

edwife:
Then they should shame both of us, i am a sucker for vacations- i could spend fortune on those. People love parties,owambes- i love travelling.

I can't wait for this destination trip, i am as excited as you are. same way i feel during Christmas.

Hehehe Ditto.

Can't wait to see the kids reaction.. We just gonna wake them early in the morning and drive them to the airport. What a freaking long 2016 school year , sick of it already

Yorubawoman, you're a beautiful young lady with her whole life ahead of you, you're lucky! ... pick up a hobby or two, go to gym-exercise, write a journal if you can, go out there and mingle dear, before you know it, it's bedtime, utilize your ample moments , one step at a time .

I'd also advice you to see a psychologist(if you can) or talk to someone. You're not alone

edwife:
Good Morning over here and Happy Sunday...

Morning and happy Sunday to you too Eddy
I can't sleep... Been excited for a while now, It's that time of the year again.. Summer Vacation

Someone should shame me for behaving like a kid in a candy store hehe

5minsmadness:
Was talking more about close associates myself.




Ok. I get your point Now.

I'm definitely not advocating going to the extreme. I'm saying if you see something wrong speak up about it. Don't keep quiet cos you think 'it's none of my business.'
Ignoring something that is wrong only makes it proliferate more.

I understand your point too. I'm all for calling the person for a meeting and condemn the behaviour not him/her.

But let's face it 5mins... an average Nigerian's way of calling out 'bad' person doesn't end well.

If Nigerians will stop shaming people and only focus to condemn bad behaviours... Depression will reduce.

cc 5minsmadness , Acidodis

5minsmadness:
But it should be your damn business! That's the point!
Or...dont u care about me?

Hehehe , still not my business unless my opinion is neede

and I do care

Losing a child

5minsmadness:
Condemn the behavior, and if it's really bad, SHAME the person!

Just seeing this. I knew it.

Do whatever you like buddy... As long as you don't cross my lane. Non of my damn business

My post was in terms of everyday lives (friends , collegues and family) , not about criminals and political thieves, that's why we have court of law to judge and punish them.

Acidosis:
How do you condemn a person's behavior without condemning the person? The main issue is we should learn to call a spade a spade at a right time. What is bad is bad, regardless of who is involved.

If we spare a hardened criminal (thief) because condition (poverty) led him into stealing; what about other poor folks out there, most of whom are poorer?

We live in a world where people would always feel insulted when you correct their actions. With statements like "mind your business", " how does it affect you?", I do not think it is possible to correct a person's behavior without condemning the person, especially in this part of the world .

@bold says it all. its the orientation.

That's what you believe , I on the other hand, strongly believe Temporary situations/conditions make good people do bad things but that's just me.

It's not that simple... The problem with Nigerians calling a 'spade a spade' is the continuous rambling and never-end shaming that usually push & prompt these people to commit suicide. They never stop. We see that in homes too. Parents that never fully forgive and forget a child's err, but always make references at any slight mistake from the kid. The reason why it's best to ask people to mind their business most times. They just don't know when to zip it and MOVE ON.

Judging and shaming people is not gonna improve or correct the 'terrible' act but damage his/her sense of security and self worth. An insecured lady/man is not a valuable member of a society.

My child took my $5, I condemned the act right there and embraced the kid. A friends' child took her $5 , she called him out to shame, hit and brutally tongue-lashed the kid.

Think about it.

These ladies won't kill me I swear

Simple .... Condemn the behaviour NOT the person.

Oh dear! That's one freaking fortune right there... Browse Horologists in Lagos (prolly urban areas like Lekki& co) , otherwise you'll risk losing the parts to random handy men .

Have you tried changing the batteries?

Talk about scary turnovers... Wednesday @Cavs.

Get that garbage outahere!

A40:
Haha Raptors have pissed this game away. Unbelievable

Unbelievable. Why is biyombo not marking James. They should fire Casey.

johnson232:
u really do have a great sense of humour...
@first bold... fantastically true...
but to posit men think it is weakness to say sorry is baseless and spurious...
most women demand the word "sorry" for rationale not proportioned, and not all men have the luxury of tendering unwarranted apologies... some men do it for peace, but it doesn't make it justifiable. so, it in most cases got nothing to do with ego as studiously perceived by women, but the use of words frugally by men...

2. @ second bold, why do u postulate men need women more... do u mind sharing your reasons...

Thank you!

It's not baseless, behaviour are seen for what they are through human perception. Yes seem unfair to men , but do a survey, plot a graph and see for yourself.

The point is women are known to endure many many irrational behaviours yet men find it beneath themselves to apologize because its not well proportioned, what does that even mean? You are supposed to be a team, partners, best friends...any 'weakling' gesture should be seen as act of endearment.
If men don't truly view sorry as sign of weakness then saying it shouldn't be seen as a luxury as you implied.

We all do it for peace... and nobody has two heads

2. I know so.. from real life case studies. Go to MMA (for example) and see the #s of traveling mothers vs dads vs both.

Men are more miserable @old age compared to women. It's just plain psychology, men are needy and are prone to depression @old age compared to women. I'll leave it there.

I wonder if I'll ever leave my husband to stay with my kid for a year straight if he hadn't hurt my feelings in the past.... Hmm

Saying sorry won't kill y'all

Lemme concentrate on my game.

Miami11:
Ewuro and kaira is this bickering really worthy it

Kaira go take care of baby

Ewuro it's alright to give advice and move on

Bickering with who?

You just can't stand my posts anymore eh ? I have that effect on people ... take your own advice and scroll past them.

Kaira333:
Ok dear. Noted!! E pain u well well. Hahahahahahahahaha sad woman spotted

Lost cause

tearoses:
Please don't forget to take calpol, antiseptic cream for bites and a first aid kit with plasters etc
I would also take some oralyte just in case.

You also need baby wipes, handy tissues and toilet seat disposable covers & antibacterial hand cleanser.

For the flights make sure you have snacks and entertainment especially for the day flight; so books, magazines, colouring pencils and fully charged tablets. You may also want to take some food with you as not all children will eat airline food.

Since you are staying in an hotel, you don't need much so you are good with the snacks & cereal. Dont bother with chocolate or chocolate coated snacks as they will melt.

If your kids are into ribena please take a bottle with you, the ribena out there tastes different and a fussy kid will tell you its different.

Take long pyjamas for the nights so they don't get bitten in the evening/night

Also take toothpaste that they are used to and if you will be washing their clothes out there, take some fabric cleaner. Dont forget their body creams too.

We don't take antimalarials but we give them to the kids. I know its stupidly expensive but for the peace of mind its worth it.

Dont worry, you will all be fine

Tearoses don kee my belle hahaha sis you're the bomb..

See why I'd rather go home solo?

Toilet seat cover

They aren't married?

mylove4him:
It is like you and I were born from the same womb. A simple sorry goes a long way but have come to realise that to some of our men it is a lot of work.

I know right? Na wa.

TV01... 'Orange looking thing' It's amazing they're always orange or pink. Your last paragraph is powerful. Glad to see I'm not the only parent with that thought. How you dey?

@Topic, I don't know what to say. I have all girls and this weird thought always cross my mind; if I would be satisfied if one of them suddenly turned into a boy.. My honest answer is always No.

Though always wanted to balance my family with a boy but I've come to a resolution that this is my destiny , but then again, I'm a girl myself and have been nothing but the best thing that has ever happened to my parents, their expectations of me are met above & beyond their imagination, and my maiden name passes on with me.

This is funny , my oldest asked her daddy if she can keep her family name in future and his response was 'yes, your mom did and that'll make me very happy' . Aww