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damiso:
Dat una own no be for humans There is this new series I stumbled on while channel flipping .Its called Fortitude and its set in the Arctic all the white landscape just made me fall asleep halfway

I like Sun jare. I be ara oko isale eko as naijababe will say I don't get skiing holidays. .Give me the Caribbean or sunny climes anyday

Iyabodeh instead of you to feel sorry for me.

No be for humans .. The whole city resembles ghost town.we survive sha.

Dami you should break out of your comfort zone once in a while and try new adventures... Caribbean and sunny climes sounds boring to me. Try skiing or tobogganing you'll be surprised how fun it is.

Have you seen the new reality show, Ladies of London?

Nonso23:
Amen too.
If it is paid then you look for the surname written on the receipt. That is the legal owner shikena.

It's called common Law entitlement , pets inclusive .. Regardless of whose names on the receipt.

Nonso23:
Don't jealousy him too much abeg.
You will live long too

Amen. You too.

raumdeuter:
You have your house or pay the rent, Piackebeau moves in with you as hubby. One day he says he is No longer interested in the unon and he wants to leave.
What would you do from this point.

This is not near op case , you guys are fabricating lies to it. What if the house is paid for esp in Naija?

Pickabeau is my brother not ma husband you sound funny buddy. I'm going home jare.

LordReed:
LoL did I ask you about who you were begging? Kai you are too fake! You can't spell Hennessey correctly and now you blame the phone?! Chei! See how you expose your fakeness? I can't fit laugh. My friend if we've crossed path before you would have remembered and pocketed this your fake posturing. LWKMD!

Lol... You are back again gosh this dude. Smh

FriedPlantain:
Madam no vex na, I being dey try arrange small money from my friends to help get you Dodo. Please don't vex. By the way, who is that olodo of a somebody trying to rile my bitterleaf up? Na sango in collaboration with Amadioha go strike that person nyansh dead!

Do quick abeg

Iseee , he's provoked , pardon am.

Nonso23:
May you live long!

Yimu

I'm out jare.

raumdeuter:
Ewuro he is actually right on that statement.

If you own a house and your husband move in with you, that moment he becomes a co-owner. The moment he declares he is not longer interested in the union he ceases to be a co-owner. Is that wrong to say?

Very wrong. I have no right throwing him out of the house unless he voluntarily leave ( and he's still entitled to 50% with equity just so you don't know) I see where cococandy meant about hating western culture.

You men are very dangerous.

raumdeuter:
Is there a repercussion for calling me a bastardd? knowledge of English tells me its not a term of endearment

If someone calls you a bastard, what would you do?

Nobody calls out that term without prior situation in my neck of the woods.. Or cookoo

I'll definitely leave the place for him/her. Period.

Nonso23:
Women dey funny.
House that is a product of his sweat, effort and stress. He should leave it for you??

You are a co-owner as a wife until you directly or indirectly indicate your interest to leave the union. Then it becomes 'all man answer your papa name' which is not a bad idea at all.

You scare the shait out of me man ain't kidding.

So if Im provoked and call you a bastard you'll go for my head coz in your little world , you don't like being called bastard. Pleeesee

Yall need a lot of training to attend. Nuff said. I'm tired of going round in circles

pickabeau1:
Madam....
You r not getting it

They have been having couple fights up.n.down


She raised the bar with the D word
The man.said ok na..i agree


The issue you have..i.put to you...is that he is the one staying put in.d house

Maybe he wants d divorce

You're the one adding to the story. I'm only dealing with what was said here.

'Saying the D word Raised the bar'.. Laughable

raumdeuter:
1.Couples fight yes, Do they threaten each others with divorce or leaving?

2. Some people like me dont deal with threats. I think its childish and what you threaten, you need to carry it out

1. Yes when you're provoked to the T. We are all human and say regretful things we don't mean. That doesn't give the other party to feast on.

2. Then you're the child that needs to go back home for marriage retraining not her.

raumdeuter:
1. You can only trash something out TOGETHER with someone who is interested in doing so, Not someone who wants to LEAVE.

2. How do you solve an issue TOGETHER when one person wants to LEAVE?

3. And the man didnt throw her out. He didnt give her ultimatum to leave

4. He gave her transport so that any option she chooses she can achieve

5. If she wants to stay fine, If she want to leave, she would have the needed fares

1.You don't know her plight about making her marriage work, so please stop the rash conclusions.

2. Again speak for yourself, you don't know her.

3. Giving her Tfare validated that. Marble on the wall.

4. He's so damn wrong to do that.

5. She obviously doesn't wanna leave. Giving her the Tfare provokes her ego too. And my question still remains, would he have given her Tfare if she coowned that house with him? He's a bully.

pickabeau1:
Ok....no wahala

1. So am I wrong if I say your indignation about this issue is not about the marriage and reconciliation but the fact that she was encouraged to leave the house

2. If he had left the house and marriage for her..you no get wahala

1. Damn right .. Couples fight , it's a norm.

2. Take a breather , yes.
Leave the marriage? Why would he?

raumdeuter:
If a woman comes to you that her husband is telling her he wants to leave, he cant be in this marriage

Would you tell her to lock him indoors and ensure he doesnt leave?

No. I'll advice her to stay calm and give him breathing space to cool off before trashing their problems out TOGETHER.

pickabeau1:
That's why I asked u earlier

Do you prefer he left the house for her

Answer my Q

Ewuro4:
will you do such if she coowned that house with you?

pickabeau1:
That's why I asked u earlier

Do you prefer he left the house for her

Yes.

raumdeuter:
If someone in your house told you they want to leave, isnt the courteous thing to give them transport fare and give her intructions on how to leave the house?

Assuming the man threw her stuff out now without her mentioning her intention to leave then we can say he kicked her out

Courteous ??

You're trolling and sound ridiculous

She's his wife and not just anybody nor a tenant. That's what you guys failed to grasp, or this is just what marriage has turned into for you or I'm old school with achaic manners.

He doesn't have to literally kick her out before drawing out conclusions from his current action. He has no right to give her Tfare back to her fathers house. It's rude and disrespectful. You get?

pickabeau1:
Lol

Did u read d op

He just gave her tfare out of the blue?

ofcourse after she lashed out to leave. So next step is to give her Tfare, will you do such if she coowned that house with you?

raumdeuter:
That was what she narrated

Go reread the post.

He gave her Tfare and told her to leave the keys with the guard, what did that indicate to you?

LordReed:
E go better make e follow make all those fakers drop from e body.

Good boy boy

raumdeuter:
They both argue.

She threatens to leave

He helps her to carry out her threat by giving her transport fare

Which part do you have a problem with

Were you there??

raumdeuter:
Does the woman need to be coached on how to treat a man? You cant insult a person anyhow you want and insist he sucks it up

So kicking her out is not sucking it up? Hian

Yes. He shouldn't suck shait up and shouldn't kick her out neither but It's THEIR HOME. They should sort out their problems however they want.

pickabeau1:
I don't get you at all

A man is obviously cracking under the strain of a self professed harridan that harries him up an down

So he should stay and suck it up like a gentleman?


Why don't u guys talk to the younger women about the power of the tongue and its potential to destroy a man's psyche.

There's nowhere in my posts that supported her actions in any way ( it's beeteeen both of them) .... I only have a problem with his behaviour that all. If You still don't get that that then dont know how else to put that.

LordReed:
Sistilo no mind me jor. You know now once in awhile I dey like flog fake people.

Oh I see now now run home boy I'm done feeding you.

LordReed:
LoL! at least I don't hide my "brokeness" under the disguise of begging for credit for a fake $550 phone bill or for Hennessey that you still can't spell right even after correction. Fake arsé big geh.

What and whom I beg is non of your beeswax my phone spells my words so I don't have control over that .


I understand the amount is equivalent to your earning but not my fault broke nigga. I was only conversing with someone else and you jumped on my throat , fake or no fake ; those expatiating days are over buddy,for the umpteenth time, I owe you No explanation ..Wait.. Have we crossed path before? #ntoo hobbii

pickabeau1:
No

Leaves the house for her and rents another accomodation

I give up. No more gentleman left in Nigeria. #Red eyes

pickabeau1:
Do you prefer he leaves instead

This op is mouthed.... There's a limit anyone can take

Leave to cool off?? Now that sounds mature to me.
He needs to be coached how to treat a woman.

HFOG:
Big bro come home and leave fake people alone.

where's home ?

LordReed:
LMAO! Like I need explanations from from a fake arsé who comes online begging for credit, dodo and Hennessey (couldn't even spell it right).

Na you I ask Abi why Ina dey beef ma Rogers phone bill na Abi you want a screenshot? ( Nah)

This is between me and Frieddodo so face front .. See your mouth like Hennesy you'll choke on it, it's for big gehs not broke niggahs like Lordreed yimu

pickabeau1:
Obviously he is tired of her acidic mouth and decided to call her bluff

If she begs....he will now be in charge fully (not hat he should not be but there should be mutual respect though he is d head)

Let her go and get the elders involved

She has to curb her mouth

No man will just want to deport his wife ordinarily especially as she is preggers

Well that was my initial solution- Get his family involved.. And not move an inch from that place.

Well there are other mature and sensible ways to express ones grouse to your partner in a marriage besides Deportation out of where is meant to be her home too.

What is she to him ; his kid thrown into a naughty corner.

Pele pele oh baba olowo.. Ejo oh

pickabeau1:
Once the topic became cheating.... See hyperventilation

Her self professed evil mouth has been forgotten

Her self professed faults thrown in the abyss

Na today?

hehehe



but pick' jokes apart, couples are meant to argue. Even the śhittiest argument. In fact any marriage devoid of it is scary and must be paid attention to. My grouse is not even with his way of life after all she was aware of this prior tying the knot. When couples fight, they should sit and thrash it out , he has no right throwing her out like he did, it's disrespectful and belittling way of treating one's partner and future mother of his children. He's very rude and be reprimanded for that.

His behaviour is way more crude that her runny mouth sef. Or is that how women are being treated in your neck of the woods now??

Nonso23:
I never jam person wey sharp pass me elder sister and even as she sharp reach i still dey win awoof on steady basis. Anyway I dey find who i go jam. You get younger sister.

God FORBID BAAAAD THING

You scare me