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cococandy:
That's why they so love Nigerian marriage setting and would do anything to paint western system of marriage bad.

There the house belongs to the man and his wife is a tenant.
If not how does he have the guts to tell the gate man to lock the gate after her.

His wife is a tenant life sucks with these guys Mehn I hope wanna-marry dey take clues from this thread. He has tha guts #1 I don't want to imagine how the scene played out..

Him: adamu, lock that biatch out of my house and retrieve my keys

Nonso23:
The law is not absolute, never has been, never will be. Smart people get away with a lot these days

An independent lady is either unmarried or married to a person who resonates on her frequency or above. That is the reality.

Just stick to having fun.. I pray you jam my type, you go hear wen funny dude

Yes.. The enhanced ones

Nonso23:
she is the one on whom the burden of proof rests not the man.

What

Nna Mehn.. You new-wanna-married-guys stirs my curiosity , I don't blame you sha, I blame those ambition-less ladies that puts their whole % livelihood on yous.

He fit yarn that kain dust with a radiant ,independent & well to do lady that arguments household monthly bills after all your monthly earning has gone into Mortgage and crazy school fees?

HIS KEYS MY FOOT!

FriedPlantain:
a very stressful one ma'am, I didn't enjoy it any bit. See your mouth like free plantain indeed, if you were given a bowl filled with friedplantain or cake which would you take?

Phone bill , you no fit pay (and allowed some busy body fest on my lifestyle )

Dodo , you no fit buy

Baiday.. You no fit buy hennesy for us

Wetin you fit do but being cranky with your yucky face from thread to thread??

*walks away in angst*

cococandy:
After telling you his whorres are better than you, you still let the gate man talk you into staying?

Wait you would even stay if he tendered a fake apology (because that's what it is gonna be)

Wowzers!

It's up to both of them Lotetta , they are both grown up adults .... And Not for us to judge her decision in the end.

cionon:
I don't have to go into details. Cos I know he his cheating. Seen a chat et him a a prostitute which I emailed to my fone and showed him yday. I expected him to apologise yet nothing. So don't come and say Wat u don't know. What wrong did I do when I said his parents and mine would know about the whores he keeps and he said to my face that they were better.
I pity but wife maybe u and my husband have Sam character

I wasn't gonna proffer any solution but can't take this any longer..

Listen well, it's written all over your post that you have no job neither occupied with tangible thing, which makes you way too idle for useless back and forth with him. Do something for starters

Don't go anywhere and stay put in your matrimonial space and call up his families and report him to them. For now

Rubbish

Nonso23:
another doctored tale.
What did you say to make him retort with the emboldened?
Talk true abeg don't come here and attempt to feed us one sided story.
No man will ever say such a thing without you saying something to push him to the extreme.
You are not ready to seek a solution you want a pity party.

Exactly what he said to make her retort to divorce threat.. It's easier to dismiss her claims but not the man?

LordReed:
Stop lying, which unlimited plan costs $550 a month? Even triple play services are not up to $300 a month. Freaking liar.

e pain am... I owe you no explanation

damiso:
Today's cold na waya o I almost froze on the the platform I can't wait to get home meen

Lol..you should visit here sometime.

naijababe:
Omo iya mi, I dey kampe o. Na work dey troway pikin like say hin be stone o

@ my fellow Scandal viewers, na the vice president kidnap am now, at least according to the S4 E11.................honestly Shonda Rhimes must be a real drama queen in real life, I mean the direction she taking her shows, I tire for the woman abeg!

Ofcourse it's him. They showed that the last episode of the last season na. When fitz growled 'what did you do to HER'.. nna Mehn 'livy is da bomb , if na for Naija dem for don say na she don jazz those boys

My husband asked if presido's wife is aware and I said yes and she's effing the vp too .. na wa oh .. real scandal

cionon:
He womanises. I have seen condoms a lot in his office trousers. Called his attention but he never even had the courtesy to say his sorry instead he says he carries them for a reason and it should stop questioning him. My cuxn as seen him with a girl b4, bt he denied it even wen it was obvious he lied about his whereabt cause the frnd he said he was going to see came to the house. and he is very pompous. Never apologies for his wrong doings.
Very disrespectful

WOW

Very disrespectful. What to do to 'remain married' ? I honestly dunno. My level of disgust for his attitude ( which most people on this thread :Pput in their blind spot) is very high at the mo. Good luck

What kind of nonsense is that? It takes two to tango regardless whom's at fault. They both said regretful things to themselves. Throwing her out is belittling and disrespectful IMO. Kids parading as grown up men these days... What happened to talking things through? You both have a mission to fulfill ; making it work.

My husband snapped yesterday when I refusedto budge to his idea.. We both took a breather (through church service) and begged EACH OTHER in the end. Marriage takes two. Period.

Lord I exhalt your holy name, to you ALL glory be onto, LET YOUR WILL BE DONE. Amen.

iceberylin:
Ur thinking about your Ex

I guess so.. It's ALL MESSED UP MENH!!

Hehe I hope this is real. He handed you a Tfare back to your parents house?? Sorry sweetie but had to get this out of me; Is he MAD??

Chaircover & Co will come over to give soft words... I'm pissed at the mo.

What arrant nonsense..

FriedPlantain:
I'm in my late fifties but I still feel young and fly sha . No cake for you or anyone else. only if you sing me a happy birthday song.

Yay! got a whole box for $20 last night.. Free plantain indeed. Hope you enjoyed your day?

LordReed:
Anybody on NL spending $550 a month on phone bills needs a case.

Hmmm.... Unlimited data

Go and quench man, my previous post explained in details how , then had a rethink ; that 'I owe you no explanation'

FriedPlantain:
why you kon carry the matter for head so like Wyclef

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greatgod2012:
@op, you're right, but let me help you compress it to just 4 that will be easy to remember and generally acceptable. The acronym is MISS. If you decide and determine to, you can MISS these factors/points in your marriage and enjoy your marriage the way it is to be enjoyed.
M for money.
I for in-laws influence.
S for sex.
S for sentiment.
May God help us all.

aka ultimate compressor

A simple THANK YOU makes me go extra miles for anybody. I like being appreciated and acknowledged. Don't you?

I like eating out but everything must be in moderation coz of the kids.

LordReed:
For $550 a month you have to be discussing world changing issues

You are still here on my case?

Baba I praise you, to you all my Glory and thanks be onto, ha eshe for all you've done in my life and in my family. Lord Let your will be done regarding that mission I have my eyes on. I trust you. Chose for me. Thank you Lord.

LordReed:
Haba na David Cameron or Vladimir Putin you dey call?

I have no comment .

I'm sure they'll kill that cow for Suya after elections.. Poor cow

#Say NO to Animal Abuse

Broom ofcourse

FriedPlantain:
Hey, today is my birthday, don't make me get angry with you , infact no more pay for you! lubbish!

Aww you're Justin Timberlake's birthday mate , he turned 34 today. How old are you? Biko no vex , Happy Birthday and mail my cake

Hehehe I dey watch

veave:
Okay, I'm not married yet.

My dad is supposed to be a super macho man yeah?
When ever my mum travels...
First night: superman
In the morning: runny nose
Evening: head ache
Second day: fever don start oh...
Na so the poor woman go just run come back...
He will even wear her night gown sef...
I'm praying so hard for a love stronger than theirs...
Not just praying, shining my eyes too

Your Dad is my hubby's older version.

And I Love IT.

FriedPlantain:
what is wrong with my siggy?

Your weird way of reasoning..

FriedPlantain:
how much are we talking in part-payment? I might wanna amortize the remaining balance over 3 years so I don't go bankrupt or something

I give up
Miser your siggy says it all.

FriedPlantain:
How do you expect me to give you that when my annual pay isn't even up to that?

I'll take part payment .. You asked remember