₦airaland Forum

nasha1:
The Op is absolutely right.They can all come here and shout that women who don't get along with their fellow women are the ones with the problem?If i am in a group with obnoxious,angry,selfish ladies,i have evry right to opt out of the group and unfriend them.
I choose my friends,not every woman must be your friend.
A virgin can not stand the test of time among prostitutes before she can be called prostitutes herself or a non-virgin.
these same women can't even tolerate people or other women that have different opinions as theirs online but are here shouting most of my friends are women.

I concur jare.

damiso:
Onojogbon ni yin..cant out emoticon for some reason so I was grinning as ityped

I can agree that women tend to be more dramatic/emotional/ OTT in friendship especially in large groups( that's why I was never able to do the whole clique thing) but that women automatically HATE each other I cant agree. HATE is such a strong word.

and you know I lof you so how can women hate each other when I don't hate you and we are both women ( blowing kisses)

And both genders can lay claim to Haters abi no be male rappers dey rap most about Haters ni LOL

Lol you know I will talk

On a more Serious note Dami I find this thread very two faced and hypocritical. @bold is what OP was trying to explain, maybe OP misused Hate in context but you know how Nigerians 'hate' everything. I love my female friends like kilode and owe ourselves that loyalty but truth has to be said when a discussion is open.

When a flaw is pronounced- its in majority , doesn't necessary mean other group are not guilty of same offence. E.g European folks are the most stingy but doesn't mean everyone in Europe or folks in other countries but mostly in Europe cos I know you won't abandon me at Heathrow.

Everyone's perception of life is shaped by different experiences . But to outrightly jump out of nowhere overbloated and call OP vindictive and the one with the problem is very very stûpid and revealed your person as well.

Do they even know her to call her such names?

effie03:
thinking of what to make with this

Okra soup. Burst of flavour at every bite jezz

Yenyenyen hehe

OP nothing do you jare , you're perfectly okay, continue doing YOU ... As you can witness the unnecessary aggressiveness on display, Your assertions hit the Bulls eye.

Very obnoxious

sauceny:
& if your children fly,what would become of your grandchildren¿

SOAR

Chidoks:
what a read!! i checked over and over again just to make sure my eyes saw well.yes you are a female.i disagree with most of your opinion.you seem to think we are totally badd but when you search well you are bound to realize how wrong you are.
You generalized and that is wrong.granted some women may be real bad , so also some men.in life you come across the good, the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly from both gender.
The question is has someone hurt you? a she you trusted, stuffs like that happen.that is why one has to be vigilant in friendships.i've seen people that don't keep back anything for thenselves as secrets while in friendship.they expose their family life and personal issues to friends. that's not friendship, that's carelessness and irresponsibility
The self evaluation aspect applies to both gender.the moment you don't look inwards and judge your action, you are bound to hurt people and appear ungodly.

Interesting.

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After all the adrenaline rush to counter OP's post by fire and force opinion down differing posters throat... Then this poster cracked me up real good hehe :

Jahblessme:
I actually prefer being friendless,reduces potential for strife.

Hmmmm


Na wa


#MayDibadiplaying

sonnie10:
bla bla bla! hard work this, hard work that, where is the work self in Nigeria to start with? In all honesty, I won't send my child to go do petrol attendant all in the name of working, if I am rich. Modesty should be the key word. For example, Obasonjo's daughter is a PhD holder working in US, Atiku's daughter is a medical doctor working in a hospital in Abuja, Achebe's son is the MD of a clinic in the US.

Tell dem jor

I believe that kid Sam Sam. Report that mofo ASAP.

Mashallah

Why beer parlour business though ?

tearoses:
im watching the news
Female viagra don dey

Interesting

tearoses:
Awon daddy wo ooooo ?
She awon daddy dearest abi awon biological daddy?
If its daddy dearest, no one must dress better than you o!

Lordy lord

damiso:
The iro and gele are aso oke the silk variant but the buba is lace

Hmm thanks sis

That must be special Order I'm guessing?

theunusualmoon:
What if mothers had phones in 1970?

That's another Topic on its own

When a kid is hell bent on fluttering the rhythm of his/her parents peace then he's definately craving their attention.

I know this for sure.

Parents should realize we now raise different generation who are tailored to seek parents approval in their everyday steps. Why? Because that's what we signed up for( school, Exra curr activities, iPads, phones, early exposure etc go figure).

So failure to fufil your part - Time , expect worse.

Hehe Somewhat True

Especially kids in diaspora, they never whine when you're off the phone. Always when you're holding that gadget.

Call your friend w kids asap and prove me wrong.

^^ is that Aso oke ?