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I literally just experienced this, I was smelling a HORRIBLE smell in that area, despite taking two showers a day to remove it for a WHOLE MONTH. I kept d!scharging a brown-red color, and i was d! scharging way more than usual.

And just today i was searching up for a possible douche? I don't know, l'd never used one and everyone says not to, but literally as I was scrolling through douches, I went to wipe and felt what I thought was a ball of toilet paper sticking out?

Pulled it and out came a FOUL smelling
tampon. HOW IS IT POSSIBLE TO HAVE
FORGOTTEN MY TAMPON IN?!?! I can notice a
world of a difference with it out yet how did i not notice when it was stuck inside me for a
MONTH. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

‘’Let this be the last time Women Affairs will organize anything that I am not aware of. You try next time, I will come here and get you people disgraced. I know what I am going through in this country. For a while, this is what we keep on organizing. Few weeks ago, there was hunger protest and they talked
about peace and security. Women are not empowered.

Children are suffering. Nigerians are suffering but we waste money all the time in frivolous things that don't make sense. I
am sorry. Many people may misunderstand me but I am ready to be misunderstood. I am ready to be tortured. I am ready. I have changed the narrative, I said no programme
without empowerment.

You are talking about peace and security. With poverty, how can you solve it? You keep talking, doing workshops. With poverty, where are we heading to? How do we solve that
poverty? By directing money to the wrong channels that don't make impact on humans?

On those people you want them to change and give you peace?

I have changed the narrative. I said do not do any programme without empowerment. They give monies in the Ministries and it is used for travel, programmes. Nothing that will impact the nation. If you hear the monies the government gives out to ministries, you will be shocked. Why should it continue like that?

Why should we fold our hands and these things will continue? Who do you think will save you? It's you that will save yourself. Let them call me names, troublemaker', ‘mad woman’, I am ready to take it.''

"Congratulations our pipo.

These ones wen dem never even reach 18 years I guess? Dem never know anything and divorce dey wait dem for road. I'm not wishing them bad but stating the obvious. You might not like my post but certainly I'm me and have my social opinions to things," Mr Joe wrote.

"When they have fully realise themselves, they will discover that they are not meant to be partners to themselves. One issue with early marriage is self realisation when things starts
working. Class will come into play and attraction would definitely not be there anymore.

"Marriage is beyond infatuation or love. Does is mean I don't wish them well? I do. Infact a very big congratulations to them but “word wen pikin nor hear for morning, e go understand am for evening.”

“On 2nd August 2019, I walked into a marriage registry and exchanged marital vows with a man who legally became my husband after that exercise. Everything was fine.
Everyone was happy for

On 27th August, exactly this day 5 years ago.,Just 3 weeks after our marriage, he went ona trip to Lagos. His trip was supposed to be just one week but guess what, he hasn't
returned till date. What happened? So much.

2 weeks after he left I found out I was 2 weeks pregnant. The excitement, ohhhhhh.

But he didn't seem excited, why? I guess pregnancy wasn't part of his plans.

One month later, the biggest scam in history was discovered. You'll get to know that the only real people at my wedding were people from my side (people who came on my
account). Everyone that came for and on behalf of my husband were either hired, manipulated or tricked to attend or play roles at the wedding including his uncle and the
wife, the food vendor, photographer etc.

More shocks coming. All his family members I've spoken with while the relationship and marriage lasted nko? They were all part of hisvmission. Their numbers haven't gone through
till date. My husband made away with everything he could lay hands on. Obviously his reason for the marriage was to get access to them. Virtuous woman don't hide her money and assets from her husband right? Days turned to weeks, then to months. I accepted my reality, took responsibility for the mistakes that I made myself and determined to make things right for me and my then unborn child. Sounds like a movie scene right? Well, that's someone's reality but this is not the main point of this post. Here's the point.

My marriage lasted just 3 weeks but it's been 5 years of trying to fix the damages caused by that mistake. It's been 5 years of trying so hard to rebuild everything that was broken
down by reason of that marriage error; mental, spiritual, career, financial, emotional etc.

That one error affected practically everything, every other area of my life. Every now and then I ask myself "how did I let this happen under my watch?".

Everyone thinks you are strong and you are fine. But that's not the whole truth. Few days ago my son woke up and saw me and said "Mummy you are crying again".

It broke me but I couldn't help it. The last two months have been hell in my head, mind and body. I took stock of the past five years of my life and it seems God is punishing me for making one mistake.

All my efforts to fix things, get back to my normal life in all aspects hasn't yielded positive in my assessment. It's like I get to 70% progress then back to 20%. It's just not working. It's more like a shadow than it's real. It's luike I don't belong here anymore, like I am just fading away yet shining from the
outer. For just one mistake? Isn't this two much consequence?

I have seen people make countless marriage mistakes/errors yet get back to their normal.

Yet the holy book says God is not partial. I don't understand it anymore. It's not making any sense to me again. Make it make sense to me God!

The only crime I committed was trusting and committing to a man I didn't know but thought I knew and didn't take time to know.

I didn't keell anyone. I didn't break the law of the land so why am I in jail? Why is my punishment this long and harsh?

The worst is that you don't even have anyone to talk to because they don't seem to understand. To them you are a strong woman and everything is either fine or you can
handle everything.

Olumide, I have never cursed you in the past five years and for a reason I'll never do that. May the universe judge between you and I accordingly. Life indeed is not fair. Dear God,
I think it is enough. It is.

’I will always be proud of myself . I fed over 2,500 people in maximum prison Kirikiri. The situation i met them was heartbroken. I order 5 giant cows, 10 bag of rice, 5 full basket of tomatoes so i could feed them all and i also gave them money.

I've come to realize that police work is often a thankless job. Despite all we do, including risking our lives, we still face criticism from the public. Our officers are out there day and night, ensuring the safety of citizens, yet their efforts often go unnoticed.

“My friend shocked me saying dirtiness is a major factor. He said he counseled a family with the challenge. Oga bathes once in two days hence wife refused him sex. She complained and when he was reluctant to change, she left the marriage,

The Kaduna State Police Command has said that its operatives have arrested two suspects in connection with the horrifying case of a man who was buried alive in the Zaria area of the state.

The Public Relations Officer of the Command, ASP Mansir Hassan, who made this known in a statement issued on Thursday said that the arrest followed the circulation of a disturbing video that showed the victim buried with only his head exposed.

The police spokesperson said that the victim, a 20-year-old from Gauraki village, had previously worked with the suspects at a construction site in Abuja; however, they had an altercation over a stolen cell phone valued at N35,000.

The victim was accused of the theft, and as a consequence, the suspects decided that the victim's daily wages would be used to replace the phone.

The situation escalated when the victim, frustrated by this decision, left Abuja and traveled to Zaria but the suspects, who are siblings, followed him there.

On August 10, they found the victim, abducted him, and buried him alive in an uncompleted building.

The victim was restrained and left partially buried until a passerby heard his cries and alerted the authorities.

Hassan said that the suspects had admitted to the crime during interrogation.

He said the Commissioner of Police in the state, Audu Ali, cautioned the public against taking the law into their own hands, emphasising that the case would be thoroughly and professionally investigated.

“See men, in the next 3-5years to
come there will be only 10% of
wife material in the world. There
are women everywhere but not
wife material!! Remember anyone
can be called wife but not wife
material. With what am seeing
now, women are more focused on
men that will pay their bills and
not real love!!!. KNOW THE
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND
INFATUATION,”

An unidentified man allegedly killed his eight- year-old son in the Epe area of Lagos State over a misplaced sewing thread that belonged to him.

PUNCH Metro gathered on Tuesday that the incident occurred around 10:00 a.m. on August 5, when the father was about to use his sewing thread.

Upon discovering that the minor had misplaced, his sewing thread, the suspect allegedly became enraged and doused the child with Premium Motor Spirit, commonly known as, petrol.

Seeing the adverse effects of his action on the boy, who reportedly began vomiting white substances, the suspect attempted to ease the pain by offering him some palm oil to drink.

Despite consuming the palm oil, PUNCH Metro learnt that the boy lost consciousness, and residents rushed him to a hospital in the area for medical treatment.

However, he was said to have been pronounced dead less than two hours after the incident, according to some witnesses.

In a viral video seen by PUNCH Metro on, Tuesday, the suspect is shown kneeling before police officers and residents, answering questions why he committed the crime.

Although his response was unclear due to the poor audio quality in the clip, an eyewitness in the short viral video mentioned that foam was coming out of the deceased child’s nose and mouth.

When reached on Monday, the state police command spokesperson, Benjamin Hundeyin, confirmed the incident and stated that the suspect had been arrested on charges of alleged murder.

He said, “A report was filed on August 5, 2024, alleging that a father poured petrol on his son’s face and pushed him after the boy misplaced his sewing thread.

“The boy lost consciousness, and his sister gave,him palm oil. After consuming it, he began vomiting, and he was subsequently rushed to the hospital.

“The doctors on duty confirmed him as being brought in dead. His body has been taken to a general hospital in Lagos for an autopsy. The suspect will be transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department in Yaba for further investigation.”

A similar incident occurred earlier in July when a man identified only as Olumide allegedly beat,his 19-year-old son, known as Adeyemi, to death with a shovel for an undisclosed offence.

The suspect was arrested, and the command announced that it had initiated an investigation into the death.