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Codedelaw:
It’ll be eight per state Sir

How you take know sir?

Look at this fine chick in those days fat like baby ostrich, please am so scared of marrying a beautiful lady and later finds her fat, am scared cos I may lose the love I have for her, what can cause this?

Saifullah01:
Misplaced.
Majority of the people using the airport most likely have their own ride and may opt not to use the service. Why not subsidize road transport for the indigenous instead

Leave them to their misplaced priorities,
Making policies to make the poor suffer more and the rich get richer the more.

Anyone traveling via airways definitely doesn't need any kind of money help, you guys know the people who need that help but will feign not to know where to spend Enugu State money.

I just want to occupy space here

seguno2:
The rapist pastor has nothing to lose again, adding scammer to his sins won’t mean anything to him.

Inside life

Okay

ursullalinda:
Good good

That is great to hear.
Have a nice weekend.
Please check your mail

I feel we should mind our business here. America is already blessed.
Bloggers and gossip are

Anifaza:
Please pardon me for using a new moniker as I am quite known here.

Friends and family, I really need your sincere and matured input on this matter.

I have been married for over 10 years with 4 kids. My hubby is a great guy save for this area that we will never agree.
 
 I have sisters-in-law who have vowed never to give me peace despite all my efforts to give peace a chance.  Most of them are all older than him and sort of influences his decision that affects my marriage greatly.

From the beginning, it has been if I am in their good books, my marriage will work and I will be happy, then if not, reverse will be the case.

My husband has refused to see all their manipulations and always tell me that he grew up with them and so he is indebted to them. I have never tried to cause a separation between them but they usually see me as an intruder to their unity.

For these 10 years plus, it has always been the issue,  I have begged, used gifts,  apologised ,sought for forgiveness from them  for sins I have not committed just for peace to reign yet, the next problem will be bigger than the previous.

Some are married while some are not. The worst that affect me most is the married ones with children.

Now, they all don't talk to me and this is affecting my marriage. Hubby gives me cold shoulders, no sex asking me to mend the relationship with his sisters  of which I am fed up with the whole thing and I don't want to beg again.

My mind is made up that everyone should stay on their own. Hubby is the only male, seems to be the only one doing well  and parents are no more
 
Please what do I do?

Mods front page please for more inputs.

Updated

Thanks for your input. I truly appreciate. It all started in my ist year of marriage when I had my baby and still in school. My mum came to look after baby and few months later, I took in again of which I left baby with mum while I continued schooling.

They accused my hubby of allowing my mother to be the only one taking care of baby and not them. That in their tradition, mothers of wife have no say and influence in family affairs. This was a major issue and still is. While in my culture, nothing of such as we see nothing wrong here. They disrespect my mother till date because of this. I have caught one twice giving my mother bad eye.

2ndly, a distant relative came with high risk pregnancy with fibroid and I asked she comes to seek medical help and go back, when she came, it was war in my house that it is forbidden in their culture for a pregnant woman to come to another man's house which she's not pregnant for. She later left but loads of issues after this.

My in-laws come anytime even with their children .Every other week and weekend is in my house.
My husband will not take us out unless they are around.

Hubby's lil sis but older than me lived with me for 5 years and that's where the whole wahala persisted with her giving information. I began to see their collaboration through her and frustrated me to the very letter.

We had a fight and hubby asked her to leave. They all ganged up not to talk to me or hubby again which hubby is feeling alienated.
Hubby said his position is threatened in his family and I am the cause. I took care of his older sister who had complication in her surgery for 6 months in my house, non of them came to visit her in my house nor call me. Rather , She got well and told others that I didn't give her food that was why when one called her and she said she was in a restaurant to eat. Hubby and I had issue on this.

I am so fed up . I work and I contribute significantly in the family.
They see me as the one who eats their brother's money alone.
Hubby takes great financial care of them. I am just tired.

If what you wrote is true, then the fault is not yours but your hubby's upbringing, there is nothing to advise you on cos already you are doing fine in tolerating the obnoxious behavior of those fellas. I am not yet married but my dad is the only male child in the midst of 3 females so I know how it feels, somehow, my aunties wanted to try that shit but I am a very big problem for anyone I decide to be a case for, so somehow I defended my mum from them and they all stayed clear of my family cos I can be very terrible defending my mother even if you are related by blood. Find a way to train your kids to love you flawlessly cos as it stands, the only thing you have in that family are your kids.
To avoid all these stories in marriages I've always told my male folks to always make a stand when marrying that your wife is your second in command and your all in all ie of course if you know the kind of woman you'll be marrying and trust her very well, when friends and extended family members see loopholes in your marriage they'll come in to fill it up.
Good luck to you.

jakandeola:
I wrote exam and failed a lot why most of my mate almost graduate. today most cant look at my eye cos.life mate diffrent from schl mate.am better Dan dem.

Oga no dey give yourself consolatory hopes say you be dullard, some people still pass exams and you no fit look them for eye.
Just enjoy the small privilege life issued you and stop gloating.

sexymoma:
I'll always say this...
Guys will appreciate big boots first before dey notice you are intelligent.
buh if you are intelligent without hips, bweast with correct back.. before you see person admire you
e go tey.. Awon okunrin, won ya were gan, agaga awon teko!!

Am sapiosexual, not all guys are like that, there are exemptions.

Today na 19th ooo, still no news on list?

ursullalinda:
Hahaha u are not serious.....how are you doing?

Am great and you?

Donaldoni:
More like audio impeachment.

He hasn't and can't be removed.

Hmmmmm! Don't underestimate the power of human disappointment. they can decide to do away with him, remember Americans put their country first.

ursullalinda:
I'm sorry if I sounded harsh.....good evening

ọmarịcha nwanyị ọma, no offense taken, was seeking your attention.

ursullalinda:
It's choose not choice.....teacher

K

ursullalinda:
They had no choose.......this new Senate is do as I(Bubu) say

Choice

Nigeria which way?

Ashawo Kobo kobo

lakesman1989:
the soldier in d secomd picture was my instructor during my NYSC days...he showed our plantoon dah pix n said one bullet in dah launchwr can finish up half a city..buh doze are during Uaradua regime

How true can a grenade finish half a city?
Check am na?
Hope you no believe am?

Jewessgratitude:
Our men, which way? Hmmm... You men never fail to disappoint.

Shey na nother man en papa sleep with abi?
All these retired evening newspaper farm implement claiming feminism but hunger is tearing them to pieces.
Both his dad and the aunty are idiots including the person that want to exonerate the female folk in an affair they consensually as adults carried on.
As far as it's no rape, the same blame and punishment should be apportioned to both.
When you want to go and do .... In your boyfriend's house, who removed your bra and pant?

Pastor don relocate shop to market?
End shall never wonders.

O'boy this dog fine no be small ooo

Blood of Jesus

Me wey dey chop 10km run everyday but eba no go gree me lose even if na 0.2g of weight.
My stomach is always looking for where to protrude to.
I just don tire, make army call us for training abeg.

Abeg which kind of gun is that soldier in the second picture holding, what kind of bullets are those? Are they for killing humans or shredding them?

ZombieTERROR:
Actually ogun but it's still same
Lagos is highly populated and bad politics isn't helping...


Politicians from the east are all Bunch of sycophants and a disgrace...
Don't blame them though but the fools who keeps voting and applauding them

We have so many useless and stupid youths in the east here who will sell their destinies for five naira to the politicians.
Most times I curse why am amongst their generation.

Tolulopefinest:
You must be typing from the northern part of the country

Nope

Discovered this tvc news recently and to be honest, they are the best.

Good morning gentlemen,
After my sickness was concluded yesterday, I decided to go out today.
It was so hard cos I had terrible pains at my ankle and waist, after the first 2km I stopped and was about going back home and remembered what if it were bokoharam chasing me, what would I have done?
I ground through the pains and started jogging though I stopped at like 3 instances for the pains to subside.

AirmanB:
I know dat feeling I did similar stuff 10 years ago after my interview in NMS, I wore my white shorts at home n kept mallam.

I will also put u in prayers Sir. We need u dere

Thank you sir