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AnalQueenluci:
Hello my friend longest time

I am happy to hear from you. I just hope you are good. since it has been awhile I heard from you and there was no way to contact you.

you will make a bad teacher

what is confusing me here is how can a small girl have such kind of big breast

platodeen:
My name is Yusuff Abayomi.
M 34
Genotype: as
From: Oyo State
Location: Lagos
Profession: Accountant
Complexion: Dark
Height: 6fts
Religion: Muslim
Body Type: Athletic
Looking for: Relationship to marriage.
I am d jovial and fun-to- be-with type. Brilliant and hardworking, but an introvert.

M looking for a Yoruba muslim lady;
Genotype: aa
At least with HND
Never married
Fair in complexion (not compulsory).
Between 25 and 30
Prefered Zodiac: Aries, Libra, Gemini, or Leo

Location: Lagos
08132356057
Pls assist me

oga, go to mosque on Friday and Sunday. they are plenty there

PrimadonnaO:
Just look at the person somebody went to marry.

sincerely, Nigeria is now generating mad people on a daily basis. just imagine what a family man to that lady. that is sexual abuse

healthbing:
Indiscipline Lies Not born again Lazy and dirty Dull Irresponsibility Pride Lacks the fear of God Smokes Alcoholic

seriously, you will need sand to mould your kind of man

tutudesz:
So you in Support of the prisoners that freed

in as much as I don't support that, but we have to know that a lot of people cooling in Nigerian prison are innocent where as the real culprits like politicians are walking on the street with security escorts

tutudesz:
So the Kidnappers, cultists, rapist's and Killers are innocent

and those ladies and mothers that were arrested in orlu was also guilty. but boko haram can be reinstate into their society ba

tutudesz:
Are prisoners innocent when those prisoners start killing innocent people, hope you would be happy

how did u know they are not innocent. I know a lot of people in Nigerian prison for the offence they didn't commit

Monogamy:
Hmmmm.

Those gunmen should think twice before bringing war to their region

if the government were doing the right thing, I don't think there would have been need for these arrant nonsense

if buhari's daughter can lock a man for six months that he didn't commit because of simcard. then be expecting this man to be lock up for a year.
our leaders has forgotten that there is God who rules over the universe and beyond. karma will definitely speaks but by then their wouldn't be mercy for him

purples25:
This post is just my way of letting off steam. It is truly not easy to take care of teenagers. Those who have teenagers they care for can probably relate, and those who do not can have an inkling of what its like.

I am a senior sister and second mother to my 14 year old youngest brother, and 15 year old male cousin. They are such characters that they each deserve their own section. Here goes:

Troublesome Teenager Number 1, My 15 year old Cousin: I love my cousin, but he is a serious case. When he came to live with my family, I resolved not to touch him or discipline him extensively. People staying with others tend to bring up accusations of abuse, anything you do to them is attributed to the fact that they are not your immediate family. As a result, I and my brothers handle him like an egg.

The boy took ample advantage of this. From being sullen and disciplined, he became very wild. Many times he would take offence to the slightest correction. He also goes out when he likes, picks whatever he wants from the kitchen and watches movies on my laptop from dawn till dusk. Answers me back as he likes from time to time. My brothers are his role models but if I correct him, that's where the problem lies. I think he feels I cannot and should not tame him. The funniest thing he ever did was starting to act up after he was told that the only reason I was not touching him was so as not to create issues between his mom and us. He became bolder and even tried to deepen his already deepening voice.

Whenever his mom comes around, he turns me to his enemy. He starts to perpetuate the notion that he is a victim of abuse. The last time his mom was around, he started shouting at me at his whim and when I got angry one day and slapped him, his mother finally made him a celebrated hero. She almost took him home by midnight that day, because the image of an abused boy that she wanted so badly had finally been portrayed to her.


Troublesome Teen Number 2, my 14 year old brother: I love my little brother as well. I tried to raise him like people raise kids abroad. Talking to him gently when he misbehaves, explaining to him, punishing by taking things away or just small reprimands....

That shii didn't work. He became the most troublesome little boy I knew. Whenever his friends are around, he wants to show off to them by talking over me, ignoring my demands. I started to discipline him but before long, he knew how to run to the neighbors house, taking the cane from me, and running outside where the discipline would become a spectacle. Sometimes he even yells at me too. He has tried to beat a few adults who tried to beat him. But they gave him a good beating

Since when he was small, 'he wants what he wants.' If I don't give him something, sometimes he would go and take it. Sometimes I would catch him. Time and time again, even with warnings, things still disappear at will.

When any kid around him is being bad, he wants to do two times what that kid is doing, and be loved for it. He feels that is love. From the time that my cousin came around, and we told him that we cannot touch our cousin, else it would be termed as abusing a family member from another mother.....he has taken it as proof of love that however we pardon our cousin, we must pardon him. He copies what our cousin does, does worse, and always defends himself with the fact that we leave our cousin, we dont spare him.

Now we have come to the last part, my experience with these two kids combined...


The Terrible Two: The two of them constantly answer me back, laugh and joke and even encourage me to come and punish them. They feel no amount of beating from me can break them, maybe because I am a woman. However, they have full fear and respect for the males around them. If i try to talk to them they act as if someone or something insignificant is talking. Few times though, they try to calm the wild spirits inside them, and behave.

Things still disappear at home, and even if we are the only ones at home, they both co operate and deny everything. The co operate to disrespect me. They start joking and laughing right after I'm done with my long warnings or advice talks. They tell me to come and punish them, that they will enjoy the punishment. They have turned my laptop to their permanent TV, day, night and midnight, i cant use it. If i hide it, they find it, turn it on, play whatever on it as early as 5 am till 12 or 1 on weekends. They put games there, got a game pad and play till thy kingdom come, all without my consent. They don't answer me, they do what they like when they like.

They are only tame at school. These are not kids that are meek. These are tall versions of Aki and Pawpaw that are already as tall as me at the moment.


This morning, my mom called me and told me that handling these teens is all about patience.

If you have had difficulties with teens, you can talk about your experience, to make this more interesting and educative. If you were a troublesome or troubled teen, you can also share.

Ciao!

I was reading this and I was laughing seriously.
see, the deed has been done and I was reading some comments here that you should ignore them. deep inside you know it is not possible for you to ignore them. the true is, even if you try to ignore them, they will walk up to you, so there is no way you can distance yourself from them so far you are still living in that house. at that stage of them, they believe women are weakening who can not match them physical. they only respect those who can physical handle them. I keep telling people that says they shouldn't beat children is a total no no for me. we are trying to copy western way of life without know what has been on ground by those people. Africa is different terrain. the moment we stop scorning them is beginning of doom for Africa. have you imagine teenagers involve in fraudulent activities and prostitution.
the final says is that they only value you so far you are no longer staying with them

Riplogic:
They are having different side hustles, which means never depend on your salary.







But these photos will drain my 20mb free basics data, Alex one pic is enough naa!

and where is the work before depending on salary alone

Jessicaos:
The human rights activist had also advised Nigerians in the UK to occupy the Abuja House in London.

na wa for u, u register today and him con be today be ur birthday, abeg where the party dey happen live, make I con rock body. abeg no disturb yourself for buhari's matter. the man no dey hear words.

Mercisharelove:
I met a little depressed house girl who is without hope in her. She has so been used, that you would wonder if this little poorly treated angel will make it to the next joyful day, when I share with my wealthy ladies, most of them don't know how much love runs through me, yes, love is the greatest, but not sex, not lust, not fleshy parties and functions, purely original.


I will tell you more, get to go to attend to other things right now....

come back and tell us jor, wetin dey do u self

op, have you heard of the words, the rich also cry

Uyigue12:
Becareful make Dem no use ur certificate borrow load on ur behalf ooooo na little experience wey I get I share ooo

how na pls elucidate

omonnakoda:
We continue to hear North, North North.

But who are the most senior people in Buharis's goverment from
Tiv, Igala, Idoma, Ebira, Kuku, Nupe groups

Are they also Not Northerners?


Why are they not represented at the highest level in Buhari's government?

I think you need to know that those you mentioned are not northerner but middle belt. the day you realizes that is when you know that this one Nigeria is a big scam.
in as much as I am concern, the present administration has not done anything in kogi state, I don't know about other places

Change4dbeta:
It's CANE RAT in English,Ewi in Igbo,Okete in Yoruba,Bush rat in Pigeon english

I salute you sir

Kholar211:
my person, things be dey happen for life o, forget Afrimagic or not, tings dey happen. Na wetin I experienced.

Her glory fit linked to her husband start and, the moment she left her husband, things wey dey sweet before go just disappear into tiny air.

I no doubt your opinion o

abeg tell us your experience

finally, De Gea don dey chop bench for man utd. ope oooo

rottennaija:
Nice work. He should just have made it electric bike.

considering the level of sun in Nigeria, solar would have been better

delzypswag:
Same here man, I registered around the same time and I don't know if I'm gonna get it.

God no go shame us

en1gma12:
A reputable school that runs an Early years and Primary School program using both Nigerian/ British Curriculum, located in Lugbe, Abuja is looking for suitably qualified candidates to fill the positions below:

Job Title: Early years teacher
Location: Lugbe, Abuja

Qualification and Requirements
Minimum of 2 years teaching experience in a nursery school

Must have the the ability to work effectively and communicate clearly with children.

Must display teaching dynamism of the 21st century teacher

Job Title: Primary Teacher

Qualification and Requirements
Minimum of 2 years teaching experience in a primary setting.

Must have the the ability to work effectively and communicate clearly with children.

Expose the students to 21st Century digital learning

Must display teaching dynamism of the 21st century teacher

Must possess excellent interpersonal skills and be a great team player

Must have a minimum of B. Ed or a B.Sc./HND

Job Title: Class Assistant

Must possess excellent interpersonal skills and be a great team player

Minimum of 1 year experience in a nursery setting.

Must have a minimum of SSCE/NCE

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send a copy of their CV and cover letter to: hr4jps@gmail.com using 'job title' as subject of the mail.

what about the salary? how much is the pay

rottable:
Man U should lose, since Chelsea and arsenal have lost....... We are partners in crime right?

please hold your partnership for today maybe another day

the formation will determine whether man u will win this game or not

Solexgzy:
my brother you just expressed my mind. I pray for God to give us the opportunity to change the political system of kogi and the nation as well happy Easter

I wish you the same my brother

Layormiii:
does it matter? I'm Nigerian

just an harmless question

Alaganature:
After the roads what else? cos the witches and wizard in kogi doesn't allowed good things useless state

lol. tell us more please