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iLegendd:
Sorry for everything. I'm apologizing because I don't want to be stalked.

I retrieve everything I said earlier. I was 100% wrong and you were 100% right. Accept my sincere apology and move on.

Thank you for your understanding.

iLegendd:
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shiffynaani:
bro, i think you should try to package this 'how to sell book on amazon' what will need from a to z just like your wetclef books and sell to us. We shouldn't have to start the trial and error method since we already have you, an experienced fellow. I havn't bought any of your books cuz for me, money is my primary problem before it comes to women/sex. I hope u would think and do justice to it cuz guyz dey suffer for this country pls

iLegendd:
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iLegendd:
I didn't read, but happy Sunday. All the best.

iLegendd:
You are full of arrogance and that's why I decided to act the way I did. I visited your site only yesterday and it was only 1 page with a book in series.

I don't even think I spent up to the 65 seconds I mentioned. With a glance, I saw too many blunders, then clicked your Amazon link and was unimpressed.

The covers suck and the design is amateur. With that cover, you can't make up to 5 sales in 5 years. Only small KENP read. I have failed in this business for 3 years, so I'm speaking from experience. I have made all the mistakes you're currently making and even more. I was the worst in this business, but experience has opened my eyes.

You are trying too hard just the same way I was trying too hard back then. You did everything yourself — but it's below standard. Improve and don't argue.

Yes, I did everything myself about my books, site, proofreading, formatting, etc.

Unfortunately, not everyone is capable of doing everything themselves. You need to seek help from that that mentor you mentioned above. I know it's MK82. In 2016, I read his thread from page 1 to the last page and it was a great thread. Why not you message him and beg him to save your life? Or you don dey form like say you don sabi everything?

Before you'll succeed in this business, you must let go of ITK. Even when I meet someone I'm better than, I just stay calm and even learn from him. In your case, you feel you're a guru.

Continue. Please, don't rant again. Just read and ignore, Mr. Mentor.

iLegendd:
You already sounded like someone who knows 50 times more than I do. When I see such a person, I always keep quiet and learn from them.

It's good to be humble when the master is around, so I humbly kept quiet when I noticed you were around. All the best, Sir.

lostnegro:
Its well i wish them goodluck in that fruitless venture.

lostnegro:
What has he done to be disgraced like that and lastly what has that solved? ; ..

iLegendd:
My friends came to beg me not to do it. Yes, help me commit the suicide on my behalf.

Lordjb:
see my signature below for link

iLegendd:
Alright.

iLegendd:
Advice.

I spent 65 seconds inspecting your site, book cover, Amazon page, and punctuations. You are trying, but you truly need a mentor.

Give to oyibo what belongs to oyibo. You're not in this business to make money, but to push African stories on oyibo people. It won't work until you're famous.

Forget trying to make your name Eke King Eze popular and use a pen name. When you are made, you can now use your native name.

I found too many things you need to fix, but I can't fix them for you because I truly don't have the luxury of time. Look for a mentor who will put you on the right direction. I'm unavailable for now.

iLegendd:
Advice.

I spent 65 seconds inspecting your site, book cover, Amazon page, and punctuations. You are trying, but you truly need a mentor.

Give to oyibo what belongs to oyibo. You're not in this business to make money, but to push African stories on oyibo people. It won't work until you're famous.

Forget trying to make your name Eke King Eze popular and use a pen name. When you are made, you can now use your native name.

I found too many things you need to fix, but I can't fix them for you because I truly don't have the luxury of time. Look for a mentor who will put you on the right direction. I'm unavailable for now.

iLegendd:
Glad you noticed it. That's why mentorship is expensive and the best way to scale all the hurdles. Though, scaling the hurdles yourself gives you stories to tell when you finally arrive.

Fafesot:
Is this natural or not.
I love it when women and ladies are being maltreated or molested.
I love it when they are being treated as second class citizen...
even love it to prove them weak and break their hearts..
it gives me one kind of manly ego
am I the only one in this?
are all these normal?

husbandsnatcha:
Warning: Under 16 boys back-off


..............First of all From an aspect "H0RNY"! the most h0rny state in a man's life which can make him rape a madwoman ,Is just as normal and common as toothpick in a woman's life!
Yes men a serial noisemakers with no hope ,Thats for sure !
No matter how h0rny a man is ,it can never be compared in regards to the opposite female sex ,

Why are my writing this ? Just Yesterday in my compound a man died ontop a lady , Better still he died beneath a lady who rode him"Oga at the top Style or Humping" She RodeFvcked the urhoboman to Hell ogheneme!... Please 2 minutes silence for him abeg...


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Come to think of it He toasted this Agip Igbogirl For good Eight 8 months ,the girl accepted on the 9th month only for the guy to die on that same 9th month August 12 ,
....The girl confided in me Amidst Tears With her words translated from igbo to English"[b]I Warned Him o' He dosent eat much "I warned him" ...
Anyway Me and her superiors in Agip will make sure is a case of Manslaughter ...

But Sincerely i give it to igbo girls they are the strongest and less noisemakers unlike noisy and weak ibibio ladies

To Tell you the truth 'i have never seen a female die under a Male except for Gang rapists who raped without lubricants, But i have witness 4deaths from sex which is a lady killing a man from just 17november last year ,3 cases was blamed on village uncles

Now can a man boast of been fearless to women?


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Ilamina:
In this very stuck up forum
Is not easy having a nice person
I wish all your dreams come true

Amatarasha:
She is just clueless uncle !
Hia oh okwa! Middlebelt people wey Hiv/aids no let them breathe dis one they talk!

And Middlebelt are dsame with yorubas ,always polygamist in nature

Amatarasha:
dont mind me,
Where is eze2000 and anchor111 d killer of bamidelee

Ilamina:
Are you from middle belt?

viyon02:
Generally men like four basic things from woman: Good dishes, coitus, respect and intelligent

yazga:
send me a dm

SOPIGO:
Send me ur phone number so that I send u Recharge card 5H... I was really enjoying that ur story line b4 it was cut shot... I still dey d street dey hustle ooo...

koyyess:
I don't give a rats a$$ about your remark either.

SOPIGO:
Thanks Eze 2000.... I haven't stop admiring u... Though u didn't allow me to finish reading that ur story I love so much... (That one that deals with Bokoharam). Pls ooo, if i have being receiving such useless mail how do I stop it.

ruggedtimi:
Bostwana girls are endowed and ethiopian girls are beautiful like mermaid

Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.