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FineEyesMovies:
Start by confessing to your wife, see what she will say, don’t marry someone who is troublesome if she won’t change

Noted ✅️ thanks bro 🙏

imagrg:
She had a baby for you before you married your wife?

If so, legalise your union by marrying her for the sake of the children.

Na waoh!

Yes we have a 5 years old daughter.

sisisioge:
And that is how you now have 2 wives even as a broke guy. Your wahala is just starting. Please buy high blood pressure checking device so you can stay on top of your heart health. Also do a family HMO for the two families to reduce your medical bills. Finally, dont forget to write your will. Pele fa.

I have 1 wife only she is my everything. I am not going to marry her as a second wife she is troublesome her mother is my worst enemy and I am not ready to die from HBP. I am frustated because I don't know how to tell my wife about the mess I made.

Stevenbright:
You have a wife at home and went ahead to father a baby outside with another woman and now she is pregnant with a second child for you.

Please go ahead and do what she suggested that is formalizing marriage with her as a legal second wife.

Noted ✅️

Solofresh2:
What did you mean by you mistakenly impregnated her?
Did you mistakenly fvck her or what?
You are even a married man
You are a disgrace to manhood

She was my first love . I loved her so much but her and her mother don show me shege. I have vowed to never have anything to do with them anymore.

incandescentena:
Few months ago, you claim to be dragging breast with a new born but your wife refused. Now your side chick is pregnant with your child. Just wait to drag breast again with another new born.

Mtcheew. Stop looking for attention here. Go to tictok

I am not obavoh the attention seeker who create fake thread every second maybe you should direct him to tiktok. I didn't buy my data to seek for attention because it will not add any money to my account. I need advice from good willing people.

Fineman2:
So you had unprotected sex with your baby mama

Yes worst mistake ever

Abolodje:
That serves you right next time you will learn to stick your dick into only one pussy, your wife's.
If your baby mama aborts she will have complications which still get you into more trouble, so either way you’re fuckedd😂

should I pay for her brideprice to silence her right ?

Kobojunkie:
Go get a life and stop creating these useless threads for attention which you seem deprived of in your life abeg!

How much will I gain from creating fake threads. This is my true life story if you don't believe it fine your choice. I am waiting for good willing people who will advice me on what to do.

As titled above. I made the worst mistake in my life impregnating my baby mama for the second time. She and her mother had given me so much trouble in the past. I don't even know what came out of me to start sleeping with her again. Boom she is pregnant and has refused to abort.

She want me to pay her brideprice or else she will tell my wife. If only I had control my manhood I would have not found myself in this terrible situation.

What should I do now mature advice please?

Onyiiobi7735:
Oga, you sound so self centered and inconsiderate.You are here thinking of breast, but have you considered the new born baby and how he or she should be adequately breastfed exclusively for 6 months to grow healthy and strong.
Oga, please just say you are looking for a reason to cheat.Because when men like this with cheating genes want to cheat,they will find even the flimsiest excuse.
Allow your wife breastfeed your child for the period she suggests.Learn to put your family first.
Moreover exclusive breastfeeding for six months is medically recommended.

Sucking them 1 or 2 times a week during knacking will not harm the baby nor reduce the milk. No I am not looking for any reason too cheat , I love my wife she is the best woman in the entire world her breast and pussy are so sweet and is enough for me

Lance00009:
Na still your baby mama make no allow you see your pikin born for u ?
Or another woman

Another woman

Banilla:
Don't you have a mother with two functioning breasts?

Please don't involve my mum she has nothing to do with my lifestyle

themayor4542:
In my opinion, i actually think it’s a bit early to resume mating with your wife. But then…… I guess we’re different from one another.
The question is this. Do you have a fetish for lactating woman?
I’m asking cos the mere thought of seeing milk is enough turn off for most men

No I don't have any fetish for lactating women it has nothing to do with the milk. I just love sucking breast even before she took in I used to suck them non stop she know full well that I can't knack without sucking them and I don't see why she want me to wait for 4 months is too long

Cutehector:
Oh chim.. Of all things in this world na breast sück be this man problem..

I know I sounded childish but cannot lie to you knacking without sucking the breast make me feel like a failure

doughziay:
Is breast sucking the current problem you are facing?

Respect her decision man, it's just 6months!
Na baby breast milk you want dey drag?

I hate knacking without sucking the breast I feel like a failure

My wife gave birth 2 months ago. She had resumed her duty in the bedroom 3 weeks ago but she doesn't want me to suck her breast saying that I should wait after she stopped exclusively breastfeeding the baby she will be 6 months. I love to suck breast and I can't wait until the baby is 6 months she said I am overeating which I am not.

Tell me if she is exaggerating or am overeating? Would love to hear from married women and men in the house ?

pretydiva:
Na wa oo. 18k for a 2 years old gown. Op thank God you didn't settle down with that girl. She and her mom would have ruined you. Support your daughter no matter how little. Do the one you can do.

Thank you

adetoroamos:
Bruh! Free them for a while and face your hustle, when the girl grow up she will ask for her father. There is a time she will call your attention back and I think maybe when you daughter want big money for exam or higher institutions.

Thank you, I will try that out.

Kamdil:
I was in your shoe bro, just same story. I have a baby mama who was acting just exactly like yours. I abandoned her with my son and stopped sending her any money. She got pregnant for another guy and delivered a baby girl for him. Now she contacted me after about 5 years and asked me to start taking care of my son again that the load on her is too much. Today I pay his school fees, send him money for his monthly upkeep. The same amount I was sending then that she insults me on it, is same amount I am sending now and she thanks and prays for me like never before each month she gets the alert. You know why! She has tested another man and realised that it isn't as green as she thought it was on the other side.

Excommunicate her, and face your hustle, build yourself, and someday she will realise how foolish she has been all these while

Thanks bro , this is the sort of advice I was seeking.

I have a 2 years old daughter she is my everything love her more than anything in this world. Her mother and I are not together , she live with her mum and I take care of my child without fail, I don’t have much money bt I make sure that my baby has food and clothes.

The problem on ground is my baby mama and her mother are not satisfied with everything I do for my child , they keep saying I am not doing enough , for example my daughter was 2 in June her mother sent me a Instagram link she said I should buy the gown because her mum had booked for studio photo for my baby so the gown must be ready 3 days before her birthday , I checked the price 18000 I called her and asked her why is she mocking me for and where does she expect to get 18000 just for a gown , she said she don’t care I must buy it or else her mum will finish me with insults.

I went and bought a different ok grade A gown for 3500 I went to her house to give her the gown , she and her mother insulted me she said i should take the ugly dress back that her grand daughter will not put it on. I left with the dress and on my daughter birthday I had 5k that I wanted to give her but because she and her mother had insulted me I kept the money and I had planned to take my daughter out to a eatery the day after her birthday and buy her a toy.

On her birthday I checked my WhatsApp I saw that she posted my daughter picture wearing the same 18k gown , I saved the picture and use it as my profile picture then she messaged me: don’t you have shame you couldn’t afford your own daughter gown and you don’t know the person who bought it for her and you have the guts to post the picture , remove it now before I disgrace you on social media good for nothing father , I read and got angry that I wanted to insult her badly bt she is not worth wasting my energy for.

I removed the picture and ask her if I can pick my daughter the next day because I want to take her out , she said no she will be busy , I didn’t reply her back but after an hour I noticed that she blocked me on WhatsApp and unfriend me on Facebook , I have been texting her on Facebook if I can pick my daughter up she been ignoring my messages since June

I haven’t seen my daughter since June but in September she unblock me on WhatsApp and text me back that her mother want to see me it’s very urgent , I went to her house and her mother was telling me that soon my baby will go to school she need 74k to enrol her , I told her I don’t have the amount she is demanding plus the school that she want to enrol her to is too expensive and I have suggested a good school I can afford the school fee , her mother insulted me saying I am
Useless she don’t want to see me anymore that another guy will replace me and take care of my child needs, I insulted her back and left.

I want nothing to do with my child anymore I am tired of the insult , I know that when she is old enough she will come looking for me and I will explain to her how her mother and grandmother treated me like a shit with no respect , I hope she will understand and forgive. I am devastated that I will never see my child again but what do i do