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greatnaija01:
AGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT.
You are a doctor and that is great.

Thanks sir

If I graduate from medical school at the age of 28(med & surg), can I still go for service(NYSC)?

chatinent:
Can we chat away from here?

would be happy with that

chatinent:
I have a friend and she's a very nice girl.

OK boss,let's get along

urchcoded:
Your post is tribalistic and foolish as well as immature. Not a good characteristic of someone who claims he's ready for marriage

I was not tribe specific when constructing the post ,you dug that out yourself.
It could anybody.

urchcoded:
You are not a serious person. If you think this foolish thread will make front page you are dreaming.

Don't know the best way to put that but jettison the part that sounds insensible to you and attend to the main problem.. thanks

kennethfranc:
Op with due respect you sound childish

In what way baba

There was a time here when I made it known to everyone that I was searching for a wife. I specified the area in the country where I would love my wife from and also expressed my self as regards the traits I want in her...but nobody provided a satisfactory answer or solution to it.
Now, it's becoming more serious, I want an advice on what to do to get a good wife from now to December max.
NB: I don't want ladies with hairy faces and thick legs that pronounce 'R' as 'L' . I heard all they know is money.
In peace I come.



lalasticlala

There is high tendency this lady will cheat with her superiors

After resumption from this pandemic break,will those who are to write post utme wait until they finish session before they can resume and what about those who are waiting for the next jamb ,will they wait until those who are about to write post utme complete their session after they might have resumed?.
or how would they go about it

After resumption from this pandemic break,will those who are to write post utme wait until they finish session before they can resume and what about those who are waiting for the next jamb ,will they wait until those who are about to write post utme complete their session after they might have resumed?.
or how would they go about it

Hgfd

is it a must I bow to everyone before I can make it in life according to Christian teaching?

must I greet everyone to satisfy God? even those that are younger than me or my mates that wait for me to greet them first.

EVILFOREST:
My ADVICE:
Face your studies with all seriousness.
There are supposed to be JOBS for Medical Doctors.
The issue is that we don't value HEALTH in Nigeria.
... and since we don't value such the present day government believes in sustaining the rot in the Primary Healthcare sector which would have absorbed a lot of medical doctors.
Rather, We benefit more from WEEKEND BURIALS in Nigeria than having a Healthy Nation.
While you study, also nurse the ambition of leaving the country immediately you are done.

Residency does not guarantee satisfaction.
Satisfaction doesn't only have to come with financial utility but job utility as well.
The GENERAL WORK ENVIRONMENT of Nigeria is appalling and can only be comparable to anguish.
...... You get Metastatic Insults from colleagues.
...... Barely have materials to work it.
...... Environmental decadence.
...... Higher expectations with miniature pay.
...... Congenital Insecurity

Most Nigerian Doctors in diaspora work in Local/ Community hospitals.
This is so because they are advanced and have value for human life as well as their staff.
They employ more hands to get the best results.

We are still at the Larva stage of human development.

Thanks Sir.
a medical consultant Sir?

Lagusta:
HI.

I am a final year med student of UNILORIN. I opened this thread cos I noticed there isn't any that is specially for medical students, and I believe this is an opportunity for all docs in the making to meet, chat, share experiences, ask questions, and even make new friends!

Jambitos who wish to study medicine are also welcome...


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is there a suitable age to graduate for medicine and also,is the one year service a must?

EVILFOREST:
First of all, INTRODUCE yourself.
By doing that, Medical Doctors on NAIRALAND will know how to approach your concern.
... are you a Jambite.
... are you already a medical Student.
... are you already a Medical Doctor..

What informed your quest for this question..?

..... Waiting for your Response

medical Student

is it so hard,as claimed to be by most people that there are few job vacancies for graduating doctors in Nigeria...?

if it has been revealed to you that you're being delayed in destiny by spiritual powers relating to your background and it happens that there's someone that intentionally does that in his/her own wickedness.Do you have to behave humbly to the person?
Do you have to pray death for the person?
Fight it openly or say it in form of proverb?


what do you think should be done to address that?

My ladies in the house, how do you feel when men seem not to have any iota of trust for you.Even when you haven't been caught in any shameful act,you seem to be doubted in anything you do. Aren't you tired of what you're going through because of this. Now ,you misconstrue feminism to be gender equality, so you think you can actually do whatever a man does, at the end ..you find the detriment at your side.
Why can't you guys just stop this deceitful life and take your role as women,subdue the ego in you and bow to your men,then see how things will drastically change..although this doesn't apply to every situation.

Now,men are not considering marriage anymore ,and I believe you know the ratio of men to women in the world at large. Surrogacy has now become a most considered plan for men.Let's see who suffers it.
Child maintenance won't feed you all your life,what about your dreams..
You will stand to withstand any form of domestic violence until you change.
why bring yourself this excruciating pain?

My humble advice to ladies,accept the fact and see how life will be suitable for you.

EQUITY IS SALIENTLY DIFFERENT FROM EQUALITY.

Kenmatt:
Greetings to you all.


I just have to be precise here.

On a daily basis we read online and see it in reality how women do make their husbands feel Hell on Earth. Notwithstanding, the manner some men dish shabby act will get you baffled if these guys are married at all.

I have friends, relations, neighbours and many more people who really do not enjoy their marriages. Unfaithfulness, lies, fighting, divorce and lots more. The stories are not what I should put up here for security reasons.

With what I see these days, I am afraid of getting married. I truly want to enjoy marriage, I don't just want to endure marriage. As many people are just enduring being married just to stay married.

Please guys, what are your takes.

OP,do you want to know to truth?
most marital issues are caused by women,they feel entitled and place themselves on the same platter as men.They hide their real selves when what attracts them in you is still intact, once that is gone..they lose interest.
90% of women start behaving abnormally when they start earning more than their husband,they might even start cheating on you just because of that.
They will pressurize you to go down the hill together then expect you to carry them on your back while climbing.. without pre-informing you..that's them.
you can get married, but live your life for yourself

It's a colourful day here...
I want your opinion on something.
one of the signs that you're a being is that,sometimes,you find yourself aroused without the intervention of nothing or anything instigating.
As a chap or young lady,how do you get it relaxed?
Is masturbation an option..?
From the religion aspect of this,masturbation appears to a sin ,although not explicitly discussed in the Bible.
so what is the best way to get it off you?

Nonsoboy4life:
I made a previous thread here with picture evidence of how I found out my girlfriend of three years was cheating.

Refer to this: https://www.nairaland.com/5861021/how-discovered-girlfriend-been-cheating

So my plans of sending her away first and letting her know when she reaches her destination was foisted..She was going through her deleted messages and saw the screenshots I had deleted (I didn't know her phone had such function). So she became totally weak and came to me asking if I entered her WhatsApp, told her no but she somehow knew I was the only person she's staying with..when she came showing me I told her yes that I did screenshot it. That's how she started begging and crying ..So I had to obtain more information about the said guy(was just catching fun anyway).The said guy happened to be one of these NYSC Christain family papa she met during NYSC in one of the south west state. I recalled when she told me the story of how this same guy left the family house to go straff horrny NYSC corpers (I just laughed off and told her she has finally collected hers).She confessed that they've been having sex since January in her house, same house I brought 4/5th of the rent.

Now she asked me if I had forgiven her or still wanted her to go this week.Definitely I had to tell her that I have forgiven her(which is definitely a hoax anyway).I also told her she is free to stay till lockdown is over that I have forgiven. I had to use my phone to call the guy and she told him the real truth where she was because she had already lied to him that she went to see her brother and the guy asked her never to call again .. that's to say I have stripped her off of that one, and I did it deliberately so that once I block her she will really be hit hard.

Meanwhile my plan is this : I will allow her stay for this lockdown to finish and to cure my konji too , I have been straffing her non-stop now and immediately the lockdown is over as soon as she's going I'm blocking her off already..I'm already looking for another gal as we speak and in talk with one already.
I actually wanted to punish her more and make sure she goes back to the village which I have the capacity to do by sending the screenshots to her brothers who weren't comfortable of her staying alone for fear of messing around in the first place.

I will keep her as sex slave till lockdown is over , afterall everything is fair in war and in love
Thanks for reading

I dey feel you my bro..intellectual criminal

Ariza:
Try this with me and watch me dismiss your sorry ass. I hate dramas! You wrong me, you apologize. I wrong you, I apologize, that's what adults do.

what if you cheat ?

It's no more news that ladies of this age hide under the excuse of men being egoistic to execute their cheating motives and cover their wayward pasts.
They will tell you that pride a great sign of low self esteem so that you will overlook their spoilt past and marry them with that borehole pussy.
Never fall for it;tell them that is what you want and go your way,bcus you'll regret it if you sheepishly follow them.
There are still plethora of good women in the country who still accept and maintain normal marital protocols.
What you know you can't take or manage in the future, don't go with it.

Toks2008:
Egungun be careful, nah express you dey go o.

Lol...be serious na

Should I call this a retard mentality, what brings religion into this...so if you found yourself in a toxic and lugubrious relationship, the best thing you would do is to endure the pain till it completely eat you up..wake up bro,the world has gone beyond that.


Are u a xtian or a Muslim or even an idol worshipper....
What kind of ideology is that[/quote]

xendra:
... because right from the past women had no rights so anything a man wants he gets, ("because he was the sole bread winner" ) even if its ten wives. nowadays we've heard a few foreign news where women marry more than one husband, both whites and black.

nobody likes being used, people will only tolerate if they have to.

There is no such thing as nature when it comes to cheating.
if you want talk nature, women can do more men in a day, than the numbers of women a man can sleep with in a day. and women could earn money from all those men, while the man will lose money the more women he wants to bed So by nature, women should cheat more?

can we chat privately.. maybe WhatsApp

xendra:
lmao! and you don't see how the same applies to the woman? that's why most cheating men claim surprised when their wife pours them hot water, nobody ever stays dsame once their partner cheats on them.....from then on the relationship continues on calculative reasons.


Men DON'T CHEAT!
as long as you don't want a woman to cheat on you.

but Xendra..do you think men would stop cheating if their wives threaten to cheat?
Hell NO...better you accept the fact that men are the head,
have you ever seen a woman with two husbands in this our own part of Africa.Even whites reject their cheating wives.
Not weakness ,this is a case of nature .

Ariza:
Stop begging us with nonsense!

A woman doesn't have to condone a cheating man! Either by paying him back in his coin or walking away, a woman does not have to overlook infidelity because she wants a supposed "blissful " relationship/marriage. I wonder why you guys' definition of blissful is suffering in silence, enduring pains, condoning cheats.

Some men forgive cheating partners, men who see women as human beings, Men who look beyond sex , who see a woman beyond her glory hole, who are not entitled and who have accepted the fact that like them woman arent infallible. Some men forgive cheating wives, don't send panic just to cover up your weaknesses. If a woman decide to get down with another guy, yes it may be morally wrong and a complete waste of time if you ask me yet she has the right to.
Stop the guilt-tripping!

I know you can't try all these things you're insinuating with your husband.
when I said it would be at your detriment, I know what I was saying.

And don't get me wrong,no gender is licensed to cheat,but revenging with cheating after your husband cheats is a complete disgrace to womanhood and to your children,...
imagine this..."I don Bleep your mama before".
If someone tells your children this ,do you think they would be happy.

U fail to understand the salient difference between equality and equity

Thirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment. Thirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment.

HeyHey:
So flowing from that trend, most people are looking hoping to marry virgins. Please what is your rationale especially if you gangan no be virgin?.
Secondly are you will to pay the price of marrying a virgin, the initially fear and novice sexuality?. You yourself are you ready to calm down and teach an adult who knows little or nothing about intercourse or you want to her to test your waters on both feets.

Thirdly, virgins are human beings too just morw sensitive, if you cheat on her. Hope you wear your big boy pants for the consequences not that after launching tear rubber you would start jumping from one place to another looking for tight mullatos after she don push kids for you.

Lastly, hope you wont complain when her people ask you to pay or bring sth for the virginity, since it is done traditionally.

let me tell you,I will abide with anything that comes after it but cheating on me ..
aside that, I will try to cope with anything that may erupt after everything.
A woman who could keep her virginity till marriage is a rare gem,the temptation is almost irresistible but she comes over all.
I will reward her for it and I will never cheat on her.
which man wants to marry borehole

To women,does attention indirectly imply sex?,
because one of the excuses women give for cheating is lack of attention?...first one.
the second:to me,I believe Who will cheat will cheat.
they just look for excuses to execute their cheating motives.

I need una answer