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Are you going for J1? Sannisege: |
LagosismyHome, this is the message from the guy: Thanks sir. Don't worry about it anymore I have decided to wait for my graduate Thanks for your help so far Let me say you're kind to have shown desire to help him. I hope he'll achieve his dreams. |
Elaborate shogunley: |
Chances that you will be refused altogether is high! But in the end, you make ultimate decision here. Last year, a banker told me he's going for his masters. He has been sent to the US 3 times for job-related training. I told him it is better for him to go alone as the embassy may see him as migrating, and that if the presence of his family is important during his MS, he can invite them for a visit. The wife refused, and insist they must go together as they don't want to be away from the man. I said fine. They paid for visa fee for 5 applicants. They were refused altogether despite that the husband has been to the US 3 times and even have an active B1/B2. All the money spent went down the drain! The reason is because the VO likely believed the man had prepared a place to settle the family during those times he visit the US for training, and may not actually be going for the MS but migrating. It is very simple. Imagine it yourself. You are the wife, the primary applicant. But you want to take your child and husband with you. So, are going to tell the VO your husband will leave his work in Nigeria so he can accompany you while you do your MS? It doesn't make sense! If you want this visa, I recommend that you get the F1 yourself, and upon getting in, possibly after a semester or close to the first holiday, invite them to visit you. But you still have to decide what is best for you anyway. I am just advising. Wish you the best! Gloriouscrown: |
Yes! shogunley: |
You do not need to come to Nigeria to renew an F1. In fact, you can continue your studies when the visa expires and not worry about renewal. I am more concerned about B1/B2. F1 visa is kinda classic! ![]() oluezekiel: |
Drop your profile. tboy47: |
Meanwhile, I have just been told the dropbox interview waiver for B1/B2 visa has just been suspended today. Let's see if they will bring it back. ubigurl: |
He got an active visa. That is enough for him to use to visit you anytime he wants. He doesn't need F2! He should do dropbox each time he need a renewal. ubigurl: |
Read the instruction. Or copy what is on the page and paste here for me to see. Nobody is so free that they will go on the site for you to read what is there. Read the instruction very well, or contact the person in charge of admission at this school. Mikel2150: |
One of my students has been accepted there for fall 2019, but yet to proceed to the visa application level. She works with Palton Morgan Holdings. Will quote you when she gets her visa. Wish you the best! BeatriceAdeleke: |
It must be MS or PhD! steve4ever: |
I like your faith! But I recommend getting scholarship before you go back, or you may be refused again (this is my opinion). You have been out of secondary school for almost 6 years. You are 25, just going for your undergraduate. That is what I used Hmmm for. Think about it and do what you know is best for you. Adekunmi28: |
It is possible the VO was angry or placed there to deal blue or yellow papers to visa applicants. Yes, they sometimes do this for God known reasons. However, as a lay person, I am looking at these: tuition is a bit high; no scholarship; your age. You can reapply. All things are possible! Adekunmi28: |
Hmmm. Adekunmi28: |
Wht is the total cost of the program? Any scholarship? Level of program? How old are you? Adekunmi28: |
Visifisimisi, this is the essay topic! Write a 1000-words essay outlining why you want to study your first degree in the US, and how this education will equip you to achieve your career goals. NOTE: The essay should discuss your career goals, the program you want to study, why that program, and how you have been preparing yourself for higher education in the US. This is to say you may want to say some things about your background. You are a student, so, figure it out! Submit the essay by 7pm 14th of May, 2019. Also, this essay will help us assess your credibility and enable us to see if you can take on SAT and perform excellent well enough to secure full scholarship. Should you copy anything from the internet, I will know (I repeat, I will know!) and this will jeopardize your chance. This is why I craft a topic that is personal to you and not subject-based. That you write the essay does not mean you will automatically earn whatever I or others can assist you with. In fact, you are required to post the essay on the thread so that those who may want to assist you can assess it. Good luck. LagosismyHome; Fairheart |
Old email address, but I got your message anyway. Check for my response. Gent009: |
How did you get my email? ![]() Gent009: |
Oh! Can you have her talk with me ? I would like to see the pages of the statement if you don't mind. And like I suggested last month, I hope there was no large deposit of funds in the acct towards this visa? This could also be taken as misrepresentation. Honestly, nobody can say exactly what those in charge of the SOA verification saw or used as basis for the ban. But a normal review could tell. Gent009: |
In this case, tell him to reapply and see. Time2Win just shared someone's experience similar to this same case you presented here. He should reapply. Maybe miracle can happen for him too. Gent009: |
You wrote about this same case in April or so. Is this still the same student or another person? Or this happened to you? I am just wondering. Let us understand what happened, and we may be able to recommend next step to take. Gent009: |
heheheh. The bolded part na serious case o. Yes, miracle can happen. I wish to understand the student's case. I hope he'll come out clean. Time2win: |
Did the person get a waiver? Time2win: |
Ah! What happened? Gent009: |
Good to know! I wish you the best. sammybtc: |
No. Don't make another payment yet. I will like to see your profile. Nativeborn: |
Hello LagosismyHome, I did not actually forget him. I just wanted to be sure this is going to work. I am still not convinced. However, we can support him. Kindly let me know what you mean by "permission to transfer." If you are planning to send him part of the money, please wait until we have him write the essay. That should be taken care of this week. LagosismyHome: |
SUCCESSFUL VISA INTERVIEW NUGGET TWO If you complain that this is too long for you to read, I'm afraid to say you're not a student ![]() HERE WE GO! First, I want you to understand I am sharing whatever you read here from personal experience as Study-abroad Consultant and as someone who has many students in my circle. Just take what you know is helpful and leave the rest. I'm going to use many words to explain few things. That is the trick of world's education system! ![]() NOTE that the US embassy wants you to come for interview because they want to see and hear you first before they know you’re eligible for the category of visa you’re seeking. If not, there would be no need for interview. So, in this sense, you are required to prepare to be well seen and heard well. Your next homework in preparing yourself for a successful F1 visa interview is to be psychologically calm—so that you can be seen (as genuine) and heard by the VO. Effectiveness begins in the mind, not from the documents, or the people you know. You must tackle fear, anxiety, and self-doubt rooted in lack of confidence in your own abilities. If you have never had any major interview or breakthrough a very difficult professional goal in your life, you could be a victim of fear and tension. I remember how I used to avoid eyes contact when I needed to talk to people. But now, a man that's not afraid will look you in the eyes, smiling and able to express exactly what he wants to say. So, the goal is to stand in front of the VO and remain psychologically calm as possible. To achieve this state of mind, especially if you are afraid of your upcoming interview, you may need the following: ONE: YOU NEED AN INTERVIEW TRANSCRIPT. Get that ready as soon as you can. List all the generic questions you know the VO usually ask during F1 interview. Take each question at a time. What do you think would be ideal to say to a question like, "How did you hear about this school?" Write the response down. It should be moderate, simple and unique according to your academic and career goals. No story! If you find it hard coming up with a fine response, seek for help. TWO: HAVE YOUR TRANSCRIPT IN YOUR HIPPOCAMPUS I saw a transcript here last week in which the applicant quoted the VO as saying he did not need to have a prepared transcript for the interview (and visa was granted). How ignorant of the VO! The fact that he/she is a VO does not mean they have absolute understanding of how interview is conducted. Ask the VO if he/she did not prepare for the interview that got him/her the consular job? One of the things that portray a student as “not genuine” in front of a VO is inability to talk well during the interview. Believe me, this is one of the strongest reasons most F1 visas have been refused. The fundamental reason for interview is to check on the student whether he’s genuine or just taking advantage of the F1 visa category to migrate and “Japa” as some persons here would say. So, how did you pass the exams that got you the first class, or second class upper or lower on your certificate? Because you studied your textbook, of course! Because you studied it and became familiar with the information, you kill the questions related to what you have studied on examination day. Even Presidents of nations prepare transcript for interviews, because they know they could mess up if such is lacking. There is no man that can speak and express himself effectively (especially when tense or under pressure) except the information has been well-stored and familiar with. There are not so many students who have trained their mind to be creative with words and expression when under pressure. Most of us shut down temporary and unable to say what we really desire to say or should say when under pressure and afraid. So, for a student going for a major interview in a decade, except you really know what to say, you may not be able to say it. You should know what to say. You should know what you want to say based on your unique case ahead of the interview and that is why you need prepared yourself a transcript for the interview. Know it! Review it! Ask yourself questions and answer them about it. If I tell you that you will not be afraid upon citing the consular at the embassy, I may be wrong. Fear and doubt are a part of our existence as human being, and it is okay. Your duty as a student going to get the F1 visa is to rise above them and say what you should say to earn an approval. I remember a time in 2016. As an advocate for youth education and our role in shaping future society, I was invited to speak at a church with over 100 members. Due to work, I did not get to outline what I will be speaking on, though the pastor sent me a topic my sermon or talk should revolve. I wanted to go on stage without a prepared speech, but when I look at the fact that I need to quote certain bible verses, I changed my mind and prepared heading and sub-heading for the speech. I then read, revise, and read what I will be saying. When I got on stage, with all eyes on me, I greeted the audience and delivered a very motivating speech. Because I had prepared what to say—knowing that the audience is aware of the topic—everything went well. The same is necessary for the F1 visa interview. Though things may go wrong due to certain things outside our direct control, yet, preparation against possible fear, anxiety and doubt attack attracts success. Research shows that the hippocampus (a part of the limbic system in the brain where information and memories are retrieved) lags when your mind is under pressure and fear. Now, imagine if you've nothing stored up related to this interview and your fear of “what if I am refused” captured you? This is to say you may not be able to express yourself well; confusion! The consular may think you’re not a genuine student. Though, there is exception for students who stammer. So, read the transcript from time to time. Get familiar with it. Does that mean cramming? You call it cramming; I call it PREPARATION FOR A MAJOR INTERVIEW—one that is a defining moment for the rest of your career and even life. IN addition to this, have mock over and over with someone who can assess you. This is as crucial as having the transcript. THREE: BELIEVE IN YOURSELF I have seen professionals at the top of their career who have strong self-doubt in themselves. Once you tell them to go achieve something new, they come up with all sort of excuses that, if you trace the root of these excuses, you will find them in lack of confidence. Young, old, educated and uneducated all have issue of personal faith—depends on the level of success we are trying to achieve. You need to tell yourself that if others have done it and get their visas, you can do it, and do it better. A prospective student going for his interview soon told me that this evening. That's confidence! I broke the chain of my own self-doubt several years ago, when I started reflecting on how strong I have been in the face of difficult situations. You, too, have seen a lot. You need to remind yourself that if you could go through what you've been through, be it your undergraduate education, professional training, personal growth--or whatever, you can also handle this coming interview. Revisit the list of your progresses, academic and professional experiences and endeavours. You have had your own success here and there, although you remember your failures more. So, don't listen to any shallow voice saying you can't have a nice interview and get the visa. Even Bill gate, Warren Buffet or Jeff of Amazon have times they take care of their self-doubt too. Take care of yours too, so you can do things confidently pursue and achieve your heart desires. You need a lot of “I can do it”; a lot of "I am going to smile in there and talk to the VO”; a lot of "this is what I want for my career, and I'm going to get it." Tell yourself all these positive stuffs to heat up the root of your self-doubt and observe them dry. FOUR: DRESS WELL & NEAT I do not have much to say here as "well and neat" have different meaning to each person. But I will recommend you wear something you are comfortable in. Look your best. But mind you, simplicity is the best! Don't dress to the interview like Olosho FIVE: HOPE FOR THE BEST; BALANCE YOUR EXPECTATIONS As a young person, life has taught me that it is erroneous to think everything will always go the way I want. Sometimes, we are victim of circumstances we know nothing of, and that we cannot control—even after we have done our ultimate best! Do not see the F1 visa as do or die, except you want to experience high blood pressure. If you have done your best, allow things to happen. Exhale all the worries that “what if I am refused” may have induced. What if you’re refused? So? You reapply! What is you’re refused again? You reapply! You don't give up just like that! But have you also thought of “what if I am one of those good number of students Fairheart saw in his dream that got their visas in 2019? Of course! Think about that too! This is what I call balanced expectation. Sometimes, life is 50/50! But this does not mean you should follow the erred opinion that what will be will be. No, most times, things be because we make them be. You still need to do your best. Just make sure you balance your expectation. Funny enough, balanced expectation on results we expect from our endeavours induce calm state of mind and boost confidence. Try it and see how all your worries and anxiety will be lifted. This is a magic pill I have used to liberate myself from unnecessary worries and anxiety when pursuing something I badly desire. A balanced expectation is vital as we go through life and its modus operandi. King Solomon once said there is “factor of time and chances” at the centre of events that occur to every human being in life. Some things will go wrong even when we do the right thing. Some things will go right, even when we make mistakes and mess up. Why? Time and chances! These are forces of fate. You could be refused in May and get the visa in June or July. I always quote a close friend who was refused 8 times and got it the 9th time. I still ask why and what he did wrong during those 8 appearances at the embassy. Just imagine it too! SIX: LAY YOUR CAUSE BEFORE GOD This is my last advice for all of you going for F1 this fall. Whether you believe in God or not, there is God. There is God o! And one of His attributes is that, He listens to genuine prayers of those who have faith in Him. I am not trying to motivate you. This is the reality. God hears prayer! So, if you are worried, pray. If you are unsure, pray. If you think you may experience hard luck, pray. If you have stubborn confidence that you will get a visa approval, pray. A friend told me that each time he fast and pray on a particular thing he wants, door always open. He then said if fasting is not part of the prayer for the request, he hardly see the result. We both laughed. I almost took him for a prayer warrior. But then, I remember Jesus saying in Matthew 17:21 that without fasting and prayer, certain miracle will not happen. Hey, maybe you should pray and fast too about this favour. Because you may need God's favour or good luck (the secular term for favour) to supplement your preparation. This could be the last thing to do to open the door. Alright dreamers! I will try and re-post this for Spring 2020 students. Don’t forget, the approval rate will be higher than refusal this year. Keep counting the visas. God bless! |
I waited for your reply to my message. When is your interview? Johnolukolade: |
Okay. It is under F1 visa category. Brown2Green: |
What is the certificate program under? Brown2Green: |
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House plz help to reason am ooo......thx, God bless nairaland,God bless this room.....!!