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Truvel:
U Don't Seem To Understand. I Want To Ask U. Would U Allow Ur Blood Sister To Do Dsame?

Why not, as long as she can provide for herself there's nothing wrong with it. Nigerian girls less than 20 are living alone in Europe so why can't they do the same here.

I see covid 19 being defeated. But our leaders have refused to let it die in peace so that they can continue to cash out. I see another lockdown looming. I see schools, churches and markets being shut down. This I have seen.

MLTR:
Your niece lives with her parent buh she does not like noise, ... is it not better for us to think she is a LovePeddler than for us to know your niece parent are noisemakers.

i believe a 22yr old gurl is stil very much inexperience about life and probably lacks adequate maturity to handle independence, life outside school life is a whole new ball game hence why she should still be under her parent there are things she needs to learn. if no because of man why the rush abeggi

My cousin in Canada rented her own apartment at the age of 17, this one is 22 and you're saying she's inexperienced. Oga this is 2021. Any girl that has successfully graduated from the University is fit to stay on her own.

Truvel:
It's Not Good & It's Not Right. Had It Been She Is A Male, Dat Would Av Been Different Case.

This 2021 not 1970, it's right as long as she can take care of herself.

I see them reaching this target because of hunger. I see hundreds and thousands of people struggling to register as party members for a chance to eat concoction jollof rice without meat which will be shared to them. This I have seen.

I see horney boys compromising and spending their life savings on girls that day just to dive into their holes.

I don't see anything in this news that can benefit the common man therefore it is irrelevant. This I known

100trillion:
I no cum
She no cum
Belle cum
How cum?

The dark forces are after you.

I see Amotekun being disbanded before the end of this year.

I see APC having serious problems towards 2023, I see the elite in APC forming a new party as the crisis deepens, I see that new party giving PDP a run for their money. This I have seen.

I see the north getting tired of Buhari, but can't campaign for his removal because he's their son. I see them suffering terribly, I see them plotting to install a northerner in 2023, I see them succeeding, I see the south terribly angry with that development. This I have seen.

Nazgul:
Her request to stay alone isn't bad. She's 22, and if she has a good job, she'll enjoy geninue peace of mind cos living alone is very good. You won't have to endure an irritating roommate, always getting on your nerves every now and then, nagging parents who will constantly remind you about the success story of all your mates, and your younger cousins who have all gotten married. Also, you can effectively budget your finances, economize your food and provisions, and manage your bills effectively.

As a girl there are few guidelines I'll give you to stay alone effectively most especially if you're not a runs girl.

1. Limit your friends. They say the average Nigerian loves free things. That's very true. If you stay alone, you must be very careful with who you let into your home. I remember how I parked out of the first house I rented with my money after my youth service. It was a one bedroom apartment, I had this friend who was always visiting. With time he uprgaded himself to my roommate without even my consent.

I didn't have any problem with that. The problem I had with him was that he doesn't contribute a penny to the house. From recharging the prepaid meter to recharging the cable TV, to buying food and provisions...even pure water this my so called friend couldn't get. The worse of it all was that he's a womanizer. Imagine coming back home from work tired only to see meet your bedroom locked by your roomie cos he's busy with a girl. I'll end up dozing off on the couch in the palour while waiting for them cos I can't access the bathroom without entering the bedroom which is locked by him.

We quarrelled over this severally. This guy will apologize, beg me and after some days or weeks repeat the same thing again. With time when the rent remained like 2 months to be due, I parked out and left him there. I've learned to limit the kind of people I allow into my home ever since.

2. Be security conscious. Don't be careless with your security. As a girl, you can easily be overpowered, drugged, raped, robbed... etc. So avoid unnecessary closeness with your neighbours most especially if they're guys whose source of income you have no idea of. Whenever you're at home, keep your doors locked at all times. Avoid inviting people you meet on social media into your home. Avoid accepting lift from strangers to your home. All these things will put your safety at risk.

3. Don't disclose your status. As a girl, telling guys that you stay alone isn't wise. When guys start asking don't keep them in silence or else they'll start guessing and might guess right. Just tell them that you don't stay alone. Cos if you don't they won't mind trailing you secretly just to know where you stay. Believe me some guys can be that jobless. And after one visit to your house, you'll need the police to keep them out. Cos some will go as far as threatening to harm you if you refuse to let them in.

If you're in a serious relationship your guy should be the only one who should know your house along with some of your female friends who are on the same financial status with you, and your family members. Every other person can meet you at your place of work, your church or in a public place.

My advice...tell her to do whatever is in her mind, she's an adult now and must be allowed to make her own choices.

As for her parents, let her explain to them and make them reason with her that she won't remain under their roof forever, so the sooner she begins to plan a life outside their roof, the better for her

Also I hope she's working, when I say working I mean 9am -5pm jobs with a reasonable pay check. Cos if a girl is staying alone without a reasonable source of income, she might be tempted to go into prostitution in order to survive. Tell her this.

All these episodes for simple question you could have just answer yes or no.

It's an abomination for a single girl to stay alone here in Africa. This is not Europe or America. Tell her to remain in her parents house till her husband comes

The dark forces are trying to destroy you. You must be very careful with women or else you might embark on the journey of no return.

MediMedi:
So, last night I Had this longest dream having s*x with a lady I knew, along the line she changed to another person in My dream.

I woke up and finds out my dick is standing strong, since then i've not been my better self I used to be.

Pls hellllppp, pray for me!

The dark forces have finally caught up with you. Go to my profile and send me a message. You'll need to do spiritual cleansing.

I see Samsung brands overtaking iPhones in cost, design and effectiveness.

I see that he's death wasn't natural. Someone used the dark forces to kill him in order to acquire his position. But they shall all pay dearly.

As a prophet I will say the dark forces are after her. Send her parking or else your destiny will become useless.

I see Amotekun getting the SARS treatment, I see Southwesterners troop our in their thousands to protest against them. I see them being banned permanently. This I have seen.

The dark forces are after your head. They have succeeded in getting a part of it, don't let them get all of it.

paulolee:
no refreshment because u are. saving cash for what?? I think say na only girls una deu stingy for?? the stingyness reach una own bodi join??

My brother na so we see am o

iLegendd:
You're 99% correct, but the missing 1% is the reason I created the thread.

It's unfortunate that 1% is for my selfish interest. Everyone in this life has at least 1% selfish interest. True or false?

True. It's well, don't just take it personal sha

I see that most of these so called armed robbers and kidnappers are political thugs. I see that they work for the government and are well connected that's why they can't be arrested. I can see that the curfew wouldn't bring any changes to the security situation because the government are the criminals.

I see a Southwest candidate getting the presidential ticket for APC and a Northerner getting that of PDP. This I have seen.