₦airaland Forum

IamAirforce1:
And who told you I ain't responsible?

So because I want to call-up a girl to come play with me now makes me irresponsible

haff 4gotten u re not a gentleman, all dem babes dating small small bois.

michlins:
Rearrange them. Getting Buhari out is a task that tops all tasks. Get your pvc

I hv my PVC, just waiting for d said date

IamAirforce1:
I respect my woman that's why I'm doing it away

must u straff?, were is ur dignity, dey swear 4 u, u impregnated ur gal frwnd out of wedlock nd now dis.....mind u, she's a Nlander, so b responsible man nd stop been child's

IamAirforce1:
For real

Body no be firewood you know ...

Better to do it with olosho than getting a sidechic who might cause trouble in future..

OLOSHO looking for OLOSHO.

IamAirforce1:
Baba why be mad na?

Is it your life

we know is not our life, but pls try nd b matured cus u will soon b a father. I pity dat ur amature gal frwnd

ImaIma1:
Most women in this dispensation work. I don't know where you got the "gotv" woman from.

Infact, some men take advantage of working ladies and sit on their butts watching supersport

no wonder women re taking over, to b sincere, I don't see reasons y a guy should complain, if she could take d risk bcus of luv 2 visit u, y don't u reciprocate by making her journey comfortable.

IamProdigy:

Let me enlighten you!

When a lady is hardworking, having a mindset that "I must hustle my way out" , not depending on a man...like a 12 year old high school student... not having a entitlement ideology, that a man owes you the following:

Transport fare:
phones
Airtime/data
bills on outings etc...

My dear, every right thinking guy will seize every opportunity to spend for such a lady, when he has!

A RELATIONSHIP IS FOR TWO PEOPLE..
both should spend for each other..
look out for each other...
pay bills for each other..
pray for each other..etc

LADIES SHOULD STOP HAVING THIS ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY..
you were not there wen the nights were bleak...
wen hope was sketchy..
wen the sweat was thick..
wen the hustle never paid

Allow this person bless you with FREEWILL....its not compulsory

but d guy in question did not state if she's a working class, no sensible working Class lady would ask 4 tfare from her boy frwnd, wen she knows she can afford it, but from his mssg, u will know she's not working. I know luv is all about caring nd sharing, but wen 1 party isn't buoyant, it is d duty of d oda 2 help out.

martyns303:
I have met a number of girls who say they don't like fair guys, however the opposite is the case in reality cos my light skin friend gets all the girls.

my dear, is all about choice.

Ebuka2016:
but why on earth would a guy pay a girl just so the girl can visit him? And its not like they are living very far from each other

nd why will a guy invite a gal wen u know u can't Gv her tfare, must u invite sumone. Stay ur Lane if u can't gv.

PDPGuy:
Haha
It’s not necessarily about being broke or rich. It is more about disabusing the minds of some of our young ladies who develop an entitlement mentality when a guy becomes friends with them.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against a guy giving his girlfriend gifts, especially on her birthday. That’s actually cute of him; but the expectation that he has to give you money every time you visit him is absurd.

Let him do d needful nd stop complaining, more ova chikili money will not run him dry. Abi n me go enjoy d enjoy.

Happy birthday dear.....wishn u long lyf, prosperity nd more lyf 2 ur signature. Hv fun

lyrical:
i did exactly what you said and she told me nothing was going on.... apologised for the slap. Now, we are in good terms though i have not known my position yet. but she has stopped the visiting the guy sha... We just dey look. she still thinking about it i guess.

just Gv her sum tym, lyk 2-3days wit ur normal day 2day check up nd leta u cn invite her 2 ask her if u guys re cool 2 b lovers again.

austyn0:
I know,, I want to discuss the complexion choice with you.

well I don't wanna discuss anytin wit anybody, just know dat my reasons re best known 2 me

IamProdigy:
I would hv told you something... but let me just allow this misguided statement of urs!

as a gentle man, u don't need to ask b4 treating ur galfrwnd well, once d money is dey, u treat her well nd wen is not dey u make her understand dat u don't hv, no body is born rich, we all came naked. Abi if u want do, u dey tell us.

IamProdigy:
I would hv told you something... but let me just allow this misguided statement of urs!

as a gentle man, u don't need to ask b4 treating ur galfrwnd well. Abi if u want do, u dey tell us.

austyn0:
There is something you are not telling.... Why is complexion all that important in your choice??

I made mention of 3 different tins not only d complexion

Abbeylincson:
why is everyone angry

cus I don't see reasons why a grown man will b complaining of everytin, even if u Gv him a tight V, He will still complain, moreova if d lady cums around, na him go enjoy, He will not call us 2 enjoy wit him oh. But if is to complain now, he will share it 4 pple to partake. Dats his problem, so let him deal wit it.

banre:
Missy, that sh!t doesn't really matter, particularly i prefer light skinned chics myself but that doesn't mean I'd rule out having a thingy with a dark girl. Besides guys already attested that y'all are just pretty little liars . point is, if you jam a fair handsome guy today wouldn't you drool

hv dem all crawling @ my feet, but d truth is dat I can't date any of dem. Complexion matas a lot to me, I don't know of u

akinszz:
if you talk they will say you are a talkative, if you no talk they will say you are too boring. what do women really want?

well I luv pple dat talk less nd say more, u cn b a talkative @ home but a quite type out dey.

ConcernedNL:
Define short though. 5ft what and below is short?

5.6 or 1.67 downward

banre:
why is it that most women in 9ja don't like light complexioned men

I cn wlc a whity, but a no go area 4 Naija guys, cus most of dem re bleachers nd it irritates me a lot.

MISEDUCATIONS:
fancy. thank you. its a lovely day for me on NL today.

hv fun dear

Amarabae:
If my son graduate from Pre nursery, I will buy him Toyota Viju milk

u re a funny gal, biko u will buy him sumtin better dan dat ohk

Nbote:
Definitely not in Nigeria.. She'll b single till 50 or divorced before 30

bitter truth

givan:
I graduated at 21. Nobody gree look my face.

God is looking @ ur face.

Happy birthday dude, more sense to ur brain

QueenDeborah:
Its not about giving him sex, these are tips on how to treat him better

1.Buy gifts for him. You can give him gifts of T-shirts, shoes, undies, singlets or even a phone if you have the money.

2. Take him out for lunch and pay his bills at least once in 2 months. It is not bad at all.

3. Send him some love text messages occasionally.

4. Give him phone calls daily at least once daily, ask him how he is doing and tell him that you love him.

5. Occasionally you can cook a delicious meal for him, maybe once in a week or once in two weeks, but not everyday like a housewife.

6. You can also help him financially when he is broke.

7. Take him out for shopping at least once in a year, you will not die.

8. Pray for him

9. Advise him

10. Help him to build a bright future.

I know some ladies will crucify me because of this post, but this is the ideal thing to do for your guy, not just sex, sex sex.

and wen a lady demands for little of dis, u will all tag her a gold digger, but now it is good for men. God is watching

PDPGuy:
Why is it that a good number of Nigerian ladies feel entitled to ask for transport fare from a guy, but never ask for such from a fellow woman?

wat you should be asking is, must all broke guys hv a gal frwnd......if u know u don't hv money to foot her bill, den u shouldn't border inviting her ova nd stop asking irritating question.

BanigoCharlesP:
Awwww thats sweet.. Here i am

abeg hide ur face

Adaowerri111:
Thats the least you give if you don't have a car, stop asking stupid question on this forum, get a job/life

if dem no get money, make dem hide dere face nd stop asking irrelevant question.

Awon broke Ass.

I don't lyk short guys, more especially d big headed ones, light skin (fair in complexion) is a big no for me nd men dat talks too much(talkative) irritates me

I don't lyk short guys, more especially d big headed ones, light skin (fair in complexion) is a big no for me nd talkative is wat I can't stand in a man.