₦airaland Forum

justtoodark:
thunda go fire Ethiopia your country.....

go and die if you are tired.....

see me see gbege oh, na me do u dis nyt, abi my tire don turn ur tire.

If u re pained wit wt I said,den go down d road nd hug transformer

NSNA:
Goodluck Ebele Jonathan is the best president Nigeria has ever had.

Anyone who thinks otherwise is either ignorant of fact or uninformed.

He revaitalised neglected sectors that were abandoned for decades and started many new infrastructures.

It is a shame that these old men refuse to respect themselves and become extinct in Nigerian Politics.

we all miss our great president, d man for all.

justtoodark:
then,pack your things and migrate to other nations....!!!!

we are sooo tired of blacks like you.....we wan vomit.....

land in libya and kenya and cry back home to the zoo....!!

I pledge 2 Ethiopia my country.....d fact dat u aren't tired does not mean am not, ova tire dey worry me.

Abeg Free me joor. My PVC is waiting patiently.

FKMagazine:
It's simple, obasanjo loves Nigeria more than any former leader

obasanjo does not luv nigeria, he's just dey because of d returns. Well I tink is high tym he gets his f*cking Ass back 2 otta and let the youths decide d faith of dis country

eleojo23:
So GEJ was going to ruin Nigeria abi?

So Buhari has built Nigeria now ?

Abegi...

I tire 4 dis country oh

Shugarlord213:
Don’t marry a woman with a girl to be for earned is to be fore armed

For the fact her legs weren’t closed, even if you do court marriage, traditional, church, white, spiritual, Anglican, Pentecostal marriage my brother na waste

Our brothers just day marry prostitutes every Saturday smh

d fact dat u hv slept wit more dan 2 to 3 different gals in a week makes u a prostitute, you guys re quick in tagging ladies prostitutes 4getn dat u guys re also guilty of same, she might b innocent of ur accusation but just a victim of circumstances.

I urge u not 2 judge a book by it cover wen given opportunity lyk dis, cus ur comment might influence odas. Remember wat goes around, comes around.

IamD18:
You can marry her if she suits your wants in a woman. It's your choice.

But I personally can't advise any of my loved ones to marry a partner with a child, neither can I try that. God forbid.

d fact dat u don't hv a child out of wedlock does not make u innocent, hv u ask ur self if any lady or ladies hv committed abortion 4 u, wit or without ur concept.

We shouldn't b fast in judging pple wen we know dat we might b sum hw guilty in 1way or d other. I believe u hv sisters, aunties nd nieces.

IamD18:
You can marry her if she suits your wants in a woman. It's your choice.

But I personally can't advise any of my loved ones to marry a partner with a child, neither can I try that. God forbid.

can u ask ur self how many ladies hv committed abortion 4 u, wit or without ur concept.

We shouldn't b fast in judging pple wen we know dat we might b sum hw guilty in 1way or d other. I believe u hv sisters, aunties nd nieces.

soberdrunk:
1) Three '80 naira indomie'------- #240

2) Two eggs--------#100

3) Two big pepsi-----#200

4) Suya-------#300

5) Condom(just in case)-----#60

TOTAL------#900

You still have 100 naira change!!!

na wah 4 u oh......must u add condom 2 it.

Happy birthday dear

Eleyi gidigon........i cn feel ur pain, will suggest u leave vengeance to God, since ur bro said he will turn his back on u, just 4get about it nd move on, I believe karma nd I know it will surely visit him sumday.

V

Elder001:
yes..
I'm tired of seeing all these kinda topics
if a lady demands for money say no or tell her you don't have..
are they forcing the money from your pockets?

tell them you don't have money to give or no.. shikena

all these wailing are becoming childish.. there are independent ladies out there but you guys prefer broke dependent ladies and later y'all will start complaining on nairaland.

tell dem oh......me sef haff tire 4 dem

DanielsParker:
Mercy for her lol.
can't you see she's humble now.

if him get heaven and earth, na him pocket, it does not add any value 2 my lyf ohk, so I don't see reasons y I should b angry ova his success. Mind u, real mean don't brag, dere Attitude speaks for dem, Abeg shift make we see road.

franchasng:
my sister, with all due respect, I want to disagree with u, its not true. I don't know his financial status, but don't think or believe that because a guy raised this kind of question means he is broke, I will share my personal experience here for u and others to learn and reason with this op.

You know, I am born into normal Nigerian family; struggling family...grew up not having anything like girlfriend not until towards final year in school which ended when I went for NYSC due to financial issues; I couldn't cope with her financial demands with my NYSC allawee plus the distance, so we ended it against her wish though because she cried and begged but I couldn't continue; no money to foot your frequent requests, no money to transport u to and fro to come visit me in far away place I was serving, so there's no need to continue, we ended it after several dialogue failed. I really liked her cos she was so cute as in lol, and has manners but money, mba

During my NYSC, I met ladies from all tribes and class, thank God where I served lol. I met ladies from rich family who schooled abroad, I had so many options of ladies to date cos I was ladies' man during my NYSC even though I no fine

There was this Igbo chick from very rich family that came to NYSC with a driver, she so liked me and was just waiting for me to say; be my girlfriend, but there were many other chicks; Yoruba, Ibira, Hausa, etc that I was also close to and they were all waiting for me to pop the question, but because I tied myself again with NCCF (born again matter lol), I couldn't have the courage to start dating any.

But this Igbo chick was so into me, I was the only corper she talks with and hangs out with even during CDS. From our closeness, I got to discover she gets monthly upkeep of 100k from her rich parents, but guess what Sometimes she gulps this big money before month end and will be complaining to me....so I sat her down and we made a spending plan for her to cut down her expenses and I removed some unnecessary things from her to-do and to-have list, still who sai

There was this month her parents traveled for vac abroad and she gulped her upkeep before 16th of the month, so she ran to me, I shouted at her, scolded her, told her point blank that its wrong and totally unacceptable, she almost cried and even fell on my arms, I was tempted to begin kissing, I remembered my religious position, I held back and later made a transfer of 20k to her account, towards ending she repaid me though.

I observed her and noticed that I can't cope with her financial needs, so against fellow corpers and friends advice to date this girl o and marry her, I said never because only me knew what I was passing through

From my closeness to some of these ladies, I came to realize that this is a Nigerian women mentality and belief.

Now, back to op's lamentation lol and why I said he might not be broke like u said, I am going to use myself again as example.

Right now, I am not broke, I can't say if I am rich, I am far from it sha....but God is extremely awesome to me, and I am grateful....thats where I stand financially now....so I want to tell u my sister, at a point in every man's life, he do reflects on life, and this is one of the things he reflects on...especially when he is approaching 30yrs plus and still single and looking to settle down.

No reasonable guy with focus and big ambition desires to marry a liability or a financial baggage called a lady in the name of marriage, most that did it are regretting, I have such friends who made such mistakes and are regretting even though they are doing well financially.

My last ex that I nearly fell madly in love with, do u know why I broke up with her This demanding of a thing. Remember, I can foot all her bills, but cmon, its wrong for me considering I want to marry this lady na.

She's is this kind of hot lady that looks almost like Nadia Buari, from a rich family, working and above 26yrs, but she spends more than she earns and her parents are now retired; top civil servants as in directors with CBN and min of edu...

She doesn't ask for money though, but she is a fashionista, she can wear different super clothes everyday for one month...so the spending was on poor me lol...she will send me link of clothes from Jumia, Amazon (she knows my friends will help me get it and send cos I buy stuff a lot from Amazon). She will be like: "hun, check this out, dont u like it, I love it o, get it lets see how's gonna be on ya queen lol', and I couldn't turn down cos I really liked her, some out of say 10 links she sends, I may buy like 5 when in good mood.

It got to a point, I got tired after a friend met an Angel lady, a pretty doctor living in US, and this girl who even came from a poor family has awesome character, respect, manner, hardworking, gosh....I was swept away. Another friend met another angelic lady, as they told me about their lady and I saw with my korokoro eyes, I began to feel bad about my current relationship so I put a test, a financial test, my chick fell into the trap. She loved me yes, she was a virgin, even wanted me to de-v her, I refused cos I wanted to marry her and wanted her to keep it since we lived in far away cities, but i didn't consider all these, I quit angrily, she is still pleading to come back, but I have found another sha


This current one is very okay at the moment and being tipped for the final decision but I observing her on 3D. She seems cool-headed but I won't conclude until she passes all the tests I am about to set cos my childhood friends who are rich have been burnt, an uncle has been burnt too, close family members have, so I can't allow such in my and God will never allow me, baba God I beg o please have mercy, don't let me enter into an unfruitful marriage with a bad wife please father

Neva said been dependent is a good idea, only said guys should stop tagging gals broke,dey shouldn't make ladies look cheap, if ur gal frwnd is dependent doesn't mean ladies in general are. Am not dependent nd cn Neva encourage anyone 2 b. I got ur point ohk. Dat mention was a reply 2 wat sumone said. Tanx

Goldmaxx:
ikpu nnegi.... otu nnegi zaa there... smelly vagina... ugly bitch..... ashawo kobo kobo

just negodu ihe sigi na onu aputa...... Chineke mmelugi ebere, virgin Mary nyeregi aka

Goldmaxx:
ashawooooooo

runs in ya blood

Elder001:
Real men?? perhaps that's the new line broke ladies are using to console themselves.

I don't give a damn about your respect kid.. if I want respect I won't need it from people who aren't focused in life who don't have ambitions .

Young girl you better don't quote me next time because I don't tolerate nonsense mentions.

like I care rich man

Elder001:
who is your dear friend?
I be your mate?

car is a liability just like you're a liability to the mugu that is dating you.

u talk too much, Real men don't talk lyk market women. Try as much as pple 2 curtail dat, it will earn u a lot of respect.

4 ur information, am not a liability 2 anybody nd I don't consider anyone as mugu.

Elder001:
you're not broke? can you even afford a car?.

The only thing I deduced from this is that you're a 22-25year old girl.

I can't waste my precious time to reply irresponsible girls who're not focussed in life.

car is not an asset my dear frwnd, rather it is a liability. Rather go for an asset dat cn easily appreciate not wasting my tym on tins dat does not add value 2 my lyf. Tanx 4 d insult anyway

Elder001:
This is what I hate most on this forum.. y'all keep calling guys broke but you don't have kobo yourselves.

This was how a lady was tagging me broke on this section some months ago here on romance section,the funny thing is the lady can't even afford a Samsung or iOS device not to talk of car.. I've those things but she was calling me broke.

if we should investigate properly, I'm sure you don't have up to 200k funds in your account but you're calling the young man broke because he came here to seek for advice.
smh

u hv heaven nd earth nd u cn not share wit ur luv ones, wats d essence of u hvn dem.

D way guys re tagging gals broke is sumtin I still don't understand, if u know u can not afford 2 take gud care of ur gal frwnd, den remain single nd stop tagging dem broke, bcus dey Neva asked 4 ur help, na u carry ur legs go ask dem out.

Hv seen so many ladies dat he been fending 4 dere boi frwnd, but u will not hear dem calln dere boi frwnd broke, but if a guy eventually spend up to 20k on a gal, tongues will start wagging. Believe it or not, we re not broke, rather we feel secured seeing or knowing dat our boy frwnd cares 4 us.

Stop gettn ur hopes high ohk......most ladies lyk me call pple around wit diff pet names, but dat does not mean we hv any form of attraction for dat person. But I wonder d hasty conclusion or is dere sumtin u aren't telln us.

yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

my frwnd just admit dat u re broke, hate guys dat complains a lot. Y not stay single if u re tired nd stop making mountain outta no hills

ubunja:
i cant abide a successful lady.
i like my girls young, dependent and not very bright. i cant stand competition. my Ego is fragile like hell.

nd u tink is a gud idea

Dat is anoda oga @ d top......Naija I dey hail

lefulefu:
u are from UK na where boundaries are set but this is naija oo. Anything goes in here. That a man is hugging ur wife and a policeman for dat matter..omo guy need to fear oo.policemen no dey take eye see married women. I can understand how the man felt. Imagine one unkempt looking SARS officer stop me for checkpoint den come dey talk to me rudely cos i no give am bribe... Then my wife comet from car come dey hug am and d guy dey grab my wife bum bum... Aghhh me go vex too oo.

dat is, if the Sars guy press her bumbum, but if d reverse na d case, Bros u not get anytin 2 vex 4. Na insecurity nd lack of trust dey do d man.

DonPiiko:
Temitope74 you were too harsh, apologize and make it up to her. If she's very attractive as you said, a lot of guys will be on her case and will be waiting in the winds to take her away, she is still young and still in the market so you definitely know she will be hard to control.

my dear, he's not too harsh on her, real men state dere mission without dumb fooling around, d lady in question is not ready 4 commitment, if she is, she would hv known dat men of his kind are rare to find. just let her go nd pray for a better relationship, time wait 4 no one.

Cute baby......Davido waiting so fast for her 2 turn five(5) so he could fight for the custody of his daughter cus her mother is Notn 2 write home about.

I also found similar snake in d crayfish I bought from d market, I ws so scared dat I could not use d crayfish again, I had 2 cook without crayfish. God help us, cus dis country is turning into sumtin else

wizrose:
Their is no pretty lovely ladies in nairaland. Espect shaku shaku girlz

Chai, gals don suffer. Re u even handsome dat u re lookn for pretty gal.

In wat Eva ur doing, ur happiness should come first. Most of dis guys calln u names cn not even keep frwndship talk more of relationship. So if u know u luv him nd he luvs u, den take a bold step. Age is just a numba, common sense matter.

Hanseel1:
The guy didn't say she came with her friends.

Read well before you comment.... having comprehension issues is really bad.


All these ladies with fishbrains though.. smh

#No hard feelings

just tank ur God am in a gud mood.

Some tyms we re not been matured in wat Eva we re doing. wen she proposed bringing her frwnds, u would hv told her ur current state, if she refuses nd brought dem along, just open up 2 her, make her understand dat u aren't bouyant enough 2 avoid embarrassment .

don,t see reasons y two adult can not reason 2gether. Mayb bcus u go dey form posh now.