obezaleel:
such tragedy happened to me a week ago, leaving a 3 year old boy nd a year old daughter for me, i didn't have parent nor female sibling Mother inlaw is not fair to me talk less of leaving my little daughter with her, is not easy..

so sorry about your loss sir

cont'd...... 'it doesn't worth it'..........chai this kills me ALL THE DAMN TIME!

well said OP. And they also forget that if everyone is an entrepreneur, then who will work for them as staff? anyways it's just as you've said, do you and forget naysayers

we are indeed in crazy times. I was just telling a newly married lady about women bleaching their Kids' skin and her mouth was agape. lol. kids are young and most of the rashes disappear eventually sef and don't really need to be 'treated'

obi58:


Yes NIMC can be verified and there is a portal available for verification. However, banks are required to pay a handsome sum to NIMC for access to this portal hence the current impasse.

NIMC is indeed the future because it is linked to the BVN. Lack of political will has stalled the project somewhat because the NIMC database could also be used for voters card easily which will spoil business for many of our politicians who will find it much harder to rig elections if voting is done using BVN

you are right. NIMC gave brief access to their website but now banks can't verify anymore because of the money NIMC is asking for. Naija sef!

Did you make the payment via interbank transfer? if yes, your bank should contact the other bank and request for a recall

following

Lumia 1020 screen needed pls

I'm in

rev2214:

Still available chat me up on watzup

ok will do that

rev2214:
New Offload Solar panel.....250watts......85k Inverter battery 110 amps 70 & 75k Industrial Sewing machine ....no price yet Chiller.....etc

pls I'm interested in the industrial sewing machine

policy12:


Sorry am in d north is like dey change dose writing HR here in d north a friend jus confirm her date has bn change too.

Sis any info wh one are u writing?

hello i am writing for HR1 too in Abuja on Monday but my date hasn't been changed.

JMystique:

I'm abuja, are y'all moving from lag?

no, I'm coming from Kaduna

clarydamsel:
Abuja maitama all the way who is with me

I'm with you

pls I need lumia 1020 screen

kindly respond if you have. thank you

Aare2050:

I discovered that after uploading. I've tried to rectify it but not working.
Thanks for calling my attention

ok nice. best wishes

Aare2050:
Turmeric

and this is ginger

Aare2050:
Ginger

bros this is turmeric

alosiby92:
thanks Zaynie and Farydah really appreciate the wishes. As for the bad belle in Zaynie, I pray hubby and your fam do so for you some time soon o so I can be jealous too.

in a way I feel that way every time I read your collective diaries. I also want loving families and beautiful babies I can gush over every day..

God will grant you your heart desires in due time. Hope you have a blast today

Happy Birthday dear Alos. May God perfect all that concerns you. May your wedding guest list be used real soon. Cheers to a greater you

Beyedew wow! U are one helluva lady! Sorry I came late to the party but your diary is all shades of interesting. I love it! I spent two days on NL just reading your diary. Then your last update was . Anyways I'm your latest fan. Lol

Hey Gentiejag I'm so sorry for your loss. God rest his soul and console you.

jaysmama:
I don't think exclusive breastfeeding that makes a child reject food. I have 3 kids 8 3 and 4 months all exclusively breastfed. The first boy is what you call a true foodie he can eat from today till next year. The 2nd is a picky eater. I think every child comes with their own way of doing things irrespective of what they are fed with.

true. I equally EBFed my two kids and while my second practically smacks his lips in anticipation when he sees food, my first just eats normally. so I also think each child with is different

ebonyjoke:
Hello mamas,
Just joind ds thread cx baby is 6days old.
Really nid help on ow to deal.wit increase breastmilk. Hav to.use force b4 few drops.cn come out amd nips aint pointed
Baby cant even grip on nipple cx isnt pointed and drops are comin out
.it can be rly frustratin. Pls help.

congrats on ur lo. u can try using breast pump to bring out ur nipples.

pls send quotation

alosiby92:
@farydah my own work will not allow me leave for five mins not to talk of leaving before our 4:30/5pm closing time. I honestly don't know how you are doing it. And living with other people sef. I'm crazy paranoid. Lol @ your kids being clingy and antisocial. I guess that's good in that they know when the people carrying them are not mama or papa...,

No one ever mentioned that breast feeding was painful o. you people are traumatizing me....

my dear you just havta adapt. its not easy but its neccessary. we don't want to scare off childbirth/motherhood lol.

Giddyperson:

Who said it isn't painful biko, I basically ignored 70% of the calls to come and breastfeed in week1. There was just too much going on. Thank God for formula, now it still hurts but not too much

About your kids, Choi sounds like a lot of work. Is the one year old in crèche and is the 13 year old in school? Who picks your kids from school? I finally brought my lil cousin to live with me, she's turning 12 this year. I see her more like a long-term investment cuz I'm sure she's going nowhere and would be of much use in 2-3 years to come but for now she's just like the first child. she's just been really helpful with some housework tho.

loool.tot urs didn't hurt. second stays at home with my nanny before the girl returns from school. so yea she goes to school and is super helpful and obedient. she's basically my first too. I try to be kind to her and clothe her as well as my kids and in return, she's been amazing. my office is just about 5mins to my son's school so I drop him off and pick him by myself except on rare days that I am really busy then I will ask one of the drivers to help pick and drop him at home. on days I have meetings as early as 7, my girl just gets him ready then I get a driver to take him. she goes to school on or before 8. they dont attend the same school.

about ur lil cousin, I pray she had a good background because while she's still young and malleable, bad foundation is quite hard to manage. truth be told, while I try my human best I honestly I'm slightly more short tempered with her. her efforts however, makes it easy for me to adjust. so I pray ur lil cousin helps u to help her. lol

Giddyperson:

Yeah I have help with the baby, I'm Talking about my nether regional recovery lol. It has turned me to a perpetual water backsider and even front sider. You basically have to take a ho-bath whenever you go number 1 or 2, terribly inconvenient (big ups to the people who water backside voluntarily, it's not an easy life- no hoffence ) and breast feeding is not painless either.

Hi Farydah, you have 2 boys right? That can't be easy, how old are they now? How are you coping.

breastfeeding was painful the first one week with both babies for me. ure lucky urs didn't hurt because I hated being told that baby was hungry.on having 2 boy, guuurrrlll it is hard work make I nor lie. the first is 3+ while second is 1+. they are both clingy and anti social asper not everyone can carry them. my first cries alllllloootttt and its super annoying. this is his second year in school but he still cries when I go to drop him. I have an elderly woman that comes to clean and I have a 13yr old that lives with me. good thing is she says they don't make trouble in my absence. but when I return from work, they begin climbing surfaces, fighting, quarelling over who sits on me, who I carry etc. bottom line is,I am a nag, a flogger and referee when I return from work. I have been trying to sleep but they won't let me. I have to wach out for them incase they attempt jumping from sidestools, plugging appliances or pushing each other off chairs and beds. unfortunately, I am glad I have a job that allows me small respite from mothering them and my 13yr old is quite amazing at being with them.

so yeah, it is a crazy job mothering those boys.........but they make me smile and look forward to COB.

zaynie just read ur diary this morn......little wonder u have sooo many likes. ur posts are sooo relateable. nice one and more data to ur phone lol.

Alos the smoocher....lol