alosiby92:



aunty giddyma...shouldn't you be breast feeding /catching up on sleep
my smooching role model. second only to aunty Farydah our master champion....

chai I laffed hard at ur last update Alos. can I join my faith with urs? Giddy mama! how's the ministry going? warm kissea to giddybaby pls.

looool. fayose is to ekiti, what elrufai is to kaduna . no church in a whole kaduna state university but mosques are littered everywhere. nna this our country ehn!

gbegemaster:
See him face like overgrown small Pikin own.

Another half caste from Romania that came to disturb us in this awa country.

lmao

big, big congrats Giddyperson! more power and grace to u. may ur motherhood journey be a blessed and fulfilling one

alosiby92:

Lol. we have sighted you madam! your own is coming o please wait

pls tell her oo

alosiby92:



Lol. lucky present hubby sha. 9 years is still a gap o...how was the wedding day? And finding out you were preggers?

chai Alos and questions sha*insert 5&6 meme*. wedding day was just there. I just wore my wedding dress abd went commando underneath. lol. couldn't eat and purged badly afterwards. lol. no honeymoon. tot wedding night wasn't gon happen because I was asleep when he returned (wedding was in his village) but it DID happen. lol.

I saw my period about 3weeks after the wedding yikes! I cried ooo lol. cos I expected to be preggers immediately. but I missed the next period and 9mnths later, my lil baby who is now 3+ made his appearance.

zaynie:



No o..... RunsOut

pllllsss come back lets hear ur love story too.

zaynie:




I'm enjoying the interview jare. Kontinuuu

hah! zaynie ooo. lol. oya Alos interview her next biko.

alosiby92:


Lmno @ just woke up and said you weren't doing again.

9 years is sha a big age gap o. Glad you're still friends and both married. what if he hadn't gotten over you since then?

9 yrs was big but I didn't mind. I met my husband months after I broke up with him and u knw how we were about breakups...lol

alosiby92:


Lol. actually started rereading your diary so I know your Yoruba nysc guy. you sha forgot to mention he was short....or that you smooched him twice

ehya. glad you ended up with your current baby daddy sha after all the thick and thin..'

how come no stories about first BF? what happened with him?

abi?! first BF was after sec sch. I read lots of novels so we connected thru books. he was about 9 yrs older than me. he is still my good friend because I appreciate his respect and self control in retrospect. he was a uni graduate at the time we met but never asked for sxexex even tho I visited his home regularly. I still put my breakup with him to childishness on my part cos I just woke up and said I wasn't doing again and I guess he was too proud to beg. he is married with two kids too and says his wife still jokingly refers to me as a threat. lol. he's an amazing guy whom I respect a lot. I guess we just respect each other hence our continued friendship. we prolly still keep in touch because the relationship wasn't intimate.

alosiby92:


Lol @ride or die. and the proposal sef. Chai but at least it's good to know he was geared towards long term and not all those jati jati campus chop and clean mouth guys.

hahaha. what if pretend boyfriend had got him brother zoned for life? it was also a risk o.

Lol @ the kissing in front of hostel veterans... wait o. which one was only kissed 3 guys in your life?? who were the other two?

my first BF when I was 18, my husband then one Yoruba guy on nysc camp (my relationship was verry shaky at the time and I was almost certain it was over so I consoled myself by kissing the short guy on 2 differnt occasions) lol

Giddyperson:
haha wife material half yard

lmao.I tell ya

Giddyperson:
Lol Farydah, so you did the kissing in front of the hostel too. My one time area of specialty, even better if my current 'victim' had a car for more 'privacy'.

kissing infront of the hostel was my thing. can't believe my shamelessness. lol. I remember ur diary where you said u kissed a lot na. lol. u must be a master at kissing. I don't think I crave kissing that much anymore sha. I have only kissed 3 guys all my life so my skills are not that developed. lol

alosiby92:




awwwwww so romantic.... thanks for sharing. 8 years...wow. but only two break ups? how did he propose?(* giggles on all her curiousity)

but wait o. pretend boyfriend kwa?

Lol. talk about moves. Mr Farydah tried o.
hehehe. Shame about the gp dropping..I'm guessing it picked up eventually . see Rove o

I am happy with the gist ma. *kneels

about the breskups, we agreed to either settle our differences once and for all or breakup totallty instead of threatening each other each time we quarelled.....and it actually kinda helped by making the relationship a ride or die thing. lol.

proposal ke? after doing pretend BF, prposal was just me going to Abuja for vals and him telling me he wants to come with his friends for first introduction on 1st of march 2012. lmao. na so marriage preps start ooo. hmmmnnn lest I forget, dunno if it was the excitement, but I left the heater plugged when nepa did their thing and semi burnt his small bachelor pad when I left*facepalm* the next day.

my sister, pretnd BF oooo. he suspected I won't agree to date him so it was the fear of being turned down that made him resort to suggesting pretend BF.....and that was how I was played. lol.


ahhh the GP picked up oooo. hhhmmnnnnn he was very studious and actually felt guilty about my GP. he even threatened me that it had better pick or we will definately breakup. said if I graduate with a third class, polytechnic graduates will be better than me. lol naso I situp sharperly.

alosiby92:
Lol...we all wait in anticipation for #giddybaby.

@farydah no gist?? chai. upon all my salutation? . oya give us short of how you and husby met. or one of your BS stories. I'm curious o

lmao Alosiby ooo. my BSs are inmy diary na. I tink I have also mentioned how we met. but based on ur request, lol, here goes; we met in my first year in the Uni. matter of fact, less than 1week into my stay. he was handsome to boot. lol. I had cramps but I listened to him. didn't shush him. we met a coupla times then he said he heard guys in their hostel talking about how they'd like to date me and he knows they aren't good guys so he'd like to be my pretend BF to ward them off and I agreed! my guy started telling me about how he likes kisses and I was like anywais naso we start oooo like play like play. we became an item. kissing in front of the hostel *damn covers face* ahhhh my GP dropped to 1. something sef. kai it was Cray Cray sha. it was intense and for the first and only time in my life, I was in love!

12years on(8 dating and 4 married), 2 breakups while dating and two kids later I can't remember the last time I heard I love u. lol. otherwise tho, the guy dey try. so, there!

Giddyperson:
A late happy anniversary Farydah, wishing you many more years

tanx dearie. hoped you'd born yesterday esp when you went AWOL. lol. I pray God makes it easy for you ko. cheers

alosiby92:



Happy anniversary o madam!!!
wow. it's been 4 years already? chai. mehn. I missed out on plenty wedding cake o. hope you and hubby had a lovely day. gist us if need be

Here's to many more awesome years

loool aaaamen dear. nothing went down jare. but we tank God

richyblink1:


I am for real. Just drove in now to realise they have gone to bed as I was held in traffic due to the heavy down pour this evening, and i feel incomplete as i did not fulfil a particular aspect of my routine.
I don't know why people see it as big deal to see a man that believes in family first. I will gladly chose staying with my family over friends and goons.

What else do I need when I have her loyalty, love, care, attention, support and prayers that moves mountain?

hmmmmnnn God bless u sir. I pray my sons grow up to be responsible too (their father tries tho ooo)

richyblink1:


Brotherly, when it's Saturday morning, it's family chores first. Then I can go hang out with the boys much later after assisting my senorita with vital chores.

For the records, i leave home 6:20am every morning and returns by 7pm from Monday to Friday. And once I am home I immidiately start my nanny job (carrying, singing and playing with my girls as we have 5 months old twin girls) till the sleep let's say by 10pm or so depending, knowing fully well that my betterhalf will take over if they wake at midnight/early morning. While I equally sing and play with them Saturdays and Sundays to allow their mother rest.

Trust me, there is no better joy than singing and dancing for my girls daily. In fact I do James bond on wheels daily just to get home on time to play with them before they go to bed. Mind you, I equally wake between 2am and 3am to check on my squard(betterhalf and the twin) incase they are awake or need my assistance.

are u for real?! u sound like a dream. lol. ur wife is just too lucky. God bless your good heart.

alosiby92:

My sister is fine and with my mum. She and I are doing long distance relationship so I hear from her at least once a week.

wait o. isn't your anniversary some time this month??

that is good to hear. srent u just amazing tho! my anniversary is today. lol so happy 4th anniversay to us

alosiby92:


Lol. sorry o. Was being extra/trying to copy your writing style. Hope you're doing good sha. ehen wait o. no gist on baby shower

@fyngal1: happy long time no see too where did you disappear to sef?

@Farydah I'm fine. #wethankGod . lol. by the way the posts you share entertain me o. between you and breathing and giddyperson I feel like I've moved to the family section and bbnaija page....meanwhile when I go to the section on my own I never find such gisty threads and pages

hahaha don't mind me jare. good to know you are doing well. how's your sister btw?

Akshow:
What I learnt from these two, bisola and Efe, loyalty. Those guys are two much. Genuinely like each other and never betrayed or back stabbed each other. Their friendship will last long. Yeah, they were there for the bar, even when fighting for the bar, them still de loyal. Kudos. I remember after her last diary session, bisola was emotional and crying, Efe gave her a bear hug and cracked jokes till she laughed. Everyone needs a loyal friend like this two.

well said! their loyalty to each other was beautiful to watch

alosiby92:


@Farydah I can't wait for her EDD too hope you and the boys are doing great.

@Fyngal welcome back your shout out had me giggling

@breathing stop eating agbalumo/udara jare o :-/

hey darl. I know right!? anywais we are all good. u?

Giddyperson:

Lol Me I can't wait too tho I'm hoping for no drama How have you been

lol. u shall deliver safely. I been alryt. more power to you

breathing:
Hi Fyngal, welcome back, don't disappear again.

Hi Sammiejo, what happened to your diary?

Hi Luckygurl, no diary update in ages, how is final year?

Hi Sapphiredamsel, did you get tired of weight watching

I can barely wait for ur BA/BS . it will be sooo full of drama lol. btw, ur EDD is on my wedding anniv. wish u a quick and painless labour and dellivery

3T is funny ooo. he was able to show is Diicckkk publicly but couldn't acknowledge his family publicly. issorait........

Episteme2:
There's no special benefits for this ultimate Head of House thingy. I have this feeling that Big Brother whittled away the benefits because it was won by Efe. What's special about setting HOH up by asking him to nominate other HMs for possible eviction? It's just intended to instigate a cold gang up against Efe. I am yet to see how this stuff has helped Efe. I feel that Ultimate HOH would have carried much benefit and influence if it was won by Bigie's favorite.
Abeg, he should add more benefits to the stuff joor. There's nothing ultimate about it for now.

my feelings exactly!

BoboYekini:
Hardly. I meant every word.

oops my bad. pls ignore my earlier post.

BoboYekini:

@op, I concur. I long for the good old days where women only spoke when spoken to, and had to eat their meals in the kitchen with the children.
I actually mean this.

awww poor you. well u can either go back in time or adapt to these new times.

1bkaye:
It isn't about 'morality', it's about the fact that he touched someone whilst she was sleeping, without her C.O.N.S.E.N.T (permission for something to happen or agreement to do something - definition added because I know a lot of you Nigerian men sometimes find this particular word difficult to grasp) plus he's had a history on the show of saying rapey things which he's already been warned about, this was the last straw and he was rightfully disqualified

my sister! it weakens and pains me to see/hear people try to excuse sexual abuse. the key word is consent. they can't seem to wrap their heads around the fact that a woman has a right to say no to ur advances. I keep saying that when they put their mother, sister, wife daughter in the victims shoes, THEY WILL SING A DIFFERNT TUNE. They sha can't stop us from speaking against sexual harrassment and victim blaming. in the interim however, may God not let them learn about the harrows and pain of sexual harrassment the hard way.

Giddyperson:

Sympathisers that want to cry more than TTt's wife.

I am unashamedly crying more than his wife too. gosh I pray he doesn't win ooo.

Giddyperson:

Sympathisers that want to cry more than TTt's wife.

I am unashamedly crying more than his wife too. gosh I pray he doesn't win ooo. lol. how d pushing?