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It is not about condemning the act, we need scapegoats, let's see what the government can do... Let's see how effective our government is..

virginprincess:
Yes,when a man constantly collects money from his woman he becomes shameless and senseless,no sensible man will constantly collects money from a woman when it is suppose to be the other way round.

this ideology is rather very full and lacks reason, a man who after setting his wife up loses his job and has to depend on his wife is shameless?? Yes, a man should take care of his home and if a time comes when he can't and the woman has the means to, so what then Does it make him less of a man? It's funny how lazy minded people just wake up and come up with principles that are so far from being sane .... And expect it to be the norm. If a woman chooses to give her man money, it doesn't change the fact that he is still a man, doesn't stop him from earning, doesn't stop him from spending on his woman either..... Don't be so quick to agree with principles propagated by bitter souls.

Six30:
I feel very frustrated and suicidal every day that comes. Why? I finished school since 2019 and was not cleared by school. Just when that was supposed to happen, ASUU commenced their strike. 4 months now and counting, everyday morning, I wake up broke, frustrated and ashamed of myself and a voice is telling me to end it that I will never make it. That ASUU is not going to suspend strike anytime soon. Already I am above 30. I can't sleep or think well. I'm in dillema.

EMPHASIS: I MAY END IT BEFORE ASUU SUSPENDS STRIKE!

We all have demons we are confronting, and my dear OP, this shows how self-centered you are. End it for your own selfish reasons. You have a phone to type on, you probably don't know what some other people are dealing with ... So if you feel you have it bad, there are a thousand people who are dealing with more issues than you can imagine and they've never for once thought of throwing in the towel.... Go back and retrace your steps.

ROZZAYY:
Anyway that's their problem they can fight and send themselves out of the house as long as my fav is there am fine.

hello Rose!!! Been ages..... Reach out

Ceenachi:
Op
please can you tell the judges of social media how the lady was dressed.
Some of the sexual assault we are experiencing today is from we ladies, some will dress without undies while some without bra, some live to go naked in the name of fashion

Unless someone who never visited such places will think morality is there - ladies of nowadays hmmm I fear this our generation

to an extent I agree with you on the grounds that the moral standards have gone to the dogs but what about men being true men and not uncivilized boys? I believe no man in his right senses should hit a woman for turning him down... That goes to say, if they were alone in an alley or a secluded spot, he might have raped her! Naked or not, self discipline should be imbibed in every situation..

This is wrong on all fronts.... A man abusing a woman or a woman abusing a man.... Condemnable acts....

DominusPrime:
The way some guys reason here baffles me. One even said the man did well for touching her because she must have been dressed like a slut.

Most of them are kids and the ones who are adults obviously weren't raised right.... I shouldn't baffle you, they have retained their primal instincts and refused to evolve into sane humans....

alcuin:
If men and women are equal as the feminists say. Then I suppose that women also deserve some ass whooping when they Bleep up as do men.

Don't you think so?

It is a claim and not a fact.... But what does violence solve? Nothing!!!

ABANGWABOI:
Another worthless SIMP with a Stupid advice..
If your sister is Stupid enough to raise her hand on me when we Jam for somewhere.. the Kain beating I go give her.. You no go recognize her when you see her again.. as you dey advice men,advice the females in your life not to do same too.. cos if Dem jam my type.. na bloodied nose and eyes Dem go collect..
Nonsense and Woke generation boys.

Another lazy, unruly child... You can speak to me when you are an adult ... And you learn to speak like one....

GreyLaw:
Interesting @"provoked or not". I call that stupidity!

If a woman arms herself with a piston and breaks your head with it and ready to dish out more, please don't hit her, okay? Walk away with a broken head ready to be smashed to pieces.

It is called being emasculated.

if she smashes my head, I'd be dead or incapacitated. Better to avoid confrontation with either a man or a woman....
Yet I am the stupid one!! Lmao... Grey lawyer...
Guess beating a woman makes you a man right Dude, help yourself man.... Don't raise your hand against a woman .... It is wrong on all fronts. Just a brotherly advice!! Live well and be at peace.

Joezinho:
Chimamanda Adichie once said, "..We must be wary of the dangers of a single story.."

irrespective of what was said or done, no man should hit a woman, provoked or not.... Likewise no woman should hit a man for any reason.... It is called assault and it is wrong on any ground.

Clean2016:
See what they did in Abuja, attempted burning down a whole estate

That's just one of many to come if we are not careful, we are being infiltrated by passive insurgents and they'll start with small pockets of violence before it escalates.... Where in the north do we have any obas or ezes but in the south they have serikis and all.... We are too lackadaisical with security in the south as a whole...

The ban is a good move to reduce the level of insecurity in the state.... The average okada man is a fulani man, undocumented and no permanent residence, so any crime committed and he is off to another corner of Lagos to continue working... These folks move around with dangerous weapons and also of them tend to be weirdly sympathetic to the banditry/ bokoharam cause. Yet they are the ones who know the nooks and crannies in the state, so in the event of an ethnic battle, they know where to go and how to get there. We need to find a way of curbing the influx of these people and ho already claim that Nigeria is their father's land.... So from this point of view, I say it is a good one from the government.

My apologies if I come off as condescending in anyway, but are you in high school or something??
If so, focus on the things that truly matter and would impact your life positively.... If you are done with school and you have a job and you are ready to settle down, I would suggest you find a good woman to settle down with and if you don't find one, by a dog, they are more loyal than any human (make or female alike)...

This is a very dicey situation, because you should understand that your parents are looking out for their own (you) and in some situations they might be very judgemental of the boys you bring home based on their own perception of what they want for you.
Now, as per you saying you love him, I would ask that you slow down, love is deep, deeper than the out can imagine... Sex can be the reason you feel this way or maybe you really like him.... Let's not throw the four letter word around like that. If he really wanted you, he would be willing to prove your parents wrong by becoming a better man than they expect. But instead he decides to ghost you and play reverse psychology.... Well, your folks said it all, you will find a better man. Don't let your emotions be the reason you decide on something like this.... Emotions are in most cases wrong.... A time will come and you will ask yourself what would have happened if you had made a certain decision, at that point would you be glad you left or not?! Use your head, ask questions, put sentiments aside.... Sentiments can be very destructive.

It isn't about the money or what he has or what he will have, you've been with him for almost a year, ask yourself, what value has he added to your life.... Not material, not monetary..... Are you a better person..... If you can answer this question without being bias... Then you have helped yourself decide.... But with what I have read you will definitely be bias about it... Don't be a fool for any man, let his actions determine your reaction

OurTruth:
The story I just wrote about isn't someone's fiction, it's an account cobbled from different sources, mainly an alien being that was retrieved from a crashsite by native Indians and his account on the history of our planet was documented. Some of the story is also derived from accounts by contactees, remote viewers and those versed in esoteric knowledge.

Names like Maldek and Atlantis might sound fictional but they represent ancient worlds that existed in times past.

I'll go further to post more accounts on humanities history that mirror the one I just posted.

I know about the story of the lost city of Atlantis. But when you read into it, how did the supposed alien life form communicate? How did they know exactly what story the alien was telling? Who interpreted the language? There are so many holes in the story, from maldek to Pluto not being a planetary body, to interstellar light speed travel, to humanoids and reptilian warriors, there is no strong evidence to corroborate the story.
I respect your belief and all, but a story about being settlers from another Galaxy is quite ..... Weird and interesting at the same time.

You've been reading books that are based on someone's fiction. It is an interesting read for ufo conspiratists but compared to the reality of it, it's purely nonrealistic and purely fictional. But I did enjoy the book by Brian Scot about the planet maldek.... Like I said, beautiful read but purely fictional.

Under this sitting government, Nigeria has become fair game, for even the weakest countries.... Be rest assured, the presidency will be mute about this.

Lol I still have a functional lumia 1520 but the screen touch needs to be replaced.... Had it for about 9 years now and it is still a beauty to behold

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40k

Chat me up on 08135671386

My uncle (now retired) worked with the United Nations under the koffi Annan tenure, a big shot in the organization and we never received a dime from him even when things were horrible, back then i would ask my mom why my dad's family acted like that and she would always tell me, it is their choice to make whether to help or not. Your uncle is not stingy, you are young and still learning how the world spins. Your uncle in all honesty does not owe you anything, he can go out of his way to help if he chooses to, but no one can hold it against him if he doesn't. There are things involved that you may not understand.
Do you have siblings? What are they doing? The American dream is a dream of debt and slavery. You live solely on credit, if you don't, then you have a terrible credit record. What do you know your uncle does for a living?
You hear stories about him buying cars and houses for people, have you confirmed those stories to be true or just talk tales told by people to make themselves either look good or.make others look bad?!?! My dear youngling, get something doing, keep your mind busy and try to focus on helping your mother, it is not easy i agree and i do hope you believe in the power of prayer and declarations.
I pray whatever good thing you set your heart and hands to do, God will bless them and it shall prosper.
Please don't depend on anyone for handouts.

VictorUSA:
My dad is death.My mum sells vegetable and pepper.

my advice to you, the idea of depending on people outside the shores of Nigeria is quite archaic and unreasonable. Working multiple jobs and having less than 6 hours of sleep a day is no fun. Find a way to equip yourself, join the Navy or learn a trade. You can do so much for yourself. He sent you 30k? Be happy he even sent anything at all. It is easier to make money in Nigeria, the system is rigged to benefit those who are willing to hustle, you can beat the system in many ways but not in the USA, the system is built tough and you have to work harder than you know to earn your keep.
50USD na money, except your uncle is in the league of Donald Trump and the likes, don expect much, he has tried, what have you done for yourself?

Same old story told by the same old crooks....

Aify3000:
Tbh ,she says i should fix it that she dont want to cheat on me

She was cheating from the start.... You know this but out are just choosing to live in denial.... Open your eyes and stop letting your emotions dictate your actions...

What you call tear rubber, belongs to the street�.... But to be serious, i think you should understand that the little girl is not interested in the marriage. Accept your loss, move on with your life, do dna and be certain she is your daughter, live your life and keep moving forward let her live her life� she is young and she still wants to test microphones.

Choilila:
Your shoe shine..

And you should hold on to that anointing . For a guy to fuvk you for six years and still choose you as a spouse is not ordinary. When we have lots of Men that misused Women in 6,5 4 months relationship because she wide open her vagina for him to put penis.


WELL SOMETIMES I BLAME THE WOMEN.

I really don't know why this is hilarious �

Smack her and let her know it is bad to talk like that... These are the formative years. Make sure discipline isn't left out of her curriculum.