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InfernoNig:
Either you are a bitter woman in disguise or you are gay. Pick one

Exjoker:
If I understand this your post well - you will only be jealous if the girl is prettier and a threat to your relationship

Britishcoins:
This woman is madly in love with me, I discovered that she married as a virgin at age of 16, to wealthy man.
The trouble started the day I accompanied his elder brother who was planning his wedding to the market to buy weeding suit and other things, it happened that she equally followed the brother...
We just exchanged greetings and boom, she liked and cherished me...
She asked the brother to give her my number, that she want to buy something from my shop..
my people from that day till today 1year now she will not allow me rest.
She even said that she wished she knew me earlier before married.
As for the husband, the man is financially buoyant and the woman has everything including cars...
She do call me in his husband presence.
I have already friend zone her because I told her no any romantic affection of any kind, which she also supported...
But I am afraid... She can do anything I ask her. To the extent of giving me 500k (borrow), wrist watch, many gifts I can't remember...
The husband self do jokingly ask her "what of ur boyfriend".
I don't know how to end this...
She even memorize my phone number and can call me anytime...
I am still virgin oo and I don't know exactly what she saw in me...
I am not even too handsome or rich...
But she does not care..
All her family secrets, she don't hide it for me..
On Xmas eve she drove to my rented apartment and said she wish I was her husband...
PLS WHAT SHOULD I DO?
SORRY FOR ANY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS...

Exjoker:
My ex girlfriend tried to used jealousy as a way to know if I truly love her. She was acting like she had another guy to see my reaction. But after I did not show any concern, she then confront me to ask me if I really love her as I did not question any of her behaviour.

This evening again while talking with my new girlfriend she told me to act jealous as another way of showing my love to her.

One thing I also noticed is that most of my exs were jealous and control freak kind of girls. My new girlfriend is also exhibiting traits of jealousy too - She said, it a way of showing love too.

Why do girls/people resort to the used of jealousy often as a way of showing love... Is it healthy to use jealousy as a way of expressing love in a relationship??

nairalandankrah:
if there’s one thing that’s universally true, it’s that, first-time sex is awkward, sweet, embarrassing, messy, nerve-wracking, and hilarious all at once.
If you thought you were the only person to lose your virginity before marriage, then I guess

You can take comfort in the fact that you are not alone at all....
did you feel bad?

BabylonCruise:
How is your Father.....Just Asking

OwenJesse27:
If you like scare your future guy away but don't come here when your in your 30s to say all men NIGERIAN MEN ARE SCUM are scum

xcelpro:
I am currently sick, but I can't tell the type of sickness.

This is how it started;

I didn't sleep well for about two weeks plus because I needed to pass my exams (reading at night). We were only given 1 week after resumption to write our exams.

I finished my exams few days ago, but after this I haven't gotten my self.

Serious body pain and headache

Tiredness

Weakness

Cough

Catarrh

Cold

High fever.

Hotness of the body

And serious soar throat.



PS: I treated malaria and typhoid before resuming back to school

I started medication for fever and cold two days ago but no improvement.

I'm wondering if this could be Covid because of the soar throat?

Xenry:
My friend told me yesterday that his gf would usually start laughing whenever she wants to cum during action. I don't understand how that can be possible, but he was serious AF.
He asked her why she always laugh during intercourse, and she told him that it's because he's too sweet in bed.
He has been scared all these while. Though it's serious and sad, but it's still funny shaaa. If you see the way he was describing the laughing ehh.
Mods, please no front page, leave this matter here abeg.

Xenry:
My friend told me yesterday that her gf would usually start laughing whenever she wants to cum during action. I don't understand how that can be possible, but he was serious AF.
He asked her why she always laugh during intercourse, and she told him that it's because he's too sweet in bed.
He has been scared all these while. Though it's serious and sad, but it's still funny shaaa. If you see the way he was describing the laughing ehh.
Mods, please no front page, leave this matter here abeg.

BigCabal:
Here's what the women said: https://www.nairaland.com/6410869/5-nigerian-women-share-why

Marriage is a big deal, no doubt. A few months ago, we spoke to a few Nigerian women who regret making the decision to commit their lives to one partner. We spoke with a few Nigerian men about the same issue. Here’s what they had to say.

1. Zayn
I didn’t envisage that getting married would have me spending this much money. I’ve been married for over four years now, and from my ₦720k salary, I spend over ₦100k every single week taking care of both my nuclear family and my wife’s nuclear family. I can’t even begin to tell you how unhappy all of that makes me.

2. David
I’ve been married for less than two years, but I’m constantly looking for ways out of this marriage. My wife is never happy with me. We never even have any meaningful conversations unless I’m about to do something for her.

I’ve tried coping with the lack of affection for almost two years now, but it doesn’t seem to be ending any time soon. It also doesn’t help that she exhibits extremely poor physical hygiene; that makes it two things I’m struggling to cope with. If I had my way out of the marriage this minute, I’d take that chance.

3. Korede
I hate my wife. She makes me want to throw up. I hate how her vagina feels and I hate that she even looks at me. The only thing I like about our union is the kids. They look like me. Before we got married, she used to treat me like shit, but I assumed that after we got married, everything would change.

She was beautiful, so I just thought it’s that thing beautiful women do. The biggest mistake of my life was marrying her because she perceived the fact that I stuck with her, even when she treated me like shit, as desperation. Now, I want to step out one day and just disappear forever and start a new life, but I can’t do it because I don’t want to lose my kids. So, I guess I’m staying.

4. Chinedu
I got married at 27, but I feel like I was not thinking about myself and my future when I did it. I got married because it seemed like the right thing to do after being with my high school sweetheart for almost 10 years.

Now that we live together, everything appears normal but deep down there are so many character traits she has that I wish I could change. Maybe those character traits are not enough ground for a divorce, but they’re enough to reassess the whole essence of our marriage.

Another thing that makes me regret getting married is money. I’d totally be a baller if I had all my income to myself. But I have to share. At the end of the day though, my kids make it all worth it.

5. Mo
My wife and I have been separated for almost two years now. We dated for about five years before we got married, and at the beginning of our marriage, things went pretty well. When we started having our normal couple fights, I thought things were going to blow over, but they only got worse. The major source of my wife’s issues is her mum. My wife doesn’t have friends; the only person she’s close with is her mum. Her mum started giving her all sorts of terrible advice that only made things worse. The quarrels continued and then she started sleeping around.

Recently, she made me pay for couple’s counselling just so we can get things working for our child. Shortly before we were meant to have our first counselling session, I found out she was hopping around hotels in Lagos with a man married with three kids. I even foolishly called the guy and told him to back off my family. On the morning of our counselling session, I was at her house as early as 6:50 a.m. to pick her up. The other guy was there too. I lost my cool, and we somehow ended up at a police station where I had to sign an undertaking not to move near her or our child again — a restraining order. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that I can’t see my child. In all of this, her mum champions her on and fully and openly supports everything she does, even the sleeping around.

Before all of this, I tried to get her a car. We went to a car dealership together and I told her to pick a car but she said she wanted the cash equivalent of whatever car she picked. But it’s not as if she had any plans to stay. She was just trying to extort me.

The only thing that keeps me going is the fact that I have a child with her.

Continue: https://www.zikoko.com/man/9-nigerian-men-share-why-they-regret-getting-married/

PerfectJUSTICE:
What will you sincerely do?

247info9janews:
The singer who appears to be a reptile lover.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Ok bro, how does redpil work on spending on your girl?

Neowanskywalker:
I no get ur time. U get problem wey pass mine thats why you wear diapers. Onyoshi

baralatie:

Neowanskywalker:
Go dive rock

Neowanskywalker:
If i sabi take the pill and how to go about it. .would i even open this thread? Una go just dey vex person anyhow

kmaster007:
I salute those men that have got the courage to reject sex offer, me ‘i can can’t’..

Just show me part of your pant like this, my brain no go dey reason well again. Little seductive act dey turn me on.

Who do I offend self?

All these articles and stories that we usually read online, those that always relate to something like “my wife sister wants to have sex with me, what should I do?” omo if na me, hmmmm! Make I no talk.

Once again, I do three gbosa for those of you wey dey reject sex offer, especially from a sexy lady. Una be the real MVP, no cap!

Let’s know ourselves, don’t lie

Have You Ever Reject Sex Offer From A Sexy Lady Before?

How Did It Happen And How Did You Manage To Reject The Sex Offer?

Neowanskywalker:
There is this girl i love who heartedly. Infact i cant say i love her. Its best describe as i worship her. The problem is she isnt mine and probably would never be. Its extremely clear i cant live without her. Just small misunderstanding, my emotion and my mind went off. What if she later or finally slip off my hands. I no wan lose my mind or my head. seems the only solution is to take the red pill. NOTE: THE GAL IS COMPLETE PACKAGE. THE BEST IN EVERYTHING..I MEAN EVERYTHING

sunshineV:
who's dat?