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Yungmil:
Did I tell u am in love?

Yungmil:
Mine was on the street close to her house. I saw her in the evening going home from work.

Iapproached her and told her I love her legs( wow very hot and sexy legs it turns me on lol) and she fell for me almost immediately, and gave me a sweet hug that night.

I think she just left her previous relationship before I met her and I guess that made it more easier for me. Timing is important.

Later that night she called to ask if I had gotten home and boom we became romantic.

Feel free to share your experience guys

Yungmil:
For me as a guy is a No No

What about you?

PataAlhajaKeji:
Germany and wahala.

Ever since Angela Merkel invited over one million Syrians and Arab refugees into that hithero, peaceful country, it's been one wahala or the other.

Arabs and their bad lucks.

idibe24:
nor be only incubator,na prickpie

idibe24:
Is it hard for a girl to love someone if he doesn't have anything doing, because I find it difficult to know whether their is true love without the girl in question to cheat on him with another.......

idibe24:
make I carry the brain give u

Mirsab:
I'm Mirsab Haq, 30years old
Working class and serving as well
Location: Abuja
In need of a Muslim girl ready for serious dating that will lead to walking down the aisle
Aged between 20-26years. (Not chubby pls)[/b][b]

Serious minded[b]
Call/WhatsApp: 08126789092[b][/b]

DankemzI:
Only after 17
Such a looser why quit so early I've been in 36 relationships already and he's giving up at 17, winners don't quit

Promzy99:
Helo N'landers. I am goin tru a serious delima that I thought wud be wise 4 me share with u guys. My girlfriend nd I have been dating 4 a year nd few months and I can vow dat she is a very gud girl, although a mother of one. Shes my exact definiton of a wife material. Shes caring, hard working, strong nd doesn't dpend on me 4 anytin. Due to d influence of covid-19 Last year, she lost her bank job. Fortunately for her 4 her dis year March, she got a job in a Micro-finance bank very close to my house. Now, because of distance, nd d small salary 4rm her new job, she pleaded to stay with me pending when she wud save up enough money to rent her own house 4 herself nd daughter (she lived with her aunty before) Friends after two months of living with her, I discovered our differences about sex. She wnts sex every minuete. In d morning and althrouh d nite she wants sex. And I prefer sex during weeknds because it affects my work badly. Pls how do I address dis issue wit her?

Ilamina:
I have an edo landlord
And our neighbors are so rich and cool
This particular boy smells so nice and drives a jeep Wrangler
He picked a nice house in a posh neighbourhood

Lerry14:
I am an entrepreneur and I’m based in abuja looking forward to meet with a honest girl for a very serious relationship..from age 24-28.. Note I’m from Akoko edo speaking part of edo state and I’m not interested in meeting with any ibo girl. 0703 932 9466

Promiseibritam:
Y dnt u kill her and run?

EmekaBlue:
Let's negotiate. Interested quote below

Stenvee:
Hello everyone! Welcome to the thread
Planning a wedding can be so tedious especially for people doing it on their own without the services of a wedding planner.
There was a thread like this before but it is no longer active. I believe I'm not the only one searching for a thread like this.
So here, we are going to be talking about a lot of things and answering a lot of questions as well concerning the wedding preparations.
So when you report to the thread, please introduce yourself

- Nickname
- Wedding date (in month or year)
- What stage of preparation you are on
- What is yet to be done
- Questions/Suggestions/Advice

Vendors, please do not derail the thread
Thank you!

freshkpomo:
Happy Sunday Niaralanders, this topic is a free for all, share your opinions.

I had the privilege of meeting my great grandpa and his three wives ( my great grandmother inclusive). They all worked with unity,cooked farmed, went to stream and market together (According to my grandmother). I saw this unity in them too before my old man died, this was polygamy that ought to be very competitive. There was no chicken republic,big proposal, honeymoon in Dubai, baby shower in Canada and other romantic stuffs, but yet these guys stuck together like glue and everyone knew their role in the family and played it perfectly.



Fast forward to today, marriage is scary and some even refer to it as hell. Men of those days hardly knew their wife, the women might be married of to a total stranger and that's it, but today you date for 7 years,court for 3years and still after marriage you still feel you married a total stranger.


Let's not just talk about domestic violence, it is more rampant now. These days people hardly cherish their spouse and can cause them harm within the slightest provocation. Those days, women were treated like queens and the women in turn see their husband as their Lord, owner and the reason of their existence ( speaking from a Benin perspective). But today it's not so, people can comfortably punch their wives to death or castrate their husband while he is deep at sleep. I was told my great-grandfather was very stubborn when he was younger but this stubbornness end with his children, he only takes it to the wives when they go out of their place i.e he is trying to discipline the child,then a woman interferes instead of just walking past, him go carry the cane jejely weep you like two strokes so that your head go correct and that will send a strong message to the child.

In view of the above, what will we conclude as a possible reason for the problems encountered in marriage today, could it be CIVILIZATION or we just evolved? Share your views and opinions.


Cc mynd44 seun lalasticlala Dominique

blinking001:
Swallow yours too and leave me alone. Stop quoting me. It's obvious you really missed me.

chatinent:
You own go bi to dey vex for wedding.

DARLINGTON869:
Honestly, I don't even know how to go about it. Appears to me like cool headed and homely ladies are really hard to find these days. The good ladies are either married off or tied down with serious padlock by their partners. I am 29 and make a good living, so money is not really an issue here. I am not bad looking either. Pls help me with the best possible advice to go about this. No insults pls

Havesomesense:
I have a girlfriend and I love her.
However I still feel like fvcking other girls too.

Funny enough other girls don't mind having fun with me even when I let them know expressly that i have a girlfriend.

It's been 6 months I cheated last and there's a very strong urge to wonder again.

Guys how do you manage to stay faithful when there are so many pretty girls?