₦airaland Forum

EyeTaspirant:
Let me put this question to you all for your sincere contribution.

So in the face of the Nigeria economic situation, a guy is beginning to gain stability and was able to get just a room (kitchen and bathroom inside) accommodation. But it appears that his girlfriend who would eventually become his wife is not happy with it and giving signs of breaking up.

So I want to ask, must a man wait/work till he gets a mini flat or a mansion before he is able to marry?

slyfox35:
The word "Baby Mama" started as a tiny dot in today's society but now that dot has become so large,Baby mamas here and there,Gone are the days where Getting married was a must and an achievement in Nigeria,Most young guys these days just need a child,but there are still some who will prefer to get married though,settle down and have a nice family,but how possible is that with this generation.
Which brings me to the topic of why baby mamas are so rampant now,let's remove unwanted pregnancy out of it, because,most of the "baby daddies" are well to do,and gladly accept the baby. So we wouldn't say it's finance.In my opinion,I prefer baby Mamas,why?
Answer: I am not shaming nor mocking girls of this generation,but the fact is most of them can't keep a home,hence the high rate of divorce between couples these days,the generation of our mothers are long gone in the marriage sphere,where would you see a woman that can bear all what our mothers passed through and still stayed in the marriage.
These days,a little problem in the marriage sparks feminism quotes, independent woman quotes,bla bla bla.
Not to talk of the promiscuous stories we see in marriage stories these days.Why marry when you can't keep your legs closed to an outside body.
The advent of the internet really played a big role in limited marriages and happy homes these days,a girl of 14 those days is mostly innocent and ignorant of the world,a girl of 13 these days is in her room locked up but has the world with her in her phone,she can see and hear anything.
The males are not left out too,some really have unapologetic and obtuse attitude..I envy the era of our parents.
I prefer baby Mama, because I nor fit for drama,I nor fit for heartbreak,them nor dey see strong man for heartbreak o,if e catch you,then u will understand
Which do you prefer,Wife or Baby mama?

Ambeed:
I'm in my mid thirties, not ugly, a health worker. From the southern part of Nigeria.

Will prefer men not boys from South south or south east. Lives in Lagos.

AS genotype, not much of a talker but cool.

If you are within 38 to 45 dm me, jokers and boys and red pillers stay away.

If there are white men on nairaland you can do me as well.

I need a friend that can become a confidant and husband tomorrow.

meobizy:
Those are big words for a guy who would otherwise remain a bus conductor if fame didn't come his way. His tattoos are even fading. Lol.

Prechgold1180:
Hello everyone please sorry to disturb you with my personal problem I just feel it best I table the matter here
Let me try to be short
Please how do I tell my girlfriend to go back to her house without offending or sounding rude
I am a young guy and she is also young too currently in my final year she is a graduate on her own side she graduated last year)
She travelled outta Nigeria after graduation came back after 1 month
Ever since she got back she has been in my house close to two months now and she is not even talking about leaving
I don’t even have my space again
I can’t even go out with my friends she always calling for my attention
It is choking me seriously I can’t even keep female friends because she is always complaining
All my friend are now referring to me as a married man

Pls how do I tell her to go back without hurting her
Me don tire i swear

EzegeNdiigbo:
Like, what's gonna really happened?



Like like serious what's gonna really happened if two partner's engaged in "early morning sex", what it gonna be oferring out to them because that's a trending talk in my crib yesterday night Between One of my guy and her soul mate that came to spend over the week via my crib.


The argument was something else that the girl refused to talk with his guy this morning.so i put on on my ear bud and sleep off around that kind 11 pm, so right now i wanna do Dem favour by breezin' it out on NL for your intake!!



So what do y'all think about this prolonged arguments?


After your contribution i drop what brought about the noise abi arguments!!!



Outta yea

donbachi:
sardine is baby herring fish..Most canned fish is tuna.

kay29000:
I don't think it is...from the picture comparison...this my own fish I bought has red color on the body, herring doesn't.

donbachi:
correct.

mrdharkchild:
25. Reading The Newspaper In A Cafe Is A Phenomena Nowadays.

Haderer did an incredible job here drawing on the laptop cafe culture that has become so common in many places around the world. Local cafes often have rows of people writing emails, participating in video calls, and working their way into a fast-paced life.

Reading The Newspaper In A Cafe Is A Phenomena Nowadays
GerhardHaderer
So in this illustration, the artist makes reference to reading a newspaper in a coffee shop being “old-school”.

Frelex:
pls am in tears. I need some one to talk to me. Am i the only person that sees it as wrong? I love her with my life. But this is just too much for me to take

Ambeed:
Telling me to sit well because she thought she was seeing my undies.

Frelex:
Good day nairalanders. Pls i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 years now. We had never made mistake of getting pregnant. But last month she said she dnt see her period and i told to be patient and she would see it.

On saturday she told me she was going for test and i agreed. Only for her to call me letter in the evening that the test was positive she was pregnant and she bought abortion pillz and aborted.

Nairalanders am really hurt and pained. Was she not soppose to seek my concent? Does she have right to abort without letting me know?

Am breaking up the relationship, but 1st, i need u guys advise and opinion.

Can u continue a relationship when ur gurl frnd abort without asking u 1st?

Ambeed:
How about a child telling you to sit like a lady in a family meeting , these kids can be brutal with their word at times.

mystery22:
zone b that never sleeps cos of ipob

nedekid:
How ipob take enter this matter?

Fahdiga:
Stale

lilvicky68:
And a girl also killed her 50yr old lover..

lilvicky68:
Which woman wey no like money

lilvicky68:
You no add money?

Kondomatic:
We are talking facts not individual thoughts or opinion.

Kondomatic:
A woman is hardly ever straight, they're mostly bisexuals and lesbians so don't even compare the two.


Women kiss each other, can you allow a guy to kiss you? Pinch your nipple? Or play with you romantically like women play with each other?

If a guy calls me sweetheart, I will sit him down and tell him to never do it again. I didn't author any dictionary sir, look up the meaning.

Infolenka:
Fuçk off

Infolenka:
Fuçk off

Infolenka:
I honestly think that no other player comes close to England's Tyrone Mings in the sexiness department. Dude has got it all, height, face, body. An Adonis.