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Jamesb87:
Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�

Ilamina:
I told this yoruba guy hi

And he ignored me

That's what I like, not like mr chinedu and that bayelsa gateman that all wanna fcck me

Rhemirio:
A smile on your face ��

Afam4eva:
Why is it that all the black men(not celebrities) that i've seen that go out with white women always go out with the worst of them. I mean they go out with rejects. I'm yet to see a black guy with a very beautiful white woman. Are beautiful white women so hard to get? But i see white men with the best looking sisters that black community has got to offer. It's funny that these black men will be posing with their white wives as if they've just hit a jackpot.

izubext007:
Have you ever been caught watching PORN?

armyjassy101:
hello guys,I have been noticing this for some time now though I might be wrong but I noticed majority of women seem to love a particular ex lover despite not being together again which when they remembers the person they sometimes become moody or at worst cries even if they were the one that instigated the break up why is this so guys have you been with a girl that constantly remember their ex this annoys me a lot and its a turn off for me in a lady that does that

obinnazy:
I'm a guy in lagos, been single for 15months, I'm not rich but i'm not a lazy type...I need a girlfriend in lagos i can call my own... reach out to me on whatsapp 08126123601..

obinnazy:
Hello, I'm a hustling guy from the east but resides in lagos..
I need a God fearing lady for a relationship, no sex involved, and you don't have to expect any financial assistance from me. .
We will chat, hangout, support each other...
Please if you are not single or ready to be faithful ignore this thread....
I'm tall, slim,....chat me on whatsapp if interested 08126123601.
I'm 100% single ..

mespusinglez:
Rojar That

mespusinglez:
they don't have the kidney to directly ask me about who am f*cking

mespusinglez:
They always ask about your girlfriend

winnah:
I saw a topic today with a caption similar to this one. "can you marry a woman like your mother"?

100% I can marry a woman like my mother. But I doubt I'll marry a Man like my father if I was a woman... I will die of heart attack. That man and woman... Jesus!!!
They are five and six!!!

MrCork:
but Why do women keep calling me Daddy?
everytime I walk pass a chick, she says Hello Daddy.

The problem is that Marreied women are also calling me Daddy. Please help/ Please advise!!

laraskey:
Ladies how do you let a guy know you like him, apart from smiling and asking mumu questions like "How is your girlfriend"?

olufunmi01:
I and my fiance has been planning to settle down. I am not really earning that much here in ibadan, as a graduate I earn 30k but my fiance earn 40k in the same city. Things have been going rough lately because I want to take a new accommodation but all the savings I have wasn't enough. So, I asked my babe if she could support and later I will pay back but bluntly told me she can't give a dime. Well I told my friend about it and he told me that that kind of lady would never support even in the midst of financial crisis. Yesterday, I tempted her to borrow me 1k that by Friday I would pay back, telling her I don't want to touch money saved for our accommodation but she immediately told me no. What do you think I can do? Because I don't want to make a wrong decision. Advise. We have been together for 3 years

Winsome4545:
No man will like to stay with a qirl that is not respectful, we men love respect

Winsome4545:
No reason am like that bro

Winsome4545:
what if u tried changing her bad character for years but she ends up qettinq worse, no be to japa?

Winsome4545:
some girls out there can be extremely rude and disrespectful even as virgins, can u go your separate ways when u can't cope with her bad side?(that is after taking her virginity). Matured answers ONLY

akpunda86:
Married women are cheating more than Men.I tut was a joke till I entered this Facebook group.come see married women I said married women sending us nudes doing video calls.Theu are in all states even I'm presently in their WhatsApp group.Adultery is the key word.Group rules before you enter asks you will u Bleep outside your marriage.
The group is irritating.If you are in Onitsha your in danger many of the married women from Onitsha.The language is sex sex.
Group name is Married dating.you might see your Mum or Dad there but is very very painful seeing our parents or young married couples cheating.
Is not a sugar mummy stuff is sex among married couples.
Group name again Married Dating.please I'm not promoting them rather I'm trying to see if a way married guys can enter the group and betray many of this married women promoting adultery.it is finished.

micellgevity:
Let's assume you have not married. And you just want to marry now, can you marry your current wife again? Pls honest answers. Identify the specimen with reason. Lol
As for me, I can't, cos it's like a hell.

Energy24:
Hi guys , this has been happening to a friend of mine and he is seeking for help , any time he thinks or come across of sexual scene in movie or reality is dick will be dripping of pre-cum even if he doesnt really pay attention to the eroctic scene , i decided to tender is matter before you guys. Please what is your advice .

Boskybrown:
Am for sale, chat me on WhatsApp let’s know our self more..
‪+234 811 270 6494‬

Badlyconfused:
Hello Nairalander,
A brother is absolutely confused for the past few days now.
Please forgive my grammar because I'm not in the right frame of mind.

My Fiancée is 3 weeks pregnant and since then, she has never been herself.

We planned getting married by next year January after I'd met with her parent and they agreed to the wedding plan.

The major problem is that she is a well-known person, and getting pregnant out of wedding luck is not what it's expected of her. I'm 35 and she is 27.

We both love each so much, there is nothing I can't give to her, same goes to her. In fact, she is perfect for me.
Left to me a lone, I'd prefer she keeps the pregnancy since I'm not longer a kid and she not either. But the trauma is changing her to the opposite of herself; she is losing it.

Instead of seeing her going through the trauma, I'd rather agreed with her to terminate the pregnancy. I can't afford to continue seeing her going through this.

I've agreed with her to abort it.
Here is the issue:

None of us has done this (abortion) before, and we don't know the right hospital to go to.
Abortion is still illegal in Nigeria even though some hospitals are still doing.

As Nairalanders would say, "what do you want us to do now?"

I'd like to know which hospital to visit.
Is it all hospitals that do it? If know, how do I know which hospital will be willing to help us out?

Please help a Nairalander out.

I know some people would say that why did we have unprotected sex when we're not ready for a baby. Well, it's a stupid thing I did and I take full responsibility for it.

Shit happens and I'm experiencing one.

If you decide to bash me for my foolishness, I'll gladly take it because I deserve it.

Patrioticbreed9:
yeah! fati is back from ban! o my darling i missed you. but i know you didnt miss me

kollinzgee:
I just started dating a hausa girl she is a christian and very well behaved and intelligent.
But the problem is my friend who speaks hausa fluently because he once lived in the north. whenever he is around they deviate from speaking normal english to Hausa its makes me insecure and jealous because i feel they relate better because i dont understand hausa,i dont want to act immature so i feel like telling her to stop.

chukskafor:
I was disgusted when I got to PHCN office yesterday to settle my bills. The Officer in charge said I should wait for some minutes as they are servicing their Genarator which they will use for my print-out.

All of a sudden, all the officials shouted "Up NEPA!"

I felt sorry for the state of the nation because these PHCN staff seem not to know the panacea to our predicament as we are all expecting Light together.
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