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[quote author=Pruwa post=87562807]this love cannot see beyond it
because the foundation is faulty[/quoote]
Okay. I don't want to sound pushy already. I only use the first mention to get your attention but it's like you want to use it against me. It's alright I don't have much energy

Phadg:
Hi guys i just joined NL and from what have been reading on here bfor i sign up i feel i might get a response from nairalanders

Am a lady that believes in building with a man and not looking for an already made guys am also an independent lady so i dont really need your money,i work for what i spend, Atimes i end up giving out of the little i earn to my partner, now this is the sad part these guys take me for a fool some just start acting up like some1 with psychosis{apologies} but it the truth well i just broke up with my boyfriend cause i cant deal with his bullshit anymore. now my question is
1. IS IT BAD FOR ME TO SHOW YOU I LOVE YOU?
2. IS IT A SIN FOR ME TO WANT TO BE INVOLVE IN YOUR LIFE{I BELIEVE WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THERE FOR EACHOTHER}?
3.IS ASKING FOR A LITTLE TRANSPARENCY A SIN?
4.WHY DO GOOD GIRLS HAVE BADLUCK WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING A GUY?

APOLOGIES FOR THE LONG POST.

I'm what you are looking for. Average in looks don't care about partner's pocket. But I'm still a student but in my late twenties also in Lagos. And most importantly I can give love. Should I pm or you still wanna think about it?

Pruwa:
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how can u send a pm to someone that cannot spell?

Doesn't matter. Love see beyond little flaws.

Pruwa:
egunegun be careful oo

You can't even spell simple egungun. Can I send a pm?

Leezah:
do you have an email?

Yes ma'am. This is it, solabaxterwells@yahoo.com. thanks so much

Ekakamba:
How is he an olodo?
Is it wrong spelling or wrong grammar?

The Op is the ignorant olodo. Doesn't know the difference between wrong grammar and wrong spelling.

Sixfeetbelle:
Asking you your age was to show you how weird his question was.

Maybe I reacted too much, but I know what I meant when I said I won't humour him by answering him personal questions on a faceless forum.

Okay. I know you asked my age not because you really wanted to know, but I just decided to tell you anyway. Just to show that we cool. I got nothing against you.

Sixfeetbelle:
I'm calm.


By the way, how old are you?

We aren't fighting pretty. When he asked the question he said out of curiosity what Uni did you attend. Then you told him and still asking him why he asked after he has told you out of "curiosity". I'm 27 this year

Nnaetochukwu:
Ania state ohafia

Okay

Sixfeetbelle:
It's about time I stopped humouring you. Don't ask me any more questions.

Bye.

Calm down, he told you the reason before he asked the question. But you still asked for the reason he already told you

Nnaetochukwu:
Had sex in the field in school at night with a girl back then in FGC

Which FGC? I'm just seeing fgc without the specific one. I attended FGC Odogbolu tho

RisenPhoenix:
You were thinking with your small head instead of the big head.

Since you knew she was a runs girl, you should have taken one semester's school fees, hired her for one continuous week and got the fake love out of your system. By the time you smelt her fart and realised it was not Chanel no. 5, even your small head will have fallen out of that yeye love.

I didn't know sir. I said I heard. It wasn't fake love that I can tell you.

Well I've fallen in love at first sight once. Maybe not once but surely the strongest. I was in 400 level the first time I saw her. I mean I asked my friends if she is in another department and we just taking class together. They said no that she has been with us since 200 level. Every fucking time I see this girl I'm always excited in some kind of happy way. Why I said its love is because of the above and the feeling didn't wear off. I even heard she was into runs but I still love her. I think she knows I like her because she caught me staring the first time and subsequently. She talked to me on the last day of school. I was happy. Joy, Unilag, Accounting department 14/15 set if you reading this I loved you with all my heart

Well I have one that doesn't stay there but goes there like he's going to market. Thank God, he is the one sponsoring my university school fees. And also upkeep. I'm really grateful to him. Thank you sir

Wizygreat12:
i just cash � out 2million with this second goal God u are too good

Bro help someone here now? First bank
3058899916
Fatuga Olushola. At all at all

RisenPhoenix:
Everyone cares about their image, not only narcissists. And in this case, I do not see his having done anything wrong, even if we were to take her own account as true. She is obviously trying to coerce him into marrying her by playing on gullible people into giving her the media sympathy she needs to achieve her own ends.

He stated often enough that HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT HER. A person does not have to care about everyone he mutually has sex with in order to not 'seem' narcissistic. I am of course, assuming that she is not a tree, so if she does not like her location, she should be able to move.



I do not as a rule care about the opinions people have of me; even my real life family, friends and acquaintances much less on an anonymous forum, but I do not ever verbally attack individual persons, and I am one of the few NLs who has maintained a respectful attitude towards you personally. However, I have no such compunctions about attacking inethical statements made by anyone; especially in a professional context. As a medical officer, the term 'narcissist' must have a special, scientific meaning for you. Yet you chose to throw it around falsely (and further defend your false diagnosis by directing us to google) in order to guilt trip the man into believing that he's in the wrong; in a bid to unrealistically 'balance things out'. That is not a proper thing to do. So yes, I feel you are out of line there.

Sir, I've seen your post before. I really like and respect the way you dissect and correct their wrong opinion without one form of insult. Even when she claims you attack her when I didn't see any attack you still explained it to her. Though you don't care about what people think of you but I must admit that I so much respect you.

Riele:
Why should I be like you ? .
Trash talk ? .

I would have considered your advice but not when it's mixed with an insult .

Kindly stop quoting me . Happy Sunday.

Thrashtalk? It wasn't an insult it was simply a fact. Or what would you call when you insult someone and the person didn't take offense still trying to explain somethings to you but you just decided to block it out and still put the blames on him. I don't know what you call that but I call it thrashtalk.
Have a happy Sunday too

ProfDview1:
I wud nt av brought this here but she made it public hence I need to come make this clear. She thinks I am nt on nairaland, just imagine

Bro I know. I would have done the same too. Don't just mind that girl. I can't just see someone thrashtalk me in my presence and not counter it back especially when they aren't true

Riele:
Lol . You're also judging the whole situation base on your own post .

Men always defend their own even when it's wrong . I'm not surprised at lall .

I saw you on the redpillers meme this morning but I was indifferent about what you said. But this right here on this thread all you saying is thrash. Thrash talk. Why can't you be like me that really don't want to believe either of them absolutely. And just learn one or two lessons from their half truth show of self righteousness

ipobarethieves:
to avoid story dat ‘TOUGH” /blame lecturer dat dash u F,D,E,F,C,E,D .Philosophy isn’t for u.Retake jamb and pick course like Bus Admin,B/F,Acc,Eco where u nor go struggle to pass(apology to d bright peeps here)

My bro remove ACC and Economy. I did Acc with nothing to show for it. I'm doing Bus Ad now. The difference is clear

FreeSpirited:
Lol. Okay. I get your perspective. But you must have misconstrued my post. 1. I didn't say I spent a dime in my post. I only say hustle. which means to get busy, improving on yourself, making money and taking care of yasef, then all others will follow. And you know what, improving yourself, being well groomed and appearing with a super cool mien means that quality people will automatically get drawn to you and will want to associate with you unlike when you are needy, unsure of yourself with low self esteem.
Trust me, no matter what high self esteem you have, with more money, your esteem will also skyrocket with more confidence than you thought you had without money. That's simply what I meant in the post even though I wasn't detailed. Thanks for your perspective though...its just the ABC of getting babes to like you on your own merit..which gets even easier when you are okay and well collected.

Guy you don't need to explain yourself. You hit bull's-eye. It's so true. Money will attract the rich girl that you won't need to spend on them

Omar09:
Nah I don't.

Okay. Cos I wanna stay faceless

Omar09:
Nope. Maybe I'm missing something here.

Yeah. Funny how she doesn't want to date me but don't want me dating another girl. So you get it now.
BTW do you know me like offline?

grossintel:
She likes you, but she's not sure you're financially ready to be with her, I like her type anyway.

You are a wizard bro. I'm broke and she knows that I'm broke. You're 100% right

But the worst shot is a girl telling me she is pregnant for me. Without me hitting any spot. I was still a virgin then sef

Well a girl came to buy goods at my shop one December. I've been seeing her and I kind of find her attractive. So she bought the stuff and there was no change. I asked her to come back and she came back later. But because I wanted to see her again I told her no change yet but she said she wanted to go buy something so I gave her money she went to buy whatever she wanted to buy and gave me my balance. So I said " oh, I had change I just wanted you to come back so I can see you" she didn't say anything she just left. 10 minutes later boom she came back and just sat there. I was like you want to buy another thing she said "no, I just came to keep your company" a girl I've never spoken to before that day. And she said she has never seen me before. We are very good friends now sha and it's over a year. Though she said she doesn't like me for date but will discourage me from dating any girl. Just recently she called me to know where I was I told her I traveled to see my girl. She said God punish my girlfriend. I asked her why, she said because I never told her I had a girlfriend. Funny right?.