Culture › Re: Some Similarities Between Ijaw , Urhobo And Itsekiri by Favolly(f): 10:13pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Goodboiyy: Hey bro don't say trash about my people.
How many itsekiri av u met ? They re all Accommodating Hmmn |
Family › Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Favolly(f): 9:04pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
slimz10: To the OP
If I should reason like most typical Nigerian, I would go with this line of thought by favolly
but on the long run, the lady in question may mean no harm just to see you.... maybe your ex told her that you were his first . . . . . .Girlfriend or lover
My thought thou. I wouldn't insist that my husband's first attend our wedding. I'm sure most ladies won't either. I don't think that explains it |
Family › Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Favolly(f): 7:56pm On Sep 05, 2015*. Modified: 10:40pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
I think it's really weird that the wife wants you there. Why?? To rub it in your face that she won the 'prize'? Or is she just one of those overly-pleasant people who don't know what awkward means? Because insisting that you attend her wedding seems kinda awkward to me |
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Favolly(f): 5:24pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
agarawu23: good question. She jam her luck under my roof so therefore the money will be 70/30 70 for me 30 for her. After all I am still the head of the family and the family responsibility is still on me if you marry your 'own' wife, she can even put the money under your care as the head Lol! You're obviously joking. 70 for you indeed |
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Favolly(f): 1:00pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
agarawu23: I don't know about other guys o, but I can't sha.
Two oga can't be in the same bus  So what if during the marriage, she gets lucky and something happens that makes her become really wealthy.. wealthier than you too. Will you divorce her? |
Romance › Re: "Ladies, How True Is This"? (pic). by Favolly(f): 12:14pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Crass  |
Culture › Re: Why African Women Must Go Natural by Favolly(f): 10:25am On Sep 03, 2015 |
Late to the parry as usual....
This hair matter isn’t that serious, really. I believe Africans have more important issues to channel their energy into. This TeamNaturalHair campaign has been overflogged, as far as I’m concerned. Why is it so hard to understand that black hair has different textures. If relaxing my hair is going to make it more bearable for me, why cant I relax it without it seeming like I have committed a capital crime?
So fixing hair equals inferiority complex? Lmao!
Abeg, everyone should do whatever they want with their hair, let us live and let live!
Personally, I don’t see anything wrong with fixing weaves once in a while, even though I prefer braids. Variety is the spice of life.
OP should stop being an hypocrite, not every black female looks old in weaves. It’s really not that bad.
Na how to make make better money I dey reason right now, no be natural hair matter dey plague me. |
Romance › Re: CONFESSION: I Just Raped Her!!!! by Favolly(f): 10:26pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: CONFESSION: I Just Raped Her!!!! by Favolly(f): 7:05pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Teempakguy: one quick question, is this a first time time meeting? Or a reunion?,  'Cause it seems like you know me . . . Lol I know your moniker, but this is definitely a first time meeting. I liked your response to the OP, that's why I quoted you |
Romance › Re: CONFESSION: I Just Raped Her!!!! by Favolly(f): 6:01pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: CONFESSION: I Just Raped Her!!!! by Favolly(f): 4:11pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
adedayourt: are u suggeting d guy be shut like a bush meat nd later roasted like suya  Hmmn... Sharp brain  |
Romance › Re: No longer Applicable by Favolly(f): 11:46am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Hmmn... |
Romance › Re: CONFESSION: I Just Raped Her!!!! by Favolly(f): 11:32am On Sep 02, 2015 |
So why are you even disturbing her sef? What's there to be said?? Devil pushed you?  She obviously is still very angry and doesn't want to talk to you I don't normally judge, but you really deserve to be burnt on a stake after being shot thrice in the brain |
Romance › Re: CONFESSION: I Just Raped Her!!!! by Favolly(f): 11:28am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Teempakguy:

Go to the nearest police station and have a little chat with them.
She will probably be impressed with your chivalry and help you out in court.   |
Romance › Re: What's Your Position?-(photo) by Favolly(f): 11:26am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Beht why romance section??  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: CBN Calling For Applications by Favolly(f): 11:23am On Sep 02, 2015 |
FriedPlantain: Thank God I served in Ebonyi, I'm therefore an indigene of the state and can apply for this post.  Lol! Same here  |
Romance › Re: Corpse Having Sex In Aba Mortuary - Daily Times by Favolly(f): 11:20am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Video evidence or gerrourahia!! |
Education › Re: A Dozen Words That Even The Most Educated Nigerians Use Or Interpret Wrongly by Favolly(f): 8:23am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Very educating...
I've never really know Nigerians to use the word 'sentiment' wrongly though.
Many nigerians give their opinions or judgements based on emotions or feelings. That is being sentimental, yes? |
Politics › Re: Aliyu Tola, A Man, Is The Commissioner For Women Affairs In Adamawa by Favolly(f): 7:18am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Lol! He beat Donald Trump to it  |
Politics › Re: List Of States That Got Bail-Out Funds To Offset Salary Arrears by Favolly(f): 7:15am On Sep 02, 2015*. Modified: 10:45pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Crownvillar: Please tell me more. I hail from Osun State but live elsewhere. Please tell, what you know. Thanks. Well, they are in serious debt. Apart from the bank loans of about N86 billion that were restructured into Federal Government Bonds, they still have debts in form of state bonds which they cant pay up because their debt service reserve account has been depleted. This is really all I can say for now. |
Politics › Re: List Of States That Got Bail-Out Funds To Offset Salary Arrears by Favolly(f): 10:54pm On Sep 01, 2015 |
This isn't even the half of Osun's matter. The thing is just giving me serious headache mehn! |
Travel › Re: So There Are Nigerians That Fly From Lagos To London Then To Abuja Than Direct? by Favolly(f): 5:36pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Omojuwa and his stories  |
Investment › Re: What Is The Best Way To Invest 1 Million Naira? by Favolly(f): 5:31pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Mutual funds! Money Market Mutual Funds!! |
Romance › Re: How To Get A Lady Mad At You In Two Easy Steps by Favolly(f): 10:13am On Aug 30, 2015 |
Classic! |
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Nairaland General › Re: 10 Myths About Introverts by Favolly(f): 12:30pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
I think this is really spot on!! |
Celebrities › Re: Denrele Edun Stuns In Waist Long Red Braids (photos) by Favolly(f): 12:13pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
WDC!  |
Romance › Re: 16 Things You Should Be Ready To Face If You're A Virgin by Favolly(f): 11:56am On Aug 29, 2015 |
Interesting points, but it's a bit one sided.
I understand though, you're speaking from your experiences...
I still think it's worse for male virgins, especially when they date sexually active ladies. |
Christianity Etc › Re: 7 Biblical/ Wisdom Ways To Avoiding "RAPE" At All Cost In A Filthy World by Favolly(f): 2:54pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Chi59: But the environmental context in which Emusmith wrote about, is about rape cases in Nigeria(even if he didn't state it explicitly), and we all know that MANY rape cases can be largely attributed to indecent dressing(i'm a lady, i know what i'm talking about) on the part of the ladies. Also, the issue of a lady found moving about knowingly or even being stranded at night for some reasons can also lead to rape. We ladies have our own part to play.
God bless you, op #sayNOtorape #bewise But if a lady is stranded at night, doesn't it mean that anything could have led to her being at that state by that time? E.g. she got robbed of her phone and bag in a new city... Remember that if she could help it, we wouldn't be using the word 'stranded' to describe her situation. So pray, tell us how this is deserving of rape |
Christianity Etc › Re: 7 Biblical/ Wisdom Ways To Avoiding "RAPE" At All Cost In A Filthy World by Favolly(f): 2:46pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Larryfly: Why i will agree with the latter part of your comment, i still maintain my stand that the culprits are to be blamed entirely for rape and not the girls. A man should be wise enough to know when he is being used by a girl. Not to go and forcefully have sex with her because she has been making you spend. They re so many girls out there that can give you all round sexual pleasure for little feel. We should stop condemning the victims of rape, that is my position Preach!! |
Christianity Etc › Re: 7 Biblical/ Wisdom Ways To Avoiding "RAPE" At All Cost In A Filthy World by Favolly(f): 2:28pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Reference: Yes. We have also heard and no case of rape is ever taken lightly. It has been elevated to the status of murder. It will become a capital crime like robbery some day but for the reason of wide spread banditry we have gone cashless, employed security guards, gadgets and gone low profile, a whole lot of lifestyle changes. The subject of debate is not whether there is robbery or how bad the robbers are but wgat can be done to lessen the likelihood of an attack.
What are ladies doing to protect themselves both in attitude and in act. What most of you are saying and doing is to flaunt more and more cash in the face of hoodlums. Is this excusable. Oh please! For every report on a rape case, how many people come here to talk about it being a capital crime like murder? The norm, especially on Nairaland, is to analyse why the girl may have been raped, then blame her accordingly. Thats how one ewu opened a thread 2 days ago, just to analyse the fact that the 18 year old lady who was raped by the stup1d lecturer deserved what she got or something silly like that. What even bothered me there, was the amount of people that agreed with him. Hian!! Anyway, I am waiting for the foool to open another thread to disprove what the new accuser has said about the lecturer. Oh, and thank goodness you even brought up security guards and cashless whatever. Wondafu analogy! So even at that, don't robbers still break into banks? Don't they rob people still? When the police hear such stories, do they crucify the security system? Last time they robbed a bank, didn't they do all they could to hunt down the robbers? Did they derail from concentrating on the actual crime and ask the bank why their vault wasn't secure enough? If they had channelled all their energy to playing the blame game, would they have caught the thieves? Yes, I understand the subject of the debate, and in fact I have issues with the fact that anytime there's a rape case, it is always the subject of the debate. Isn't it high time we addressed the actual issue and channel all our efforts into persecuting the perpetrators all the way? Since you men are not interested in advising your fellow men but are so insistent on being such one-sided advisers, we haven't heard an applicable advice for the 5 year olds that get raped in their schools. Please they need enlightenment too. Leave the rapists, the children enticed them with their dressing too. |
Christianity Etc › Re: 7 Biblical/ Wisdom Ways To Avoiding "RAPE" At All Cost In A Filthy World by Favolly(f): 9:24am On Aug 09, 2015 |
emusmith: Biblical/ Wisdom Ways To Avoiding "RAPE" At All Cost In A Filthy World
Good Morning Y'all. I woke up to see a very cool thread on FP regarding this topic. Different views, yea! "What's God's view?", I thought.
The Bible offers a whole package of counsels to young folks and older ones too. The complains God gets to receive are so because most of the times, humans either are ignorant, nonchalant or disobedient.
"Keep yourself from the wickedness in the world", don't channel blames, be smart and run for your life. You have just one life to live.
3. Dress decently always.
Yea, they'll say, "what concerns anyone with my mode of dressing". I can state with facts that the wife of Potiphar actually lusted after Joseph because he had a "good stature" and was good to look upon. (6 packs plenty). In those days, servants don't wear shirt again. She almost lured the young man. So, your dressing is important too. "You shouldn't wear a tiny, flabby skirt to visit a guy you know is sexually active"It is just COMMON SENSE. Should that one be taught you? I thought they now have "tights"? If you are "very courageous" (big b**bs), Wisdom says "Don't advertise it by using weak or no bra". What people advertise is a clue to what they want to give. Do you want to give it? Some times, they wear buttoned shirt and you know that those "pawpaws" would want to peep- MY POINT IS, Use Wisdom rather than complaining unnecessarily.
Good Morning & Happy Sunday. OP, you try o! Very nice piece indeed. But since you are a man, I am waiting for the day someone like you will write a piece preaching to your fellow lads to stop raping women. "Ladies, stop visiting man", "stop dressing like that", "Be Godly", "blah blah blah" We have heard you people, We are also tired of hearing it, ehn? I want to believe that every wise girl takes all these precautions. Inasmuch as I feel it's good to educate ladies about what or what not to do to avoid rape, all the constant advice is beginning to make it look like we are the bad guys here, or like we actually encourage or enjoy the nonsense. It's supposed to be the other way round. On FP every week, there is supposed to be a thread fully dedicated to condemning the act, and damning the perpetrators to hell too. So OP, we are very grateful for the advice, thank you. But being a man, please try and do a piece for the men too. Yea, I see about 2 sentences where you said rape is bad. But they need more than that, they need an epistle, with scriptural backing like you did up there. I really hope you dont take my suggestion the wrong way. Like I earlier said, it was indeed a nice piece. Just that I'm tired of hearing this kind of advice, and would really love to see someone actually address the root cause of the matter. In the end, this advice cannot apply to helpless 5 year olds who know nothing, but are victims of sexual molestation |