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Sanchez01:
You can't make such ridiculous proposal to have a stake in an already running business. If he was setting her up to start the business, say from the beginning, then he can actually put up the proposal. She doesn't look like she needs help but he is offering to buy get her some things and expect to own a stake of her business.

Giving her the money on loan is better than the embarrassing proposal.

Divorce isn't a thing I consider and wouldn't want to dwell on that. Plus, you can make a woman sign a prenup before anything.

I guess I need read the writeup from OP again

Tzar:
So you want us to advise you on what to do with an insecure, opportunistic, gold digger?
If you don’t mind the aforementioned clear characteristics of your so called partner, why not meet in the middle & ask for a contributory joint account where you both agree in trust to put a percentage of your income into the account.
If he still disagrees with this, you better leave his gold digging ass & dm me ASAP! People like us dey look for better, financially independent babe with wife value o!

Yimmu

todaynewsreview:
Surprisingly, it's him that will soon find out he's doing himself great harm. Allow him please if that's what he wants. Na him go later beg to opt out.

Someone you dont know his mind... People funny sha

Rrchrd:
Get this
Never do joint account with anybody even with your husband

Yeye...
Many wey no do nko....

Rrchrd:
Get this
Never do joint account with anybody even with your husband

Yeye

ivolt:
Get a lawyer.
If he wants to be a partner draw up a contract where he will have to invest certain amount for
a percentage of your business say 20%. In this case, he will be an investor with a stake while
you run everything and share profits.
Also, have a clause that will ensure you can buy him out at anytime you want.

NEVER agree to a blank joint account!
It is a trap.

Everything laslas... No one will be buried with all these things na... E no reach like this na

Sanchez01:
That's him indirectly requesting a stake in your business and taking out money when he needs it. It is better to reject it outrightly. If he can't support you without partnering with you, then it can only mean the help he wants to render is expected to be paid back through owning a stake in your business.


If he wants to walk after that, just know he isn't your peace of mind.

Can't he have a stake?
But if man grow business and divorce come ... Woman can take from his wealth

subsidywise18:
Sad really.

I don't stress myself on Nigerians matter... We love pointing fingers

LegendHero:
One would think Obi Pandora turned Anambra to Dubai when he governed with all this useless hype from his Meth addicts fans.

Lolzzzz

subsidywise18:
Okay, let's pay the same kind of fees they pay there then, and spend the same kind of money they spend there then.

Lolzzzx.....
You know we always want what we can't pay or sacrifice for...

vatiqan:
I carry your old boy money go the school, na. Ode!

Make we meet na....
Make you come repeat this statement... Abeg...

HellVictorinho4:
People like that are Hell-bent on useless repetition.

Smiles

ghettokid1:
He met them 2nd and took them to 6th

So he was the coach defemder keeper and midfileder

ghettokid1:
u re on the wrong side and u must come to my side

Wahala

ghettokid1:
He doesn't deserve better than Europa, He suppose play am... make em know say KING MESSI no be em mate

PSG is not manU na

ghettokid1:
MESSI is greater than whoever u think is the GREATEST
MESSI is the KING of KINGS..... Like it or hate it, it is what it is

R9

akpunda86:
It is well Bro,just make out time celebrate him in a year Papi Na papi no Mata wat

I really missed him oooo...
There was a breakup and my mom painted him black .... Till he even died I never showed him love ... I never gave my dad 5naira... The thing eats me deep a lot.... I feel so bad.... Anytime I remember

Onelove508:
If he/she has no memory of his/her father is it his/her fault or is it by force to have a memory that isn't there.

My father is still alive and ok but I have no memory of him making any sacrifice for me, he is just there.

My mother doubles as my father.

Lolzzzx...
My Dad x20 my mum here

akpunda86:
Please my fellow dad's I'm not trying to show off or boast but I wanna pass a message,I went to one of the best schools in the East,my dad used to pick us up from school with his 504 Wagon,but my mates parents do come with d most expensive cars in vogue then,I was ashamed as a kid,one day I told my dad u see how stupid I was,dad can't u change dis car,buy a BMW,he never answered me but when we go home,I was invited to the room and he asked me my friends,after it I received the worst beating as a kid,and from then Dad started picking us up with Mum 1300 Volks beetle,well I was mad ,that was when I was taken out of the school to a govt school and we started taking molue to house,but I never knew I was trained for the hardship infront,funny enuff the day I saw his networth in University I asked him Dad why u never lived a luxurious life,said so that u all can go to school and be better than me,I hugged him wanted to break him not knowing my pop no more young

Hey you when last did u hug u Dad,men do it never know when will be the last.To Every SuperDad out there the load will get lighter.Wives support if u can't don't nag him to death.

I just missed my dad

freshyoladipupo:
Happy Father's Day.!!!

Going back to the thread... All I saw was majority wishing thier father Father's day posthumously... This speaks volumes.
I know, he who giveth life, taketh it but personally, I deduced that men are so engaged and carried away in being all in all for thier family that they even forget to take care of themselves.. we should learn how to look after ourself too cos problem no dey finish.

Fine and good, a good man needs to be there for his family 100% but he must not fail to look after his own health and other stuffs.

People dont really care about a man... Many already lost their dad still them no do anything noni....
Until one gets to that stage one will now understand that no one really cares about a man...

Jim99:
Deadbeat to you. A rare gem to others. He's out there thriving with his new family.

Summary of it all; y'all had terrible, impossible to live with mothers.

You just dey vex ooo

Jim99:
Is your mother a hermaphrodite?

Your dad is out there thriving with his new family and it's no one's fault but your mother's. She's a bad woman and impossible to live with.

You're the reason why no man would ever let a single mother raise his kids. Look how you turned out. A failed product from a failed mother. Vile, bitter, full of hate and envious of males.

Tueeh!!!

You dey vex ooo

Jim99:
Wait till you get married and your wife flees with your kids, you'll then understand why your father was not able to be there for you.

His other kids/family out there are grateful to have him. You have to question your mother. If she was a good mother, he would NEVER have abandoned y'all. But she wasn't.

Lolzzzz

KingAzubuike:
Oga. The topic says talk an unforgettable act of selflessness by your father. Nobody is asking you to be hailing your mother here.

Not everyone's father is useless ...

vincentjk:
And sadly most people will give credit to their mum, buy her car, build her house and all that without even mentioning their father. Too bad.

Although my dad was very strict and wasn't that friendly to us, I still dey cut cap for my old man till tomorrow.

Lost mine 8 years ago... Never showed him love... Am regretting it like kilode... Respect agbaawo! Man is just too nice ...and na wetin kill am be that

Kajaard:
Illiterate

Today is not mother's day. I wonder why so many of you are so daft.

Just one day out of the entire year to celebrate Fathers and you still write about your mum. Nonsense.

You dey vex ooo

God1000:
keep deceiving yourself

No mod will take you serious

Lolzzzx...

callmetoniaa:
Non of the above.. my dad never did any thing for me.. all I am, and all I ever had was from my mum.. I had one of the most useless dad in the world.. some times I wonder why men birth kids tht they can't Carter for.. why get married when u can't take care of ur family, why give birth when u can nurture them.. I no just understand.. my papa eeeh e go win award for the most useless dad in the world

Pele...

vatiqan:
Of what use? Till they appoint their candidates, you and I would not be there.

Just hear yourself... And you go school

ststarring:
E no go better for Lord lugard in his grave

Just listen to yourself

MikoB:
Shame! shame! shame! This is the desire of the corrupt people ruling nigeria, to subject their citizens to poverty so that when election comes, they can bribe them to sell their future with a cup of tea.

People that are thiefs... Person selling rice go still collect rice from politicians... Masses aint better than their leaders... All na same

IgOga:
Intelligent question. Ask them

Lolzzz