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1Sharon:
If you are Christian, you should know that your God is in heaven.

Lolzzzz.... Ephesians 5:22-24, which discusses the roles of husbands and wives within a marriage, stating, "Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything."
Dey play ooo modern woman

1Sharon:
Lol. What a clown.

Is your husband not your Lord or oga?

Luckysbab:
So that she won't get advice from bitter women like Ahnie, Kobojunkie, Jeon, Pocolee and co, who would project their failure upon her.

Good call.

Simple

Sonnobax15:

Some will come here and say what the man did was wrong but every sensible man knows that the demerits of a married woman being on social media platforms exceeds it's merits by far...


Abi no be the same social media wey I take disguise just to ask my most trusted banny if she get BF...But to my greatest surprise,the kind heart break wey the NO wey she take reply me give me still get foot prints for my kidney till today..

Lolz

correctyourself:
If he said so it should not be a problem, she should obey your Father to avoid problem, afterall all fathers sacrifice alot to make sure their families get the best while they go hungry sometimes

Simple

1Sharon:
Were you not just saying women deserve beating ?? Why are you now changing mouth??

When you open your mouth abuse your lord na beating you want na... your husband is your lord

blackslayer:
Serves the buffoon wife beater right! I hate men that have zero self control and beat on their wife! No real man will raise their hands on any woman. Good on the woman, she served him a nice dish of payback is a bitch**! Deport him! Wife beater ain't no man!

But real women verbally abuse a man... dey play ... no tame your mouth hot slap go dey land your face anyhow

Hezmatosky:
This is exactly why the man was beating his wife. Probably the man don see whin. For the woman to act like that, she's very mean. A man won't have such mind against his children mother. If i be the man, very easy for me, give God all the glory, atleast children won't suffer. I will pick up a job quickly as possible, put myself together, turn a new leaf, be a church person, triple my hustle, because she will like to get information about me from friends. Then let's see what happens within 5yrs. I know she will come begging. But then, i will still forgive her

See as you end am... many of them no dey forgive ooo...

Nazgul:
I don't know what is it you're defending. But the pictures of her bruised skin is there on the front page for you to see.

My point for the post I made which you choose not to see isn't the sacrifice the man made, but that he failed to settle things with her.

If you beat your wife, and after a while you begin to feel bad, hold her hands and apologize to her, it won't cost you anything.

Don't go out there and buy her an expensive material item; and expect that your gift should serve as an apology. It doesn't work that way. In most cases, she would still be holding that grudge against you because you never officially told her you were sorry for what you did to her.

That's exactly what the man did. He sold all he had to send her to the UK without apologizing for what he did. Unfortunately, she was still holding it against him and acted when the opportunity presented itself.

She dey crase...

Fiscus105:
This wife is deadler than husband, infact she is a serpent, the level of blame I gave the husband reduced wen I read the extent the wife dealt with her man, who is also father of her children, in future, how will she stand and face him, if occasions call for it.

Did she even think, if she can still need his assistant in future?


Woman will take decisions without thinking twice.


A wise person would have given him last chance in UK to try nonsense before doing that, at least, she would be able to justify her actions .

Your last paragraph carry weight... she no get prove for UK... normal woman wey issue no dey sef ... make woman just get advantage over the man first ... the man don enter wahala ... you will here she has over grown him or nonsense like... they can't manage power

Kukutente23:
What predicament is that? You're just everywhere and can't stay in one place. My grandmother inherited my grandfather's properties.

How the society views divorce is not the topic. Like i said, you're just jumping everywhere. She could have divorced him when she was in Nigeria if that was the sole reason on her mind. Her decision to do that when she had the upper hand shows more of a class struggle than quest for survival.
I won't be surprised if she already has a lover over there.

That woman na really trouble maker

oliverwrites:
I try not to argue with anyone when they say a man beats a woman. Especially Nigerian women. The world is hypocritical towards men and it is disgusting.

Na man come world come suffer na ... make man broke it's normal for the woman to move , make man make money he no take care of wife we go dey hear ... all those when he no get I wait ooo... if you know Wetin she don show the man ... Omo! There are good women out there ooo... most times women na frustration dem dey bring ... just give them belle dey send upkeep ...

Discountsempai:
I had a feeling that there was more to the story.

It is like one story I heard about a man who was crying online about how his wife had left him and won't let him see their children. I was siding with the man, believing the man was suffering for nothing...until I heard the full story. Plus how the wife 1) had promises made to her broken 2) how she had to watch as her husband brought another woman into their house , with the child he had with the woman. Madam left as soon as she could....

The woman planned well for him.

Make he come back to Nigeria, make he come learn humility.

No worries you go see woman wahala you go cry , you sha dey see Wetin them dey do those sport guys ... no worries

1stGenAmerican:
Then they move West and the men deserve the knife, gun, or courtroom the wife carries for them.

That place wey gun cheap... you go collect my property you no go use reach I week I swear ...

1Sharon:
If you truly believed that, why una dey change when you travel abroad. Keep beating your wives now. I'll be waiting for your mugshot on front page.

Me beat woman for Wetin ... I go send you away claiming equal right inside my house ... I dey tell my daughter if you claim equal right for your husband house na she go suffer am... I hate nonsense

Luckysbab:
You no reach. I know say your fish brain no go comprehend my initial message.

Na the man wey carry you put for house you fit use your crude attitude frustrate.

Lolzzz

Kukutente23:
The problem with you is your inability to stay in one place. Which are you fighting for? My grandmother in 1900s or the lady in 2023?
Getting a divorce is as easy as ABC in today's Nigeria even in the Conservative North!!
Don't argue what you don't know pls

You dey mind her ... na to dey use people dem Sabi ... always thinking na only them come this world come enjoy ...

Jman06:
I don't blame women for how badly they treat men in marriage. I rather blame f00lish men who would work their butt off only to lavish the money on one ungrateful lady who would not hesitate to dump his assz if the money stops coming.

Men should desist from carrying women as responsibilities in this modern time! Not even in marriage! There's equal opportunities for both genders in all spheres of life, so why should you make a woman your responsibility Someone who'll not look back in treating you like trash when the chips are down. Stop being brainwashed by religious tales, after all modern women have discarded all the marital duties given to them by same bible!


These f00lish men would still call themselves logical beings but show no iota of logic when dealing with women.

Simple

Chioma1989:
I knew the man must be the guilty party. We have a family member that the husband was using as a punching bag. Someone sold the idea of japa to him, which he happily bought. The wife was prepared to travel to study in Amsterdam, Holland, which the man fully sponsored.

The wife travelled, finished her studies and luckily, joined an NGO organisation in the Hague. She did exactly what this Nigerian lady did to her husband and invited the husband and the kids. Just after four days stay in Holland, she and her organisation filed papers for the husband "s deportation to Nigeria becauseof previous unresolved domesticviolence. Her evidence was water-tight and the man was sent packing back to Nigeria.

It has been seven years now and the lady is still with the kids who are all grown. The last child was 8 then when they were brought to Holland in 2015. That was before the general elections. I remembered vividly how the gist spread within our family. Luckily, the man is still doing well in Nigeria, doing his business at Amuwo Odofin area of Lagos. I am surprised that he didn't remarry after that incidence. He is still living his normal life, attending our town's meetings. My husband regularly sees him in the meeting.

So the man for no do well cus she too is not doing well

Kobojunkie:
How many women in Nigeria to this day divorce their husbands even when treated less than humans by them in marriage? Even your grandmothers and so on who were abandoned in marriage, how many of them got a divorce at the end of the day?

Your eye blind you no go see am now

Kukutente23:
God bless you jare

I'm not even standing up for the guy but to support what she's doing is total bullocks. That's fraud!! And she's doing it because she knows she's in a society that is on her side.

That woman na trouble maker like the man too if the man truly dey beat her

Kukutente23:
And you're sure he treated her badly because you were there abi
You conveniently forgot the part of he sold all he had for her to travel.
If she hated him that much, why didn't she divorce him before leaving Nigeria so she can go with her kids?

Mendy comes too mind se... you dey mind them , those women Sabi lie ... e fit be small misunderstanding them don settle she hold against that man as you see am so

NOwazobia:
If this is true, then I can't help but support the wife decision.


I fit kill any man wey go dey beat my sister as if na him punch bag.


I almost did it once for someone else's sister when my uncle was involved.

Bros if you see woman problem Omo life go tire you

Luckysbab:
So he enslaved her and somehow still allowed her to japa to the UK?!


How brilliant!

You dey mind them , liars ...

blacksam01:
its a very big lie...wen dont live their husbands in naija..they love only the kids...does it mean man and wife cant have a fight again without the wofe terming it beat me beat me, brutalized me brutalized me...abeg mk una park well,the woman is a Jezebel

You dey mind them... he fit no hit sef ... them wicked ehn... Sabi do revenge pass anything... one still dey tell me for my area say he go show her husband sege later ... I just dey laugh ... the woman normal na trouble maker ooo... woman wey talk talk to man anyhow wey I know still she still gets bad plan for him in the future

emnite:
Wahala dey oooh when women want to pay back even the devil sits down and take notes of events e nor dey ever end well. I don't hit women cause hmmmm e nor good maka paybacks

Forget hitting them... if you don't hit them they will revenge still ... they don't forgive ooo ... but they will want you to forgive them ... women wey go carry another man pikin give you and still stay with you ... very greedy lot ... many of them only stay with a man for their own gain ... dem no send you

Fiscus105:
What the girl did now worse . Which means,she herself, if she is stronger than the husband she would be beating the husband in Nigeria.


Atimes, I dnt blame some guys that are dealing with women mercilessly.

On many occasions, they only respect and loving guy/husband because of what they stand to gain and not real love.


Girls will ask u to come her side, in which after stressing and wasting time and money to see her, she would just off phone or telling u she is not available,but if it's other way round ,just 5 minutes of not coming out, she would be angry and complaining

That only do what they will gain from very greedy lot... man wey get money before woman marry am... just go broke small , if she stays she go verbally abuse you die ...

Nice2023:
It is always good to read and understand.

Many of u here need to go back to learn courtesy. If it was ur mum that was beaten with glaring evidence...I guess u will be happy?

U only talk like a fool because it is not ur mum here or ur sister.

I spit on ur ugly head.

She dey lie

Enemyofpeace:
They are all beds of the same feathers

I tell you

jrusky:
Have said it any man that placed his life in the hand of all these tiny legs oversized ego 21st century women will die of heart attack then they will start given reasons and start playing victim card.

Women are wicked pass anything... them Sabi lie pass anything... if you see Wetin one small girl do me recently sef... I was just telling her colleagues that are males say naso their life be... women no send you ...

Justiceleague1:
I hate men who do such things to their wives and children....they cause so much emotional and mental damage that takes time to heal.
The wife is even a good woman to have gotten him over to the UK.
He got no problem as he would certainly get a job and live his life in the UK.
Then after some time,he should be a changed man and make contact with his family only for peace. He should leave his kids with his estranged wife for now.

I hate it too ... she brought him to collect the kids nothing more... Wetin she do she no go talk am... she be angel na... those supporting her here now just see news on paternity fraud you won't see them here say pim,

1Sharon:
Some men are anti-japa so they can have the freedom to beat their wives.

To add insult to injury, I'm certain he was beating his wife in front of the kids.

Many of you deserve make the carry cane dey flog una wella...