₦airaland Forum

Jman06:
Well it is common for people to think they're "mature" for holding their own views...I know for sure that I'm never gonna worry myself or wasting my strength in a bid to satisfy a woman, especially if I'm not seeing her own efforts in that regard. If she feels she can just lie down on the bed and expect me to sweat on top of her for hours, she'll be disappointed because I'm be concerned about satisfying myself, unless I see the efforts she's making.

I rather think that a pretty girl is recently giving you attention and that is why you now abandon your redpill philosophy like many of you do. I'm not even into mainstream redpill but I hold my view strongly that since we are now in a world of gender equality, a man should do all he can to preserve himself. A gender that now enjoys equality with me in virtually all facets of life shouldn't expect any special treatment from me. They remember that a man should be their "top" when it warrants burning his energy or taking dangerous risk but if it is about political offices, employment opportunities, finances etc, they'll clamor for gender recognition and equality.

I'm a traditional man. There's nothing in redpill or whatever. You will end up looking like a weirdo. Enjoy your life and stop scouting the internet for some rules made by people you don't know. I'm a traditional man, I prefer my woman submissive and feminine. I don't need any girl being on top of me to know that I'm not a simp. Enjoy your life guy forget all those mumu rules and regulations. I'm not in any world of gender equality. We're in Nigeria guy, forget Twitter nonsense

Jman06:
So all your excuses centers around women getting pregnant from sex? Do you have unprotected sex when you're not married?

Do women not also desire sex Do they have sex with just anybody and not with the person they desire Your answers to the above question should tell you whether it is fair for women to place all responsibilities of sexual relationship on men.

FYI, you're not more experienced than me when it comes to women and sex. The only difference is that while you think like a simp who has been conditioned to believe that women do him a favor by sleeping with him, I have a better understanding that women crave sex as much as men do, and so I'll not put myself in a position of disadvantage just because I want to have sex with a girl.

yes you are still very immature. If you have sex with your wife won't she get pregnant? Majority of men prefer submissive women who will do as told, not a masculine woman dominating them in bed. You are actually very inexperienced in the world of intimacy and psychology. A woman who lay a man down and ride him will either end up being called a IndecentStar or some other weird names.
Women opening her legs and womb for you to pour semen into, knowing fully well it could permanently alter her body is bringing something to the table.

You are obviously new to this simp and and redpill stuff. Guy I don tey for both nairaland and the whole game. Na we start all these nonsense with PUA and other garbages. One day you will hopefully grow up sha and realize life is not 50-50 or black and white. Different things are required of different people. What you offered is not necessarily what you will get in return

SisterAnn:
You seen to support unprotected sex between random friends.

most women I have slept with hate condom. I have had to refuse sex because I didn't have condom and didn't trust them but then I will have to use fingers which is also quite satisfying to the women in question

SisterAnn:
Do you have unprotected sex with random guys?

I'm a man

Jman06:
Okay, a man losing his precious fluid isn't enough for you too?

Most men do not prefer women lying "submissively" while they sweat to satisfy them instead, the majority of men would want to relax and have you work hard to satisfy yourself after which he can climb to satisfy himself too. In other words, everybody hustle for their 0rg@sm

rest. You can't really be trying to compare releasing sperm, which men even release by rubbing hand on the penis to possibly getting pregnant? Rest guy. When you have sex with a girl, you go home and probably forget about it while she spends the next days /weeks calculating and worrying about not being pregnant.
Majority of men barely last 3 minutes. I used to make the type of argument you are making now 10 years ago when I was less mature. Guy I don see things. Free women abeg. It's not easy

Jman06:
They expect everything from men while they give nothing! I don't blame them though, it is f00lish simps who take all sorts of rubbish from women I blame

opening her legs and risking getting pregnant and getting her body and future ruined isn't enough for you? Anyway, lots of women actually still stay on top but most men prefer women lying submissively and surrendering her body to them

Iamanoited:
THEN THE FULANIS IN THE NORTH ARE IJAWS IN THE SOUTH AND ARE TERRORISTS THAT MUST BE ROOTED OUT OF NIGERIA.

the Ijaws have massive resources. Don't ever compare Ijaw to Fulanis again

Birdbyrde440:
While Yemi Cardoso is busy pushing Propaganda that
"Forex holders are rushing to overload their dollars "

He forgets that their are speculators waiting on the sidelines with billions of naira waiting to scoop cheap dollars. During the Emefiele's time as governor of CBN, to prevent people from scooping up cheap dollars he did two things: he created a parallel market and he banned Nigerians from buying USDT and cryptocurrencies.

I myself, a nobody in the scheme of things will work harder, earn more naira and buy more dollars to add to my stack if at all the CBN is capable of bringing down the exchange rate to $1/900.

As at the time of writing, $1=N1418.

how will you be able to do it? If you use all your money to buy dollar at 900 and CBN decide to sell to BDC at 892 the next day haven't you succeeded in rendering yourself poorer? You should focus on your life and business and stop monitoring dollar which is another country's currency.

chopnaira:
😂😂😂


Same you hate that hates Umahi and APC.

Interestingly, if Umahi was in APC and contest against Peter Obi (the failed governor) in a Presidential election, he would beat Peter Obi (the local politician) black and blue.


Painment..is that you

Peter Obi is a fraud, this is a fact but don't kid yourself, he's very popular. Currently the most popular politician in the south and will humiliate Umahi in any election.

EbinPawaGovt:
So Israel and China are the most disliked countries? Yet they're rapidly advancing countries economically and tachnologically. What you learn from this is that the hatred of people should never stop you from accomplishing what you've set out to achieve.

what's Israel advancing in? beggy beggy country depending on the US for aid

Runaway:
Until APC return the dollar to were they meant it. To me dollar hasn't fall.

did PDP return the Dollar to where they took it from the military? Nigerian population keeps exploding, poor men giving birth to 10 children they can't feed and dying off leaving the children and their mother on the streets, creating nuisance. The grown ones are either doing yahoo or joining bandits to kidnap people. You have a large population of lazy and irresponsible people with criminal thieving politicians all over the country and you think your economy is supposed to be magically improving?

Go and check the history of Nigeria, it has always gotten worse with each passing day. Even when a cup of rice was 10 Naira people still couldn't afford it back then, that was why children celebrated on Sundays when their mothers cooked rice.

All these mumu nollywood boys knew how to do back then was shout and squeeze face, forming hardmen instead of fuccking sugar mummies that were crushing on them. The actresses knew better. Now all the boys do is to be begging up and down

When you pay them ransom for committing violence, what did you think they were going to do with the money? Violence made them lots of money so they will use the money to improve their ability to commit more violence so they can make more money

Blitzerz:
So this is definition feeling good abi?

well yes. It gives them a feeling that's euphoric. It is bad and damaging of course but it releases dopamine to their system which is why they feel euphoric and want to take more when it wears out

Righteousness2:
The devil has manufactured and put out so many things in these Endtimes to Capture and Destroy the soul of Humanity.
Many of the things come like a sweetener or something to give you Happiness but tge end game to Useless and Destroy your soul.

Life outside JESUS CHRIST is Very Risky life.
Embrace JESUS CHRIST, Surrender to HIM, Live For HIM . You will Escape many nonsense.

that devil must be very jobless to be telling boys to take drugs. Why does it have to be something they actually enjoy? Why not tell them to cut off their tongue or penis? People abuse drugs because it makes them feel good. No be devil send them that one

You just randomly used colors without attempting to class different colors?

None.
Maybe that one in Niger state that bought tractors for farmers.

Namaster:
People who gamble don't understand simple probability. Or they do and OVERESTIMATE their luck.

In a given betting scenario, let's say you bet on one outcome while there are OVER 6 or more outcomes. You will have only ONE chance to win and 5 or MORE chances to lose.

Betting is begging to LOSE money.

Some people will tell you to bet only what you can afford to lose. But I'll tell you NOT to bet in the first place.

Plus even when you win, you still lose.

if you bet on Man City, Real Madrid and Liverpool to win, you are very very likely to win but the money you will win will be small

TheLastProphet:
Forming friendship with Iran and acting friendly with Hama's just to pepper US is never a wise decision.
Now see the result. Muslims are never your friend unless they take over your country and enslave the whole of your people.
Russia should wake up and join the rest of the world to crush this people and their death cult

ISIS don't have the capacity to attack Russia. ISIS is dead, they just claim attack to appear strong in the sight of their fellow terrorists and gain more members. The people they're arresting are from Tajikistan

Zwooks:
You better go and ask people more knowlegeable than you are to save yourself eternal regrets

people who came back from hell?

Zwooks:
If you want to go to hell, do it alone. Stop spreading your ignorance

Nobody is going to hell. When you die your body rot in the ground

They're also paid more than they would be paid in Nigeria

The obidient catfish scammer is actually right and Akin or whatever they call it is a morron

He's right. Obi did nothing wrong. I don't know why Nigerians have become total zombies. Anyone they don't like can never do something right and anyone they like can never do something wrong

That's what you get for having fools and cowards as ancestors. Strangers will come to your house, divide and name it however they like

jamesversion:
Just a simple question, you don't have any property of value you could sell to repay debts and live a free life.

I know someone whose business ran into shambles and he sold just one property and raised tens of millions to sort himself out.

What about your family, no dad or mum or brother or sister who can help?

stop advising him to sell things. He doesn't even have a problem at all. He just needs to delete the app or possibly factory reset his phone, throw away that Sim and buy a new one and all his problems are solved. The loan shark people are thieves and and criminals who are all wanted by the police so he has nothing to fear. They can only call his friends and tell him he's a debtor but he said his friends already regard him as a finished person so nothing to lose anymore

Soliddust3030:
Op was in your exact same problem. Call their bluff. Your friends and contacts already they call you casted guy na, so the highest loan sharks can do is broadcast you to them and after a while them go stop. In the mean time work on yourself, when you have enough money pay them back their capital.

no, he should never pay them back. They are operating illegally anyway so they have to accept their loss. The guy needs to move on

Davidbiggestfan:
Hello

I will try to make this short and straight to the point. I will not respond to DMs, and I am not soliciting for funds. I am only bringing this up here because I want people to learn from my situation. Also, I take this as a therapeutic measure that will help me heal since I am ashamed to speak to people physically about this.

So, I graduated in 2017 and got a job. Everything was going well until after COVID, when I took out a loan to start a business that never materialized. I lost my job too, as the company I was with ran into bankruptcy. I didn't know what to do, and at that point, I was miserable. I remember using a loan app for the first time in 2021. I signed up, and I was surprised to be credited in less than thirty minutes. I didn't know the recovery method used by these loan sharks (majorly defamation) until my due date when they started threatening that they will call my contacts and tell them that I am a criminal. I was crestfallen. I was panicky, and I started to look for alternatives immediately. I called mostly my former colleagues, and no one was willing to help because they were struggling financially too. I remember one of the agents suggesting that I take out a loan from another loan shark to prevent the impending embarrassment. Earlier, I had borrowed N23,000 to pay back N41,000 in 14 days. With the new app, I borrowed N27,000 to repay N36,000 in 7 days. I was desperate, so I borrowed the N27,000 and looked for another app to complete the repayment amount for the first loan I took out.

That was the beginning of a dark web in my life that consumed my youth. I was jobless, but I was borrowing to prevent an embarrassment. I never spent any of these funds on myself. Everything I ever made since 2021 has gone into high interest rates of these loan sharks. All the clothes I have today, I bought them before COVID. I have lost a lot of friends because they tag me a beggar because I was always in need of financial help. When the pressure gets too much, I even go as far as begging my juniors way back in school. They have now tagged me "a casted guy" and nobody takes me seriously anymore. I hear gossips that I do drugs but it's far from the truth. I contemplated suicide last year but I said God will help me. I am presently owing 9 different apps with a ridiculous amount running into a million.

I have become a slave to loan sharks and because my reputation is at stake, I have succumbed to their whims and caprices. I hope that one day, I will be set free. My reason for creating this thread is to warn users to avoid loan sharks. They will ruin your life. No matter how difficult your situation is, always avoid their offer. They snatched my beautiful youth from me. God will judge them. I will repay and never borrow again. I know

delete the apps and move on. They are operating illegally anyway and federal government is looking for them. You already said people have tagged you a beggar and casted guy already so you absolutely have nothing to fear anymore the worst thing they can do is call people from contact and tell them you are owing debt. What you need to do is delete the apps, change your phone number and start doing anything you can to make money even if it's menial jobs

Godons1:
Nobody is innocent in that Community. Except their women and Children

you people are playing with fire. When south south turn against the military it's the military that will run and Nigerian economy that will crumble. Continue supporting terrorism. What did they do to the people in Northern communities where soldiers were killed?

Negroid001:
What can a man do?
Before she change am for me. You know how you guys pass aggression.

if your wife respects you she will treat people will respect just because of you.

Jogs1900:
You mean the NA should not react when 16 of them were killed, their heads cut off and their organs harvested when on a peace mission to a community.

Haba, soldiers too are humans

to react you shoot at innocent people? Who's stopping them from going after militants in their slum hideout? People only complain when they kill innocent village people going about their daily activities

Omoawoke:
craze people full nairaland

Na one person dey chat with himself 😂

one person created thread, pay mod to move it to front page and start posting all by himself.