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This year's summer is crazy in europe

Dogalmighty17:
With the explosion of paternity fraud in Nigeria, the need for DNA tests is more germane than ever.
Every man as a matter of necessity, has to conduct DNA tests on his kids.

In Abuja, a peace of mind DNA test costs 270k to 290k. For each additional child, you are paying 150k. The good part is that they can waybill the DNA test kit to you if you can't really travel. They'll instruct you on how to utilise it.
Lagos and Port-Harcourt might be cheaper.

Within 15 to 21 working days, your test results will be available.

That's someone's 10 months salary

Poverty uprising no doubt

Gas is expensive

Flana:
I met this lady in my estate sometime in 2022. We exchanged numbers, but we never really had the time to hang out back then. Sometime in May this year, I saw her number in one of my old iCloud accounts and decided to give her a call. She picked up, but she didn’t seem to remember me—in her own words, because we used to only see each other on the road before she moved out of the estate.

We chose a date and location to hang out, and it all went well. We had a great conversation, and since then, we have been calling and texting each other. We went on a second outing, and she asked me a question that I actually expected of her: what did I really want from her? I told her that my days of playing games are over, and that I need a friend, a partner, and someone I can build a relationship with. In turn, she told me that she hadn’t given relationships a chance since her last one ended two years ago. She also mentioned that she doesn't want to have too much history with men, which is why she has been trying to protect herself.

Since then, things have been cool. We talked on the phone almost every day, and everything was going well between us. However, I noticed she asked a lot of questions, but whenever I asked her something, she was always reluctant to answer. I told her what I do for a living and where I work, but she would only tell me her job title, never the name or location of her workplace. I didn’t really have a problem with that, though.

A few weeks ago, she called me in the evening, crying on the phone, and told me she had just been informed that her dad passed away. Being the kind of person I am, I have never really had anyone close to me lose a loved one where I had to console them. I just told her, "May his soul rest in peace," promised to call her the next day, and hung up. Due to work stress, I didn't end up calling her until the third day. I noticed she wasn't really responding the way I expected, and after some questioning, she opened up. She said she hadn't expected me to just end the call like that on the night she found out, as she really needed someone to talk to, and then I didn't check back until three days later. I apologized and explained to her that it wasn't intentional—I just didn't know what else to say and wanted to avoid repeating words or rambling, which might not be comforting to someone grieving.

We eventually agreed that I could come for her dad’s wake-keep and burial. Initially, she only wanted me to attend the wake-keep because her family's village is far from her hometown and she didn’t want to put me through the stress. But I insisted that the stress would be worth it, especially since I would be experiencing a burial ceremony for the first time in my life. The wake-keep and burial were scheduled for last week Thursday and Friday, respectively.

God bears me witness, I had fully prepared my mind to travel. But on Wednesday evening around 5:00 PM, one of our clients called stating they were in the middle of a time-sensitive project, one of their services was down, and it needed urgent fixing. Normally, I could have resolved this remotely, but traveling from Abuja to an unfamiliar village where I wasn’t sure if there would be a network connection was a risk I wasn't willing to take. So, I picked up my phone, summoned the courage, and told her I wouldn’t be able to come as scheduled. In the middle of my explanation, she cut me off, saying she already knew I wasn’t coming. She said if I had genuinely planned to come, I would have been checking in with her since that morning. Because she hadn't heard from me all day, she had already concluded I decided not to show up. Then she told me, “I don’t think this whole relationship thing will work. You should just forget about everything and have a good life ahead of you.” I asked, "Just like that?" and she said yes. I wished her a good life ahead too, and ended the call.

After 20 minutes, I messaged her asking for her account details. She sent them, and I transferred some cash to her. She messaged me the next morning, thanking me very much. Why I sent the money, I can't really tell, but it genuinely calmed my temper down.

Since then, I have been calling and texting her, but she hasn't responded. However, I noticed she called me twice on Saturday, but I wasn't close to my phone. Since then, I’ve been calling her twice every day and dropping messages, but getting no response. I called her yesterday, and luckily, she picked up. I asked if she was back, but she said she was still in the village. I asked if she could talk, and she said yes. But as I was trying to explain myself and apologize, not even 30 seconds into the call, the line dropped. I called back and it was switched off. I called again later in the evening, but there was no response.

I really like her, and I want her to know it wasn't intentional, but honestly, I am feeling exhausted.

Move on with your life

I know this type of girl, she will blackmail you emotionally till you leave this planet. They are self centered and can blame everyone around them for everything

If you want your sanity, move on

BioData45:
People coexisted before religion. So that's not an excuse sir

Ignorance

Coexisted with Osu caste system, killing of twins, witches, human sacrifice etc

Religion is as old as the people

Irony1:
You own talk no pass this off point comment you just made.

Cry me a river

We will be here to drink your tears

HeatSeeker:
This comment was unnecessary

she just derail the thread unnecessarily

BioData45:
😂 So someone slap me and I should tie my own hands because of peace. In fact, I am amazed at damage that has been done to you guys.

Its like a damage to you but it is the reason why humans still have the hope to co exist.

If every one you stepped on their toes decided to pay you back...you may not be alive to have your revenge

Goosethetruth:
Interesting.
Don't you find it strange and egotistical that this God spends almost half of these commandments talking about himself and what he wants?
Like I said,I find it interesting that an omnipotent God seems so insecure.

Ignorance uprising

only 3 out of 10 talked about man relating to God

Most of them centered around how you relate with your neighbour/friends/family/community etc

E.g

Thou shall not kill, steal, covet, commit adultery

Respect/honour your parents

Forgiveness

johnstin:
https://ransomedbychrist.com/index.php?topic=1477.msg1479#msg1479

Hell fire o jawo mo

AntiChristian:
Your so-called Christian countries permit LGBTQ!

Ignorance

The Country is for all..and no one forces another to accept their way of life like the ' religion of piss' do

They will continue to wail till 2030

APC is here to rule for a longtime

BioData45:
They're called sheep 🐑. Even told them to turn right cheek if slapped on the left. I honestly don't know how adults believe in this books.

So you prefer the violent way

An eye for an eye will make everyone go blind

Thats the religion that preaches peace in truth

That peaceful religion people again...what a shame

babythug:
Hello hello and welcome!

Starting this thread for all dieters and weight watchers

To participate all you to do is share your current weight, target weight and exercise you do , food etc
The idea is to motivate people through virtual group activities

You may share pictures if you like

Good luck everyone,

All are welcome

Mine is 75...trying to lose 40

Excercise include daiily brisk walking 1hr

Food is either OMAD or TMAD...portion control is key

UnbiasTruth:
This is obviously a creative child. I smiled when I saw this drawing of a skeleton.

This is different from the usual longitudinal drawings we see in textbooks.
This student was told to draw again.

My feedback would have been:

"This is a beautiful drawing of a skeleton. A longitudinal drawing would have been appropriate for this subject."

What are your thoughts on the feedback below?

This isnt drawn by a stundent...drop that lamba

Thats what they need..immediate respond

See rubbish post on fp with the caption misrepresenting Messi

End of the road for most of them in R32

Tunisia qualified without losing or conceding a goal yet they are the only team from Africa that didn't make R32

PotatoSalad:
Lmao 😂. What you do with your life is none of my business. Just putting out a caution for you and others.

yinmu

Do yourself and let others be

Imole of Argentina just scored

3 games 6 goals

PotatoSalad:
Never buy plantain chips outside. Some people add plastic bags in the oil while frying to give it that "crunchiness". It's more common than you think.

I will

Never drive a car. ...some people get killed by it

Mariangeles:
With the amount of chips I got with just three plantains, I'd say it's worth it to make your own plantain chips when you feel like having some, or just keeping for snacking.

So, would you make your own plantain chips, or would you rather buy?

I don't like stress, I will just buy. It's a way of encouraging small scale businesses

Go n make money

She was pressured into marriage no doubt

Why are you promoting this...you are part of the problem NL

buygala:
Oya na

Connect your Solar set-up directly to your phone or laptop without using of their chargers

They are the same right?

Perhaps you dont know the meaning circuit

Not again
They will introduce advert breaks

The water breaks are more like youtube ads

Let football be football not money making biz

buygala:
Is 240 volts passing through my phone and laptop? ...both have chargers which cut down the AC current entering to 5 volts for the phone and 12 or 19 volts most likely for the laptop

More current means more heat, which will imply more heating up of the appliance's components

I will rather invest in a Mikano Gen than its Solar equivalent in power output...Kapish

Ignorance

It the same system, same working principle with different circuit

Lols
Poking randomly will crush the red blood cells. It makes the blood useless for lab machines.

Ayam looking for a sister...chioma my lover