Computers › Re: Unlock Huawei E303 Modem And All Stubborn Modem Unlock Difficulties Solved! by femi4: 12:10pm On Feb 23, 2018 |
Allansmith: Good Morning Engineer, I have an Huawei E303 Modem from Etisalat
I will be grateful if you can help me unlock it:
IMEI: 861195006527986 SERIAL NUMBER: X7SBYA9412401749 DEVICE NAME: E303 APPLICATION PORT: COM9
Thank you in anticipation. 42216959 |
Sports › Re: Proud Chelsea Fan Gives Birth To Twins During Champions League Match. Photos by femi4: 11:14am On Feb 23, 2018 |
megrimor: Those babies would have been better in a Red cloth
I mean Manchester United
Not this Agbero Chelsea That red cloth club is the only English club that didn't score a goal in the last set of ucl matches |
Romance › Re: What Will You Do If You Come Home After A Long Day At Work And See This? by femi4: 6:25am On Feb 23, 2018 |
Yahoo plus tinz |
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Family › Re: . by femi4: 6:02am On Feb 23, 2018 |
sadsad: I hope this is the right section for this. If not, MODs can help place it in the right section.
Mature advice needed!!!! Married for 10 years now, have an adopted daughter due to fertility issues. Everything was going on well until I needed to get a maid to assist with house chores temporarily due to my change of work schedules which warranted longer tedious hours outside the home. Moreover I needed someone to help look after my child when she returns from nursery class when I'm not around during the day.
In March 2016, I got a maid but my husband called me aside one day & said he observed how I shield the maid from getting close to him in the house & that he as the man of the house is not 'free' in his own house. He went further to say, my actions prove I'm suspecting he will want to have something to do with the maid.
For the 1st time in my marriage of 8 years then, my husband & I had a very heated argument that he threatened me by saying if I decide to send her away, I must also leave. I replied him that if I should leave, I will go with at least half of what I brought into this marriage, not all o! So that people won't say I'm a bad person, so I'll go with at least half. I had met him earning 6k monthly in 2002 & I introduced my business idea to him which we now run jointly as a family business. By the Grace of God, we earn comfortably that he has now become the bread winner in his own family. His Siblings look up to him constantly for financial help. My inheritances gotten on two occasions from my late grandparents & parents, were used to buy & build our first property in the outskirts of Lagos. I went further to sell my first car to Roof the building because I realised he is not a futuristic person & he is not financially empowered enough to get a property so I felt since we are husband & wife, why not I assist financially to ensure his head is lifted up continually. Between last year December & today, I gave him another 7 figures to purchase a building in his hometown so that we can have a place to retire to. Then the first building in Lagos will be put up for rent.
When he realised I was serious with my counter-threat on the maid issue, he relaxed & travelled the next day to see his Mom. While in his hometown, he called me & said his Mom's Pastor gave his Mom a revelation that I (her Son's wife) should stop all medical interventions for now & wait for God's time to give us one biological child.
I foolishly (well, submissively) accepted. Only for him to come back from the trip & cajoled me to accept him to have s.x with the maid so that she can give us a biological child. Readers, my life started falling into pieces from that day.
After some weeks, he begged me to go lodge in a hotel to spend the night there so that he can have his way with the maid in our home. Ha!!!! I refused but he blackmailed me by saying, I do know he has been treated & certified medically OK so I am the one with the issue that has caused delays for years. Also, the revelation that I should stop all medical interventions ( we've done sooooo many medical interventions in these years of waiting, all to no avail).
I accepted to go to the hotel, which he paid for. This happened on 3 different occasions within the space of 1 month plus. A day to the day I'll go to the hotel to stay, I'll be sooo moody & irritated that he will say (why am I blocking his chances of having his biological child after I've wasted many years of his life childless. Our adopted child is from is his late relative, so he still needs his own direct blood.
I would go for business meetings & sometimes take bike (okada) to journey Long distances so as to meet up to close deals, only for me to come back into the house to meet him & the maid alone in the house while my daughter will be playing with her mates in the neighbor's apartment. He would return home before noon & they'll spend the day together. I forgot something at home one day & decided to go back to pick it up, by the time I left the house & them inside, I was devastated that day, I was depressed, I became almost insane & emotionally imbalanced. I didn't know I was talking to myself on my way out on the road, a neighbour tapped my shoulder from behind & I was jolted back to realise I was on the road trekking a wrong direction to my office.
After about 5 months, I started chatting daily with someone I met via social media, we started out as having same investment orientation, from there we became close on phone via WhatsApp, we would discuss family issues, marital issues, financial issues & all sorts. I realised he was someone I could talk to easily & pour out my heart to. I was also his phone companion. We didn't meet physically until 4 months after. We met & had s.x in 2017 after so much togetherness on phone.
I felt guilty because I never had s.x with any other man aside my husband for over 9 years +. My husband had been suspecting me & confronted me with proofs of my infidelity. He reported me to my Aunt. I told my Aunt (in his presence) what I went thru in his hands during the maid issues, she blamed both of us & kinda settled the issues.
The maid got pregnant & it had a complication because according to the doctor, she took some substances to abort the pregnancy. I had mixed feelings when she lost the pregnancy. Sad, that I had lost the opportunity to finally make my husband a father. She left after the evacuation & never returned. My husband became sober & scared all thru the pregnancy complication issues because he was worried she could die & the law will be after him. I had to help him make sure she was well taken care of in a good clinic & prayed & fasted for everything to end well.
I got another maid because my clients were giving me more contracts to work on & this time, this new maid herself decided to leave on the grounds that my husband threatened to kill her if she doesn't have s x with him. She had to call the agent that brought her to come take her away, next day. My husband denied all allegations even till today.
I decided, no more maids.
Just two days ago, I refused him s.x because he accused me of still cheating. He says anytime he sees me 'holding my phone', he will have a recall of my infidelity episode & he'll get terribly infuriated. He will say I have gone to do it with someone else so I don't want him. He has beaten me on several occasions & I have told him that I have severed the relationship & communication between I and the guy. I have also proven this to him but he wouldn't understand. I get his point but his insecurity feelings is toooo much. He would threaten me & beat me. In 2017, I had to write to Ministry of Women Affairs in Alausa but I told them not to take action yet because he later apologized. I gave him a copy of the letter I wrote to Alausa. The ministry called to check up on me & u assured them all us well now. Ever since I dropped the letter, he never beats me again but he would threaten me emotionally & psychologically.
When he realised I was going to leave the marriage, he begged & begged me. Saying I should know that he can never carry out his threat, that we've been together since 2001 as friends before marriage so I should be able to tell what he's capable of.
He also indirectly said if I leave, the business will crumble but at that point, I didn't care anymore about the family business that gives us 7 figures + monthly. He knows that the business is my idea. I learnt it for 7 years before we started. Till date, I bring in the biggest chunk of the income because he handles some clients while I handle some. My clients are the biggest. I believe this is his greatest fear.
Yesterday night, he made me listen to Lionel Richie (I'll rather spend bad times with you, than spend good times with someone else).
If I leave this marriage, I don't see myself getting married again. Highest, I do surrogacy or adoption to have a child. I loved this man with my whole existence before the cookie started to crumble. I won't allow any man make me his ATM.
Right now, I'm in a mess & I need words from matured married Nairalanders.
Thank you in advance Well, In Africa adopted child is not the same as biological child. Your husband will go at any length to have his own children. You have to keep trying all form of medical treatment and methods, don't give up yet. Let him understand that you are in this together. I think both of you are frustrated, frustration damage things further. You need to encourage each other and talk to psychologist and seek medical advice |
Celebrities › Re: Davido: "Heaven Go Too Sweet Can’t Wait!!" - Fans React (photos) by femi4: 5:40am On Feb 23, 2018 |
Na wetin e go dey sing with the Angels?
"If you no get money....hide ya face" |
Celebrities › Re: Desmond Elliot Celebrates His Mother's 70th Birthday (Photo) by femi4: 10:09pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
Olusola's mum |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Oestersunds FK: Europa League (1 - 2) On 22nd February 2018 by femi4: 9:30pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
Dominique right now  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Oestersunds FK: Europa League (1 - 2) On 22nd February 2018 by femi4: 6:28pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
What is Thursday-Thursday football doing on FP
If we can't have ManCity and Liverpool UCL matches on FP, I wonder why Europa matches should grace the FP |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W Celebrates Adesua Etomi On Her 30th Birthday: ‘You Were Worth The Wait’ by femi4: 6:25pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
visijo: Nice.. That is how it suppose to be. Husband appreciate your wife let's wait after 3yrs....Tonto used to write epistle for King Kong |
Celebrities › Re: Disqualified & Evicted BBNaija Housemates Visit Heritage Bank (Photos) by femi4: 6:22pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
cuteralph101: last I checked ur opinion doesn't matter. So kiss transformer if d show irritates u. If my opinion doesn't matter, you ll ignore my post. It only shows you are narrow minded |
Phones › Re: Warning: You Are Hereby Advised To Stay Away From Microsoft Edge Browser For Now by femi4: 5:12pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
AnodaIT: Possibly your first touch with computing technology was calculator and phone If you have never used Office, you are not computer literate, you are just a phone freak See this mumu, I m sure you didn't meet Win95. Indomie generation |
Business › Re: What Business Can I Start With N80,000? by femi4: 5:03pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
boxypane: Thanks for the encouragement guys. I leave in an environment where majority of its occupants are civil servants, kogi state/ Lokoja to be precise. I really want to go into sales, but need advice on what goods to sell. Start selling rice |
Family › Re: Husband And Wife Celebrate Their 100th And 95th Birthdays Together (Photo) by femi4: 4:48pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
Nairalanddist: What's the essence of living this long without accepting the holy teachings of Islam and our Holy Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh)? Al jannah firdaus should be our focus as true Muslims  Is it their cakes that's against his teaching? Borrow your sef brain now |
Celebrities › Re: Disqualified & Evicted BBNaija Housemates Visit Heritage Bank (Photos) by femi4: 4:42pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
Its a shame that a bank can be promoting a show of shame |
Politics › Re: Yobe Governor, Gaidam, Visits Dapchi, Says No Girl Rescued by femi4: 4:39pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: Fayose Slaps A Professor During Meeting With ASUU EKSU Chapter by femi4: 3:46pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
engineerboat: So the Professor is no more in Faculty of science.
Iro lo ma pa yin Aribisala is from Faculty of engineering |
Education › Re: Think Twice Before Going For Masters Degree (m.sc) - Vincent Adeoba by femi4: 3:38pm On Feb 22, 2018*. Modified: 4:50pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
Only in Nigeria do people go for masters for the wrong reasons like to get a job |
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Music/Radio › Re: Tiwa Savage – Get It Now (video) by femi4: 1:14pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
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Business › Re: Folorunsho Alakija: Without A University Degree, I Became A Billionaire by femi4: 12:56pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
alBHAGDADI: She would have been in the picture below. Ninjas, they don't encourage their girls. |
Music/Radio › Re: [video] Rudeboy Psquare - "Somebody Baby". by femi4: 12:39pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
This is a hit...give it to Paul
He had to feature Jim iyke again, they are 5&6 these days |
Romance › Re: "If You Can't Give Your Girlfriend Money, Be Prepared To Share Her" - Lady by femi4: 12:32pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
Brooke60: Shut up
Its a relationship and yes, there re different ways to show love. Some people are just naturally stingy..both guys and ladies. Love is sharing.....not taking always When you exchange sex for money, its called prostitution |
Celebrities › Re: Adesua Etomi Celebrates 30th Birthday Today With A Cute Photo by femi4: 12:14pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
slightlyMad: Shey this babe fine like that ni abi it is my eyes. Its your eyes, its ability to detect beauty is corrosive |
Romance › Re: "I'm Looking For A Nigerian Guy With Big D" - South African Lady by femi4: 6:38am On Feb 22, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: "I'm Looking For A Nigerian Guy With Big D" - South African Lady by femi4: 6:18am On Feb 22, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus:

THEM ? 
Wachu mean juz ONLY them? I mean like 95% of Nigerians |
Romance › Re: Auchipoly Students Forced To Use Flooded Pedestrian Bridge To Get To School by femi4: 5:48am On Feb 22, 2018 |
That's spiderman 101 course |
Politics › Re: Abba Kyari Reacts To Comment About Him On Facebook From Someone He Helped by femi4: 5:45am On Feb 22, 2018 |
ZombieBuster: Propaganda everywhere This is a story for the gullible I thought you will go the Nairaland way: "the story is fake" Fake people everywhere |
Politics › Re: Abba Kyari Reacts To Comment About Him On Facebook From Someone He Helped by femi4: 5:43am On Feb 22, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista: They are packaging this man for IGP job... If he truly deserve it...why not |
Romance › Re: "I'm Looking For A Nigerian Guy With Big D" - South African Lady by femi4: 5:37am On Feb 22, 2018 |
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Phones › Re: Warning: You Are Hereby Advised To Stay Away From Microsoft Edge Browser For Now by femi4: 5:31am On Feb 22, 2018 |
Edge/IE browser belong to the bin. Can't remember the last time I use that Microsoft product |