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Politics › Re: Eze Dumps APC, Begs Nigerians For Forgiveness by femi4: 8:59am On Mar 25
DSS pls go after him...after all we ve done for him
Politics › Re: ‘We’re On It’ – Power Minister Begs Nigerians Over Blackout by femi4: 6:54pm On Mar 24
Standing on it
Travel › Re: Lady Who Allowed Strange Man To Pay Her Tfare Regrets After Getting Home. by femi4: 5:46pm On Mar 24
VaginaAcademic:
Smart thief she would have noticed her money is missing if she decided to pay herself grin
Exactly..you understand the format

For lagos, you have to query every move of kindless..If you no fit wise for Lagos, you no fit wise for anywhere
Travel › Re: Lady Who Allowed Strange Man To Pay Her Tfare Regrets After Getting Home. by femi4: 5:43pm On Mar 24
Mariangeles:
So, how did him paying for her transport fare lead to her losing her money?

Did he rob her without her knowing, or did him paying for her Tfare cause her money to disappear, or what?
At what point did her money go missing?

Or was she jazzed?
He paid her transport fare so that she won't start looking for the money he stole

It is a way for him to buy time so he can disappear before the lady realises her money is gone
Romance › Re: What Will You Do If Given This Bride Price List by femi4: 5:37pm On Mar 24
VOsimhen144:
You want to settle down with the love of your life and her family people gave you this bride price list.

What will you do? grin
Solar panel grin

I will enlarge it and put it on the wall

Their daughter will pay back in 10 folds
Foreign Affairs › Re: Explosion At Valero Refinery In Port Arthur, Texas (video) by femi4: 5:35pm On Mar 24
Iran ..I thought we took a 5 day break
Celebrities › Re: Biola Adebayo: Journalism Or Enabling By: Tope Delano by femi4: 3:57pm On Mar 24
Enabler..she didn't consider the state of mind of the victim. The videos are in circulation once again

She has learnt her lesson. She's removed the file from youtube n insta. She lost some followers as well
Politics › Re: North Against Your 2nd Term, City Boy Movement Will Fail – Primate Ayodele Warns by femi4: 3:53pm On Mar 24
City boy is winning
Politics › Re: EFCC Operatives Take Over Malami’s Abuja Residence, Block Access To Street by femi4: 3:53pm On Mar 24
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
After God,fear Nigeria government.

More reasons why I no go ever dey happy with Goodluck Jonathan,cuz when he had the power,he couldn't do anything with it angry
Fixed
Crime › Re: Lady Cries Out After Being Sexually Assaulted By A Man On A Bus(photos,video) by femi4: 3:50pm On Mar 24
Kingsley34:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6M-j7gQVoIg&pp=0gcJCcUKAYcqIYzv

A young lady shares her emotional experience after allegedly being sexually assaulted on a public bus.

According to her: A man in his late 50s sat beside her, placed his hand on her lap and began rubbing it inappropriately. She confronted him, but when she reported the incident to other women on the bus, they reportedly asked, “Is that why you’re crying?”

She recorded this tearful video immediately after alighting from the bus.

This story has sparked massive debate online — some people question why she didn’t react more physically in the moment, while others argue that no one should ever be touched without consent in public spaces.

What do you think? Should women normalize immediate physical confrontation in such situations? Drop your thoughts below 👇
Thats why they end up in jail easily im abroad with archaic mentality
Islam › Re: Black Man Receives Massive Racist Abuse For Marrying An Arab Woman by femi4: 12:27pm On Mar 24
BlackViper:
🚨: BLACK MUSLIM ☪️ MAN CRIES 😭 OF RACISM FROM SUPERIOR MUSLIMS AFTER HE MARRIED AN EGYPTIAN MUSLIM WOMAN..

People online called me a monkey, said my wife was a disgrace to her family for marrying a black man. When people found out that I as a black Muslim man married an Egyptian, the racism came out. Messages I won't repeat, comments calling me names, telling her she is a disgrace, that her father should cut contact with her, that she betrayed her people by marrying someone dark-skinned. And these weren't comments from random people in the West. These were Muslims, people who post Quran verses everyday and talk about the Ummah.

But the moment they see a black man with an Arab woman, all of that disappears. But you know what? As a Muslim, you always have to think the best about your brother. I'm not angry. I assume they just don't have the right knowledge. And that's why I want to educate them. The Prophet said in his final sermon, An Arab is not superior to a non-Arab, nor is a non-Arab superior to an Arab except by taqwa.

White is not superior to black, nor is black superior to white, except by taqwa. Her father looked at my character, my deen, whether I could protect and provide for his daughter. He didn't see my skin color as an issue. Maybe they never learned this. Maybe no one ever taught them. So I'm teaching them right now. This is what Islam actually says and we need to do better.

shame on them
Yet they want islam to spread across the races on earth
Celebrities › Re: Peller Storms Ebonyi Streets, Shares ₦1,000 Cash Each To Residents (Video) by femi4: 12:25pm On Mar 24
Thank God for tiktok for empowering our youths
Politics › Re: 18 Lawmakers Who Fled PDP Now Flee Accord Party by femi4: 12:19pm On Mar 24
erad:
We're now putting rumors and speculations on frontpage?

Seun, is this how low your forum has sunk?
Honestly, it is so unfortunate
Education › Re: Are Modern School Uniforms Slowly Losing Their Importance by femi4: 12:17pm On Mar 24
Fictional:
Walk into many schools in Nigeria today and you will notice something interesting.

Some pupils look like little bankers.
Some look like they are going to a wedding.
Some look like they are attending a fashion show.

Blazers.
Suits.
Ties.
Waistcoats.
Different coloured socks.

It raises a simple question.

What exactly is the purpose of a school uniform?

Pause.

School uniforms did not start as fashion.
They started as a symbol of equality.

Across the world, school uniforms were created to send a message.

“We are one here.”

Whether a child came from a rich home or a struggling family, once they wore that uniform, they belonged.
No competition.
No pressure.
Just learning.

In many countries, uniforms are simple.

A shirt.
A skirt or shorts.
Sometimes a sweater when the weather is cold.

Nothing dramatic.
Nothing stressful.

Because the focus is school… not appearance.

But in many modern Nigerian schools today, things are changing.

Some schools now have four, five, even seven different uniforms.

Monday uniform.
Sports wear.
Cultural day wear.
House wear.
Friday wear.
Blazer day.
Club wear.

Pause again.


Is this still about education… or about appearance?

Now let’s talk about suits and blazers for children.

Many school owners say suits make children look smart.
Professional.
Disciplined.

And yes, there are some arguments for suits.


Reasons some schools like suits

1. They create a formal environment.
Children feel they are in a serious place.


2. They prepare children for professional settings.
Some believe it builds confidence early.


3. They make the school look prestigious.
Photos look beautiful.
Marketing becomes easier.



But pause again.


Looking good is not the same as learning well.

Now let’s look at the other side.

The challenges of suits for children in Nigeria

First… the weather.

Nigeria is hot.
Very hot.

Especially in places like Lagos, Ogun, Port Harcourt, or Abuja during dry season.

Now imagine a 12-14-year-old child wearing:

A shirt.
A tie.
A blazer.

By 10am the child is already sweating, yes most schools do have air Conditioning systems but still...

By break time the blazer is hanging on the chair.

By closing time it is stuffed inside the school bag.

So we ask again.

Is the suit serving the child… or stressing the child?

Second… children move a lot.

They run.
They jump.
They play.

Suits are not designed for playgrounds.

They are designed for boardrooms.

Third… the cost.

Blazers and suits are expensive.

And children grow fast.

A blazer bought this term may not fit next term.

For many families, this becomes a silent burden.

Especially when schools insist that uniforms must be bought only from the school.

Pause.

Another thing to think about is the meaning of uniform itself.

The word uniform comes from two simple ideas:

Uni — one
Form — appearance



One appearance.

But when a school has too many uniforms, the purpose begins to fade.

Instead of unity, it creates pressure.

Parents start calculating.

“Which one have we bought?”
“Which one are we still owing?”
“Which one is for Wednesday again?”

And the children feel it too.

Some have everything.
Some do not.

The very thing meant to reduce differences… starts to highlight them.

Pause.

So here is the real question for school owners.

What message is your school uniform sending?

Is it saying:

“Here we focus on learning”?

Or is it quietly saying:

“Here we focus on appearance”?

Uniforms should make children feel comfortable, confident, and equal.



Not hot.
Not pressured.
Not burdened.

In the past, many Nigerian schools kept uniforms simple.

One main uniform.
One sports wear.



And that was enough.

Children still became doctors.
Engineers.
Professors.
Leaders.

So today we must ask honestly.

Have we improved the system… or complicated it?

What is your take on this?
Nigerian schools always go overboard
Different wears from monday to fri
Yet special day wears ain't mentioned like traditional, cultural day etc
Politics › Re: I Don't Think President Tinubu Is Preparing For 2027. I Think It Is 2032- VDM by femi4: 9:20am On Mar 24
Constitution wey dem go still amend to 3 terms
Politics › Re: List Of ICPC Charges Against El-Rufai by femi4: 9:16am On Mar 24
Just like that
Politics › Re: Tinubu, Wife, Son Posters Flood Lagos Welcoming Him From UK: Isaac Fayose Reacts by femi4: 9:08am On Mar 24
A family affair
Politics › Re: Sunday Igboho: From Yoruba Nation Agitator To APC Enforcer? - Temidayo Akinsuyi by femi4: 9:03am On Mar 24
O ti je dodo...ko le so ododo mo
Politics › Re: Communiqué Of The 107th Meeting Of The National Executive Committee Of The PDP by femi4: 9:02am On Mar 24
Babanla nonsense

Which kain meeting be that
Politics › Re: Adeleke Outperforms APC’s 12-Year Rule Despite LG Fund Seizure — Lawmaker by femi4: 9:01am On Mar 24
Fun fact

Imole de..okunkun parada
Politics › Re: Police Arrest Baruwa After Takeover Of Abuja Secretariat In NURTW Clash With MC by femi4: 9:06pm On Mar 23
Tinubu thugs have move their fight to Abuja
Crime › Re: Lady Faces Backlash For Making Multiple Videos Harassing Several Men(video) by femi4: 9:04pm On Mar 23
kpankpangolo:
Women can do no wrong where oyibos are involved.
Deportation is on the high now...even oyinbos are trying to survive
Crime › Re: Lady Faces Backlash For Making Multiple Videos Harassing Several Men(video) by femi4: 7:20pm On Mar 23
kpankpangolo:
Easy work. Submit the videos to the US embassy and file for asylum. Japa don sort.
It wont fly...she is wrong
Crime › Re: Lady Faces Backlash For Making Multiple Videos Harassing Several Men(video) by femi4: 7:19pm On Mar 23
timidapsin:
A lady has been trending for creating contents where she approaches random men in public and puts them in very uncomfortable situations.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wt74KNfTgH0

Subscribe for more
All for tiktok money
Romance › Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by femi4: 7:16pm On Mar 23
Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here
Enter church
Romance › Re: Was I Wrong To Allow Her Pay My Rent? by femi4: 7:11pm On Mar 23
KnowledgePower7:
I moved into a new apartment and I'm very comfortable.
Now my babe is kinda baddie type girl

Before you judge me. I like her like that
She visits me from time to time. She get car oo. No be small pikin. .

But herr is the little issue.

Early this month she helped me pay half of the money I paid for rent. So technically it felt like we split the rent. Ok cool

She lives with her mum in a nice house.
So of lately she sounds time in my place.

Now this is where it gets funky

She dey kpooo SK loud for the balcony we stay upstairs. Sometimes she smoke inside the house. We have a family neighbor opposite us. I feel that my babe smoke is affecting them because the building is close to each other.
Anytime she smoke I hear this family neigbours slide their window shut.

She does this whenever we want to phuck
Now to make it worse she like to moan loud
One time around 3 am she scream loudly during orgasm . I had to force my hand to cover her mouth.

She is giving me bad rep in this street
And I'm scared police might come
I have talked about this to her and she said that she said rent too and she can do whatever she wants it's her money.

Frankly she paid 80% of the rent
I settled agent fee and the rest

My brothers, what do I do??
My reputation is looking bad
I can't chase her out based on she paid huge part of rent.
She dey moan loud and smoke loud
I still love her. She love me like mad .

But I won't lie anytime she start smoking
I just feel panic that neigbours might call police due to the smell. But she don't care

What should I do my brothers
Return her money n the sex..let her go
Health › Re: A Cameroonian Lady Named, Ethel Esima Is In Comma After A "Tongue Slice! by femi4: 7:07pm On Mar 23
Horrible to watch..so terrible
Romance › Re: Leonid Radvinsky Dies At 43 by femi4: 7:06pm On Mar 23
Just 43
Crime › Re: Peace Moses Killed By Speeding Convoy In Port Harcourt by femi4: 5:38pm On Mar 23
Peace is gone to rest in peace
Christianity Etc › Re: Christian Girl Who Burnt Bible & Converted To Islam, Is Back To Christianity by femi4: 5:35pm On Mar 23
samwash:
I guess she wouldn't try such in the Medieval Era.
Christianity has been reformed over the ages, the Roman Catholic is no longer in control.
Christianity didn't reform, the scripture intepretation is available to all. No one can bamboozle you with lies

No one can point to a verse where Jesus say you should kill...not even in prayers
Christianity Etc › Re: Christian Girl Who Burnt Bible & Converted To Islam, Is Back To Christianity by femi4: 5:32pm On Mar 23
samwash:
She burnt her Holy Bible nobody came for her head, if it was the Holy Quran, your guess is good as mine.
Religion!!!
A good lesson for all Muslims. You cant fight for your God..neither can you force anyone to accept your religion

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