Banbanna: That's how it is supposed to be. When you're in a marriageable age of mid-20s, 30s,or early 40s, you should get married.
But unfortunately the Nigerian economy under APC has disabled most men of marital age financially. They're mostly preoccupied now with personal survival than anything else. Those foreign countries that grant mostly married persons with visa approvals only do it without looking beyond the socioeconomic situations of their own countries. It's just based on the general assumption that's what had to be done at that stage in life, without considerations to the everyday realities of persons of those other countries.
I personally relate to this point you raised. A travel agent that's helping to process my travel docs adviced me that I had better do a marriage certificate so has to boost my chances of getting my visa approved given the fact that I'm in my early 40s and unmarried. Mehn, I just had to oblige her to be on the safer side. It goes to show that we humans are generally family-oriented. We're primarily here to procreate & keep the circle of life going.
Most of the thugs in school that you never thought could change turned a new leaf after marriage especially after having kids
Rebuker: There was a mix of drama and laughter in the UK during the recent Nigeria vs Ghana Unity Cup match, as many Nigerians in attendance couldn't sing the newly reinstated national anthem. Instead, they defaulted to singing the only version they knew — the now-replaced anthem, “Arise, O Compatriots.”
As soon as the instrumental for “Nigeria, We Hail Thee” began to play, many Nigerians looked confused. Some burst into laughter, clearly unfamiliar with the lyrics. Rather than staying silent, the crowd collectively began singing “Arise, O Compatriots” to the tune of the new anthem.
One Nigerian man was heard shouting in Pidgin English: “Wahala! Who sabi sing am? Na the one wey we know we go sing!” — meaning, “Problem! Who knows how to sing it? We’ll just sing the one we know!”
The stadium echoed with laughter and amusement as the crowd embraced the old anthem, creating a light-hearted and humorous moment during the event.
For context, Nigeria officially reverted to its original national anthem, “Nigeria, We Hail Thee,” on May 29, 2024, after President Bola Tinubu signed it into law. This anthem was originally used from 1960 to 1978 before being
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Nna2025: Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.
I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)
I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.
My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.
Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people
Do hiv test n give her the result
Stop taking medication when you are not sure of your status
Senator Elisha Abbo has issued a bold warning ahead of the 2027 general elections, criticizing the Tinubu-led administration.
He questioned the assumption that access to the Central Bank and national treasury would guarantee electoral victory, stating that history may repeat itself just as it did in 2015 — and "it will be marvellous in our eyes."
press9jatv: Northern lady expresses deep concern over the introduction of Computer-Based Testing for WAEC and NECO. Said that this development could lead to a significant disaster, as about 99% of students in the North have never used a computer, let alone acquired basic computer literacy 💔💔
Glimpsetv: A video that has now gone viral has sparked outrage online, as a woman boldly urged ladies—particularly Nigerian women—to attend her webinar on how to "use men."
In the video, the woman emphatically said: “Use them! The message is very simple—use them! That’s what we do here. We use them.”
She went on to share a so-called "testimony" of a single mother who, according to her, joined the class and shortly after received ₦50,000 from a man. In her words: “They sent her ₦50,000—that was the first money she got. And today, she sent me proof of another ₦100,000 sent to her by the same man.”
The woman then encouraged more ladies to join her upcoming webinar, stating it was "specifically and strictly for Nigerian girls." “If you live in the diaspora, your session will be on Friday,” she added. “But on Wednesday, it’s strictly for my Nigerian girls. I need to wake some of you up. Register and join the webinar—you need to learn how to use them.”
She also called out single mothers, especially those making excuses about having three or four children, urging them to take the class as well. “You’ll learn how to use them. You will use them,” she stressed.
However, her statements did not sit well with many Nigerians, who flooded the comment section with strong criticisms and condemnation.
Below are some of the reactions from users on X (formerly known as Twitter).
Watch the video and share your thoughts in the comments.
press9jatv: “Dear women, work hard so that hunger will not be the reason you’re falling in love. Hustle, so that you can be that independent woman - Blessing CEO..
Mekuseh11: When you pay attention to the intent of a word of advice, then you can gauge if it's from a place of care, concern or disguised mockery.
The " Go and marry" tag falls in line with the disguised mockery often packaged as a genuine concern. Age, finance and status are mostly the determinant of these fallacious shows of sportsmanship as it is always a subtle way to remind you of your decline. Rarely does happiness, companionship or even peace of mind be considered as a criteria for the supposed " Go and marry" advice.
Isn't it surprising that if there is a refusal on your part to cling onto the marriage ship, they throw in a subtle jibe and undertone caricature, reminding you of your anticipated decline and risk of losing out in life. Every other achievement is discarded and you are faced with multiple reasons why you are on your way to doom.
Then the game starts, Pressure from onlookers Constant reminder of your lack of purpose (marriage wise) Subtle jibe and derogatory insinuations Age shaming and broke shaming.
It's like there is a calculated arrangement to undermine every good thing in your life outside of marriage. Soon it gets to a stage where the pendulum swings and they become loud, aggressive, judgmental, mean, disrespectful and what have you! Just to sway and hasten your decision.
The question is why do you get offended at my refusal to heed your supposed advice? Why am I getting mocked all of a sudden? Why are my achievements secondary to your concerns? Why do I need to prove my intent of life with marriage?
Think about it slowly!
We are all a product of life and it is expected through procreation to give life too. I understand that sometimes you need a slight push to make future decisions especially when it concerns others. What I don't understand is why there is pressure to act quickly, a timer to determine my right to what fulfillment entails. Maybe I'm overthinking, just maybe?
" Go and marry" is far from what it looks like, it has become a source of pain, caricature and a reminder of a looming failure. The pressure takes a toll on people. The sigh of relief that comes after marriage is mostly from a place of freedom against the society, instead of a genuine path to a beautiful next chapter.
Wrong
It's about taking responsibility and being responsible in the society.
Why do you think landlords n some country's visa give priority to a family man
I will be brief. I love this lady and I believe she loves me too because she is my dream woman. we plan to get married by early next year, but the problem here is that my mom want me to hold on with the wedding because she feels I'm not buoyant enough for marriage. My finance promise to support though.
By this year December, I should have saved 1.5M from my pocket and I believe family and friends will support as my total budget for the wedding is 2M.
Although I didn't tell her about my savings yet. I don't want to enter a marriage without my parents support. Just few months left to new year and I'm so confused right now.
What should I do guys?
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Why spend that much on wedding
Marriage is more expensive than wedding, stop spending your life savings on wedding
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