Kizolalah82: Good morning family .. I left (relocated )asaba due to my marriage because I’m igbo my beautiful wife is Yoruba . I went to asaba for a business only for me to go to Qubes hotel to lodge.hotel I always lodge then 25k as at 2022 has sky rocketed to 35k . Feeding and clothing in asaba is now X3 . Thank God say I run fast o😂😂. Asaba people how do you cope 😂😂?
I’m Lagos 15-20k will give you. Nice hotel in Ojo.ikotun.abule egba etc
allthingsgood: When it comes to Marriage, it’s common for men (and pretty much everyone) to mess up at some point. Whether it’s a lack of communication or a lapse in judgment, navigating a relationship requires a certain level of self-awareness. Here are some prevalent mistakes men make in marriage: 1. It is a woman's duty to love, it is a man's duty to provide A man who continuously shows affection, without anything concrete is just sitting on time bomb and wasting his time. If she is not already cheating, she will eventually leave u in frustration. Women are complex, they are to be chased before marriage. After marriage, allow her to do the chasing. Focus on providing and protecting, that is your job as a man.
2. Letting your appearance suffer When you first started dating her, you were probably extremely aware of how you looked, smelled, and presented yourself. But now? You walk around donning your dirty boxers upandan. Okay na, she will soon get tired and leave. A woman needs to see her husband as her god. So dont get too comfortable, or she will disconnect from you.
3. Take charge You are the lord. Allow your wife to have her say, but you must have your way. She will secretly love you even more. No woman likes an indecisive man. Be a problem solver, not weak slub.
4. Expecting your partner to be a mind-reader Bros, women arent prophets or psychics. Sometimes even if she has an idea what you mean, she just needs to hear the words. Dont just send money to your wife without giving specific instructions/information. You will have done nothing! Tell her exactly what you mean and what you want.
5. Avoiding conflict like the plague We get it, no one likes fighting. It’s stressful and just all around not a good time. But conflict is pretty much a given in any relationship, besides it’s how you handle it that matters. So if you find yourself leaving whenever an argument starts to brew or just nodding to appease your partner, you’re being avoidant. Your partner wants to know how you feel and you should want to know how they feel, too! Also sometimes, women like conflict for no apparent reason, they can be that ridiculous. But its there way of seeking attention.
6. Prepare for the rainy day Dont count on your wife to rescue you when things go bad, especially financially. You may be lucky that she does, but dont count on it. The only person who will probably accept you no matter what is your mother, so treat her well. You wife will begin to show signs when things get tough, and may eventually dump you. The biggest disaster is allow a woman become your breadwinner. My brother you are done for!
7. Your wife is not your best friend Bro get it together. She is your wife and partner, not your best friend. Forget mumu woke generation
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Social media activist VeryDarkMan has finally addressed the controversy surrounding Davido and Cubana Chief Priest’s recent visit to President Tinubu’s office. In his statement, he weighed in on the public backlash, clarifying his stance.
LawWithEbele: After cohabiting with a woman for 30 years, a man assumed that their decades of living together and raising children, despite never paying bride price, automatically amounted to a customary marriage.
So, when he decided it was time to move on, he accused the woman of denying him sex and asked the court to dissolve the “marriage.” But the court was quick to point out that there was no customary marriage to dissolve.
Cohabitation, no matter how long, without more, does not amount to marriage.
That was the end of the road for both parties—to your tent, O Israel.
Sadly, many women are in the same situation. They move in with men, have children, run homes, and live as wives—without any formal marriage ceremony, bride price, or legal recognition. It may feel like marriage, it may look like marriage, but legally, it is not marriage.
Imagine doing everything a wife does—cooking, cleaning, childbearing—without enjoying any of the legal protections or privileges of a lawful spouse. That’s the harsh reality that awaits anyone on that path.
Ladies, let’s do better.
I am Aroh-Nwoka Ebelechukwu, your family and property lawyer.
SultanOfPuna: I have lived alone in apartment from 2019 to 2023 Due to financial struggles i relocated to my parents house 2023 since then i'm still with them
Now its 2 years and i have gotten financially stable and solid. I want to leave but my parents are old and they want me to be around them at this stage of their life.
My parents are really old My siblings are all married except me. My siblings are in different states far away from my parents. I'm the only one closer to them
I'm the one taking care of the house and making sure things are in order. But deep down i want to leave the house and go create my own family.
If i leave them and move out i fear that things will be out of order and disorganised due to old age. Unfortunately no younger sibling to help look after them.
What should i do?
Stay...if you go n something bad happens to them, you won't forgive yourself
naptu2: Abdussamad Dasuki is a son of the former Sultan of Sokoto, Alhaji Ibrahim Dasuki and brother of Colonel Sambo Dasuki (ADC to President Ibrahim Babangida and National Security Adviser in the administration of President Goodluck Jonathan).
He was the Sokoto State Commissioner of Finance in the administration of Governor Aminu Waziri Tambuwal and he was the member representing Tambuwal East Constituency in the Sokoto State House of Assembly.
He is currently the member representing Kebbe/Tambuwal Constituency in the House of Representatives.
ikorodureporta: Something has to be done... There's Oro in Ikorodu today that children should be partying... It's unacceptable! Daytime Oro should be banned in Lagos state..
Glimpsetv: Viral video of Nigerian footballer Victor Boniface and popular skit maker Phoebe.
In the trending clip, Boniface is seen enjoying a delicious meal cooked by Phoebe for him and his friends. He was heard saying, “She brought food for me and my friends and it’s actually good, but she forgot chicken — no problem.”
Phoebe quickly replied, “You were rushing me! You said I should be fast!” Victor, in playful pidgin, fired back, “No be you tell me say you dey do work? I was hungry!”
He then gave a thumbs up and praised the meal, saying, “The food is actually nice.” Phoebe couldn't hide her excitement and burst into a happy dance in response to Victor’s rating.
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