Frost124: Good day nairalanders, thank God this site is a faceless forum... Few weeks ago my dad told me he is HIV positive, when he told me I was disappointed but I made sure I didn't show it and I encouraged him... Him and my mother has been sick for a while and I certainly know he has transferred it to my mum.... My dad was very promiscuous when he was younger even after he married my mom he was still promiscuous. I am the only child and I have been footing the bills for their medical cares I am just 26 years old and I have spent so much and there is more spending still to come.... My father only told me, my mother is not aware of her health status all she thinks it's just a normal sickness happening to her. I have no one to talk to, I don't trust any friends because I believe when I tell them, they will certainly spread the news and you know the stigmatization against HIV patients, it's not good... I am frustrated, depressed and financially drained, sometimes I stay in my room and cry.... To avoid thinking, sometimes I just drink some alcohol... This issue has been in my heart for several weeks I just had to put it on Nairaland to ease my pain. My father just called me today that my mom has been admitted to the hospital, she was too weak to even walk.... Another spending and I am running out of cash, don't know what to do anymore. It wouldn't be this severe if they found out earlier, it's almost late. May God help me and my parents.
The first thing you should do is to get tested and confirm your mum's status as well so that she will know how to manage herself.
ignis: You won't see it because the God of this world have blinded your eyes to see the scripture.
Ignorance
Romans 10:9-10
9 That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved.
Act 4: 11-12
11 Jesus is “‘the stone you builders rejected, which has become the cornerstone.’[a]
12 Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.”
MajorOvakporaye: They keep empowering the females while leaving the males to wallow in abject poverty. Make una no forget say these women will not marry themselves ooo
So many programmes and forums for women
I think It is easier to get funds released, donations etc for programmes that target women
This reminds me of a story I read some years back about big time winners church pastor anchoring a Ghana branch. I think the Ghana branch was big and doing so well, almost same issue occurred and the and this pastor stops sending tithes and other information to the headquarters in Nigeria. Daddy sent emissaries, Senior pastor to Ghana, just to remind this said pastor, still he refuses.
After everything, the pastor went to court, won the case and now he has re name that branch, making it his own church.
You can Google it, to get the full story
It was easy cos it happened in Ghana. The law governing property over there is different
Fiscus105: People had been putting blame on others from time of Adam&Eve.
They put blame on marriage instead of couples involved. They blame VAR instead of referee in charge. They blame INEC, instead of politicians. They blame religion instead of church goers
I remembered telling football fanatics that we will still have controversies in football even with introduction of VAR because its subject to human interpretation.
Raycelove: 8 Important ways to live a successful life as Christians.
Here are 8 ways to live a successful life as Christians. 1)You must believe in Jesus Christ as the Lord of your life and received the baptism of the Holy Ghost.
2) By studying and meditating on the scriptures to attain success in our works.
3) By being Spiritual in our works and consistently engaging in prayers and fasting always.
4) By living a life of discipline, purpose and determination in all our work activities.
5) By giving offerings of thanksgiving, tithes and sacrifices to God's kingdom advancement ministries.
6) By being diligent and taking full responsibility over the affairs of our lives for achievement in life.
7) By seeking love, peace,humility and consistency in personal growth and development.
8.) By seeking passive understanding for good wisdom and knowledge of our activities.
Amen.
Passive understanding can be dogmatic, as it may involve accepting information without critically evaluating it.
Act 17:11
The people of Berea were more open-minded than the people of Thessalonica. They were very willing to receive God's message, and every day they carefully examined the Scriptures to see if what Paul said was true.
Lifestone: How did Bashorun Gaa help to hold Oyo empire together, even from your own narration which is not in muchway different from those already history. Gaa is dubious, devilish, overambituos and ended badly
The Old Oyo empire was under GAA, and the empire was strong and difficult to be defeated on the battle field. GAA was able to put other great warriors under him. After his death, the empire stronghold couldn't hold anymore and some of these regions got independence from the old Oyo empire
PrincessofDSS: Forgive my gender, they have just refused to stop falling my hands…. She even has the guts to say it on podcast…. Hmmm
Her face was covered. I don't think she was proud of it cos she said she always feel terrible after the act. Being abused sexually as early as age 5 can also contribute to her predicament
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Righteousness2: When we shout and Scream on the dire need to Surrender to JESUS Christ, Hold HIM with all your Might and Conciously Walk with HIM , you think it is a Joke?
The Legions of Demonic and Satanic spirit and Forces out there do not send your grammar, height, Position, Education, Wealth and all that.
What the devil and his Forces Fear is a Life that is Surrendered to JESUS Christ, and Fully Consecrated to GOD in Righteousnessand Holiness.
We live in dangerous times. The time is too Short. Infact there is no more time. The devil is So Desperate to grab souls to Hell through All Available means. You cant fight him by your power.
If you Value your soul, You MUST EMBRACE JESUS CHRIST with All your Might.
JESUS CHRIST is not an Option to Humanity . HE is THE SOLUTION to the Problems of Humanity.
This is medical and psychological...nothing spiritual about it. Some born again tongue speaking Christians do worse in their closet. If you don't go for the right therapy, you will just be wasting your time