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lila007:
THANKS

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO

SHOULD I MOVE ON?

I DON'T WANNA WASTE ANOTHER YEAR WITH HIM

Nautillus:
_{He is a jerk. . . .an over grown jerk. . .and the bad part is , . .his mum supports him}

So true, it's so

lila007:
How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage?

nurexg:
Hope

emmydee:
Failed!

nwabuking5:
the things that turns me off from a woman and the percentages
dirtyness 100 %
body odor 100%
womanliness odor 100%
mouth odor 100%
stupidity 80%
pride 70%
lake of respect 100%
lies 100%
lake of plans 50% because i can ofer a help in that erea.
ASHAWO 500%

Mekzie:
Tel your spouse the truth and free your conscience or ever irrespective of the consequences.

Ujujoan:
Yea, according to the Igbo tradition!

Ujujoan:
They did the whole brid price paying thing and traditional wine carrying! No white wedding yet.

I know, I feel awful about myself. It's just that the man is queit advanced and I've always seen him as someone who would be reasonable and sensible in his actions.

When the whole thing started, I thought it was a joke. Then it dragged and dragged and dragged.

The last straw happened on sunday when he told my friend to withdraw from an MBA programme she applied for. That got me thinking, if he claims to be her husband and wants to make major decicions in her life, he should marry her proper or at least take her back under his roof.

As opposed to my NL character, I usually mind my business in real life. I dont give advice if I'm not asked and even then, I'm always really careful because I always believe there's always another side to the story.

But I just had to sit my friend down on sunday and talk to her. I just couldn't hold back anymore.

I just hope you guys are wrong though and he's not jsut looking for a way to leave her

daduke2k:
Lol. Hehe, No i wasnt. Just editd sum things.

daduke2k:
* Unhygienic women

* Self-centeredness

* Being rude and inconsiderate

* Refusing to admit mistakes

* Immaturity and cockyness

* Being someone you are not! Don't be fake! Be yourself! *unintelligent illiterates. *foul tongues and snobs. *gluttons, nw dat may surprise u bt its real. And cheap gurls wey dey form, dat 1 dey vex me pas.

kech:
Some of you guys are missing the important info here! Look at the bolded. Please she should not give out her car ooo. If it were her own car, bought with her own money, she can think about whether to lend it to him or not. This is a car her fiance gave her as an ENGAGEMENT gift. She shouldn't even disrespect her fiance by doing that. In fact, i think for her sake and the sake of the life she'll soon start with her fiance, she SHOULD NOT ask the fiance for permission. Seriously, what's she going to say? "Honey, can I lend out the car you gave me to me ex for a week?" But you guys, check it naa. Is that not grounds for questioning the relationship?  Meanwhile doesn't the man have other friends he can ask? Why does it have to be her? He's going to get her into trouble. The girl had better respect herself ooo. A word is enough for the wise.

PS: If she feels soooooo obligated to lend her ex a car, she should go and borrow or rent one for him. Then when her fiance catches her, we convene back here on NL to give advice.

indie22:
"Real men don't beat women u say, yet u went ahead and slapped her around coz u were trying to correct her and now she wants to date u by force", @poster u do realize you're just as bad as she is?, this is simply a case of "area boy slaps area girl, then area girl pulls out a knife in retaliation, u'all are jst a bunch of hooligans!!!!

dont be surprised girl. Its jst mere a correction. No intentin 2 beat her or violence. Real men dnt beat women, their re other ways 2 get dem purnish. U knw wat i mean? . U knw wat till date d girl respect me n dnt slap guys again. Infact she wants 2 date me byforce. Imagine! Lol. Ladies re meant to be control also respect dem 4 whom dey re nt takin advantage because we re men. As soon as u let ladies control n dictate 4u. U re doomed. She wil cheat n do al sort of rubbish. Ladies can advise u n make impact in your life. Simple arithmetic.

Mudley313:
u seriously need to go out n get laid or sumthin

Dark1:
QED!

candylips:
Let the past stay buried.

Mudley313:
both of u, get a room already

Mudley313:
thanks for heeding to my command to BUZZ OFF

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hin just answer hin jagbajantis qweshun here as u can see

Chykason:
^^fifi,
you wish today is friday?

galatico:
A babe in my neighbourhood wanted me to ask her out, initially I didn’t want to, despite the fact that I had feelings for her, I later asked her out she said she had a guy she was dating which was false, I saw it in her that she is interested, cuz sometimes when a babe says no she actually meant YES, so I still persisted.The most annoying thing she did that got me upset was that there was this young boy that lives in the same compound as she does who wanted her and told her bad things about me(that I went about the neighbourrhood telling anyone who care to know that am dating her).
She actually believed the lunatic and got really upset without confronting me, sent me a damaging text that got me upset and swore never to forgive her again.
The problem is I still LOVE this girl, am finding it difficult to forgive her.