Forum Games › Re: Slap Or Kiss by fifi09(f): 7:58pm On Mar 05, 2010 |
Mannylex: [b]U didn't do nuffin, it's just that u've slapped me twice. slap @bold: Cool beans!
Sowri, *holding back the slap* |
Forum Games › Re: Slap Or Kiss by fifi09(f): 7:20pm On Mar 05, 2010 |
Me, what did I do?
Moooooooe Slaps the hell outa him!!! |
Forum Games › Re: Slap Or Kiss by fifi09(f): 6:43pm On Mar 05, 2010 |
Slap the black off ya!! |
Forum Games › Re: Slap Or Kiss by fifi09(f): 12:53am On Mar 05, 2010 |
Smack ya! |
Romance › Re: Should I Call Off This Relationship? Please Help by fifi09(f): 12:00am On Mar 05, 2010 |
Like I said before… We all know the saying "Actions Speak Louder Then Words" and in a mans world this is so true.
Ladies, you don't want a man to "settle" for you; your partner should see you as his first choice or something is wrong. |
Romance › Re: Abeg Which One Is Marine Spirit? by fifi09(f): 11:14pm On Mar 04, 2010 |
190: **190 strolls in**
Peeps**
SEES topic
THE MARINE SPIRIT SCARES 190 OUT OF HIS PANTS
and 190 takes off**
ZOOOOOoooooooooommmmmmmmmmmmmm**********
shouting
EGBA MI OOH!
me and spirit tins no dey agree  |
Romance › Re: Because He Told Her He Will Marry Her She Had To Quit Our Relationship by fifi09(f): 8:05pm On Mar 04, 2010 |
xynerise: In what aspect? I give you some time and you will be among the 99.9% that is if you are not married. Una wey like jeep  Can't stop laughing at this one |
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Romance › Re: Facebook Can Lead To Divorce by fifi09(f): 2:54am On Mar 04, 2010 |
soki2ng: hmm . two Words "Communication Break-down" << my Gf has my password,  I concur!Rehana2: He asked for power of attorney to look after our house in Spain, I gave him Spanish document for power of authority to deal with utilities instead, so he thought he could do as likes with Spain. Then he told me leaving me and wants to remortgage London House and move out to get own place. Said no went to lawyer refused to sign anything. Meantime he found out not power of attorney in Spain. Back in London caught out with the Facebook thing, all very sorry and sweet and lovely, explained remortgage just for retirment investment. I asked why not in joint names again then? Gave in let him take his £100k our of London house and he's still going ahead with purchase. As long standing wife guess I will have some rights to share of 'his' house should he predecease me. Am going to register 'marital interests' with land registry here so he can't sell our current joint home in London. But really not happy, he retracted the wants to leave me thing, and promises girlfriend off scene now. Wants me to live with him in new house. Chest pains and confusion with all this, after long years of marriage. Always thought marriage was share everything, he earns more than I do so I guess he feels he has contributed more in the long term. Stopped giving me housekeeping money when the kids were half way through school. I have always worked but only earn half of what he gets each month. Wow… So sad. |
Romance › Re: Facebook Can Lead To Divorce by fifi09(f): 1:02am On Mar 03, 2010 |
Sadly, No! You can't be serious. |
Romance › Re: When Your Guy Cheats, How Do U Revenge? by fifi09(f): 12:24am On Mar 03, 2010 |
disturbia: Hell knows no fury like a black woman scorn. Wreck him without his knowing. Did that to ex never knew it was from me. We still friends though and he still thinks it's one of his male friends.  LOL, you're bad girl! |
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Romance › Re: When Your Guy Cheats, How Do U Revenge? by fifi09(f): 10:54pm On Mar 02, 2010 |
Sometimes the best revenge really is not revenge at all… Take a deep breath, and let it go. |
Romance › Re: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by fifi09(f): 8:31pm On Mar 02, 2010 |
*Shake head in disbelief* |
Romance › Re: Ur Mum Or Ur Wife:which One Would U Go For? by fifi09(f): 10:25pm On Mar 01, 2010 |
daduke2k: Comprende.  |
Romance › Re: Ur Mum Or Ur Wife:which One Would U Go For? by fifi09(f): 8:49pm On Mar 01, 2010 |
@daduke2k: As a wife, her place is in your heart and as parents, their place should be on your shoulder.
You know why? Because our parents are our responsibilities while our spouse is our life partner, kapish?
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Romance › Re: Ur Mum Or Ur Wife:which One Would U Go For? by fifi09(f): 6:40pm On Mar 01, 2010 |
Spyker: Simply solution I can remarry and have another wife but i can never have another mother. If my wife was in the same situation, i am very sure she will go for her mother. Mother comes first. For those who use love as excuse, see, what love is greater than the love of a mother? I doubt your wife will choose her mom over you. |
Romance › Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by fifi09(f): 4:04am On Mar 01, 2010 |
Stanfordx: As a corps member i knw wat goes on here.Let her undstnd tat wat she did u dnt like it and try send her 10k to buy tiger gen to avoid such act again. LOL, too funny! |
Romance › Re: Ur Mum Or Ur Wife:which One Would U Go For? by fifi09(f): 6:10pm On Feb 26, 2010 |
kristonium: we had an argument sometimes ago and it was on whom u would choose if u are in a twist to choose between your mum or the mother of your kids.some of my colleagues went for their mum asserting that blood is thicker than water.[b]but personally i went for my wife because i feel love is a stronger bond than any other thing and moreso,she is the mother of my kids.[/b]i was looked on as if i said something strange.guys,is it strange?which would u go for? @bold: Of course.
C'mon guys, Wifey comes FIRST. Always. |
Romance › Re: When A Man Doesn't Want Commitment In A Relationship by fifi09(f): 6:15pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
DENISE17: it has happened to me.i went thru all his tests u can think of.after almost 10 years,he told me that he wont marry me & i shouldnt expect him to commit to me. That was hella long… Ohhh no!DENISE17: it has happened to me.i went thru all his tests u can think of.after almost 10 years,he told me that he wont marry me & i shouldnt expect him to commit to me.they dont marry, so that when u've reached an expiry date,they can just get rid of u & move to the next hot thing.so marriage/commitment puts a limitation to their lifestyle.it's a need for them to maintain things that way.it's not what i could have done to pass his every test, he was still going to get rid of me anyway, and he knew in his heart that he'll never marry me, but i didnt.but what they dont realize is that their own consequences will eat their emotions alive, cos their souls will never be at peace, Oh yeah! Sooner or later they'll find out. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Close Their Eyes While Kissing? by fifi09(f): 9:01pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
pappilo: It is not a silly question o. When I was younger, a girl refused to give me the thing when she briefly opened her eyes and saw my eyes were open while we were kissing. She was turned off immediately and kongee don catch man from all the smooching. Omo na bosom I fire that day, no be small thing. From that day on me self dey close eye when I dey kiss. ROTFL, keep them coming, pappilo, you're too funny! |
Family › Re: Did You Marry The Wrong Person? by fifi09(f): 8:19pm On Feb 23, 2010 |
newtontoyo: inasmuch as i agree with most points u raised,especially on loving the person u married,i still tend to disgree with u on loving your 'bad' spouse. it takes two to solve watever problems one has within marriage.[/b]The two must be ready to love each other and also be devoted to solving watever issues they have.so wat happens wen as a man,your spouse is always giving u problems, is indifferent and from all indications,the love seems to have gone? i dont advise accepting that,making your life more miserable.Any marriage that does not involve one sacrifice or d other from both parties is bound to hit d rocks. Like I said before… Loving the bad things meaning accepting your partner's flaws and view them as "facts of life". Trying to change your partner is difficult and is one of the biggest relationship myths around.
If you're trying to change someone, you are indirectly telling them that you don't love them the way they are. To me, aceptance is LOVE. If you want this person to change who they are, then why are you with them in the first place? No one is perfect, learn to appreciate the differences between the TWO of you. They'll change for You when they're ready.
To answer your question: Learn to fall in love again with your partner, and get counseling. If that doesn't work get a divorce. |
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Family › Re: Did You Marry The Wrong Person? by fifi09(f): 6:01pm On Feb 22, 2010 |
aseju: It can cross ones mind as such when the turbulence of marriage gets rough some times. However, if both parties are committed to the relationship, they wont want to crashland together. It has crossed my mind at such times, we survived it. It is a life long project that you work on. It can be gratifying when you look back at the journey. The challenges will surely be there regardless of whomever you take this journey with. I pray mine to be a never-ending one. I am with the RIGHT one. Amen to that! |
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Romance › Re: How Can I Find Love Again? by fifi09(f): 8:18am On Feb 21, 2010 |
Yes, love exists and you will no doubt experience it someday. There is so much out there. Believe me when I tell you. You'll experience so much more when you meet that special someone and have a real meaningful relationship. Best of luck!! |
Romance › Re: Should I Tell Her by fifi09(f): 4:05am On Feb 21, 2010 |
*Shaking my head in disbelief* |
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Family › Re: Did You Marry The Wrong Person? by fifi09(f): 7:13pm On Feb 20, 2010 |
newtontoyo: It s not easy to love the Bad things,Compare itto sombody stabbing u with a knife everyday and U smiling and urging the person to Go ahead. I do Not and will Never encourage unhealthy or violent relationships. All i'm saying is that No one has the perfect marriage or perfect spouse. Learn to love that person you married. Good, bad, it doesn't matter (loving the bad things - meaning accepting your partner's flaws. Since no one is perfect, you want to learn to appreciate the differences between the TWO of you. Trying to change her/him after getting married will only make both of you miserable. |