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advanceDNA:
U start thread.....still dey comment like say u be third party

Lol, please what do you have to say

Rayban25:
You're doing the same thing you're complaining about..as you've created a thread about them are you not giving them undeserved attention?

I only mentioned them, i just want them to know that we are aware of their antics, this thread isn't about them

Creamypie:
pls add (5) Even as they get all the thousands of attention and DMs for serious relationships, and the eventual relationships, none in the end, will be asked for their hand in marriage

you are right man

Jennyclay, Siofra, Goodlady, iyaebethegreat, Erima and many others come to mind

This is very true, I guess majority of people are wired to behave that way


I will create another thread for guys who behave this way to get attention as well

.

So you had unprotected sex with your baby mama

G00DHardDick:
You're part of the problem here. See the way you even replied her which network, whereby giving her the impression that you'll send it. E sure me die say you have already sent her the card. See the way she's even ordering you to send it fast. Gosh! What an entitled parasite she is.

Dude, I met one and it wasn't up to 2 days she told me the following Sunday was her birthday. Of course I understand this game very well far more than her. I then invited her to an hotel on the said birthday, the idiot knew very well that I wanted to smashed nonsense out of her pussy, then dump her and move on. Na the werey use her hand delete herself move on. Dude, you don't reply this kind of messages you ignored them or simply tell her straight up you're not her father! Make she ask her papa for the sub

thanks bro, but I didn't send it to her though

Hotwest:
You own small

Chat with a Nigerian girl u r already owing her. Them go bill you tire....she is just testing grounds

Broke girls everywhere like a lady up there is saying broke boys everywhere

don't mind them, they all have the same mentality

Beebah321:
Wetin dey there now??
Because of small data, u come here dey make noise. Mtchewww

from data to food money, cooking gas, house rent etc, that's how it starts

Redoil:
continue to insult girls at the list slightest perceived provocation

The truth must be told

Jennyclay:
How much is ordinary data that you can’t help someone . You can’t even afford data as low as 1k for her and you want to be in a relationship with her .

Biko, kill that your broke feelings you have for her Biko!! You even open a thread to disgrace yourself.

You’re a disgrace!! Shame on you!! Shame!!

Broke men everywhere!!!

Lol, it's too early to beg for data, we met just last week and she's already begging.

Is that how you beg too, don't tell me you can't afford N200 data to browse

It seems 90% of naija girls are the same

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Blackazuma99:
Seven (7) years ?
Truly you don't care or love your children, for Seven years you have not seen your children or sent them money for food and school fees and you are here lamenting that your wife took your children, in this buhari regime, I am sorry bro you are WICKED more than our politicians.

Seven years of hardship for herself and her children couple with the problem she was having before she left you, you don't deserve to see them if they are successful.

did you carefully read the story, she absconded with the kids, her whereabouts isn't known

This is why some of our parents don't want their children to marry from another tribe

My name is Garba. I am from Borno State while my ex-wife’s name is Lara and she is from Ilesha in Osun State. We got divorced after giving birth to two children, a boy and a girl.

I used to visit my children when their grandmother was alive, but unfortunately after her death my ex-wife relocated to Festac, and I don't know where she moved to.

I went to see her aunt who pleaded with her to allow me to see my children but all to no avail. I planned to report the matter to a human rights organisation but I don't have her contact nor do I know her address, so there is no means of reaching her.

I tried so hard to contact some of her friends but all have yielded no result. It has been seven years since I last saw or heard from my children. I love my kids so much and the thoughts of not hearing from them has made me sad and confused.

Please, what should I do?

frozen70:
The more children you will have for him the more sufferings are loading for you

He doesn't have regards for you because you followed him without any marriage rights and not even a drink to your family

So he sees you as a cheap stuff

Now you have to braze up with yourself and get something doing

If the rent is becoming to expensive then advice him that you guys need to get just a room so that you can pay the rent with ease

So far you can endure what you are passing through and he doesn't beat you or abuse you
You can still remain there

Once it becomes toxic, move out to save your life

I agree with you

tommy589:
Listen to your family,they know you more than we do

her family don't want to bear her burden if she comes back to them

Sonnobax15:

Like my father always say to us--"That one day mistake can bring agony and pains of 100 years to you"

Na so this op case just be like so....And the truth is that many young bannies of these days will definitely end up like this op.....

Well,op,na you wear the shoe..So na only you fit determine where dey pinch you for the shoe...... But one question I'd really love to ask you is that,was he like this when you first met him? Don't you think the nigha could be passing through some sort of financial problem?

it's always good to plan your life well

Our ladies should be careful the kind of life they live to avoid having too much problems

I don't see any escape route for her here

My name is Pelumi. I am 26 years old and I reside somewhere around Ogun State. As a single mother of one, I met my boyfriend three years ago. He is 35 years old. After dating for a year, we had a child and we started living together as a couple even without being legally married.

I was happy when we met because I thought God had finally sent me a helper who would care for me and my child. Little did I know that reverse would be the case as this man has not been carrying out his responsibilities as the father of the kids. Most of the time, I sort the bills with little or no contribution from him.

At the end of the month, all he gives us is either N8000 or N9000 and he doesn't care if it is enough or not. I pay the children's school fees, and now that our house rent is due, he simply said he doesn't have money. I have no choice than to actively look for the money to pay the house rent, so that my kids and I don't end up on the street.

I told my family about my plans to leave him but they asked me to endure so that people won't start counting for me. I have two kids and I don't really know what to do anymore.

What can I do to save myself from this? Please advise me.

IyaebeTheGreat:
She didn't ask him to pay, it was mentioned in a discussion. Men and their insecurities. The other day I mentioned that I want my next birthday in Maldives and a nairalander should volunteer but these boys began to use it to insult me as if I demanded to be taken to Maldives by force.

of course iyaebe will surely change the narrative

Samantha124:
You men are your own problem, maybe you don't understand what being a feminist mean to a point that you assume that every feminist hates men... There are also male feminists, in case you don't know.

Why would I hate men to begin with? Have you seen me hating on men in this forum?

Okay, thanks for the clarification

Samantha124:
I have no issues against men.

but I know you to be a hardcore feminist

Samantha124:
Worst advise ever.

thank God you didn't support her today

Farfalla:
Of course. It can never be your story.

Sixfeetbelle:
You're the pained one, dear, cause you said you won't pity us again as if we ever asked to be pitied.

Sorry dear

Sixfeetbelle:
The one that you pitied us before, who send you message?

Lol, why are you so pained now

Farfalla:
And I pray she continues to do so as long as men like you, who would pick a manipulative woman over your own blood daughter, continue to exist.

Haha, I don't have a manipulative wife, that was someone's story I posted

Fahvvy:
In 24hours of meeting a guy, you're already telling him your personal problems, and you're expecting him to continue gisting with you? ...

How daft can you be! ...

Were you expecting him to stay with someone who may potentially be a liability to him? ...

don't mind her