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FamilyRe: Man Who Rescued Baby Girl Dumped By Road Side In Enugu Shares Her New Photo by finishmatter: 12:52pm On Nov 28, 2022
Naira20:
There are mad women who won't abandon their children.
No be today mad women don dey born children.
Be calming down.

Your blood too hot
PoliticsRe: Adams Oshiomhole Exposes How SS Governors Got Billions In "Trapped Funds" by finishmatter: 10:15am On Nov 21, 2022
SlavaUkraini:
So if he stole money, he has no moral right to call out governors that stole or are stealing money

He should shut the hell up, before breeze go blow and fowl yansh go open...
u got a point.
PoliticsRe: Adams Oshiomhole Exposes How SS Governors Got Billions In "Trapped Funds" by finishmatter: 3:26pm On Nov 20, 2022
SlavaUkraini:
Best governor in Looting and embezzlement of state Treasury
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What a wrong way to analyze things.

Oshomole stole money but not as much as igbinedion and obaseki.

Yet he performed infrastructural wise.
What did igbinedion and obaseki do?
PoliticsRe: Adams Oshiomhole Exposes How SS Governors Got Billions In "Trapped Funds" by finishmatter: 11:53am On Nov 20, 2022
Patriotsleague:
Governors are the real problems of Nigeria, a lot of ignorant people always quick to blame the president.
This is why I keep telling people that dividing Nigeria is not the solution.
There is massive corruption taking place and the states n LG level
PoliticsRe: Adams Oshiomhole Exposes How SS Governors Got Billions In "Trapped Funds" by finishmatter: 11:51am On Nov 20, 2022
SlavaUkraini:
Oshomonkey can keep deceiving himself

He should tell Nigerians what he also did with all the federal allocation that came to Edo State.

He should explain to Nigerians how he imported that his wife from Cape Verde ...

Obaseki has all the details of the money he Looted and Embezzled from Edo State and he would be exposed soon...
But Oshomole is d best governor/leader Edo State has had since 1991.
Obaseki is a failure.
PoliticsRe: Dividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op): 11:08pm On Nov 12, 2022
GodHatesJews:
The system promotes parasitism .

A scenario where all the customs officials in Onne port are Abokis and those at Bama, Bornu are from the South can not be equitable.

A situation where all the NPA managers of respective ports in the south are from the landlocked north can not be fair.

If these positions were not profitable do you think you will see one Aboki in the south ?

Another pointer is just see how taxes and levies paid by southerners end up being utilized in the north .

FRSC will be harassing drivers in the south for not renewing their road permits and papers but in the north you will not see one FRSC officer on the road and hardly anyone renews their permits in the north.

Let's even look at petroleum pricing. The cost of fuel at the pump is not estimated from its landing cost at the oil tank farm but the cost of transporting fuel by road to the farthest northern fringes. Yes, you are paying for the fuel that gets to Adamu in Bornu.

Same thing applies for electricity cost where the rates are very low in the north with hardly any disconnections carried out when the bill is due and over due..

Your electricity tarrif is calculated to subsidized the northern consumer who barely pays his bill, has no prepaid meter and is never disconnected.

Should I go on?.
I know the North have issues with tribalism. But u must agree that we have had southern presidents who ought to have fought for the interests of the south or set the system right but failed.
They could have also employed Southerners in choice positions but failed.

So, I believe you should see where to pass d blame to.

Note: I am not advocating tribalism.
PoliticsRe: Dividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op): 10:59pm On Nov 12, 2022
GodHatesJews:
No.

The FG has a regulatory pricing system that sets the rates for every DISCO.

The north pays next to nothing and most areas are captured under rural electrification scheme.
Privatization of d power sector started during Obasanjo I think. Goodluck came in afterwards

So, I should hold Obasanjo and Goodluck accountable for the discrepancies ( if any) and not the north.

So, we can say that our past southern leaders failed us
PoliticsRe: Dividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op): 10:48pm On Nov 12, 2022
GodHatesJews:
The system promotes parasitism .

A scenario where all the customs officials in Onne port are Abokis and those at Bama, Bornu are from the South can not be equitable.

A situation where all the NPA managers of respective ports in the south are from the landlocked north can not be fair.

If these positions were not profitable do you think you will see one Aboki in the south ?

Another pointer is just see how taxes and levies paid by southerners end up being utilized in the north .

FRSC will be harassing drivers in the south for not renewing their road permits and papers but in the north you will not see one FRSC officer on the road and hardly anyone renews their permits in the north.

Let's even look at petroleum pricing. The cost of fuel at the pump is not estimated from its landing cost at the oil tank farm but the cost of transporting fuel by road to the farthest northern fringes. Yes, you are paying for the fuel that gets to Adamu in Bornu.

Same thing applies for electricity cost where the rates are very low in the north with hardly any disconnections carried out when the bill is due and over due..

Your electricity tarrif is calculated to subsidized the northern consumer who barely pays his bill, has no prepaid meter and is never disconnected.

Should I go on?.
Now this is some conversation.

I take it one at a time.


Regarding electricity, I may disagree cos it's been privatized. So, if we pay pay more in d South, it's because d distribution companies over there are exploiting us.
PoliticsRe: Dividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op): 10:43pm On Nov 12, 2022
GodHatesJews:
Speaking to a parasite


Are you an OSU ?
Dude, you have no place in d plane of reasoning.

Sail along to ur crude enclave.
PoliticsRe: Dividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op): 10:24pm On Nov 12, 2022
GodHatesJews:
And how do you build those infrastructure when the FG has cornered all the wealth to itself ?

Will Abuja exist if the Niger Delta controlled her own resources ?

Think for once.
You are wrong bro. Just so you know the state government has money. Dont be deceived. And they have a duty to generate revenue internally and attract investment.

Besides dude, do you know that should the country divide, each region will be solely responsible for generating it's own revenue?
In order words, no more federal allocation.
Essentially, north, west and east will be broke since they don't have crude oil?.
PoliticsRe: Dividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op): 10:14pm On Nov 12, 2022
GodHatesJews:
As much as there is corruption by state and local govts , at the federal level of governance , it is exponential and mind boggling .

Aso Rock allocates billions to feed Buhari .

The Presidential Air Fleet that has become Buhari's personal uber spends billions to ferry him around in his usual junkets.

This is just a tip of waste at the centre.

When you then consider the huge sums wasted on moribund MDAs that only exist to reward cronies via appointments and contracts then you begin to see how bad things are.

You ought to call for the eradication of the wasteful, inefficient and corrupt centrist arrangement that benefits rent seekers and not attack states that have been reduced to beggars in a field of gold.
The state government should first give value for the money in their disposal.

And I think we do ourselves no good if we undermine the massive corruption of our governors and failures.

Again, should Nigerian disintegrate, how do u intend to curb d corruption that will emerge?

Or do u think, disintegration will make us saints?
PoliticsRe: Dividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op): 10:13pm On Nov 12, 2022
[quote author=GodHatesJews post=118342067]As much as there is corruption by state and local govts , at the federal level of governance , it is exponential and mind boggling .

Aso Rock allocates billions to feed Buhari .

The Presidential Air Fleet that has become Buhari's personal uber spends billions to ferry him around in his usual junkets.

This is just a tip of waste at the centre.

When you then consider the huge sums wasted on moribund MDAs that only exist to reward cronies via appointments and contracts then you begin to see how bad things are.

You ought to call for the eradication of the wasteful, inefficient and corrupt centrist arrangement that benefits rent seekers and not attack states that have been reduced to beggars in a field of gold.[/quote

I somewhat disagree.

The state government should first give value for the money in their disposal.

And I think we do ourselves no good if we undermine the massive corruption of our governors and failures.

Again, should Nigerian disintegrate, how do u intend to curb d corruption that will emerge?

Or do u think, disintegration will make us saints?
PoliticsRe: Dividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op): 9:48pm On Nov 12, 2022
Freestainworld:
The whole politician's have failed us, right from the local government level to the federal level, and the failure keeps increasing daily.
.

Exactly my point.

And we the people are not doing enough.
We are part of the problem cos we dont hold our leaders ( at d state level) accountable. We only focus on the federal government.

Note that there will always be politics even when we seperate.
PoliticsRe: Naira Redesign: ISWAP ‘Abandons’ Naira, Taxes Farmers, Traders In CFAs by finishmatter: 9:25pm On Nov 12, 2022
tishbite41:
So, the fuckery of a country is correct?!
angry angry sad undecided
It's definitely not correct.
I really want things to change. But the truth is that we all are terrible and corrupt ppl.

I don't think separating the country will make us saints all of a sudden.

Have u ever Wondered, why an Anambra man for example, who is d governor of his state can't develop his state?
PoliticsRe: Dividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op): 9:20pm On Nov 12, 2022
bushjeph:
I doubt you are grounded in government studies. The federal system of government we practice here is just vile and wicked. Your governors n senators dosent matter so far the President determine who gets what from the acclaimed national revenue and also control the police and army from abuja. Lets have a referendum pls
But d federal government doesn't stop governor's from building roads, schools hospitals, creating jobs, etc .
Our governor's, and other state and LG actors have failed in their responsibilities.
PoliticsRe: Naira Redesign: ISWAP ‘Abandons’ Naira, Taxes Farmers, Traders In CFAs by finishmatter: 9:13pm On Nov 12, 2022
tishbite41:
So, the fuckery of a country is correct?!
angry angry sad undecided
It's definitely not correct.
I really want things to change. But the truth is that we all are terrible and corrupt ppl.

I don't think separating the country will make us saints all of a sudden.
Have u ever Wonder, why an Anambra man for example, who is d governor of his state can't develop his state?
PoliticsDividing Nigeria by finishmatter(op):
Claim:-
If Nigeria divides, the separating units will develop due to competition.

My Position:-
The above argument is very rife in Nigeria. But I have always questioned that logic.

Listen, I think Nigeria is technically divided.

You have north, south, west and east.
In fact, the country is further broken down into state eg. Lagos, Kaduna, etc.

In each of these state, we have governors and other leaders ( eg chairmen, and states assembly).

These leaders are indigenes of their various states. In other words, an ibo man is not a governor in the Kano, and vice- versa.

Infact, the country's structure is so apt that an Anambra man is d governor of Anambra state; an Edo man is the governor of Edo state, etc.

So, if we cannot achieve development while each state is being governed by its own indigene, then I doubt it can be achieved if the country is separated.

My thoughts
PoliticsRe: Naira Redesign: ISWAP ‘Abandons’ Naira, Taxes Farmers, Traders In CFAs by finishmatter: 8:29pm On Nov 12, 2022
harsysky:
Deep down, we all know that Nigeria is irredeemable. Break up this country, you will see how reasonable people will run their own side due to competition.
I actually don't think this argument is correct.
FamilyRe: Between Your Mother And Wife by finishmatter(op): 8:13am On Nov 12, 2022
DaddyCK:
helo do u have yansh please? wot size & wot weight? smiley
LoL
RomanceRe: I'm 32years Old, Look Very Thin And Small And Only Weigh 35kg . by finishmatter: 12:21pm On Nov 08, 2022
Sucre6:
Mumu, I regret wasting my advice before, see nonsense talk angry, bloody simp sad
Looks like d guy Neva no how far
RomanceRe: I'm 32years Old, Look Very Thin And Small And Only Weigh 35kg . by finishmatter: 12:06pm On Nov 08, 2022
Naijaisshitho:
calm down I love the girl seriously
We know say u like the girl but...

1. U no suppose give her money since she no be ur babe.
2. Never beg any girl ur really love to date u. It is very wrong.

Na my small help be this to u
BusinessRe: What To Do To Make Money Online? by finishmatter: 4:13pm On Nov 03, 2022
jeneyclub:
I'm glad someone asked this. I've been wondering the same thing. Something seems off about them.
have u got any update on them? are they legit
BusinessRe: What To Do To Make Money Online? by finishmatter: 4:12pm On Nov 03, 2022
jeneyclub:
I'm glad someone asked this. I've been wondering the same thing. Something seems off about them.
I need update on them too
FamilyRe: Between Your Mother And Wife by finishmatter(op): 10:44am On Nov 02, 2022
pansophist:
Mike Tyson once said. "Everything your mother does for you is for your own interest, but every thing a woman does for you is for her own interest."

So you don't compare the love between a mother and a wife. No wife have died for their husband, but mothers do give their life for their child. Some even loose their life during child birth. How can you compare a wife to a mum? Don't.

Without the love from a mother, your wife may not even get married to you. The mother you are comparing your woman with was the foundation of her attraction towards you.

Having said that, it does not mean that one should pick one over the other. They both have their place. And any woman that puts you in a position of choosing is not a good woman.

Even though you should choose your wife for obvious reasons such as having an ally that you'll build your future with together, since your parents represents the past, a woman asking you to choose between her and your mother/wife defiles the goodness of her character.

Like a flower, we appreciate it not for its self-identification of beauty, but because we can see that it's beautiful ourselves.

Same applies to a good woman. You will know not because she call herself such, but you can see through her character that she is. And she telling you to choose between defiles it.
How can a woman (wife) with the following features by an ally to a man?
1. conditional love for the husband
2. Takes revenge when ill-treated by the husband
3. Loves the husband based on his economic conditions
4. Insults and abandons her husband in difficult times
FamilyRe: Man Begs Wife To Bring Home His Sick Mom by finishmatter(op): 9:32am On Nov 02, 2022
ahnie:
Then be prepared to have issues in your home.you def needs the consent of your wife.


My husband's mum had an accident 4 yrs ago,my hubs is the first son by circumstances.
I vehemently told him straight,I cannot care for your mum,I don't want to be saddled with her,as I barely have time for myself.

Las las she was bundled to the house of her first daughter and she's staying there.
why will the man needs the consent of his wife?
FamilyRe: Between Your Mother And Wife by finishmatter(op): 9:30am On Nov 02, 2022
pansophist:
Mike Tyson once said. "Everything your mother does for you is for your own interest, but every thing a woman does for you is for her own interest."

So you don't compare the love between a mother and a wife. No wife have died for their husband, but mothers do give their life for their child. Some even loose their life during child birth. How can you compare a wife to a mum? Don't.

Without the love from a mother, your wife may not even get married to you. The mother you are comparing your woman with was the foundation of her attraction towards you.

Having said that, it does not mean that one should pick one over the other. They both have their place. And any woman that puts you in a position of choosing is not a good woman.


How can a woman (wife) with the following features by an ally to a man?
1. conditional love for the husband
2. Takes revenge when ill-treated by the husband
3. Loves the husband based on his economic conditions
4. Insults and abandons her husband in difficult times

Even though you should choose your wife for obvious reasons such as having an ally that you'll build your future with together, since your parents represents the past, a woman asking you to choose between her and your mother defiles the goodness of her character.

Like a flower, we appreciate it not for its self-identification of beauty, but because we can see that it's beautiful ourselves.

Same applies to a good woman. You will know not because she call herself such, but you can see through her character that she is. And she telling you to choose between her and your mother defiles it.
FamilyRe: Between Your Mother And Wife by finishmatter(op): 9:24am On Nov 02, 2022
Without the love from a mother, your wife may not even get married to you. The mother you are comparing your woman with was the foundation of her attraction towards you.

Having said that, it does not mean that one should pick one over the other. They both have their place. And any woman that puts you in a position of choosing is not a good woman.

Even though you should choose your wife for obvious reasons such as having an ally that you'll build your future with together, since your parents represents the past, a woman asking you to choose between her and your mother defiles the goodness of her character.

Like a flower, we appreciate it not for its self-identification of beauty, but because we can see that it's beautiful ourselves.

Same applies to a good woman. You will know not because she call herself such, but you can see through her character that she is. And she telling you to choose between her and your mother defiles it.[/quote].

@ the bolded : Are wives allies to a man's future?
FamilyRe: Between Your Mother And Wife by finishmatter(op): 8:30am On Nov 02, 2022
Mindlog:
In this context, he shouldn't even be married in the first place. He can contract a lady for surrogacy, he goes to fertility clinic pay for eggs and have it fertilized, then inseminated into the surrogate mother.

After the child is born, he hands over the baby to his mother to nurture......you see, he doesn't need a wife and there wouldn't be mother vs wife scenario.
I think you evaded the question.
FamilyRe: Between Your Mother And Wife by finishmatter(op): 3:53pm On Nov 01, 2022
Reinamaria:
As a husband, when you put your mother before your wife, she in turn puts your child(ren) before you.
Any good mother would advise her son to put his good wife first before her (the mother), for him to be happy in his marriage.
Only a selfish and possessive mother would let her married son put her first before his wife.
No woman who loves her husband puts her father first.
A man's mother generally loves him no matter what horrors he commit. She would even take a bullet for him while his wife is more likely to put a bullet IN him.

A mother's love is generally unconditional. A wife's love has conditions - one slip up and he will find yourself on his backside.

In this context, should a man love his wife more than his mom?
FamilyRe: Man Begs Wife To Bring Home His Sick Mom by finishmatter(op): 3:48pm On Nov 01, 2022
Samantha123:
I repeat, respect other people's cultures.

If that's my son in law's family belief, then I'll respect it.. where we're from we respect each other's cultures.
Good opinion
FamilyRe: Between Your Mother And Wife by finishmatter(op): 12:21pm On Oct 30, 2022
libertyfather:
What rubbish how will you compare mother love to wife love, your wife too will hv her children direct the question to the children and understand what you are talking or your mom fit give birth to your kids? Stop senseless comparison wife and mom are two diff people..if one lost wife he can get another but mother man no fit get again....so wht u talking
Hmm
FamilyRe: Between Your Mother And Wife by finishmatter(op): 6:00pm On Oct 29, 2022
MufasaLion:
None of my business. grin

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