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My point exactly

Elianawalker:
Why are you guys taking that so personal?

Kneeling is not by force, those who did chose to.

Kneeling or not doesnt mean she will accept the proposal. The reason why I think its foolish for a man to kneel is because some ladies don't fancy it and especially in public, some ladies hate the public attention and those stupid boring drama and public show of love.

Me for one hates public drama.

Kneeling is a symbol, it has a powerful meaning and most men fail or do not even know its meaning that's why they kneel before women to ask for marriage, honestly that is a taboo.

For a woman like me, its shameful and belittling

Misterone:
correct guy. why beg a lady to marry you when both of you is suppose to be interested in the relationship. what is the need of going on one knee. that is pretence to me

Nice one

Definitely not only my experience.
All men experience this but alot of them are neck-deep in this deception of LOVE.
They are lost and their plight pitiable.

helinues:
But why should you use your life experiences alone to judge women?

No be everyone is unfortunate with real love

Does she love you?
Dude, take a red pill �

Goodmarlian:
A very pretty lady just accepted my proposal lately she is homely and well behaved though it took her quite some time to accept because most guys just want to chop her wares and go but i think i some how passed her test i didnt even know the special thing i did to make her fall.

The problem now is going out with her,this girl is just 22 but if you her backside and hips goshhh! And she is even a giant,yesterday i came to pick her from school so we can go eat omo! all eyes was on us! People just dey ask me where you catch this one? Guy you no fit chop am finish! From campus down to the next street she is used to it but i find it so embarrasing and unconfortable, she wants us to go out tomorrow but i am not just ready for the excess attention.

I have definitely not been hurt.
But let's assume so for the purpose of this conversation.

So I have been hurt, and I have learnt from my mistakes and reality has set in.

So, definitely a woman's love is conditional and she is undeserving of a man's affection.
WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.

All men should learn so they don't 'walk in my shoes'

Stacyomolola:
U also agree that op's hurt

Never do this guys.

NEVER!

Let's face it: Relationship is purely and solely transactional! Nothing more nothing less.

The saying: "Money for hand, back for ground" captures this reality. And this is true not just for a prostitute but for your wife and girlfriend.

She feels no emotion nor empathy for you. She is in the relationship mainly and solely for the cash and security a man provides.
She will neither contribute financially not encourage you to make money. She meets her end of the bargain of managing the home while you provide the finance to run the home. Failure to meet your end of the transaction (union) will incur her insubordination

Therefore, men are not expected to invest any emotional gesture on her. It is not your job!
Don’t be deceived by societal or religious expectation that you should love your wife. Lies. She does not love you.

Love, affection and care should be both ways. Not one-sided.

Do not invest your emotions/affection on your wife.

A woman’s love is conditional. She does not deserve a man’s unconditional love.

P.S: WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

Terrorists have turned to army while army became terrorists.
Nice one bro

ndo1:
Good news,the army killed two terrorists.

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

SmartPolician:
Most of the world's greatest men were destroyed by women....right from the days of the Bible.

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

odinson1:
Right from the beginning of time,women have always led men Astray. They are like Parasites whose main Objective is to latch on to a man and feed off him till he gets dried out.
Take marriage as a Case study. Do you ever wonder why the Wives are always Fat, while the husbands are looking Skinny and Dried out?

It is because of being Constantly Milked Dry by the Parasite he calls a wife. And to Prove her "love" to him,she rewards him with sex once every four months for being a Good Dog. Women are not your friends my dear Men

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

Noted with thanks

djsmart:
Hmm! This topic calls for solemn assembly. Father's impact on children is immeasurable and incomparable. It's now I'm growing to meet some responsibilities that I realized the sacrifice the man is making for the family. Father faces challenges squarely irrespective of the nature in order to get honey for his family. Father has inner love for his children, that is he prefers to hide that love than to show it like our mum. He teaches them how to withstand any situation. Teaches them to be responsible and courageous. If a man has ₦1000 left in pocket, he'll remember the way he left his family before he spend it. Seriously, father is everything in the family I can't it all...

Dbrawllm0098:
My mom has always been there for me and has sacrificed so much for me to be where i am today ,I can't thank her enough

Noted with thanks

It depends on culture and the relations in the house. Many children see their mothers everyday doing things for them even if the mother is working. Many fathers think only giving money is what it takes to be a father.

If you show your children love they will remember you. Also if you are from a polygamous family your father has other children he sees like you while your mother prioritises you.

Acknowledge

nesgeeek:
i give money to both of them.

Ok

Belafonte:
This is some gangsta shït. Sorry bro, this one pass my power

Well said dude

Nice move. Really cool

Omakraid:
If my dad were alive and I have enough to give both, I will give my mum far more than my dad because my mum will spend hers on housekeep and feeding while my dad will spend his as father Christmas by giving people who ought to give to him and food items will not smell 1naira from his money

superintendents:
gbammm...she suffer the most...so for me ?


mom...70%

dad......30%

Ok. Nice one

chatinent:
Mum knows to manage well.

Enlighten me.

Spherical77:
Yes, i understand the roles of fathers in the house. But mothers plays bulk of it all. Children tend to love their mothers naturally than fathers. It's nature!

Really?

[quote author=neonly post=109214106][/quote]Nice one

Spherical77:
She risk her life to have us.

Agreed. But your dad also risks his life daily to provide for you, and you could have died without him providing for you.

This has been a worrisome issue for me.
Why do children prefer giving money to their mom instead of dad.

Your dad clothes, feeds, educate, houses and provides all financial needs for you as his child.
He also meets all needs of his wife and that of his relatives and in-laws.

So, ideally, he is supposed to be adequately compensated as the breadwinner instead of the mom.

But this is not the reality as most children only think of their mother.

What did our fathers do to deserve this?
Pls how can this unfair treatment be addressed?

Yeah. But already got enough cvs.

bmdmix11:
apologies but HMO?

Anybody with experience in HMO sales.
It's a salary position.
Dm.
P.S : Guys only. I find ladies to be bad and unproductive employees.
Location is Abuja

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

sayittome:
Thanks for this. It is really eye-opening

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Thanks guys