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Barrister026:
It's so annoying children of nowadays think because they got baby mamas up and down they got no respect for their elders, infact once they notice you haven't had a child yet no matter how old you are, they start looking at you like their age mates or even older than.

My kid bro who I single handedly passed down wears to back then has the audacity to talk to me anyhow just because he is a father of a 5 year old boy and another one is on the way. Well that's how he's been reason he toke a lot of beatings from me back in the days...

The recent happenings happened this morning after so many years, I came home for a very close relative's burial same with our eldest bro whose in his mid 30s. Discussion we were having, one thing led to another... this kid bro of mine flared up shouting at the top of his voice to my elder bro...mom telling him to shut up he's still talking...I immediately pounce on him in the presence of his wife and kid, I gave him the beating of his life, squeezed that his lip he was using to insult our eldest bro, not minding his wife watching.

Yes I'm angry with him, the day his wife gave birth out of wedlock, he was jubilating that he the last born first us to give our parent's a grand child. I say see this one, if I wanted to have kids I would have, how many ladies has tried to trap pregnancy on me all through this years. it's just man not yet ready yet, and been married don't Just freak me yet.

Mom been gingering me to apologise to him, but I refused? Why would I?

Yes I was wrong for beating him in the presence of his pregnant wife and kid, I didn't mean to embarrass him...I felt bad myself after the whole thing.. but before he was a husband he was first my kid bro.

InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

9japride:
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It will be living hell to live with such human. Someone that has a natural tendency to be arrogant can't change. Same with me, I can live with such person.

Supreme145:
It's not in my nature to bother about people's relationships but this is happening to someone that's like a brother to me. He has been dating a girl for a year now and it's obvious this girl doesn't love him but he won't just give up. He keeps throwing money at her in a bid to win her love.

Things got messier when this girl met a particular guy some months back... This guy happens to live in the compound of my club mate so I know him well. The girl has begged my guy to free her that she's in love with someone else but this guy no gree instead he's planning to attack the innocent guy.

He confided in me that the girl has not let him touch her since she met this other guy, that's over five months now. I once overhead the guy boasting to his friends that he's a redpiller because someone else is taking care of his girlfriend while he does the knacking free of charge. He's even flexing everything that my guy buys for the girl.
All pleas to my guy to free this girl has fallen on deaf ears.

My club mate told me that the girl has been with the guy for over one month now, my guy comes to town once a week to see the girl, gets her stuffs and this girl will just go back to the other boy that is even jobless.

My guy is finer and far richer than this new guy, he's planning to start a business for this girl and I've been trying to change his mind to no avail. It's no longer normal, I would've said he's charmed but the girl has begged him to free her but he refused. The guy is even the one flexing the sample of the products he sent her. Everything she has done to drive him has failed so she just relaxed and enjoying the money.

This simping is on another level, it hurts me to see my guy in this kinda situation. I've gotten him picture proofs that the girl is cheating but he won't change his mind. The girl even admitted that she's been having sex with the guy buy he's claiming its a lie and the girl is trying to drive away.

Is there anything I can do to help him abeg.

Supreme145:
It's not in my nature to bother about people's relationships but this is happening to someone that's like a brother to me. He has been dating a girl for a year now and it's obvious this girl doesn't love him but he won't just give up. He keeps throwing money at her in a bid to win her love.

Things got messier when this girl met a particular guy some months back... This guy happens to live in the compound of my club mate so I know him well. The girl has begged my guy to free her that she's in love with someone else but this guy no gree instead he's planning to attack the innocent guy.

He confided in me that the girl has not let him touch her since she met this other guy, that's over five months now. I once overhead the guy boasting to his friends that he's a redpiller because someone else is taking care of his girlfriend while he does the knacking free of charge. He's even flexing everything that my guy buys for the girl.
All pleas to my guy to free this girl has fallen on deaf ears.

My club mate told me that the girl has been with the guy for over one month now, my guy comes to town once a week to see the girl, gets her stuffs and this girl will just go back to the other boy that is even jobless.

My guy is finer and far richer than this new guy, he's planning to start a business for this girl and I've been trying to change his mind to no avail. It's no longer normal, I would've said he's charmed but the girl has begged him to free her but he refused. The guy is even the one flexing the sample of the products he sent her. Everything she has done to drive him has failed so she just relaxed and enjoying the money.

This simping is on another level, it hurts me to see my guy in this kinda situation. I've gotten him picture proofs that the girl is cheating but he won't change his mind. The girl even admitted that she's been having sex with the guy buy he's claiming its a lie and the girl is trying to drive away.

Is there anything I can do to help him abeg.


Report him to his family.
Let them investigate what is wrong with the dude.

Sth is wrong somewhere n the guy needs help

9japride:
Are you trying to tell us that you didn't spot those characters while dating? You better manage her like that, thinking an adult will change is a waste of time.

BoredBerry:
Church bells 're ringing!

Oh god! Where do I begin? How do I shower praises on my darling without revealing his identity? No words could do him justice!

Berry has fallen helplessly inlove!

He's a Nairalander... He's so sweet and totally badass and extremely intelligent and exposed and incredibly goodlooking! Unlike many men here...

He and I used to argue here... But I've always liked him! He's so funny... And stubborn but that's a trait I really appreciate... He's such a man!

I'll create threads on him and our relationship as often as I can!

GooodHardDick:
Honourable comrade. We must keep speaking the gospel truth no matter what !

GooodHardDick:
I'm sure we've all watched the famous movie titled "Titanic"

Jack Dawson is a pure example of a Simp! werey died while trying to save a hoe, instead of saving himself. A hoe who will marry someone else and start Collecting dicks around.

Will Smith is a bloody Simp.
The foolish man was fighting to defend a community hoe who has been banged by lots of actors and super stars before. Apparently, the Simp resign from movie academy because of a hoe.

With all these and many more, how can a man continue simping? Why fighting over a Nigerian girl? Why waste your money and resources on a girl who will not think twice in dumping you the moment she sees a more richer guy? As a guy, In all you do let your sanity be with you. Always put yourself First. Ur peace of mind should be your utmost priority!

Nemesis0147:
You guys should pay her a one day visit instead

AdaNri1:
if you believe that story then you’ll believe anything. He said she was in school when she got preg. But he expected her to be working while she was nursing.
He states that she was upstairs when the police came, but he locked up the bungalow when they left.
Poster has cooked up a story.

Nyascobar1414:
I dont think I'll marry..
I'll get it done like Ronaldo...

Get a girlfriend, give me kids especially boys, I pay you for the job done...

And you GTFOutta my life...

Or I can still marry oo (not sure yet)...
But I'll rebrand you in the way I want, but If you ain't wanna be submissive, so I can mould you in the way I want.. You will kindly GTFOutta my life...

No feelings for the other gender I always find guilt in em (concerning relationships)..

No female I worth a penny(financially or emotionally) from me, except yo share my own blood(sister or mother).

This world is something else...

Though we still have to cheer up for the best in life..
Lmaoo

TheWolfen:
Lol
Congrats!
You didn't give room for women manipulations. When she ask that you come give her the divorce paper ..
That is a trap a lot of men falls for.


But I think you should forgive her if she comes begging with a promise that she will improve on herself.
She didn't cheat on you.
It is only when a woman cheat that i advice men not to haven't anything to do with her anymore

Rubyjade:
What have you shared Kettle calling pot black

Mjanee:
Pele, table setter

Pedrokush:
I lived with my dad under the same roof everyday of my life,yet I do not always get anything from my pa apart from school fees..note(I went to public primary and secondary school where the school fees is very cheap)...OP no be every dad dey sacrifice much to provide for his family...90% of moms will never allow their children to suffer

finishmatter:
Nigeria, indeed, is a poor country.
However, in terms of gender differentials of wealth, men are richer than women.
True or false?

Chriswazo:
I don't know for u, my mom is an exception, maybe with today's generation, we de God's hand...

GalaxieseventsW:
. Right ! Gbam !

Popemax:
Oh beautiful lady gone....may her soul rest well....check who you follow but no way

efficiencie:
Marriage is a sweet affliction. It is sweet because you know sweet t*t* is involved, companionship is involved, support is involved and accelerated progress is involved. It is an affliction because marriage compels you to abandon your life of carelessness, irresponsibility, foolishness, selfcenteredness and licentious behavior. Dude find a wife, a real wife not a hoe, not a withdrawal slip, not a parasite, not a witch, not a control freak, not an ogbanje, not a chameleon and most definitely not a feminist, and you will have peace.

LadyRosa:
Who is forcing you?
Weather you marry or not no suppose concern us na

Obinnasmart:
Lets not even make it a gender thing, public disgrace is for both sexes, I mean ,its so bad that a lady should want to try to steal,do you know what it means,it means she has no atom of shame, and this sick people here be throwing emotions,wait till she joins in planning a kidnap or robbery that ends up killing more innocent souls and causing more families bitter... here were am from,there re too many bitter victims of robbery who never got justice and jesus know say if them catch you ,just wait make them catch ...

Freestainworld:
Once a woman is caught in anything illegal in Nigeria, they must make sure they strip her naked instead of handling her over to the security operatives, nawaoo

Obinnasmart:
Something is wrong with nigerians ,how we think we our teeth instead of brains, humanity this and that,who is shouting inhumane here,most of you preach preachers re the worst thing that has happened to this life,double standard, I don't even know if its just a mental issue or u guys re just snakes..when they batter and burn male thieves,i see how many of u come to support the act ,listen ,this is Nigeria and not usa,if u re caught in the act, u will be disgraced..this people are not taking judgements in there hands,this people re people who have been once stolen from or dehumanized by this thieves and no justice was done ,so if they catch you,your own is sorry

Mickykarim:
This is uncivilized, inhuman and demeaning. Jungle justice is not the solution. Makes us lower animals too. Whatever she might have done wrong does not justify DEHUMANISING her.

Everybody in Nigeria now becoming worthy of the jungle.

Iyaebe:
I understand you are heartbroken but I assure you that you will heal with time.Search for your own woman and experience true and undiluted love

Iyaebe:
Through the menace you came into existence,the same menace you can’t do without.See a shrink sir