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Iyaebe:
God will judge all of you preaching against marriage,hope you are ready for God’s judgement

So will God judge anyone who encourages a young man to marry a woman who can never love him.

Women are parasitic and develish. They are menace to the society.

faithfull18:
Like, is anyone forcing you, I don't gerrit . The same chorus every time.

Many dudes are unable to take their flight from women. They know that women are devilish yet they associate with them due to societal pressure.

It is to them I speak.

BItt:
I was thinking we could get married

What a pitiable ambition.

cococandy:
Don’t do it

I definitely won't

Definitely not.

They are very ugly.

absingle:
Can she

KanwuliaExtra:
And on women too!

Definitely not.

They are men's burden.

Marriage is a horrible affliction on men.

Think twice before taking a step

Nyascobar1414:
Bro.. Calm down... You see that girl, when she was kinda young she spoke in the favour of women, tryna check her previous comment years back. And in her former picture she was like a kinda young girl in her hoe phase...
She's now hit the wall, that why she's now unbiased so that guys can be hookedup to say she's a good girl...
I've been monitoring her..
So no too think say she's good

Now I see

I always know women are selfish and gold diggers.

But you surprise me with your words.
Thanks for sharing

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


Those ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice to their spouses are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to.

Get it right dude: marriage is a horrible affliction on men.

firstbornson:
Just saw a trend about a man telling us of the kind of gut his wife has.

I will be brief.

I've noticed countless times how marriage is bashed on this platform. If there are 10 topics about marriage, 8 will be a complain of what one spouse did to another.

What we don't understand is that we are being subconsciously socially engineered to hate, fear, and dread marriage. Too much bad news everywhere.

The kind of stories I read here, me self don dey fear marriage.

Yet, I'm from a complete family. My parents have being married for 26 years and they are still together. I'm not saying it's been blissful all through, but they are still a team, gist mates, yab mates, etc.

What I want us to do is simple:

Share a story of when your mom stood by your dad, when your wife stood by you or when your husband stood by you during a difficult time.

I won't be surprised if this doesn't make it the FP because people love reading bad news too much.

AccidentalGenius:
Divorce her now or loose your last testicle. Jeeze, bunch of bipolar women. Honestly man, leave that woman or loose your last testicle. Life is too short to live it worrying about silly things like this

You are so right. Time to let her go. No mercy.

Unless she tells the truth to all of her lies n deception.

Tomek09:
I earlier opined that society and nature are sympathetic and lenient to female gender and some people thought I was chasing clout.

Even in interviews, job hunts and what-have-you, females are highly favoured and considered more than men

Truly, penis is very useless

U are definitely right and not chasing clout.
Males are endangered species. This I have realized.

The world is against men.

Rubyjade:
A woman is futuristic in nature, a jobless man has no voice in a home, obviously you have experienced it
The truth is a woman can pretend for years, once she get what she wants

Amazing

Rubyjade:
Same goes for the men

You are definitely wrong

Kobojunkie:
This dude na complete imbe-ci-le!
ROFLMAO

Lol

Definitely true.

Uzomarrr12345:
I know Nigeria women , the only time dey are forced to take matters into dia hands financially is only when dia husband is at the buttom pit

If the man’s financial power is stable , 2 seconds , the Billings don start again

Such girls don't exist in naija.

Arkmanbuddy:
Not all the ladies above 29 are bad. What do you say of ladies who decided to pursue their careers and had no time for men? They've achieved a lot but cannot find a responsible man to marry, perhaps because most men feel threatened by their success.

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I fancy a young lady who's achieved some level of success and holds her own, not promiscuous but Godly. Not religious, but Godly. Even if she's above 25!

One thing I don't get is Why do married men loose peace when their wives leave them?

U mean, are men this weak?.

Any woman that leaves her matrimonial home should Neva be allowed back. It simply means she is not interested in the marriage.

Any woman that leaves my house will Neva come back.

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

We have so many stupid men these days.

descartes400:
How is he wrong? So a man can not honestly tell his wife that she is fat and needs to loose weight? WTF!!

Honestly, the guy was Neva wrong.

He is just been a SIMPleton.

Any woman that tries that with me will be sent parking. I will personally initiate the divorce.

She cannot be under my roof n care and be forming like James bond.

descartes400:
How is he wrong? So a man can not honestly tell his wife that she is fat and needs to loose weight? WTF!!

Nice talk.

In fact by now, she would have been in her parents house.

after4:
See how people dey use their hand scatter their marriage. Maybe because you show her sey her nonsense dey affect you. Can you stop begging her and stop showing you are pained. Start being happy and don't let her know why, dress well hang out more and behave like sey you no care Wetin she dey do again

Like the guy up there said, stop all the attention and see what happens

prettysassygirl:
They said people should come and share their bitter marriage experiences,but what do we see? Marriage counselors and marriage experts wey never marry. Shior

Lol

You are so right?

capnies:
I THINK THE GREATEST PROBLEM MEN HAVE IS PRIDE, WHICH MAKES THEM DIE. IN SILENCE IN THE MIST OF HUMILIATION AND SHAME BY THEIR SPOUSES. MEN FIND IT VERY DIFFICULT TO VOICE OUT WHAT THEY ARE PASSING THROUGH EVEN TO THEIR BEST FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS TO MAKE IT APPEAR AS IF THEY HAVE THEIR HOMES UNDER CONTROL; MEANWHILE THEY ARE DYING INSIDE.

A MARRIED WOMAN OF OVER SIXTY YEARS OF AGE, WHOSE HUSBAND IS STILL ALIVE TOLD ME THAT 45% OF NIGERIAN MARRIED MEN THAT DIE ARE KILLED BY THEIR WIVES DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY

Alright.

DonroxyII:
Aswear, I liked and share the post but deep down me, I felt talking down on endowed girls is getting too much as if marrying them will lead to wreckage. It's just that endowment comes with some pressures from other males/females but with commitments and God, Humanities even Sent Rovers to Mars and Probed the Deep Space to Interstellar..

Marriage shouldn't be a rocket Science once both of you are committed and Godly.

Nonetheless, Most guys only go for the Curves and once Brain see finish in a matter of few months Yawa go Gas.

To Your Profile, God sef can't do without us, we are the beloved even Angels tend to us. God doesn't just like us being Stubborn, that's Satanic and Satan gets Punished

My experience really.

You are so right.

HarunaWest:
Some women turn out to be jerks and stupid even when they are treated well.

This is splendid.

Thanks for sharing.

Delektable:
I have never regretted marrying my own wife, I don't know about others. The best blessings one should ask God for is not even money but the right partner. So, God just blessed me with the right partner maybe because I have always prayed about it since my uni days. Unfortunately all the girls I dated didn't meet up to my choice profile, it's either one issue or the other. And to think that the way I met her was even funny. But I just knew that instant that she was the one. I didn't have a dime or work but I kept at it and she believed in me. I have been married for 7 years but have been with my wife for 10years. I made my first mil*** because she created the right atmosphere for me to be creative and seek my inner virtues. First, she is my paddy, my friend, we just get understanding about everything, even when we shake tables. I am very flexible just as she is too, we always jist about virtually everything and dialogue when we encountered problems. Now ironically, I never went to any marriage class or read books on marriage to enjoy a successful one, rather I worked at it, stayed committed and devoted. Rather than looking for big breasts and big hips, search out good qualities in ladies you want to date first, it makes the journey a lot easier and pray about it. No go meet any pastor or man of God for nada, to help you select ooo...they have their own problems too. I was just lucky to be blessed with the right partner, the physical endowments was just icing to the cake.

Unfortunately many men and even women marry for the wrong reasons, and the whole razzmatazz clears after the first 3 years, you begin to see a lot of inadequacies. If you struggling in your marriage, endeavor to dialogue with your partner, address the issues firstly before escalating it to 3rd party. Shalom!

You are one in a million.

ahnie:
My dear not all women,I don't remember the last time my husband fed me,I recently told him to handover the welfare of our 2 kids to me so I could cater for them to the standard I want.in as much I m doing something,by his grace I m not one to depend on him to been fed or clothe.

I run my shifts ALONE.

I noticed it too

prettysassygirl:
They said people should come and share their bitter marriage experiences,but what do we see? Marriage counselors and marriage experts wey never marry. Shior

Just my knowledge about women.

alphaNomega:
Promiscuous wife? Are you suspecting or you have evidence? These are 2 different things

Most times when a man thinks his wife is cheating, he is wrong.