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ask yourself one question, if you were the one that found such a text on his phone would you forgive him so easily? it is not enough that you cheated on him emotionally but u think kneeling down to beg him is the highest thing you can do to earn his trust back and. once a person. losses trust in his partner in a relationship it is hard to regain or rebuild that trust. a lot of people come her to talk about how they love their boyfriend or girlfriend and they go on to ask advise on how they can win back the persons trust. if you really love a person you would not want anything that would bring harm to that person. my advise to you is to have a rethink of what you understand by love. it is hard for men to really love a person but when they do, they do it with all their heart. you may have just lost the love of a man who truly loved you cos if he didn't he would not even make a big deal of the whole situation.

have anyone gotten an email or message about the test, I haven't seen any

if you don't let her know, then you're not a true friend. even if the bf isn't messing around and the lady in question is his sister ( that's if its now cool to hold your sister by her yansh) let her know so that she can arrive at her own conclusion. but don't text it to her cos that will look like you're trying to destroy the relationship. make her know the seriousness of the issue by doing it in person

SniperInADiaper: You other brothas can't deny.. when a girl walks in with a itty bitty waist and a round thing in your face you get sprung.

baby got back

he may also be calling to tell you that he just tested positive for HIV and for you to go check yourself.


by the way. first to comment

you guys are getting it all wrong. we're the ones who are actually doing the arm twisting and we're going to get some great military assistance for letting them go. even the Russian government know that those guys are all guilty. and I can bet that the ones being let off the hook may belong to a Russian government security agency

davseun2ta: happened ke!!! pls, sound the alarm that before commenting, it is imperative you read the instruction/rules of the game... NO MORE OFF TOPICS PLEASE!!! hope this notice is noted?IZU....

izu told me he likes ladies with big boobs

cork, are you and sanboy still having a go at it?

dopeJemi: hmmm! He has a girLfriend? My dear, Leave it up to Fate

if only people know how wrong leaving it up to "fate" is. Never leave anything you know is worth fighting for up to a so called magical/celestial/mythological concept. when you leave things to fate, it never tends to work out and we resign ourselves to the notion that it was never meant to be hence it didn't work out. people should always strive to ensure that they do all that is fair and within reason to make sure that their relationship works.

op. if u want to know if u can get back with ur ex, the simplest way to find out is to ask him. there no need trying to coerce him into saying it. but while doing that let him know that neither of you is coming back into the relationship with one person being in a position of power over the other. cos as some other poster rightly said, us guys take it to the head when our exes come back into our lives without us pleading. so best of luck to you

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repogirl: Imagine the psyches

psyches, oh I can surely imagine that.

SECURITY WOMAN: I am scared of wasting my time and falling in luv with somebody who isn't worth it.

please ladies, stop falling in love cos as the term "falling" means to suddenly lose an upright position.

when you fall in love you lose all degree of sense and tend to make mistakes. so please ladies love but don't allow urself to fall while doing cos getting back up may prove to be difficult. and op you can never tell a player from just meeting him/her. if you don't give people a chance to prove themselves, you'll never know if they're worth it or not

you've succeeded in confusing me with your grammar. I'm now more confused than you. how can someone travel in 2011 in august of last year? guy confusion na your middle name. the essence of quitting a relationship is to get someone better than we previously had but your own be say u go carry person wey dey exactly like ur ex. so please sort yourself out before you ruin someone's life

Princess zoe: And you think contact lense is as easy as abc? Or don't you know that one never goes to bed with it? How long will she keep puting her fingers inside and outside her eyes just to fix lenses? 6years or till death do them apart? Except if there are lenses you fix, and you don't have to worry about removing them because they are meant to remain permanent in one's eyes. @ op you need to take her to a very good optician. I believe a good optician can work on her sight and get it corrected because the issue of her not seeing whenever she is out of her glasses makes it difficult. I believe her sight can be corrected so meet a good doctor to work on it.

your talking like she sleeps with her glasses. its only weird the first couple of times after that it becomes routine and normal. my cousin uses them and he doesn't have or experience any discomfort. And seeing a good optician at her stage is not called for cause corrective procedures are meant for when such problems r just starting out except if he can afford laser surgery which is very very expensive not to talk of the fact that its only done abroad

Op, I'm not going to go easy on you. you reek of stupidity, I guess you're too broke to know that you can get her contact lenses or your just to naive. please stop wasting peoples bandwidth by posting rubbish.

kelly koko: Why i resolved to posting this piece on this platform is to highlight a major disease that usually afflict relationship generally. Quite well, will sever ties with her but she is insisting that i grant her audience to tell her Own siDe of the story. If for anything i hav glean One fact from this drama and which is that beyOnd the "gOOd girl" posture of some women lies a deceptive facade all men should all striv tO unmaskeD.

what side of the story. OK she wants to tell you that I was an accident, that she slipped and fell on the dicck. my man, first of all to even consider forgiving and remaining in a relationship with a cheat is not advisable cos every time your with her you'll think of what she did. I'm even suprised that nobody has brought up the question of her aborting the pregnancy. how can u ever trust one who wants to commit murder so as to seek ur forgiveness. ask yourself how many abortions has she done for other people. flee for your life while u still can