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PoliticsRe: Presidency Reacts To ACN On Jonathan Use Of Lagos Roads by firetrap(m): 11:27am On Apr 18, 2013
Doyin Okukpe went in on Lai Mohammed hard. that statement is what we refer to as "read it and weep". in the immortal words of mode nine "choose ur words wisely, the affect entire nations"
RomanceRe: I Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op): 5:09pm On Apr 17, 2013
Bebetter: [size=14pt]Guy, make i advise you...

Key points
I'm even sure that when her family members ask about you, she will say that "he is fine oh, he is ok" i'm sure they still think both of you are dating.

Dat Ben guy was her school Boyfriend that used to bang her steady (different styles too). You are her lover boyfriend that she will like to marry, her lover boy that cares for her. Bro... its the truth.

She is still holding on to the hope that when she is done sampling... she can always run back to you and you will forgive her after all, you where never meant to know, you where never meant to come to visit.. it was supposed to be her secret, and her, the angel in your eyes but fate played a fast one when you came unannounced.

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The only way to get the feelings of her faded (because you need to for your own good... who knows she might even have done abortion for that guy sef) is to:

1. start planning on getting a new girl. (not necessarily for a serious relationship) make new friends, the more you focus on this and start getting chummy with new girls and people the more she will gradually fade from ur memory.

2. When next she calls, act as if you don't know who is calling... then suddenly realize and tell her that you have deleted her number from your phone and that you've moved on. (when she asks "cant we just be friends? say NO!)Infact, tell her to greet her boyfriend for you, cut the phone sharply. refuse to pick any of her calls until she uses an unknown number, then you can now give her some polite insult, stuff like (what is the meaning of this now? why are you bugging my phone? why are you so desperate?) you will feel a mixture of pleasure & pain but bro this is your sure road to redemption.

3. Be a man! when next any of her relatives calls, be quick to tell them that you don't have anything to do with her again, and when they asked why? tell them that she now has a new Guy, she even told you herself that she is not interested in you again besides you are now in a new relationship (lie).

4. Finally, live your life bro! you are still a young man and you have your whole life ahead of you... abeg go chop catfish peppersoup jor, plan strategy of how you go turn millionaire, go cinema watch film, buy yourself a samsung smartphone, whatever just live your life bro and be happy...

bro... i don run this parole before... just follow my advise. it is well.[/size]
we both went to the same university and lived together for the whole duration of the relationship and the new guy moved into the hostel as I was about going for service. and I already use a Samsung smartphone among other gadgets
RomanceRe: I Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op): 12:31pm On Apr 17, 2013
2jideofor: Sexkillz even try... Omo, I burn all her pictures.

All of them...
guy u harsh oh
RomanceRe: I Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op): 12:24pm On Apr 17, 2013
hottiechoco: Sexkillz has said it all


@ OP
Na ur eye be this?
Nwa Anuojo
Ha! I was thinking I'll never recognize one person I know in here
who be this wey know me well well as anuojo pikin.
RomanceRe: I Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op): 11:54pm On Apr 16, 2013
@bukatyne:
The OP's gal does not know what she has lost until she is ready to marry then she will realize she don her hubby do BF.


The OP obviously treats her like they are already married

there was never a time I saw her as a girlfriend. from the very first day I saw her, I told my roommate who was standing beside me that I've met the girl I was going to spend the rest of my life with. but alas it is no[b][/b]t to be so
PoliticsRe: Repentant Abia Criminals Demand For Amnesty by firetrap(m): 11:38am On Apr 16, 2013
gboss4sure: Is A LIE oooooooooooooooooooooo. T.A Orji and Co is looking for more money to thief. There is nothing like 5,000 Repentant Criminals.
I'm currently in umuahia right now and can tell u for a fact that the article is a big lie. like u said them dey find money wey them go thief. and even if truly they were once criminals, they have already been granted amnesty. the fact that they are not in jail or better still dead is amnesty enough for them. bastards.
CelebritiesRe: 6Yr Old Millionare Isabella Barrett by firetrap(m): 11:08am On Apr 16, 2013
in the future, when she's into drugs this same press extolling her business acumen will be the same one lambasting her. if them no hold am well now Na another Lindsey lohan and britanny spears in the making
Music/RadioRe: Hip Hop Of Our Generation Is Totally Mad And Too Silly To Be Called Music by firetrap(m): 10:55am On Apr 16, 2013
Parnassuss: Lol you guys are claiming to be hip-hop fans here and no one even mentioned Lupe Fiasco, The Roots and Mos Def? These guys achieved commercial success and cult status (though nothing near Nas', but then again Nas is The One) even though they never went full out commercial.

New school though, Joey Badass leads the pack, Kendrick Lemar, School Boy Q, Gambino and Asap Rocky are not far off the mark.
bros there are so many hip hop greats and saying that cos one did not mention either mos def, Lupe or the roots as being ignorant of hip hop is a lie. you did not also mention people like lord jamar, lord finesse and also Pete Rock and CL Smooth. there are just to many people that come to mind and we mention the ones we like most. its human nature
Music/RadioRe: Hip Hop Of Our Generation Is Totally Mad And Too Silly To Be Called Music by firetrap(m): 10:47am On Apr 16, 2013
goldfish80: Seriously Hip hop has gone to the dogs, in opinion hip hop is at an all time low. I remember τђΞ dayz of great Mcs like:
Pac
BIG
Bun B
Fat Joe(joe Crack)
Eminem(at his prime)
NAS(even Jigga admits he's up there)
Naughty by Nature
Red man
Erik simon
Ice cube
Big L
Jigga(black album)
Mack 10
Master P
Trick Daddy
Kanye(1st,2nd Albums)
Its just α joke people rate 2chainz,Drake, etc as Rappers. Smh
The Rap I grew up listening to was that of street hustling,fight against Rasicm,fight against black on black crime.. Its a pity that genre of hip hop has gone,I advice y'll guard closely all your old records
most of the names mentioned above did more harm to the black community with their lyrics than Ronald Reagan did with his tenure as president. like the great mode nine said " I choose words carefully, they touch entire Nations"
Music/RadioRe: Hip Hop Of Our Generation Is Totally Mad And Too Silly To Be Called Music by firetrap(m): 10:35am On Apr 16, 2013
money-hungry :
most people here don't know hip-hop.
even in diz wack era we got talented MCs like:
-slaughterehouse; crooked I, budden, Royce, ortiz
-joey badass n da pro-era crew.
-blind fury
-kid daytona
-childish gambino
most of dem are underground ... real hip-hop fans are underground!
I'm from da golden era of rap!
nobody does it better!!!
bring it on...
bros I didn't even see ur post before I mentioned Joey badass. u sabi ur music abeg. of all the members of slaughter house the best two hands down are Joe budden and Royce da 5'9. blind fury has been doing his thing since the early 2000s but won't ever see the light of day (pun intended) cos he's blind and not marketable. I've only ever heard a few songs from childish gambino but I must confess that though they were good, I wasn't trilled
Music/RadioRe: Hip Hop Of Our Generation Is Totally Mad And Too Silly To Be Called Music by firetrap(m): 10:28am On Apr 16, 2013
Kendrick Lamar is definitely one hell of an artist to watch out for so also is a kid from new York called Joey badass. the boy spits straight fire. other artists to look out for are hit boy and to an extent macklemore
Music/RadioRe: Hip Hop Of Our Generation Is Totally Mad And Too Silly To Be Called Music by firetrap(m): 10:22am On Apr 16, 2013
Freiburger: @ Mad Cow, i like what i'm seeing out there, we call that evolution in the industry.
Music/RadioRe: Hip Hop Of Our Generation Is Totally Mad And Too Silly To Be Called Music by firetrap(m): 10:21am On Apr 16, 2013
Freiburger: @ Mad Cow, i like what i'm seeing out there, we call that evolution in the industry.
what you call evolution, I call devolution. cos evolution is supposed to be change from the most rudimentary form of existence to a higher more complex phase of existence. the genre started out from being about beats and lyrics now it has devolved to bragging about raping women (rick ross) and using drugs and killing people.
Music/RadioRe: Hip Hop Of Our Generation Is Totally Mad And Too Silly To Be Called Music by firetrap(m): 10:11am On Apr 16, 2013
milehigh06: What is hip hop and what is rap music?
They are different genres but sonehow inter-lock but that does not make them same
RAP ARTIST
2pac
Biggie
Eric sermon
Methical
Redman
Ice cube
Bun b
Can I Bus
Bus-a-bus (busta rhymes)
Rakimm
Nas
Dem plenty abeg

hiphop
Lilwayne
Drake
2chainnnnz (I cant stand dat piece of thrash)
Infact all supposed rappers apart from Nasiru
I believe you've got it wrong. the only hip hop artists on your list are Nas, canibus, method man and rahkim, those guys are true lyricists. the rest are rappers, PAC and biggie inclusive
Music/RadioRe: Hip Hop Of Our Generation Is Totally Mad And Too Silly To Be Called Music by firetrap(m): 10:05am On Apr 16, 2013
I'm a big hip hop fan and I grew up listening to krs-1 and rahkim and the likes but I must tell u that the downfall of the genre started when the likes of tupac and biggie started making gangster rap and people started accepting that as the change that was to come. now that trap rap is here we're complaining. it was and has ever been the same old bullshit songs but done by different artist in a different era
RomanceRe: I Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op): 12:20am On Apr 16, 2013
@2jideofor I take offence at u for calling women worthless scumbags and no matter whatever was done to me does not and will never make me ever refer to women in general as worthless scumbags and changing women like clothes did not help me. believe me when I say that I went to town with my dicck and it only made me feel worse. I almost became something I'm not because I allowed what someone did to me almost change my perception of how i related with the opposite sex.
RomanceRe: I Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op): 9:29pm On Apr 15, 2013
Richfella: Why do you need to trust? Everything is what it is.

Accept what is.

As human beings we are what we are. It is very difficult for anyone to not go back on their word. This is neither good nor bad...it is just the terrain.


BTW, without being judgemental. You showed extreme levels of neediness in several parts of the events you narrated.
I'm usually the one who gives this sort of advice to my Friends, and I'm grateful that a like minded person is telling me the painful truth. thank you
Foreign AffairsRe: 2 Explosions At Boston Marathon: Terrorists Attack? by firetrap(m): 9:17pm On Apr 15, 2013
make them look well, I believe say CIA dey involve. trying to remind the American people that fear is real and readying their mind for the war with north Korea.
RomanceRe: I Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op): 9:08pm On Apr 15, 2013
Richfella: Hey firetrap.

What happened to you - and is happening to you is NORMAL.

It's part of your journey into being the man that you are meant to be.

A fundamental lesson you will need to learn is that there is no special one girl for you.

On the other hand, what you still feel for your ex is not love. It is neediness.

What you need to do is to work on this inner-void. You see, lots of people - both males and female walk around with this gaping hole in their mind.

They need someone to come into their lives and 'complete them'. You are already enough. And you don't need anyone to complete you.

If fill this hole in your mind, your whole life will change. Women will only be a BONUS in your life - and they will also find you more attractive.

There are lots of good resources online that will help your 'Inner Game' handled. Here's a good one: http://www.seductionscience.com/attraction-seduction/

When you you are internally coming from the 'right-place'. A lot of things in your life will fall into place.
thank you for your reply, but I don't think its the neediness, I learnt earlier on in life to know that no one is meant to complete another person but just to complement the person. the biggest problem I'm grappling with now is trust. my motto before the incident was " trust everyone, but don't trust the devil inside them", but with what happened, I'm not sure I can even trust any lady left alone waiting for the devil inside them to manifest.





@flytfalls
I modified my original post; you should summarise

the story in itself is a summary, the things I went through are too long to reproduce here even if I wanted to, my hands will ache after I'm done
RomanceRe: I Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op): 9:04pm On Apr 15, 2013
Richfella: Hey firetrap.

What happened to you - and is happening to you is NORMAL.

It's part of your journey into being the man that you are meant to be.

A fundamental lesson you will need to learn is that there is no special one girl for you.

On the other hand, what you still feel for your ex is not love. It is neediness.

What you need to do is to work on this inner-void. You see, lots of people - both males and female walk around with this gaping hole in their mind.

They need someone to come into their lives and 'complete them'. You are already enough. And you don't need anyone to complete you.

If fill this hole in your mind, your whole life will change. Women will only be a BONUS in your life - and they will also find you more attractive.

There are lots of good resources online that will help your 'Inner Game' handled. Here's a good one: http://www.seductionscience.com/attraction-seduction/

When you you are internally coming from the 'right-place'. A lot of things in your life will fall into place.
thank you for your reply, but I don't think its the neediness, I learnt earlier on in life to know that no one is meant to complete another person but just to complement the person. the biggest problem I'm grappling with now is trust. my motto before the incident was " trust everyone, but don't trust the devil inside them", but with what happened, I'm not sure I can even trust any lady left alone waiting for the devil inside them to manifest.





@flytfalls
I modified my original post; you should summarise

the story in itself is a summary, the things I went through are too long to reproduce here even if I wanted to, my hands will ache after I'm done
RomanceRe: I Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op): 8:35pm On Apr 15, 2013
Flytefalls: ^ you are obviously missing her but you can't afford to spend forever missing her. Submit yourself to God and/or time. Focus on healing and learning from mistakes (I admit I skipped to the end where you had said you beat her, that's never right).
please read the last paragraph again I specifically stated there that I don't hit women. its not in my nature and I don't believe that violence is the solution to any problem
RomanceI Need Advice Concerning My Ex by firetrap(op):
i not too recently got parted from the love of my life (she left me), it all started when i left for my national youth service in march of 2012 as a batch a corp member
i worked my posting to awka ibom state after due consultation with my girlfriend and we agreed that i would work it to awka ibom state so that i could be close to her
and i did not want to go back to lagos as my parents were insisting that i work it
there so as to enable serve from home. as at that time we've been dating for 4 years and i had already taken her to meet
some members of my family and i even introduced her to my mum as the girl i was going to marry 2 years earlier.

she's from a polygamous family and i know most of her siblings from her mother and even some of her step brothers and sisters. during the orientation exercise she came all the way from owerri to uyo and brought me a cooler of food for myself and my roommates and the act endeared her to most
of my friends in camp. i could not and would not deliberately strike up a friendship with any other girl in camp (and there were a few who were craving my attention) just cos i didn't want to put myself
in any situation that would make me cheat. after orientation i was posted to one remote village and because i considered the stress it would be for her to locate the village when she comes visiting,
i again paid to get reposted to uyo and after my reposting, when to owerri to visit her. when there she told me that she made a new friend, "one guy like that". i became immediately suspicious but she quelled
my fears by telling me that the guy had a fiance and a child and that there was no way that she would betray me; at this point it like to note that i was the one who took her virginity. we both took turns to
visit each other monthly and in July i lost my grandma and when it was time for the burial i informed her of the date and a few days to the burial she called and told me she could not make it, that she had some test
in school. she was in her final year then and i didn't want her to get any bad results cos of me so i to her it was alright. on the day of the burial i called her to give her updates and the last time i called
i jokingly told her that her that i hope she's not hanging out with those small boys that wouldn't even know how to take care of her and where to begin and she said no that she wouldn't even dare and i told her that i love her
and miss her; little did i know that my joke would manifest itself in a few days times. 4 days after the burial my immediate older sister had her traditional wedding and a few members of my family were surprised that she still didn't show up.
after the wedding i went back to uyo and two days later while talking to one of my friends that lived in the same hostel with her, he told me that she was seeing someone else and i could not believe it. i cut the call and called her
and demanded to know who the guys was. she was shocked that i asked such a question and for a moment could not answer me and i told her to pack her bags and come to uyo immediately and she started giving flimsy excuses that
she didn't have any money. at a time i got fed up with the excuses and told her to stay back. i went to the bank withdrew some cash and proceeded to owerri without informing her. i showed up unannounced and surprised her but the
look on her face was more of dread than cheerful surprise for someone she had not seen for more that 2 months.

we proceeded to have a lengthy discussion and for the first time in the 4 years of our relationship, i asked to go through
her messages and for someone who had never hidden her phone from me in the past, she refused. after talking to her for what seemed like hours i asked her to go to the bathroom and delete any text messages that she knew would get
me upset, think that would spur her to hand over the phone to me and prove her innocence. what i got in reply was a rude shocker as she stood up, took her phone and proceeded into the bathroom and after spending like ten minutes
there she came out and dropped her phone on the floor. i couldn't sleep throughout the night but resolved within myself to leave early the next morning. at about 4 am she woke up and started pleading with me and i gave in only
to be shocked for the second time when a neighbour who had plugged his torchlight in her room the night before came early in the morning to retrieve it and not knowing i was in, he walked in and greeted her and i also greeted him
back and he asked her if it was the other guy that was lying down on the bed. i almost died while lying there and as soon as she heard that, she could not move. By 6 am i was dressed and ready to leave when
locked the door to the room and knelt down on the floor to beg and she started crying and telling me that truly there was nothing between her and the guy. we spoke till like 8 am when one of her step brothers came and mediated
between the both of us and even proceeded to tell me that he had asked her who the guy was when he first saw both of them together and that she told him they were just friend and that i should take it from him that she would not
lie to him and for give her. he went on to admonish her to avoid anything that would break the relationship. for the sake of time and space ill cut the story short. a few months later precisely two weeks to my birthday she called
me and told me that she's seeing the same guy she had earlier denied dating and that she's sorry about everything she had done to me that i did not deserve it. i almost died, there were times that i felt worthless and thought about killing myself
and was very sick into the new year. up till this moment. i still have not fully recovered and still can bring myself to venture into another relationship. then 2 months ago she called me up and started chatting me up again and trying to warm
her way back into my life but I'm resisting her. there have been so many situations that just make me remember the times we spent together. in January one of her brothers who was abroad called me and asked for her new number, the surprising
thing about that call was that he could have called one of his other siblings to get the number but he called me. I'm still quite close to members of her family and just today her step brother called me that he was coming to Lagos
and if i was at home so he could come see me when he arrived. I'm really confused cos on the one hand i still love her really much regardless of what she did to me but i don't feel like i can ever trust her ever again. and even till
this very moment she still brags to her friends that i still love her very much and sad as it may sound its true. I'm not perfect and i know that i have my own faults but i want you guys to know that i don't hit women (for those of you who might
comment that maybe it was cos i was beating her that she left). i just cant phantom why she would do what she did to me. so please i need ur help and advice please
FamilyRe: What Is Wrong In Taking Money From Your Hubby's Pocket? by firetrap(m): 1:04pm On Apr 15, 2013
lorretta u: A housewife in my village was beaten to death by her husband and her mother in-law.cos she took #200 from his shirt pocket to buy baby food for their 3month old baby when he wasn't around and the child was hungry.what do u call that?she has since been buried.the guy was jailed for two months and he's out.poor innocent baby is with his little single teenage aunty.cos the grandma is dead.the mother-in-law is out of the question cos she's wickedness personified.and some men will still try to justify such actions.(Example thos that released him from jail in two months
FamilyRe: What Is Wrong In Taking Money From Your Hubby's Pocket? by firetrap(m): 1:02pm On Apr 15, 2013
from the way u spoke with this piece I had to check ur profile and I must confess that you're one beautiful woman. I wouldn't mind get to know more about u
FamilyRe: What Is Wrong In Taking Money From Your Hubby's Pocket? by firetrap(m): 12:37pm On Apr 15, 2013
lorretta u: God bless u sir.especially on that observation of the attitudes of NIgerian men towards their wives.sincerely I'm scared of getting married.our married men are nothing to write home about.most of them anyway.disheartening!
not every man is like that. I personally believe in sharing with whomever I'm with cos I don't want a situation where she'd tell me is because I didn't give her, she went out to get it from somewhere else. and moreover there can be no stealing in marriage cos what's hers is yours and what's urs is hers
PoliticsDeputy Governor Of Ekiti State Is Dead by firetrap(op): 9:01pm On Apr 06, 2013
Deputy Governor of Ekiti State in Nigeria, Mrs
Funmilayo Olayinka, has died of cancer according to
family sources
Funmilayo Olayinka has been deputy governor since
16th October 2010. She was also a champion of
women's rights. She came to the government from the
banking sector.
She leaves behind a husband and three children.
She was 52 years old.

mods front page please
PoliticsDeputy Governor Of Ekiti State Is Dead by firetrap(op): 8:54pm On Apr 06, 2013
Deputy Governor of Ekiti State in Nigeria, Mrs
Funmilayo Olayinka, has died of cancer according to
family sources
Funmilayo Olayinka has been deputy governor since
16th October 2010. She was also a champion of
women's rights. She came to the government from the
banking sector.
She leaves behind a husband and three children.
She was 52 years old.
PhonesRe: Samsung Galaxy S2, S3, S4, Note 2 & 3 Expert by firetrap(m): 8:39am On Apr 05, 2013
mikky4all: Don't seem to get the custom ROM or the Original samsung stock ROM. Hw am I to check this. Someone told me I will require a minimum of 5GB to use the s3 tehtering. Hw true is this
mikky ur using the at&t version of the galaxy s3 and at&t blocked access to the tethering hotspot what you'll have to so to use the hotspot is to root your phone first if not already rooted the go to the play store a d download an app called foxfi and your WiFi hotspot will work
PhonesRe: Samsung Galaxy S2, S3, S4, Note 2 & 3 Expert by firetrap(m): 8:28am On Apr 05, 2013
Stanley08: Yes you can, its in the next post... But now, even better! Official JELLY BEAN v4.1.2 (Premium Suite Upgrade) cheesy



Follow instructions in the next post, except that your will be ICS. And i won't advice you flash your own phone. It 'might' SIM-Lock your phone. Unless you want to take the chance.
AND PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! Flash this one instead - http://www.hotfile.com/dl/171794012/1c0dd5e/I9100PBVLPC_I9100PORALPB_ORA.zip.html

DO NOT TRY USING GT I9100 Firmware as you have GTI9100P. There is a reason they are different. Even there is GT-I9100G. They all use different ROMs. smiley
the gt 9100 and gt 9100p are more or less the same phone with the exception of NFC which can be found in the 9100p version. you can flash a 9100 ROM to the 9100p version without a problem but you'll have to flash another file to make the NFC work on the p version but never never flash a 9100g ROM on either the 9100, 9100p. there's also a 9100m and 9100t versions
PhonesRe: Samsung Galaxy S2, S3, S4, Note 2 & 3 Expert by firetrap(m): 8:22am On Apr 05, 2013
Jeffy1206: Hey I got an s 2 gt 19100p pls can u recommend whr and how to upgrade de fone from version 2.3 to ics am fed up with ginger bread as I want ice cream lol
for official firmware u can visit WWW.sammobile.com or for both official and custom ROMs go to xda-developers.com and please follow the given instructions to the letter else you'll end up with a bricked. please note that you must download firmware for the p version
FashionRe: CAMOUFLAGE CLOTHES: Is It Illegal For Civilians In Nigeria?! by firetrap(m): 4:08pm On Apr 03, 2013
first of all they are called fatigues and are only referred to as camouflage when used for obscuring ones presence from detection and no it is not illegal to wear them. it is only illegal and therefore tantamount to impersonation when you wear them with a rank or an insignia to pass yourself off as a member of the armed forces
CelebritiesRe: Love Oyedepo And Steve Ogah Wedding Picture by firetrap(m): 9:16am On Mar 22, 2013
did anyone notice the bump. the girl looks pregnant

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