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Guys and the habit of rushing girls into sex...if you truely love a girl wait as she has said...if you keep demanding for kiss, touch, perk, romance, she might think that's what you came for...and even if you must touch her let the atmosphere and her body mechanism be in tune with it for that moment...girls are not always in the mood for sex like we guys...even as i'm typing this thing now i'm hor,ny as hell.

The last one is tolerable.

Toks2008:
Which one is ego?

This is an open discussion but you chose to be sentimental.

You like confusing and contradicting yourself i don't know why

MChaze25:
Then you hardly think or create. Not supporting snobs though. quiet times generates great reasoning and you wouldn't allow a noise maker in your life at such moments

So, what stops you from politely asking the "noise maker" to excuse you that you are busy at the moment rather than snobbing him or her??, knowing that snobbing someone has a way of demoralising or making the person feel less of human or important??

Wilson125:
u knw m jst finkin, wat if she was using my head then that virgin story? N now she may claim i wasn't man enuf or somfin if I decline?

Which ever way flee from immoral lust or fornication.

Wilson125:
Just this evening, one of the girls I fell in love with during our jamb preparatory classes called to remind me d promise she made like 2years back, she promised me sex even if it's a night to her marriage.. jst got a call 4rm her this evening that she s ready to fulfil that promise n her TM n wedding is nxt week sat..
To be sincere, I loved her and she had claim to be a virgin then meaning I was in a no sex relationship with her.. but she came up with her excuse of wanting to be in a relationship with someone that will marry her when she s ready, she made this promise d day we called it off, it's jst few weeks to her marriage n she wants 2 open up now.. I know it's kinda funny, m equally confuse 2.. ma mind s saying I shud go av ma own share.. dunno if I shud, wat do u guys advice I do?

Be decent enough to decline her request, that way yourself worth remains before her, and she 'll forever remain indebted to you...

FooL...Unkown to you that's how one young under graduate will be digging your wife behind you, mtcherew.

Guess it's yours.

Toks2008:
Please do cos you know I'm making sense.

If you were making i would 've just viewed the thread and pass...since your ego won't allow you take simple correction, i say Adios...

All these 2go boys.

Lmao, op, if only you knew what you 've stirred up in the hearts of these girls...some that are already dating will become so concious of their bfs now in a negative aspect trust me...girls easily get discourage.

Dreyl:
Ok thanks, i will think about it. She can't do that, you don't even know how much she love me, besides i ain't rushing into marriage yet, their re still many things to accomplish before marriage.

Ok, but don't come here and cry foul when you see her in front of another man's jeep o?

Humour comes to play at this point.

MsDelilah:
Don't let some "prophet" ruin your happiness! You were happy before this bloody prophet came along.

When you start involving third parties into your relationship, that's the beginning of doom!

Smh, there's this quote frome the scriptures, "there's a way that seemeth right unto a man but the end there of is destruction"...that your current relationship is moving fine doesn't mean that, that your bf is the will of God for you...if God has warned you on a thing and you continue to the contrary the repercussoon might just be unbearable when it want's to backfire in the future..


Did you read where the op said before she went to the church her bf already told her that the prophet will say somethimg about their relationship which later came to pass??.


It's either there's something about her bf spiritually that he's hiding from her or they both knew but where playing ignorant....my submission, the both of them should hearken to the voice of the prophet...


Cc ayinke93.

torqque7:
rotfl. .

@ your moniker, you studying engineering?

torqque7:
rotfl. .

@ your moniker, you studying engineering?

Toks2008:
You are getting it all twisted.

What is my business if a pastors Controll billions?

My point is that no Nigerian pastor has any justifiable reason to buy a private jet when there are countless members in one genuine need or the other.

The bible says "the poor we will always have among us" Mathew 26:11
but the fact remains that most churches have non functioning welfare department...pure charade.

If we refuse to voice out then things will get worse...look at the molly wood veteran that just had his leg amputated...are you saying that none of the churches are aware of his plight?

please bro let's condemn what needs to and stop acting as if all is well...95% of Nigerian pastors are con men parading as men of GOD...shrewd business men on the pulpit.

Smh, i give up on you.

MChaze25:
depends on mood bro

Which mood?, except you are a sociopath.

Lies

Toks2008:
This is not about controversy.

I stated that this is up for discussion and if only Seun,lalasticlaka or mynd44 will put this on the main page then we will see broader views.

Some people kept ranting about poverty mentality and I just smh in disbelieve.

You cited oyedepo and co as having their own biz but can you just look down their history and you won't agree less that the rode on the back of church donations to attain their present status.

It's no longer news that a quarter of winners chapel members can't afford the fee of covenant university?

How many church members have their children in that school?

I remember when I was serving in 98 when I approached my pastor at one redeem branch to lend me 6k to pay back in a month which was very vital to avoid being sent out of my rented apartment but he said no money and I was sent out anyways and I just wonder if my tithing and offering was worth giving to the church but I just gave to obey God.

Today there are many people in the church who need money to start a biz, for treatment and so on but do these pastors really care?

Do you know how much it costs to maintain a jet?

This thread is about Nigerian pastors cos Nigeria is a peculiar country that has countless people suffering even in the church.

Talking abt covenant university, if you can't afford the fees, uniport is there, unilag is there, futo is there and others, so, if you can't meet up with the fees go to the other schools...do you know how much it cost to put that school upto that standard?, do you know how much it cos to pay those profs, engineers that teach the students, do you know what it will cost to maintain the school and it's infrastructures?...i 've said this countless times let it be the headache of the people paying the fees and not you...


Well, talking about people in church who need money to start business or whatever, there's such as hospital and welfare department in every church, they should go there and their needs will be met...as far as i know the church is really trying her best...do you know how many scholarships some churches give?, i guess your answer is no...stop castigating men of God...


If only you read about oyedepos history and background you'd be the last person to critisize him...that man suffered, shebi you know?...pls allow him enjoy his wealth.

Your future is what i'm actually bothered about.

Toks2008:
Lol! see talk...

You guys are still missing it...ordinary man as you call it makes his money through every other way but the church makes its money through the widows mite of the members hence the need to be frugal.

Smh, you are bigger than this ignorance…for the records i know, all the oyedepos, kumuyis, ibiyieomie of this world has their own lucrative business booming for them, they don't touch God's money that i can vouche for…serve God well He will bless you immensely...people just have this mindset that pastors are poor people, or are supposed to be poor people, utter rubbish...infact pastors are supposed to be the wealthiest, most of their problems are ignorance, some of them see venturing into business as sin thereby missing out in that opportunity to grow financially, this is where oyedepo and the likes are having an edge over other pastors...i 've alot to write but let me hold my peace here...you know i love countering your controversial threads like this one

LesbianBoy:
Arsenal and their manager are specialist in failure jare! Even if they go top, come february, march they will return to their original position(4th)! In fact this year sef that position is not sure because man utd will definitely come up to top 4

Smh, was thinking you gon call a team like tottenham that will wipe your drooling as today at old trafford...Since injury couldn't hold us down and our tours in europe didn't distract us, plus your points that will be deducted, bro leave the league for arsenal

Toks2008:
The issue of money and how its being spent in the body of christ can not just be treated with a kid glove, i have seen numerous xtians who have left the faith cos of money issue. Believe me God is interested in how the church handles the issue of money.

I cant just wrap my brain around the fact that despite the presence of many Jobless youths in the church and members who lack basic needs of life that a pastor will dim it fit to acquire a private jet that cost millions not forgetting the millions of naira involved in servicing the jet and paying for the parking space.I have come to conclude that pastors who own private jets in Nigeria are materialistic,worldly,callous and highly insensitive to the plights of the members and a total embarrassment to the Christendom.

IF I WERE GOD, NO NIGERIAN PASTOR WHO PURCHASED A JET WILL MAKE IT TO HEAVEN because the primary duty of the church is to fend for the members spiritually and physically with the resources of the church but today we see little or nothing being done to help the church members in need yet many Pastors living large at the expense of the church members which has turned many churches to Business centers rather than worship centers.

Well maybe i am just ignorant about the subject matter...but this trend of private jet being owned by men of God is worth debating as its a source of concern in the Christian fold,so lets hear your views, in a very civilized manner..Does A Nigerian Pastor Truly Need A Private Jet?

YES...If an ordinary(natural) man needs a jet for his travel comfort i think the clergies should not be left out

Buhari is a bad luck to nigeria weather you believe it or not.

MVLOX:
But na dem dey play us rough even still dey fight us ooo..... We no do anytin ooo... Even for that Tothm match last season.... We chelsea fans re PEACE loving pple.... LIKE if u agree SHARE if u don't

Nahhh, chelsea used to be, but no longer ever since mumunho came to chelsea

Tjohnnay:
u for talk say make dm ban us for epl na #ewu

And you are this pained?, this is just the beginning

Nice write up...Something to learn especially treating women with respect, that's a typically of me..

Lizzyfroshey:
Yeh sir .... What I know is that people will love you more when you have something to offer, eg, plenty money, big money, money money money, some of these big yahoo guys doesn't possess most of the ish you put up there, but people wanna associate with them, my brother everybody loves them, so forget oga ade, hustle hard, double your hustle, in fact triple your hustle, and you will see how people will be flocking around you, gym ko, gym ni, owonikoko ..... Peace out.

And you just stated who you are, you love your bf because of his money abi?