₦airaland Forum

Synzu:
The guy is just a perv

Estharfabian:

Synzu:
Just niipples?

icedbeatz:
Yeah lucky me but you can get one too bro you just have to observe them closely be friends first, BTW not too long just enough to decipher her orientation, mindset and personality, I know we have too many shitty girls in Nigeria that folks had to lower their bars just to deal with hoodrats, one of their features is that they're self reliant and it reflects and how they think, plan and talk, they have dreams and most importantly work towards it basically. Let a girl do more of the talking in discussions you will ascertain her personality from what comes out of her mouth. Its hard to find but its worth it and they're usually smart than the average Nigerian girl. Makes no sense dating hoodrats they don't understand the concept of dating they think its a poverty alleviation program Good luck bro.

Estharfabian:

Estharfabian:

You're sure you're in the right section?



90% of romancelanders don't exactly care bout ''relevant'' things such as this... It's sex, love, more sex or Nothing more!

Laveda:
I still love my Nigerian men anyways, ain't no one sweeter than them.

Everyone can't be perfect, that you've dated one or two doesn't mean you should generalize, anyways you weren't forced to date them do yourself the favour and look elsewhere.

Ereholuwa:
Dearie... I understand you, but not all of them. Do you wanna tell me that all ladies are saints. NO!

We all choose who we wanna be. Perfect gentlemen still exist out there. its just that good things are scarce.... precious gems are rare.

icedbeatz:
Sorry bro I have and will testify, she never ever asked me for shiii or felt like its my responsibility to buy her things and you know how such person deserves all you can give. She's amazing and her sister is like that too hooked her up with my G. Not all Nigerian girls are hoodrats I know so, pls don't generalize we still have few with self worth and respect.

ucheokpara100:
i bother more about my look secondly my pocket, but first is my look, different people different problem.

AfricanApple:
I will come and call you

not knowing how to cook doesn't mean you will never cook, like I said, its a necessity. and I believe there other options when you don't feel like it.

can't imagine entering the kitchen, morning afternoon, night because of food

AfricanApple:
I always wonder, are there people in this world who feels joy whenever they are in the kitchen or is just a necessity for us to go into the kitchen?
as for me the latter is the case. oh! how I hate cooking most especially when the whether is hot.

BUT
the question is must a woman know how to cook? must she be that perfect chef, whom people should bite their tongue at the taste of her food?

your answer should be with reasonable reasons

I often heard this phrase that 'another woman will snatch your husband if you don't know how to cook' like uuhhh? Is food the essence of our living?

Shouldn't it be a thing of choice?

My own opinion?
she must not know how to cook
If your wife/girlfriend cannot cook, I don't think its a sin for you to teach her or better still do the cookings yourself.

proxillin:
I met this good and gently lady back in school. We were just friends, and was very spirikoko (I assumed she was born again) . Although I had a romantic intentions towards her, but could not discuss with her. She is always stern looking and was always from one fellowship to another. I had no choice other than to be “Just friend” with her. I was a bad boy, but anytime I am with her, I will be quoting bible scriptures so she can think we are both spirikoko. Foluwake is a very beautiful girl. At times I will summon courage to discuss my minds with her, when I get to her house, I will meet her praying and speaking in tongues, when I get there, I will just forget everything like a rap artist who forgot his lines on stage. I would just change the topic.

3 years after NYSC, on facebook, I saw a friend request from a lady. This lady was in wigs, wearing mini-skirts and jeans in pictures. This babe dopes. I just accepted the request and was checking her pics when something just hinted me that the face looks like someone I knew. I could not fathom it out. So I buzzed on chat, she replied on the second day saying “Segun…long time ..nice to have you here”. I asked where and how she knew me. She said “don’t you recognize me? Its Foluwake”. My heart Jumped. I asked what happened to the real “Prayer warrior”. She said she is still the same, just that she just changed her look.

We were both in Lagos. I asked her to go watch a movie with me. When I saw this babe, she was so hot, she was now applying makeup on face. She wore a tight skin jean. SO I thought “ehn ehn, opportunity is here”. I didn’t waste time. We were watching a romantic movie at the galleria, we held our hands. I deduced she had opened up for me. I asked her to come to my eyes with low pitched lusting voice. She responded. We nearly entered my house before I grab her boob, she rushed me as if she hasn’t had sex for years. I thought “This is strange from a prayer warrior”, I ignored that made love to her passionately.

After the show, many thought started coming to my mind, her boobs has falling, her VJ does not suggest she is a new comer. I ignored all these. But I noticed after the sex, different guys where calling her, smiling..saying I love you..e.t.c. I asked if she is engaged or have a boyfriend, she said No. She said her callers are friends and siblings. Why are you saying you love them? She said she used sweet words for people. “ I can call anyone, sweetheart, dear, sugar, honey, you don’t have to be jealous. That’s who I am”. I thought she made sense, so I let the issue died.

Here is the issue, the lead blew when I went to her house on a faithful day. We agreed to meet at 5:00pm, but I went for a wedding ceremony around her area, and I didn’t like what happened at that wedding, so vex commot that wedding around 2:00pm. So I thought, let me go and relax at my girl’s house and wait there till 5:00am. Even if she is not around, I will sit infront of their house till 5:00. I could not drive down to Ikotun from Ikeja back-and-forth. She stays with her sister. I knocked on the door despite the fact that the door was locked, because I heard a fan rotating noisily, so I thought someone was around. I got no response. I decided not to stress myself, whoever is inside will wakeup and meet me outside or my woman will come back meet me seated outside. I didn’t know it was my woman that was inside. In fact her sister had travelled. At around 4:00pm, the door opened and one big tommy Alhaji walked out staggering, she was still inside, the Alhaji saw me, but I quickly changed as if I was a neighbor just relaxing on the balcony, I quickly walked to one corner. She came out, she didn’t see me, she was sweating and was in towel. Before the Alahji left, they played romantically, the Alhaji thought I have gone, he didn’t notice, I was hiding in one corner. He was even handling her breast. He said “I feel like doing one more”. The girl said, “some friends are coming at 5:00’oclock” It wont be proper for them to meet you here. I was like “whatdFk? Am I the some friends? Obinrin ma buru oo”.

The man left, after 30 minutes, I knocked on the door again, pretending to be coming for the first time. We were to go out. In my pretence mode, I tried to handle her, trying to put her in the mood, she said, she is tired, she has been busy all day. She was outside helping a friend at her shop. It was stressful. I said “Oh sorry dear”. We went out, I didn’t mention anything. Everything went normal.
I was thinking I make a marriage proposal to the lady, but that day changed my mind. That Alahji is old enough to be my father. So I changed, I reduced my visiting days and hours. I created distance between us. She will come to my house maybe once in a month (we still fck). She came on one 3rd of July, 2 weeks later she told me she was pregnant. I asked who is the lucky guy, she was angry. What do you mean? Do I have anyone else? She is not seeing anyone else. I laughed, I told her I was actually in thier house on so so day when Alahji was banging her and they even came out to make partial love. She nearly fainted. She was covered in sweat. “So you knew? You didn’t ask me?” I said do I need to ask you? Are you not grownup enough to fck the numbers of men you want?

She cried, she swear, I am the father…Its been long ALahaji touched her. I said, well…that’s story for the Gods. She said, you were just using me. I told her Ajongbadun arawa ni. Did I used you for rituals. Few minutes later, I saw men are wicked, what am I going to do **crying** on her facebook wall. People were asking her what happened. One “Oloshi” boy commented on her post “I sensed one animal must have broken your?”. I replied in my mind. “Your father”.

Am I right? Could I possibly be the father of that baby?

TrapQueen77:




I can never date a brokeazz ..it's a no no for me...


I'm so allergic to them especially those who forming to be sombori buh can't even buy himself and indomie...

lovean:
owkkk...if u say...just worried jooor,2yeahs is enough time already na.

ireneony:
i think you should stick to the topic.
I'm not discussing money here.
This very topic is for men and women.