₦airaland Forum

Tjra:
"Despite his new role, Senator Mark remains a member of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) and has yet to formally announce a switch to the ADC. "

A member of PDP actively leading another party yet no outcry. Just change the name to Nyesom Wike and watch the perpetual complainers cry their eyes out.

The biggest problem in life is, when someone is DECEIVING ONESELF, if you are still deceiving others is still good oooo, but wen you start, puting ur own self in a corner and start DECEIVING it......it's highly dangerous if not suicidal.

Keep it up.

AMI3:
Have you ever supported an Igbo man to rule this country before. Abeg make una commot. We know all of u guys.
Since I came to this South West I have seen how some of u behave when it comes to Igbo matter but if it is Hausas u guys will turn blind eyes.
Yeye the smell

Jonathan says LEADERS and not one leader, not only president but all leaders,down to director in ministry.

Meanwhile, back to Ur comments. Today, Igbo man is a "member of House of Rep in Lagos State". Can you point to just any other tribe that has occupied ordinary councilor position in any Igbo state since creation?

Meanwhile, when we want to recruit into our own individual business/ company, we go for the best, but for the govt positions, we ready to sacrifice our nation, on the alter of tribalism and religion sentiment.

You will see a president/Gov or even Permanent Secretary, the vacancy that he cannot allow his/her siblings to occupy in his own company, because he knows that, his brother is not competent or prudent enough to occupy such positions,..........he would put such siblings to more sensitive position in govt establishments. Because, matter how he/she does it, he is less concern, since it's govt business, meanwhile, collectively, society is going down the drain.

Are you active on Facebook and other social media? What are your reactions and responses wen men, hi you on social media?

In physical, how often you smile or squiz your face in present of guys? What about Ur dressing? And locations you visit regularly?


These are the reasons and factors that make guys, distance themselves from girl/woman

Why can't you deal with those people, wen u eventually assumed power?

You keep on doing "the man is good", until they dealt with you mercilessly, you held power, but total clueless on how to use it!


Your predecessors have taught you how to use power, but unfortunately it's too late.

correctyourself:
This your ideal, i sorry for you because you're far from the reality, and you're poised to misslead so many people, i just hope people around you have their individual mind. Because you're already more or less off line thinking everybody are like you

I strongly advise anyone having challenges with your wife/husband try not to bring it here, rather, consult your family members.

You can see the type of people here!

I won't be surprised if u re a type me and my husband/wife....a type who goes to office/working place and back to house, on Sunday/Friday goes to religions houses and back.


Indeed, you are far far far from reality,.....I won't be surprised if you even comes to nairaland once in a while and disappears, perhaps, you are a type who leave in the world of deception.


I repeat, how many of people, including you, really thinking about marriage? because the way my comments pain you, say alot about your marriage.

Even before japa, how many thinking about their marriage? If people thinking about marriage, will society become nonsense as it's now?
Marriage not used to be as it were, it's now union to become daddies and mummies, thereafter, ......let everyone find his or her way.

Advantages of party in power and other party, if it's PDP or LP now, it would have been a tug of war. And if Ganduje do yamayama, security agencies would pick him up, who will do that for party not in govt.

Man and woman who are not close relatives,.."no dey do besties, you say no". Here is outcome of such besties relationship.

I'm seeing her carry her 4th pregnancy for you, but push it for her husband.

1F30M4:
Nahhh, no hard feelings.. One doesn't just become an ex, definitely not in a split-second yunno

Uhmmmm, one of my friends once said, he doesn't use to end relationship with women, anytime -anyday, that sexual urge comes in, he put call across to satisfy his urge.

free2ryhme:
She's a mother of two—why is she dressed like that? Have you seen the videos of her circulating online? If something serious had happened, like a kidnapping, people in her neighborhood would have reported it to the police by now

Did you need to answer, hypocrisy people that are majority in humanity, they will seeeeee white and start proofing black, no wonder their nation is in abject poverty in midst of surplus.


A lady who is mother of two, who is no longer teen of 16-22, dressed like that, killed and disposed in such area, yet hypocrites still want to make black a white to proof a point.


The question they supposed to ask themselves is,.....why ladies involved in this type of killings, far far far more than guys?

Wen it comes to sex, no female body sweeter than slim body.


Anyway, not every man know about it.

Nazgul:
When they're always offering cheaper alternatives whenever you tell them how much you spent on a particular item.

Eg. I spent 40k to prepare a 5 liter pot of soup.

Them: You for give me the money I go use 10k cook am sef. You too de waste money.

Eg2. A painter told me to bring 50k to paint my room.

Them: Something I can do for 10k then you can add something for me.


People who say things like I can never use 100k to buy phone.

People who enter plane like to waste money, night bus is better.

Na mumu de go boutique. Okrika is better.

Second hand electronics is better than brand new.


If you here those words just know that it's poverty that's talking.

Have you come across this words before. EXTRAVAGANCE OR PROGILGACY. Pls go and read about the words.
The main reason Nigeria is on her kneels today.

What you described up their, isn't poverty or rich mindset, "but complete extravagance mindset", many of you full streets. So many teenagers who come from poor home and have no job, but would be boasting as you are doing now, to acquire latest iPhone pro max....."fagidijaye" (trying hard at all cost be like rich guy, wen they are struggling even to feed)


As u said up, .....yes I'm poor.

Check definition number 3 below.

If you are an observant individual, interactions with people would say whole about them.


Emotional intelligence is the key factor......no matter how u want to fake/pretend .....Ur emotions would reveal unintentionally.

People easy to deceive, none of commentators on first page even think, ....if the news is fake.


What would be the gain of Tinubu, if Fubara not contesting, THE ONLY CONDITION HE MIGHT GIVE FUBARA IS THAT, HE WON'T DESTROY WIKE STRUCTURE, meanwhile, Tinubu himself need such structures for his re-election.

Though, with Wike structure in place, Wike might loose re-election, but president can expressly tell Fubara not to go for re-election.

Babalegba:
Lol, it's all academic. He is in our hands and Nigeria has the right to dish out justice to the murderous miscreant.

It's not totally academic ooooooooo.


It would put pressure on Nigeria in international community. Though, If Kanu handlers know how to use propaganda and blackmailing very well.


The guy Trump deported to El Salvador came back to USA soil, courtesy of Court, international news and social media pressure.

yemmit90:
He is telling you the truth, not every young lady death should be attribute to hookup or ritual killing.

The person that dumped her body there might be her real boyfriend or close associate. No one can tell, until the truth is ascertain through thorough investigations.

Go back to any of Ur relation or friend, who knows arithmetic small, ask him/her what is the meaning of 95%, correlate it with Ur comments.....not all.

Back to original post,..... Which type of death would be attributed to.

A lady who dress half naked.

His corpse is found in open gutter


You guy should try to reason like rational and human beings for once.

I guess her death is from hospital, perhaps, hire assassin kill her and still have luxury of time to park her body and carry it to open place to dump it .

Direct the question to your fellow men/guys, when you guys would be competing for girl, that not even worth it, by spending recklessly for her, you don't know, this is result.


Just like one guy replying me yesterday, on a post, where lady mocked guy, that spent recklessly for her, without asking for sex. Defending him that he is free to spend unwise for stranger, but leaving his own people out of his generosity.(His fellow 4 clowns also liked his unwise comment)

ogascomax:
Not everything is hookup. We should stop that habit of generalizing every female death as hookup. They have been many death that are not hookup. One was just sentence with death by hanging.
Anything could go wrong with a visit. What if she collapsed in the guys house and for going to prison when you didn't kill her he decided to dump her body.
Let's be rational in our thinking.

Something like this not far from dating/ relationship/hook up gone wrong, you might be neophyte, perhaps denying obvious, but it's reality.( 95% naija girls see relationship as transactional (hook up), some do openly, why most doing codedly.


Open ur eye to see dressing and location she ended.

But this contradict earlier post here, which says,they will pay little

The curse you guys inflicted upon yourself in 2015 will sure end anything called PDP.



Gragra you are doing which won't scape the h official hammer wen it gets to INEC table, why can't you wait for 4 months, and let the tenure of mole expires, before you start to re-strategies?

anytexy:
I said so too. He picked the fight too early. He has not even gained much political power or structure. I know right from on set Wike will eventually have the upper hand. It would have much easier if Wike was not holding any federal position. Wike has federal might . Tinubu is backing him. There is no way Fubura could have won. Wike has federal might including the judiciary.

Did you know, what they have subjected him to before he started the fight? Till the end of first term possibly 2nd term, he cannot still win. It's better to fight at that term, at least to some extent, he would be respected, far better that how it was before.

Let me tell you one of several ridicules he faced before started fighting.

Thre was a day, his wife was going to official function in Abuja, in which the first lady has got to PH airport en route to Abuja, they called gov that he should call his wife back, that nobody approved his wife to go Abuja.

Wike boys were "teleguarding" and approving everything behind the scenes for gov.


If you are a gov can you wait again before you started fighting?

Now, even though he would leave the structure for Wike, Wike won't be remote controlling him 100% as it were, at least 60% freedom now.

Since many of you don't know the difference between kindness and foolishness, you would continue gnashing your teeth in emotional torture.

Nobody will tell, northern states to do more, the era of doing nothing and expect windfall from the south is gradually going over.

Meanwhile, his struggles to get 13%, how far has it impacted in Niger Delta since implementation. Which hich is more than 2 decades.

Is it to get 13 or 100% that is important or to have positive impact in Niger Delta?

ediko5:
Seriously ladies are really confused beings. Funny part is they believe they are readily available men to rush them for marriage immediately they are out of their marriage with kids.

If you see the kind of desperation these set of ladies exhibit while hunting for husband eh and the same lady will be tired of the marriage within 2 years because of NOTHING.

I had a lady friend who got married at the age of 37 and within 6 months when I had a discussion with her, she told me she's already tired of her marriage and she was asking me the benefits of marriage cos she doesn't see anything special about marriage. I inquired from her if there's any major issue or abuse from the husband, she said NO but she's not just connected to the marriage. This is someone that have been hustling including prayer and fasting looking for a man.

Such lady married man which she doesn't have a single feeling for. Whenever ladies get into such relationship, they quickly tired of the relationship, many get married because of deep pocket of the man, perhaps, time no longer on their side.
When she finally married such man, it would be as she is cohabitating with fellow woman, no feelings of attraction

Unlike men, we can marry woman we don't have feelings for and still be continuing such relationship without problems or weary.

njokuuche77:
I hear you. But even God gives grace to people who don’t deserve it, is that foolishness? No. It’s love, and it takes strength. Not everyone you show kindness to will value it, but that doesn’t mean you stop being who you are.

Life has taught me lessons, but I won't let one bad experience harden my heart. I'd rather be the one who gave too much than the one who never gave at all.

Keep on soften your heart, I pray you won't learn your lesson in the grave, not even in the society, where everyone wants to take advantage of others

Check around, you will religions/traditional houses everywhere......is enough to tell you, the desperation level of society you belong.

Here is female comment on the topic.

njokuuche77:
That’s exactly the problem, we’re too quick to measure generosity by who benefits from it. Whether he spends it on a friend, cousin, or stranger, it’s his money, his choice. The issue isn’t that he gave, it’s that he gave to someone who lacked basic decency.
Let’s stop blaming people for being kind. The shame should be on the one who abused it, not the one who offered it.

Oga, make sure you learn the different between, an act of kindness and foolishness.


Below are what AI saying about foolishness, relate with topic being discussed, perhaps, you will still wake up from Ur slumber.

njokuuche77:
That’s exactly the problem, we’re too quick to measure generosity by who benefits from it. Whether he spends it on a friend, cousin, or stranger, it’s his money, his choice. The issue isn’t that he gave, it’s that he gave to someone who lacked basic decency.
Let’s stop blaming people for being kind. The shame should be on the one who abused it, not the one who offered it.

Yes, how can u quickly spend on random lady, that you don't know from Adam, but would be reluctant to spend on Ur own people, if anything happens to you, isn't it Ur people they will call first?

njokuuche77:
You’re not a fool. You were just kind to the wrong person. Some women are so used to suffering that when you treat them well, they call it stupidity.
Next time, spend that money on jollof, data and vibes. Return on investment go sure pass.

Can he spend 10% of such money for his friend? In fact, to his cousin or nieces? If not, he is a big fool.

I doubt if some guys even know that, certain girls need only their DCCCK and less concerned about their money.